Topic: money buy happines only if you are a female - page 4. (Read 1033 times)

Money contributes to happiness when it helps meet our basic needs many will say that money can buy happiness while others say that money has nothing to do with peace of mind. People's happiness depends on their earnings. From peace of mind to comfort everything depends on money. Money is needed in the way of life but even if one does not feel comfortable from his own side money does not bring happiness.

Money cannot buy happiness because no amount of money that you have that will make you happy if you are not contented with what you have. Only God can give us true happiness that we desire if we are with him and allow him lead and direct us in whatever we are doing. I have seen a lot of females that settled for a poor man and neglect the rich men that wants their ha. Ds in marriage because she does not like them and said they cannot give her happiness. It is only females that loves money that your money can give them happiness, and if you get broke, they will be sad and leave.

The word is very acceptable to me because in today's world it can be seen that people are busy trying to express what they are not, most but not all. I have seen on various social media people who are engaged in family quarrels most of the time in their life they upload pictures of each other with smiling faces saying ’happy family’. And there are many who have to eat hard to get two handfuls of food, sometimes they go to good restaurants and take pictures and upload them on social media (not to hurt anyone). But ultimately what they are, what they upload on various social media?

Well I think you are half right.
you are in a relationship? tell me have your wife/GF ever toke responsibility when they have done something wrong?

as for "why do poor people have worse health per capita" then you are trying to change the subject, you know that women can and will stay with a rich guy no matter how ugly and despicable he is while you can't say the same thing about poor people.
have you ever wonder why 99% of the divorce in rich class happen only when both of them from a rich family? I mean you never see a women from a poor class want a divorce from a rich guy even that she will get 50% of what he own, yet that is not enough for them.
the same gose when the money runs out, 9/10 the family will end up in divorce court.

being poor and rich mean that you get a life education but not necessary a life learning.
now answer me why there is not a single guy in this world that had a problem with finding "love"?
when you became rich have you ever found a problem with "love"?
A friend of mine is a Canadian, he is Uglier than a mule and never found love in Canada hell the man never kissed a girl and he was 23 back then.
and yes I met him on the same small MMO game so you can imagine how much of a failure he was  .
anyway he visited it Bosnia, A white Muslim nation in Europe and poor as dirt.
in that country nobody liked him since he was Christian (he's white) but the moment they realized he is from Canada not a single women he mate had a problem with him being Christian or ugly or alcoholic, in 6 months or even less I saw his wedding photo on Instagram and he told me that his wife was crazy about there life in Canada, she divorced him the moment she got the nationality and learned English.
can you imagine that once they realized he is from a rich nation suddenly being ugly alcoholic Christian don't matter for the any girl he met?
and according to him the girl was in engagement so she literally dumped her boyfriend for an ugly foreigner that she just mate and why? just because he was from a rich country.

you told me you are wealthy right? how about a bet?
go and offer any girl from a poor family to marry her if she left her boyfriend, or do what he did and see the results.
I'll bet you my entire life savings that she will dump her boyfriend for you, unless someone try this on her before.

being financially safe means everything in the modern Dystopia that people mistakenly call it "World", when I say everything I mean everything.

Then maybe leave that science to people whose life work is a science and stop just blindly believing randos from the internet.

Sorry to hear about your depression and it's good if you are over it, but you are talking like you know something about women when you haven't even been in a relationship with one.
Your concepts like female mentality don't mean anything and you use them to describe negativity in men. Which pretty much speaks how you think women are weak or something. You even blame "females" for your dad not taking responsibility. I guess you really got some brain injury if you think that you can fix that by having "4 females"

This is so dumb. You said that you haven't even been in a relationship. How would you know what "females" care about. (and you can just call them women btw).
Maybe ask yourself why being lower income level also correlates with higher suicide rates, social problems, mental issues, becoming marginalized, having poor health and i could go on... 

When someone is economically disadvantaged and have to constatly worry how to stay alive, and those things will put more stress partnerships. Especially for people like you, who think "females" only care about money. Even if some partner would put up your nonsense of women being inferiour, you really wouldn't last in a relationship that way. You would just resent that woman or be constantly ashamed that you woudn't have money. You both would hate each other, so how in the hell that would work?

I have been single, married and in several relationships during my life and i have been poor and wealthy. I have to say that life with me is way more fun when i am financially ok and not worried all the time. That doesn't mean i would spend my money my partners, it just means that i am way more relaxing to be with when i am doing mentally ok. And literally everyone would prefer a partner that doesn't need financial help all the time, but for people you want to be with, it isn't a deal breaker. Sound like you need therapy, because your self confidence seems to circle about money and women you have no experience on. So it's definitely good if you can focus other things that are important to you.

And yes, you definitely loath women.

True! Now a days people want to look happy more then if they are really happy inside.

People usually work hard to earn money and need money to live properly but money never buys all happiness. Many money earners may not be happy, but pretend to be. Many earn money but cannot enjoy it. Some people earn money and become victims of family conflict and greed. True happiness is having peace of mind. Sometimes people who earn little money feel a lot of happiness in mind.

Your words are very strange. It is never possible to think of happiness in life without money.And if you think like that, women mentality or women. Every person is running after money.Because without money it is not possible to survive in this world for two days.If one acquires talent or learns something creative it is also for earning money.  Of course, that person will not sit around acquiring knowledge.

Buddy I am poor and even if I was rich I won't simply hand it away so some random person can be happy.
nobody will ever do that.

the point of money is that nobody is equal you cannot have a a nation where 99% of the people are rich and If you have it it will be a rotten nation just like Nauru, a tiny nation that found a huge phosphate mine and became filthy rich in 24 hour.

so money is important but can't buy happiness unless you have a narrow view of this world.

finding happiness in materials is a females and beta males thing, Ford for example was one of the greatest American inventors he invented the V shape engine and if it wasn't for him cars will still be a luxury only rich can have it.
you know that Ford was the first American to give his employees free stocks at his company ? he also gave so much money to smart people as money didn't make him happy but it bulled him out of his depression.
as for "give it to someone else" there is a story about Ford, he saw a beggar and gave him 1 Dollar, the beggar said: you are Henry Ford! I met your son yesterday and he gave me 100 Dollar! I thought you would give me 1000 Dollar!

Ford reply:
he is the son of Henry, Henry is rich.
I am the son of Ford, Ford is poor.

whether the story was real or fake but Ford believed that giving money for people to make them happy simply because it buys material isn't worth it, you need to give the money for people that find happiness in things that goes beyond the materials.
this is what Alfred noble did BTW, he left a small money for his relatives and the rest was going to the noble price that only go for people who find happiness beyond the materials.
same thing about Tesla, the man was trying to create a free wireless electricity and he aimed to be free for the people even tho he could make Biloins out of it yet he didn't, his happinse is simply to see people have a free wireless electricity just like Ford's happiness was in seeing his worker have a happy and healthy kids and just like Noble who's happiness in seeing a progress in chemistry and physics and even in his death he wanted to be happy.

this is my point.

If money can't buy happiness, give your money to someone else that will make him happy. In modern world, you can't just live without having any money. You'll be pushed away by people that you're trying to get some help when they can't get anything from you. But at least by having money, you can buy your needs, the necessities in order for you to stay alive. And someone who has a mindset about money can buy happiness, why is it that they're delusional for you? Does that mean that you or your parents are delusional as well because you're trying to earn for a living? This subject isn't like that. The reality is we need money to survive and buy ourselves good stuff that we need and even wants but learn to know your priorities. Will you attain to see your family starving when you don't have money and you can't provide meals for them?

I like what you've said in the latter that money is a tool. It's true and that's what everyone should understand about saying that it can't buy happiness. As it's a tool, it can be used to buy the things that can make you happy and even your family. Don't say that it can't buy happiness, it is a tool for provision and people can't be happy when they are starving as it is going to mentally drain you and can even put you into the casket when you stand by your ordeals because of that perspective.

Happiness is a relative thing and it must depend on our mindset. You will see many times very poor people who earn food for the day have no thought for the next day. He can sleep much better at night. Again it is seen that those who have a lot of money but sleepless nights. In these two examples lies the main reason for happiness. That is we should learn to live only for today, if we think about what will happen tomorrow we will be disturbed and we will lose sleep. That is not to say that money is not necessary in life, yes money is certainly necessary but one must learn to be satisfied with whatever is available. Money may not be a tool to buy happiness but it can be an ingredient.

the stick example is just so a way to represent the way of male's brain function, a simple things can bring you happiness unlike female where it's harder for them to find it in simple things
look up Hajime Fujii story, he was a soldier in imperial Japan (not far long then today)
he was dirt poor and marry a girl from a filthy rich family (and I mean filthy) while his society and family denounced the marriage why? because the girl's family where merchants and he was a soldier, he had a very high class even tho he was poor.
and BTW imperial japan had a very strong society, they conquered and fought countries 20X the population and yet won.
so yes, in successful society money dosen't decide your class and merchants where less than everyone else.
even less than a stick you might say










I read it before on a document, not a science guy but I believe it.


the name "AlphaBoy" is in honor of my friend who I never met in real life but in a small MMO game, he helped me go over my depression and talk me out of killing myself, later on he killed himself and since then I took his name in the game and in my online life to honor him, AlphaBoy never die and this has no meaning to my "Alphaness" as he himself took the name of some Fictional Character in his favorite anime.
Nobody got me here, I figured that out by myself, by a whole lot of different experiences begin with my cousins and ending up with my neighborhood
I do not hate women, I never been in a relationship at least with a physical human female to be rejected, But I knew a lot of people who had been rejected simply because there is a richer guy in the area who can bring them what they want

I don't hate women, I hate the way they think and the way I see it it all begin with my father who I hated because he has a female mentality that ruined my life to the point of no recovery, he only cared about things that lead to no where and he never took any responsibility for it which is something you you'll see in all females.
and that why I believe that females has 4x less brain cells, because the damage my father done to my life can't be created unless you have 4 females.

let me ask you something, why poor people have way more divorce rate per capita than the middle class? and why rich people have the lowest rate of divorce per capita?

females care only about materials and look (but materials is even more important than look)
if you are a rich man you can go and promise and middle, poor class girl that you'll marry her if she break up with her boyfrined and I'll bet you my life savings that she will do it or at least consider it.

That's right, money can't actually give us everything, although money can just add to make us be more happy, in a way of getting whatever thing we want and also helps us not to be in depression and so on, but can't be a source of happiness but having peace of mind does.

If we have peace of mind, that is we are comfortable with the way we are, the way we are living and others, then we can absolutely have peace of mind without even having money and this kind work only when we don't rely on material things just as you said.

My dear mate, It all depends on the dimension that you are coming from because money And happiness are Two different things with different influence on human beings . Its is quite obvious that money makes So many people happy especially ladies as you said But the essence of happiness is contentment You can only be very happy when you are contented with what you have because there are So many rich people out there who are very rich But yet they are not happy meanwhile there are few people out there Too who re just average Business people without enough money But yet they a very happy And living a happy life Too. However, money cannot give us the happiness we are looking for except when we are glad And appreciate the little that we have then happiness will come .

I looked up the statement of women having 4x less brain cells, and figured that it is only a myth. There is no scientific evidence that proves it. What is rather known is that men tend to have larger brain size than women, and this is to compensate the man’s body size. But yet, that has absolutely nothing to do with intelligence. You may want to unlearn that idea.

Summarily, I disagree with what you’ve said here. Happiness is from within. This is why you can have all the money on earth and still not feel at peace with yourself. Secondly, there are men who derive happiness from spending their money to buy luxurious things. What would you call them? Men with female mentality? The argument of money buying happiness has absolutely nothing to do with gender. It is unique to each individual irrespective of gender, age, ethnicity, and whatever.

Lol, what? sorry, but " 4x less" is nothing but utter nonsense . Not only unscientific, but also blatant misogyny. I don't know if you made that up yourself or read it from somewhere, but i don't think you understant what that reveals about you. It's the thing that you are so desperately trying to hide under your "alphaness". Insecurity and need to be accepted that is oozing from that post, is just hard to read. Nothing says like "Not an alpha" as much like self-nominating yourself as one and resperately seeking for confirmation .

Maybe if you respected yourself, you wouldn't need to diss opposite sex so much. Maybe if you stop living your life trough what other men think of you, (because that is clearly what you are doing) you can live a happier and more meaningful life, where you can try to  yourself into something meaningful.

Ask yourself, what made you hate women? Was it rejection from them? Because you have to now accept not being rich? Or what other men think of you? You mom or dad? And "person who Tetris game" didn't diss women to be happy.

Stop trying to be an "alpha", if you don't want to have unhappy and lonely life, or if you want to be a man who sees only competition where he goes.

Just try to be better and decent man. So what ever self help influencer got you here, ditch him, and change the direction, because you are driving off the cliff here.

So, Alpha"boy", are you? Maybe you grow out from this when you grow to be a man. If you think you can only buy women, maybe mold yourself to something who you can like, and someone else could like.

Financial responsibility as an adult doesn't mean spoiling your companion, cool cars, houses, yachts or pools. It means that you can use money that you have in responsible way.

Wow, you've cracked the code on happiness! Forget everything financial advisors and philosophers have said for centuries, true happiness comes from rejecting material possessions and channeling your inner caveman.  Those silly Romans with their wealth and leisure, what were they thinking?  Building an empire is clearly inferior to playing with a stick.

And as for women, bless their little 4x less braincelled hearts, all they care about are shiny things!  Good thing us strong, intelligent men are above such trivialities.  We seek... uh... knowledge? Yes, knowledge! Perhaps knowledge of where the finest sticks are to be found?

On a serious note, though, history is full of wealthy patrons who funded art, science, and exploration.  Maybe money can't buy happiness directly, but it sure frees you up to pursue things that bring you fulfillment.  And while some women no doubt enjoy nice things, just like men, they also have ambitions and dreams beyond material possessions.

Perhaps your experience growing up is coloring your perception a bit.  Happiness isn't a competition between the sexes or a binary choice between money and sticks.  It's a complex mix of factors, and money can certainly play a positive role.

I wonder why some people can be this weird in bringing sort of topics to this board like this one, how could money be a means for buying happiness for women, is happiness tradable or what is the concept behind using women as a reason why happiness can only be bestowed, i want to make this clear that everyone has right to determine for his or herself how they wanted to live their life, some can settle for less by earing peanut and never work on theirself on how they could also be a source that gives than begging.

Zanab247 says it quite well in comment #13. To go one major step further, when Zanab247 says "After God... ," I hope that the meaning includes Jesus. Why? Because Jesus is the only way that anybody makes it to God.... because Jesus IS God as well as man.

Once a person is dead, relationships and money mean nothing. Even relationships with God are gone, except that God (Who can never die) upholds the relationship that existed between Himself and each person while they were alive.

Knowledge is good if a person has the wisdom to use the knowledge correctly. "Knowledge without thought is useless. Thought without knowledge is dangerous."





A woman that sells herself for money:
1. Detests herself, but still has to eat;
2. Detests men, and doesn't care about herself enough, as long as she can humble men through their one major weakness;
3. Is all mixed up about love, even if love is what she is looking for.

However, whatever happiness she gets from selling herself, will be short-lived for almost 100% of these women. There are a few of them that are smart enough, that once they have a sufficient $amount saved up, they get out of it, and truly find a good guy. But their past life will make living difficult for them.

Well isn't that a complete summary of the answer, if she isn't cheap and doesn't give a shit about how much you have then Mon isn't gonna get her any happiness and most girls knows that any guy that buys them or promises riches doesn't truly love cause he would also promise that to another, some people cherish themselves and would not want a bountiful relationship filled with lies and others just don't care as long as their needs are cared for.