Topic: money buy happines only if you are a female (Read 1033 times)
Happiness can never be bought and sold with money because happiness depends on the psychological state of a person. Happiness does not depend on any person or gender, be it male or female, happiness depends on mental attitude. Many can have billions of money but he can be unhappy and some can be happy without money. That is, happiness does not depend on people's wealth.
Money can't buy happiness, it can only buy comfort. Having more comfort can make it easier to find true happiness. However, some people who are poor and live in tough situations can still find true happiness, just like how some rich people who buy all the material goods they want can still feel empty inside. I believe that having a support network of family and friends is more important when it comes to being happy.
I agree when you say there is an important factor on having good family and friends when comes to reaching true happiness and there are indeed people who are genuinely happy who does not have as much as millionaires or billionaires.
The thing with money and having much of it though, is that one is always in purpose for more of it and the immediate satisfaction it brings: luxury cars, big hotels, nights in casinos, deluxe dinners in Las Vegas, among other things.
In the end of the day, if one has everything and there is nothing to pursue, emptiness starts to appear within the self. We all need a reason to live for and a dream to pursue, even after reaching that, we set another aim to look forward to and so on.
Money can't buy happiness, it can only buy comfort. Having more comfort can make it easier to find true happiness. However, some people who are poor and live in tough situations can still find true happiness, just like how some rich people who buy all the material goods they want can still feel empty inside. I believe that having a support network of family and friends is more important when it comes to being happy.
In case: if your loved one is sick and needs money for treatment, money can buy not only happiness but also health. The power of money today is beyond our imagination, so let's adapt to it instead of denying it. So don't say that poor people are happier than other rich people. People who say they are happy even without money are just trying to hide their helplessness and resignation to their fate.
In a society where money is the top priority, happiness and money are always closely linked, you cannot separate them if you want true family happiness.
In a society where money is the top priority, happiness and money are always closely linked, you cannot separate them if you want true family happiness.
Poor people are happier than rich? That's a ridiculous statement. Quite alright, money itself doesn't guarantee happiness but looking at it critically, all elements of happiness are in one way or another linked to money. If you think money does not bring happiness, you are probably deceiving yourself because you don't have it or you don't want to live in the reality. There is no other way to put it, money is the root of happiness whether we Prioritize it or not. However, nature has been fair to both the riches and the poor by giving every class a fair distribution of happiness with or without money. What I mean is that, with your money you're not entitled to absolute happiness and being poor doesn't make you sad always.
That's what Nothingtodo said, not me.
I have the same thoughts as you so I agree with most of what you say. I am not rich and I have family but I also admit that without money we cannot be happy. The truth may seem harsh but you are right, people who say they are happy even without money are just trying to fool themselves or trying to deny their own failures and incompetence.
Happiness today is linked to material things, if our children do not have good food, do not have a life equal to their friends, our wife does not have expensive clothes, does not have jewelry, our parents are not well taken care of in their old age...I wonder how happy we will be? Money can't buy happiness but without money, we can't be happy either.
In case: if your loved one is sick and needs money for treatment, money can buy not only happiness but also health. The power of money today is beyond our imagination, so let's adapt to it instead of denying it. So don't say that poor people are happier than other rich people. People who say they are happy even without money are just trying to hide their helplessness and resignation to their fate.
In a society where money is the top priority, happiness and money are always closely linked, you cannot separate them if you want true family happiness.
In a society where money is the top priority, happiness and money are always closely linked, you cannot separate them if you want true family happiness.
Poor people are happier than rich? That's a ridiculous statement. Quite alright, money itself doesn't guarantee happiness but looking at it critically, all elements of happiness are in one way or another linked to money. If you think money does not bring happiness, you are probably deceiving yourself because you don't have it or you don't want to live in the reality. There is no other way to put it, money is the root of happiness whether we Prioritize it or not. However, nature has been fair to both the riches and the poor by giving every class a fair distribution of happiness with or without money. What I mean is that, with your money you're not entitled to absolute happiness and being poor doesn't make you sad always.
Wow, I can't believe there are still people who make such bold and biased statements! How much do you really understand about women? This is just your shallow perspective. Who says only women can find happiness through money? Happiness is multifaceted and cannot be defined solely by gender.
Happy life is a great blessing of Allah. This one free from foe and fear. It is true that wealth brings many comfort and pleasure in life but at a limit. lt is said about paradise that will free all kinds of worries and fear .So if some have the so condition may be man or woman in this world .Actually , he is in paradise. It is true that wealth causes luxuries in life. Both man and woman enjoy these happy moment of life. I differ that only women enjoys these moments but men also enjoys.
Can money really buy happiness? If happiness could really be bought with money then billions of people in this world would buy happiness with money. I think money can't buy happiness. But yes, if you have money, happiness will surely surround you. But in the journey of life, many things are needed to be happy, among them, if a good life partner is found, happiness can be obtained even if there is no money. Many people have money but do not have a good life partner then they cannot see what happiness is. Again, many people have no money, but they have two good-hearted people, then happiness is very precious to them, they always know what happiness is.
We as human beings we all have what gives us happiness, every man with a different problem that can deprive one from being happy. Money does not bring total happiness, money just only makes one to live a comfortable life but never a guarantee for true happiness. Their are some health challenges, emotional challenges, past event that money can't solve. It is so funny that some people who don't have money now thinks having money can make them happy and they will never feels sad again. That is why no matter the amount of money one has, no one has it all. Even with money we all have problems that is stealing ones joy. 
Can money really buy happiness? If happiness could really be bought with money then billions of people in this world would buy happiness with money. I think money can't buy happiness. But yes, if you have money, happiness will surely surround you. But in the journey of life, many things are needed to be happy, among them, if a good life partner is found, happiness can be obtained even if there is no money. Many people have money but do not have a good life partner then they cannot see what happiness is. Again, many people have no money, but they have two good-hearted people, then happiness is very precious to them, they always know what happiness is.
There's nowhere without money, accept it, it's such a bitter truth.
I always thought that money buy happiness but now I think that this only work on females or a beta male (have a female mentality)
and why is that lolmen and women are both humans which even though money can bring some kind of happiness it is not the one to ultimately bring us happiness
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I am not rich I am poor and yes I know that money will buy you a good home, car, good health care and good teeth, beautiful wife and such.
but all of these are materials.
a beautiful wife is not a material thing, mate and the fact that you think as such gives me an insight to what kind of man you atebut all of these are materials.
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as for female you know that female has 4x less brain cells than male, and actually money buy them happiness I mean females can be happy with beautiful stuff and that's it
i do wonder where you got that because all studies i have seen only say that men's brain is larger but i have not yet encountered a study which says that men has more brain cells/more active brain than women 
Well, men are meant to have higher knowledge or light that shines brighter and better than the women. The brighter the light the better the knowledge and understanding. This is what humans attribute to intelligence. So, technically, the men are supposed to be higher in it, and that is what makes them the leaders, since the one with the light leads those with lesser light or those without light at all.
The brighter the light the better a person is able to solve life problems and achieve success. It's this success and a life of less problems and worries that contribute greatly to happiness.
People who have this success are supposed to be richer, and this is basically where the connection between happiness and wealth lies, unfortunately, the wealthy people of this world do not deserve their wealth. They have little to no light, yet are wealthy. They became rich through means that contributes to problems and gives little to no real success, hence their lives are filled with problems, worries and sadness.
Lots of light/intelligence and happiness can be found in those outside of the matrix (the world system), but they are likely being persecuted by the world, as it's said or written that the slaves persecute the free
The brighter the light the better a person is able to solve life problems and achieve success. It's this success and a life of less problems and worries that contribute greatly to happiness.
People who have this success are supposed to be richer, and this is basically where the connection between happiness and wealth lies, unfortunately, the wealthy people of this world do not deserve their wealth. They have little to no light, yet are wealthy. They became rich through means that contributes to problems and gives little to no real success, hence their lives are filled with problems, worries and sadness.
Lots of light/intelligence and happiness can be found in those outside of the matrix (the world system), but they are likely being persecuted by the world, as it's said or written that the slaves persecute the free
I always thought that money buy happiness but now I think that this only work on females or a beta male (have a female mentality)
I am not rich I am poor and yes I know that money will buy you a good home, car, good health care and good teeth, beautiful wife and such.
but all of these are materials.
real men always seek something beyond the material level, the smart ones are seeking knowledge, the strong one are seeking stronger body, the psychos are seeking to do what ever please them.
This acutely been showing through out the History, I mean the person who Tetris game could've been a filthy rich but he didn't, the game being global and draw a smile on the children's face is more important that being filthy rich.
and if you read the history of Rome you will see that merchants where considered a low class, lower than a soldier and a farmer even tho they are richer than them but because merchants doesn't create anything they simply buy and sell and that's it.
not just Rome also ancient Greek and Japan, China, Egypt, Syria, Armenia, Assyria, Babylon and many other ancient nations considered merchants lower than farmer or craftsman.
as for female you know that female has 4x less brain cells than male, and actually money buy them happiness I mean females can be happy with beautiful stuff and that's it.
the funny thing that growing in a poor family and neighborhood I always found that boys my age can be happy with a simple stuff such as finding some animal or even a stick while girls where harder to be happy since there parents can't buy them beautiful dress and shoes.
so if you think that money will buy you happiness then you are a female or a male with female mentality or a delusional.
of course I am not saying that anyone searching for money and trying to be rich is a female or a beta male or that money doesn't matter.
money matter of course and it will insure your safety, you never heard about a rich guy who died in a war or out of hunger in a famine.
so money is a tool to insure you don't get depressed, it isn't a the tool to buy happiness
Normal money can buy happiness for both male and female, money can buy happiness when it can be use to meet up with needs such as food, shelter, clothing and healthcare is the one of happiness it can give for man and woman,I am not rich I am poor and yes I know that money will buy you a good home, car, good health care and good teeth, beautiful wife and such.
but all of these are materials.
real men always seek something beyond the material level, the smart ones are seeking knowledge, the strong one are seeking stronger body, the psychos are seeking to do what ever please them.
This acutely been showing through out the History, I mean the person who Tetris game could've been a filthy rich but he didn't, the game being global and draw a smile on the children's face is more important that being filthy rich.
and if you read the history of Rome you will see that merchants where considered a low class, lower than a soldier and a farmer even tho they are richer than them but because merchants doesn't create anything they simply buy and sell and that's it.
not just Rome also ancient Greek and Japan, China, Egypt, Syria, Armenia, Assyria, Babylon and many other ancient nations considered merchants lower than farmer or craftsman.
as for female you know that female has 4x less brain cells than male, and actually money buy them happiness I mean females can be happy with beautiful stuff and that's it.
the funny thing that growing in a poor family and neighborhood I always found that boys my age can be happy with a simple stuff such as finding some animal or even a stick while girls where harder to be happy since there parents can't buy them beautiful dress and shoes.
so if you think that money will buy you happiness then you are a female or a male with female mentality or a delusional.
of course I am not saying that anyone searching for money and trying to be rich is a female or a beta male or that money doesn't matter.
money matter of course and it will insure your safety, you never heard about a rich guy who died in a war or out of hunger in a famine.
so money is a tool to insure you don't get depressed, it isn't a the tool to buy happiness
Neither poverty nor wealth guarantees happiness or virtue, however wealth can provide distraction and alleviate financial stress which is source of unhappiness, and women prioritize financial stability when choosing a partner as it can contribute to happiness, my suggestion here is that money can buy happiness for both male and female, but it depends on individual situations.
Wow, happiness can be free and easy if you learn to be grateful for what you have today. There is still room to aim for more wealth or possessions, but you are already wealthy if you are happy with what you have. 
Edit: ps. The above works for both males and females.
Op, yes obviously happiness is not only tied to material things been aquare with money, but I doubt if money can be completely rule out to once happiness, when there is no money to afford basic amenities of life, it appears ur under a cause.of a truth, farmers, soldiers etc.are more problem solvers in every society than merchant like you rightly said, like in my country here, we have more merchandise, there is plenty of money but unable to solve plenty problem, we lack factories, industries that could creat employment thereby engaging the youth to avoid idleness which is capable of solving many problem in the society, so I can tell you for free, as human we need money to solve basic problem of life, and once that is done, ur happy. Edit: ps. The above works for both males and females.
Money can never buy happiness, happiness is always beyond money. Peace of mind and self-satisfaction are the keys to happiness. Be it a boy or a girl, no one can ever buy happiness. Many have millions of money but are not really happy whereas many have no money but are much happier than the rich. So happiness never depends on abundance of money.
Money can't buy happiness but it can sustain your happiness, without money we can't be happy, I don't believe you can be happy without money these days.
Do you have children? Do you have elderly parents? How happy would you feel if you could not provide good food for your children, they did not get a good education, or your wife did not have nice clothes to wear? Or how happy would you be when your aging parents need money to ensure and maintain their health while you don't have the money to provide those things for them? In case: if your loved one is sick and needs money for treatment, money can buy not only happiness but also health. The power of money today is beyond our imagination, so let's adapt to it instead of denying it. So don't say that poor people are happier than other rich people. People who say they are happy even without money are just trying to hide their helplessness and resignation to their fate.
In a society where money is the top priority, happiness and money are always closely linked, you cannot separate them if you want true family happiness.
I wonder why some people can be this weird in bringing sort of topics to this board like this one, how could money be a means for buying happiness for women, is happiness tradable or what is the concept behind using women as a reason why happiness can only be bestowed, i want to make this clear that everyone has right to determine for his or herself how they wanted to live their life, some can settle for less by earing peanut and never work on their self on how they could also be a source that gives than begging.
lol I hard to read through the entire piece over and over again to be able to get something out of what he is saying, and in the entire time, what is discovered from the whole statement is the fact that the ops lack self confidence and ability to accept reality a d responsibility in other to grow.But rather he is busy trying to defend an assumption and his belief that females are most luckiest than their male counterparts and that money makes women happy compared to male Fork's.
But the truth is that, money in the hand of the right person will do alot of good to humanity, an also even the smallest, so the debate that money is not everything that should be missed judge and should be seen anti.
Money can never buy happiness, happiness is always beyond money. Peace of mind and self-satisfaction are the keys to happiness. Be it a boy or a girl, no one can ever buy happiness. Many have millions of money but are not really happy whereas many have no money but are much happier than the rich. So happiness never depends on abundance of money.
Exactly! Happiness is beyond money, it's a choice one consciously makes to he happy no matter what. Happiness is not dependent on gender; it is dependent on the person. If you choose to appreciate the little you have, if you choose to be grateful for what you have, then happiness will locate you. There's no fact or statistics stating that money buys happiness for only women . Some women face serious life challenges - health or marital issues - that money can't solve.Everyone appreciates material things; nobody says they don't want a good house, car, food, latest fashion, or entertainment. However, happiness depends on you. If you choose to be happy, you create your own happiness. You must find happiness within yourself first before you seek external happiness. Even with wealth, you might still be unhappy if there's a void of self-fulfillment, happiness in your current position, or inner peace.
Like I said earlier, there are ladies with wealth, a lot of money, but they desire companionship, which you cannot buy companion from the market. So, happiness isn't gender-dependent; it's person-dependent. It depends on you, your happiness metrics, and what makes you happy - whether it's your companion, job, contentment, or appreciating life in general. If you're a genuinely happy person, your bank account balance won't define your happiness. Money is a happiness factor, but it's not the ultimate source of happiness.
This seems like a strange and sexist take on things. I’ve met men and women who feel all sorts of different ways about money. I think that a person’s views on money are more likely tied to their upbringing than their sex. There are plenty of men out there using wealth to provide them with happiness and plenty of women who are poor and happy….
Anyone can buy almost anything for money
Money can never buy happiness, happiness is always beyond money. Peace of mind and self-satisfaction are the keys to happiness. Be it a boy or a girl, no one can ever buy happiness. Many have millions of money but are not really happy whereas many have no money but are much happier than the rich. So happiness never depends on abundance of money.
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