You must learn to inculcate self discipline and control.
No matter how disciplined you are, if you are engaging yourself in negative EV (expected value) games, you will lose it all eventually. You being more disciplined only delays the process slightly. Discipline only gives results when combined with profitable (positive EV) endeavors; otherwise, you will get delusional and slowly spiral into a never-ending dark pit of loss, which eventually triggers guilt, stress, and isolation.
Money would really be that the main reason on why gambling would really be that still having that kind of relevance and demand
You are right but only few human endeavors are there which do not have money as a focal point. Every thing which offers a shortcut to fortune (no matter how risky/illegal) will always be more appealing and gambling is providing similar path to riches.
saying like "quitters never win and winners never quit" floods the mind of the gambler
That saying has some merit but only problem is no matter how great philosophical value a saying carries, it will only add to loss if you are engaging yourself in negative EV endeavors.
Apply that to positive EV endeavors and you will see results for sure.
To gamble, you need capital so protecting the raw material (the capital) is the most important aspect of gambling.
You need to protect capital in any financial pursuit, but you will surely try failing every time only on gambling
The only time it becomes a problem is when the gambler chase losses which is continuing to play with increased capital in order to recover losses.
And if you have gambled in past you know very well this inevitable (lose everything chasing loses). Gambling must be considered a fun activity rather then a shortcut to financial freedom.
This was a very informative post especially for those who may care to be concerned with it, because I have seen that the casino is in for a long term business as people just keep falling for that psychology even after all the time they have spent gambling and loosing money over and over again and not recognizing they have gradually become addicted, but for me this feels like an awareness call and if only they will understand it in that manner probably they will gamble better.
I can't resist the temptation of bolding out the words in your post. Thanks a lot! It means a lot to me, especially when it comes from a reputed member like you.
You are right on the point about casinos exploiting psychological tendencies to remain in profits, but at the same time, IMO, individuals also do not need to be just mindless moneybags for casinos.
True, anyone has to pay to be able to gamble, meaning this is a game that is not free while on the other hand winning is nothing more than a chance and there is absolutely no guarantee to always be able to win every time you play
Good perspective on gambling. If you have that 'pay to be able to gamble' approach in back of your mind, you know that you are just paying for fun and thrill not make substantial financial gains. Well said!
gambling must be done with great care.
Just like drugs
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if this feelings of losses can be handled I don't think there would be results of addiction,this is why it's best to take up some break in gambling.
Nice advice. It would be better if you gambled with friends. Not only would it be more fun and a more social experience, but it would also help you to remain in control as individuals behave more responsibly in groups.
Wow, this is very interesting in the article you posted :
Thanks for finding it worthy of your focus and appreciation. I am much obliged.
And the fact that the emotion of losing a bet of equal value is much stronger than the joy of winning it to me is just so completely wild!
Indeed it is. What is more interesting to me is that loss aversion also remains relevant when we are winning. We tend to book wins prematurely. Like cashing out winning bets early, taking insurance in poker, taking profits early in trading, etc. Casinos know this and exploit gamblers both ways.