and all i hear is random nobodies i don't recognize screaming buy Monero its the best coin ever in history.
i tell ya i have met a LOT of guys in the last year doing this stuff and it's kinda funny how none of the names i recognize are saying this..
just shadowy weirdos coming out of nowhere spouting off..
I can at least give an answer to that. I never touched any altcoin until a bunch of old bitcoiners started to talk about XMR. I had an extremely bad bias about alts because of all the scams and trolling that poison this community, but I decided to fight my aversion due to their combined level of trust and decided to take a look. Maybe you're not really aware of the people in XMR community and just picking the troll-posts. Here's a chart I found on the Risto altcoin observer.
Now look at this thread https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/xmr-monero-a-secure-private-untraceable-cryptocurrency-583449 and look at all the old members, heroes, legendary, and renowned seniors, some of them with great contributions and insights like Aminorex or Oda Krell or Articmine or Smoothie or Rptiela (I know alot of people don't like him but that's not a nobody) and so many more, all with high trust and an old forum activity. Now you might not know them and still think they are random nobodies... we're on internet after all, everyone is a random nobody including you and me, but then what you say here doesn't mak anye sense. Just don't read the trollish threads and forget about everything else. Ofc if you just pick one particular thread of that troll posting Nazi flags, you can easily believe all XMR supporters are nazis, and then yell about it everywhere...
Sorry OP my post isn't really made of quality FUD. It's not against you. I'm also genuinely interested by your questions and would be glad to read any educated answer, but I'm not the best suited to answer them. I'm just a "nobody shadowy weirdo coming out of nowhere" after all.