Topic: Mistake that prevented your big win. - page 11. (Read 3099 times)

You can choose to stop whenever you'd like, but stopping can become difficult when you're experiencing losses, as the desire to recover those losses often drives you to continue. This is why having discipline is crucial in gambling. The reason we engage in gambling is for enjoyment, regardless of whether we win or lose. However, losing control can lead to more significant issues, potentially involving money that we can't afford to lose any longer.

Certainly, making mistakes is a part of life, but what truly counts is our ability to learn from them.

It's in our nature to occasionally enjoy ourselves and take some risks, right? People, wonderful people, do this all the time. You speak of self-control as if it were effortless. Have you ever sat at a table with lots on the line? Have you experienced the rush and the clammy palms? Living in the moment is just as important as knowing the hazards! But, oh no, you'd rather suggest that everyone disperse and call it a day due to a few unlucky cards?

Don't get me wrong; I understand that feelings can impair judgment. Now, let's be honest. telling individuals to completely give up gambling? Simply put, that won't happen. Some people simply have the touch. And what about that? Rather than pointing fingers, let's educate. Let's innovate while bringing the finest practices to the table. Now there's an idea: play responsibly. Let's revitalize gambling in a more sensible and healthy manner

When the people of today think of the word discipline the first image that may come to their minds could be the army, but discipline is simply to have self-control, so if before you start your gambling session you say to yourself you will only gamble for half an hour, then someone with discipline will only gamble for half an hour or less, extending that time because you are having fun may no be wrong but it reveals a small lack of discipline, that under the wrong circumstances it could have negative effects on your finances.

When we don't want to stop playing, we have to realize that we can experience many losses, which will cause us to lose a lot of money too. Meanwhile, when we have lost and want to recover from that loss, it will not be easy because we will face many more defeats. And if we experience more losses, it will not be feasible for even experienced gamblers.

And when we make a small mistake that causes us not to get a big win, we shouldn't feel sorry because it happened, and even though we didn't manage to get a big win, we might still be able to get a win. And we have to feel that it's okay because we still have plenty of time to gamble, which may give us a big win. We all want to get a big win, but some of us may need to correct the unintentional mistakes that prevent us from getting that big win. Well, we should accept the situation that happened and enjoy the victory we have won.

Of course, that's probably because everyone feels uncomfortable being ordered around, and you probably know that rules are a pain in the ass. But I do think that one should have strong discipline in this matter, apply some self-control factors, it's something they should do just for their own good. I think before they gamble, they should first understand all the risks in gambling itself. But well on the other hand I also understand that gambling is very susceptible to what is called mental, psychological which can really make them emotional, when they are emotional then any restrictions they have or including advice from others will have no effect and are useless. The mind is already completely dominated by their own emotions, so it is quite difficult and even very difficult to be able to reconcile with yourself when you are emotional because maybe you have experienced a lot of defeat there. But I would say that this is normal and all gamblers must feel how difficult it is to be able to control themselves there, and also in my opinion instead of them being busy with the self-control that they have to do, they better try their best to stop gambling, that's the only best way.

exactly! discipline will be a very hard thing for everyone to do, not only in gambling but in real life, discipline is a very difficult trait to set in our stance because there will always be the temptation of negative thoughts and I call it because of the high dopamine substance that affects thoughts cannot control themselves properly.
I fully support this discipline or I call it holding a commitment. because if this cannot be held with a strong stance, of course, discipline will also be one of the reasons a gambler fails to get a big win.

Accepting little wins and not thinking on how to win big can be a solution to the problem. Greed is another thing because the moment you start winning,you wouldn't want to stop playing since you want more money and this can lead to a total loss.

The desire to win big is always what a gambler has and for this reason he wouldn't know when he will lost the game but instead he will have that full confidence in him that he can keep on winning and before you know it the opposite will be the case. I have had so many opportunities of winning some games but because I wanted more funds,I wouldn't cash out but prefer to see the end of the game.

We admit that greed is a part of us, but we can also overcome it so it doesn't grow and dominate us. Fortunately, if we already have good self-control, that greed will not grow and will even disappear, especially after we have won some money, we will not be affected by that greed. We can feel that we are lucky and can use that luck again to get more money, but we also have to be able to feel that what we get is enough, so we have to stop immediately before things turn bad.

If we fail to get a big win, it doesn't matter because we still have plenty of time to gamble, and we may have better luck another day to win a bigger amount of money. And if we lose today, we should stop immediately rather than keep gambling and instead be able to spend all our money. We have to control our gambling and not greed that controls us so that we still have a balance that we can use to gamble another day.

not control it. I should have stopped first after a few defeats but instead I kept on playing so I forgot to manage assets in gambling. this is very influential, not even just losing, because usually after successive wins there will also be defeats. so you have to understand when to play and stop for a moment.

Always.
It's hard to make oneself think that it is enough. It is sufficient for withdrawal. There will always be that part of our brain that wants more.
I have been in this position a lot of times. I gained 10 fold of my balance and yet I am still there trying to increase it to 20. But as soon as I saw my balance kept on going down after hitting the 10 fold. It made sense that it might be the limit I could get so I need to withdraw if I can make it happen again.
Luckily, I did and 3 days ago I withdrew a chunk of the amount and left a little bit for more playing time.
Discipline is a thing that is hard to apply. There will always be greed, envy from other gamblers winning more, and the thought that maybe we are lucky that day. All this considered, it becomes harder to let go or withdraw.

back to human nature to always be dissatisfied or greedy with what they got right away even with a $20 budget getting a $100 win is a huge amount but some gamblers feel themselves lucky and continue betting to earn a little more. however, as I said, everything returns to the principles of each gambler and one of the best ways is to only gamble responsibly.

failing to get a big win or a small win is not a problem for me because of the way gambling works to benefit the gambling owner and lets just say that if the defeat helps to provide funds to develop the gambling business.

That's what we should do after we finish playing gambling, and by being able to accept whatever happens while we are playing gambling, we can think more about not experiencing big losses, so we will always be careful when spending money to gamble. Making mistakes in gambling is normal and has been experienced by many gamblers. It might happen because we are not careful and don't check our bets, so it will fail us to get a big win.

And we should not regret that we have made a mistake because it happened because of our inadvertence. The important thing is that we can be careful in placing the next bet, so we will check everything before placing a bet. And if we can only win a few games, that's enough for us because other people may not be able to get the victory like us.

We really have to try to be responsible gamblers to have good self-control to avoid all the bad things that might come to us while gambling. When we can gamble casually, and there is no burden to try to win, we can get a win, like you said. But of course, after we get a win, we don't need to keep trying to get other wins that might be more difficult to obtain.

So it's okay if we fail to win at gambling, and that could be because we are out of luck in getting the win. One day, we will be able to get even more wins, so we will be happier to see those wins. The important thing is that we can continue to enjoy gambling as we should and not lose more money.

Yes, you are right, being overconfident is really not recommended, usually things like that are always problematic, when we feel confident that we can win we bet all in the money to be at stake and end up losing, that's clearly not very good in the end, because it's enough to play like this usually playing gambling you have to be able to control yourself when you win you should stop playing and withdraw to get out of the game.

Withdraw money and stop playing when you win, but sometimes people can't control their greed when they win, that's why it can hinder the big wins we will get, gambling must be able to control yourself, know when to play and when to gamble, bet with wise and in control. like the saying that we often get from this forum.

It is good to have confidence in gambling but there should not be overconfident. It has been found that gamblers who are more confident of winning are more likely to lose. They naturally look at big betting odds and lose huge money any time they make a small mistake. So a gambler must gamble within control. Otherwise he may lose all his wealth. We know that there are wins and losses in gambling but due to some common mistakes we are forced to accept big losses instead of big wins.

That is a great way to keep your calmness in difficult situations.For me though I have found out lately that mistakes that are preventing my big win is not focusing enough on sport betting where I see there is a lot of helpful info for me to make a sound decision on which team to bet on while I continue chasing my luck on slot machines.Honestly I have lost so many weeks in a row in slot machines that it has been sometime that I have quit them in favor of sport betting and I am liking my results so far.

Well that's right, one of the actions we can take is to accept from the start whatever conditions we will experience later, losing at the end of the round is natural and winning is just a bonus for the time we have spent gambling. If a person can make peace with themselves about the various risks they can experience then it is true as you say that maybe in the future they will become responsible gamblers and maybe they will not be too ambitious for a win. So basically, before we do any activity, we must be able to understand about the various losses there, don't just think about the victory because obviously there is no free lunch, everything needs sacrifice to get something. We must be able to gamble with a normal mind so as not to experience pressure there, and assume that this is a real fun activity to fill spare time.
It is actually not difficult to deal with problems in gambling if we really understand the principles and also if we are able to make peace with ourselves.

its like not expecting anything big from gambling and if this is done consistently I think your mentality and control will get used to gambling responsibly and definitely your finances will get better. I mean when you gamble or bet casually and enjoy every betting session you will certainly never become a burden on your mind or your thoughts will not focus on big wins and if one day you can get a win regardless of the amount just think of it as a bonus while you are having fun happy like for example we go to buy food pay some money but get a raffle ticket and get extra food bonus.

realizing how gambling works and appreciating whatever amount of money you have will give yourself good control.

In gambling, we really need to be able to accept defeat and also be satisfied with wins because when we can do all that, it is less likely to lose large amounts of money or lose the amount of winning money that has been won.
But when you are gambling and accidentally make a mistake, like you have 3 football betting predictions and there is 1 more that is still unsure or indecisive and in the end you decide to multi bet with 4 matches whereas in 3 matches you are sure you will win but in the last 1 match that was in doubt, it turned out to be a loss, then all the wins that should have been destroyed were destroyed and of course it will make you regret it, right?
that's why we should always be satisfied with the wins we can get.
Self-control and also considering the decision to be one of several factors you can minimize losses and get what you should get so that everything doesn't just depend on how much money we deposit.

One of the great advantages of thinking like this is precisely that the number of mistakes you will make will go down, as even if you were losing money during your session at a rate faster than expected this will not fluster you and you will remain calm no matter what, and with that state of mind it is going to be very difficult you could make a mistake like chasing your losses, as you will simply accept that was not your lucky day and immediately move on.

The last time I lost some money through accumulated bettings I felt bad just similar to your own experience I was given the opportunity to cash out with some profits but I ignored in the long run the bet was lost since then I resorted to playing 3 to 4 games targeting 4.0 to 3.0 odds played with small money I only needed a consistent winning rather than risk my money on plenty accumulated games whose chances of winning is very slim, that is just the mistakes many gamblers made in a bid to win big but have the opportunity of cashing out middle of the bet but refused and the notion of winning with plenty accumulated games is absolutely not realistic with the slightest chances of winning.