Also, the other side is the question whether a thing like bitcoin needs VISA like scaling one day. In other words, is bitcoin really going to be a day-to-day currency, or is it more like a speculative asset for financial markets ? Here too, all evidence points to the fact that crypto is mainly a speculative asset, and that its "currency" use is very minor. Again, we are on the "image building" side of the illusion: bitcoin's illusion is "money for the masses". If bitcoin were advertised as "speculative asset for the financial markets", it wouldn't get Average's Joe's enthusiasm "yet another financial toy people with too much money invented". So to keep the illusion intact that bitcoin is, one day, going to replace fiat, the illusion that one day, it can replace VISA, is needed. But there's absolutely no indication that bitcoin is going to do that and that you are going to pay your groceries in bitcoin
As to me, you are putting the cart before the horse
Indeed, in its early days (and maybe till very recent), Bitcoin was exactly that, i.e. "a vehicle for speculation" since otherwise (as a currency) it wouldn't be able to get any noticeable traction at all. In other words, if we had instant payments with low or no fees right from the start, everything would be essentially the same, till now. Personally, I'm heavily inclined to think that we are already past that point (Bitcoin only as a "speculative asset for the financial markets"). In other other words, the lack of instant payments and high fees have already started to affect the currency aspect of Bitcoin in a substantial ways and it should expand more specifically as a currency if these hurdles got removed
Bitcoin's built-in deflationary spiral, on which it is very proud, plus other more technical aspects, make that this stuff will not be a "unit of account" ever, because of the inherent instability of its price. I agree with you that some initial speculative "push up from zero" was necessary to transform a token-transmitting system into a monetary belief system, but the total absence (on purpose built-in) to limit its value makes that this is going to be preferentially kept and traded, rather than used to buy groceries. The emission model got it totally backwards if it were to be a currency ; but is perfectly right if it was to stimulate a bubbling speculative asset, to make early adopters rich on the back of the final layer of greater-fool adopters: namely a lot of emission when the thing is cheap, creating huge seigniorage, and when adoption kicks in, reducing emission and increasing rarity. A stable currency would have exactly the opposite emission scheme, and was in fact very easily done, by NOT having automatic difficulty adjustments to limit the emission scheme, but rather by having slowly increasing, preprogrammed difficulty increase to keep the emission rate on par with the adoption, keeping the value almost constant with an adapting monetary mass. But that wouldn't have given the dreams to become a millionaire to "adopters". Which is the very proof that it is a speculative asset and not a currency.
If you'd need the currency - that is, if there was a true market demand for a means of payment - then you'd prefer the currency NOT to rise in value, because you are going to SPEND it and you don't want to have regrets of spending it instead of holding it. The naked truth is that apart from some niches like dark markets, there is no market demand for a new means of payment, and bitcoin is not filling it. Yes, it is used somewhat as a geeky gimmick "hey, I paid my airplane ticket in bitcoin!" ; it is used for niche applications such as dark markets, where there was a strong demand for a means of payment ; and there is some usage as remittance in those places where banking doesn't work well. But it is not its main application, and it doesn't get much traction there. People citing bitpay show impressive numbers of *monthly* volume that is smaller than *daily* speculative volume on exchanges.
By far most people buying bitcoin do it because they want to be millionaires. They don't buy it to use it as money. Some do, but it is very little. Because in most cases, credit cards and banking works better.
It doesn't matter whether bitcoin was said to be invented as a "currency on the internet". It simply isn't mainly used for that, and its economic dynamics makes that logical, because it is designed as a hugely deflationary asset. It only needs the story that it is "money" in order to give it some illusion of backing by economic utility.
The reason why bitcoin is not used a lot as a currency is in my opinion NOT technical (even though the technical side doesn't help). It is because for most payments, there is simply no demand for a better payment system that is at the same time practical, legally protected, relatively cheap to use, and "no hassle". It is only where fiat cannot go (as a payment system) that crypto has some interest as a payment system, and then you take the hassle, the legal insecurity and everything with it.
So the first reason is that apart from being geeky, there most of the time no *need* to have another payment system.
The second reason is that bitcoin's economic model is absolutely not adapted to be a stable unit of account ; on the contrary, it is going to be a high-volatility deflationary asset, with a lot of seigniorage in the hands of early adopters.
The third reason is that it is actually more involved, with more intermediaries, to use bitcoin as money, than to use fiat, because in practice, you *have* to use your bank, to make a wire transfer to an exchange, to buy your coins, to withdraw them, and finally, to be able to make a payment. This can be worth it, if there's a reason. But if there's no reason, then it is much easier, safer, and legally more protected, to do a direct payment from your bank.
Of course, the promise, the illusion of selling bitcoin as a currency, is simply by saying that the fiat system will crumble. If you need the competition to kill itself before you think there will be a mainstream demand, it means you have essentially no market. Apart from niche applications (mainly dark markets).