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Maybe you should find some hobbies, try playing some sports, go to the gym or something like that, if you cant stop maybe you should go to the doctor, if that dont help you and you sitll gamble, try to set limits for you how much are you ready to lose this day, try lowering your amounts every day.
Join marathons or be in a riders club. There are so many ways to leave gambling but don't take it so quick, just do it a little by little and take your time. You don't have to rush, give it maybe 15 days is enough for you to have another practice. Lowering the amounts as he gamble can help somehow but still he has to be serious if he wants to quit and he should stay away from any of it.
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Maybe you should find some hobbies, try playing some sports, go to the gym or something like that, if you cant stop maybe you should go to the doctor, if that dont help you and you sitll gamble, try to set limits for you how much are you ready to lose this day, try lowering your amounts every day.

Having more things to do will definitely help, especially this gets you mind out of your addiction or whatever you want to get over with. Doctors are probably a last resort if things do get worse, and likely any addict would be in denial of his addiction so he would never got to a doctor. I'd say the best help would definitely be to tell your family about your addiction or whatever you are going through.

Limits may help, but what is really stopping your from depositing more and more into the casino, effectively breaking your limit? Getting out of an addictions is truly a difficult and hard thing to get over.
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Maybe you should find some hobbies, try playing some sports, go to the gym or something like that, if you cant stop maybe you should go to the doctor, if that dont help you and you sitll gamble, try to set limits for you how much are you ready to lose this day, try lowering your amounts every day.
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See a doctor bro, you need professional help now. Smiley Smiley
Seeing a doctor or seeking professional help is a good idea and you'll learn on how deal with addiction. But sometimes, gamblers are also hard headed that don't follow the prescription and advise of the doctor. He needs to discipline himself and that's not going to be an easy part. What he must do is to set a plan and make that plan into goals so that he will be encouraged of doing others things just to avoid gambling.

In my opinion, you better tell your family first about it. Wanting to leave gambling is not that easy if you are really addicted on it. Your family will help, encourage,and support you to look for someone professional in that case. Or go to your dearest someone/most trusted person to help you in your situation. Because i merely believe that if you value someone or your family is really important to you can stop it.

Actually i know someone who is really addicted in gambling but still he made it to the right path in life.

Others aren't seriously looking at the picture that leaving gambling isn't an easy thing. It's actually a challenge to us, gamblers who really want to get out it. Our family will play an important role for us to become encouraged and out to leave gambling. Just divert your attention on some other things so that it will help you to attain the right thing to do.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
You are in deep trouble, you need to realize that you are probably going to be unable to do this by yourself you will need help not only professional help but you will need the help of your family, I do not know if they are aware of how much money you have lost in gambling but you have no other option but to be honest with them and tell them the truth and ask for their forgiveness only with their support you will be able to overcome your addiction that is out of control.
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See a doctor bro, you need professional help now. Smiley Smiley
Seeing a doctor or seeking professional help is a good idea and you'll learn on how deal with addiction. But sometimes, gamblers are also hard headed that don't follow the prescription and advise of the doctor. He needs to discipline himself and that's not going to be an easy part. What he must do is to set a plan and make that plan into goals so that he will be encouraged of doing others things just to avoid gambling.

In my opinion, you better tell your family first about it. Wanting to leave gambling is not that easy if you are really addicted on it. Your family will help, encourage,and support you to look for someone professional in that case. Or go to your dearest someone/most trusted person to help you in your situation. Because i merely believe that if you value someone or your family is really important to you can stop it.

Actually i know someone who is really addicted in gambling but still he made it to the right path in life.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

Just for your information, there are de-addiction centers out there which specifically deal with addiction to gambling. I don't know about your location, but I guess such centers may be available in your vicinity as well. And I would advice you to get admitted to one very soon, before you completely ruin yourself financially.
Even if there are not such centers, he can go to psychologists. Psychologist are easily available everywhere and I don’t think so they would not be able to cope with this situation or treat this patient. Such centers are not often found everywhere which help people out with any kind of addiction. Moreover he should discuss it with someone who really cares about him and is sincere with him.
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the first all of  you have to do that is control yourself, control your emotions and consistent with your decision to leave in gambling.
because these are all your decisions and looking for other activities in the real life.


self-control and stick to the decisions that have been made, when you've decided to stop gambling, then you should really stop. If you must, stay away from friends who used to gamble with you so you will not be tempted to gamble anymore, ask for help from someone close to you, do other activities that can spend the time you usually use to gamble.
That is basic thing. I have heard people asking about please tell me the ways how can I go away from gambling and blah. Brother if someone wants to leave gambling as he certainly knew about the bad aspects of bitcoins. So what to wait for? Just go and leave. Don’t connect with such people who are gamblers. Make a strong hold over your mind and think about the ruined life after gambling.
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See a doctor bro, you need professional help now. Smiley Smiley
Seeing a doctor or seeking professional help is a good idea and you'll learn on how deal with addiction. But sometimes, gamblers are also hard headed that don't follow the prescription and advise of the doctor. He needs to discipline himself and that's not going to be an easy part. What he must do is to set a plan and make that plan into goals so that he will be encouraged of doing others things just to avoid gambling.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

You can't even help yourself so how can we help you, not even your friend and you even don't know us? Before you seek help, try to find a solution yourself since you know yourself, you know how will you able to deal with your self.

If you are eager to stop yourself from gambling, you must have some actions that you have done that will slow down your gambling activities and if that is the dead end for you, seek help from the professionals. The longer you stay in that state, the more you will not change.
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the first all of  you have to do that is control yourself, control your emotions and consistent with your decision to leave in gambling.
because these are all your decisions and looking for other activities in the real life.

And for achieving this control, he needs to do meditation yoga or some similar activity that helps a person to remain calm under all sort of situations. It is very easy to say but difficult in reality. Controlling one’s temptations and greed is a very difficult task. But again nothing is impossible is a person becomes truly determined about achieving something. Trying out some other ways of fun or making money, developing interest in other activities can be a huge help.

I can confirm meditation really helps with stress..
Might get you back on track.

Though, if it's a situation as in the OP, it's probably good to find someone to force you to stay out of it when you feel the urge.
Some addictions go really far, beyond  a point where you're able to help yourself without someone intervening.

I don't know about meditation, but I think finding someone who can force you to stay out is a great idea. It can be a girlfriend/boyfriend who will make you forget about everything, gambling included. It can be a good spiritual teacher, but be careful with the letter lest you have a problem much worse than gambling addiction.

Anyway, OP, this world is full of people who can propose you an activity which is more engaging than gambling. You just have to concentrate on finding them.
Hanging out with people who do not gamble do help but if you are already addicted to gambling sometimes you prefer not going to out even with people you love that is why there are a lot of broken families because of gambling. I think the only person who can an gambling addict is himself becauee no matter how we try to help someone if he doesnt want to quit then nothings going to happen.

We all familiar with the "only you can help yourself" formula but although it sounds good it doesn't work in many cases, and I think gambling is one of them. If nobody around you can help you to quit gambling this does not mean that no one in the world can help you. Keep looking for the right people in your life because sometimes we surround ourselves  with the wrong ones. The OP does want to quit, but he can't without help of others and that's why he's asking for the help here. I don't think the right reply would be "help yourself by your own".
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
Rest your mind, do not focus on gambling and do other activities that you think are positive and can forget for a moment about this defeat. That kind of money could be a reason for you to stop gambling. Make an investment instead.

It is very difficult to forget the gambling while doing the other activity, the only option it always plays mobile games without any investment and it makes you feel comfortable because there are huge chances of forgetting the gambling.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
See a doctor bro, you need professional help now. Smiley Smiley
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
Rest your mind, do not focus on gambling and do other activities that you think are positive and can forget for a moment about this defeat. That kind of money could be a reason for you to stop gambling. Make an investment instead.
It is not easy to divert mind at all when you know you are addicted to something. He needs a help of some professional or someone who loves him a lot. Without moral support, it is not possible at all to come out of such addictions. Family support is crucial here. He needs to discuss his problem openly with the person whom he trusts. If there is no one available, go to hospital and visit a psychologist there.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

Just for your information, there are de-addiction centers out there which specifically deal with addiction to gambling. I don't know about your location, but I guess such centers may be available in your vicinity as well. And I would advice you to get admitted to one very soon, before you completely ruin yourself financially.

When a person realizes that gambling has given a bad result for his life and he wants to quit it, then he should have the intention to do it, the help from the nearest person may be enough to help him out of his problem. So in this condition the help of experts isn't necessary. Help from experts, in my opinion, is only necessary for people who are addicted but there is no intention to stop it.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

Just for your information, there are de-addiction centers out there which specifically deal with addiction to gambling. I don't know about your location, but I guess such centers may be available in your vicinity as well. And I would advice you to get admitted to one very soon, before you completely ruin yourself financially.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
Rest your mind, do not focus on gambling and do other activities that you think are positive and can forget for a moment about this defeat. That kind of money could be a reason for you to stop gambling. Make an investment instead.

I think you need to take a rest like above me said and stay away from the gambling activities. maybe you can take a recreation with your family to other places. but you need other people to be on your side to give warning or explanation for you so you don't have time to come to the gambling place or open the gambling sites. you need to defeat this if you really want to leave gambling forever, other people cannot help you if you are not serious to leave the gambling.
Self admission and your action will determine if how you will able to take this problem, no matter how many advise people will tell you it wont reflect if you are not too serious to do the action, leaving gambling is need to be done properly, surrendering your habits to another form of activities or sacrificing everything that will still lead you to play gamble, just like what everyone's said we need to be strict and need to empower what we want to accomplished.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
Rest your mind, do not focus on gambling and do other activities that you think are positive and can forget for a moment about this defeat. That kind of money could be a reason for you to stop gambling. Make an investment instead.

I think you need to take a rest like above me said and stay away from the gambling activities. maybe you can take a recreation with your family to other places. but you need other people to be on your side to give warning or explanation for you so you don't have time to come to the gambling place or open the gambling sites. you need to defeat this if you really want to leave gambling forever, other people cannot help you if you are not serious to leave the gambling.
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The most powerful solution may be the way in which the deep-rooted world can be forgotten. It may be that you try to consult a doctor and ask for tranquilizers that are drowsy in a few days. It seems that this way can at least help to make the avoiding gambling world unavoidable
legendary
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I honestly want to say that quitting the gambling game is a very difficult thing. You have entered a very bad addiction era and it has indeed become a consequence for gambling players, every gambling player has agreed the risk when they start playing gambling. Maybe just a few percent who can stop playing gambling, I can not give advice because I have never seen my friend can experience success when he played gambling. And when someone wants to stop playing gambling then they will only have very little chance. The best way you may have to believe to yourself that playing gambling is a bad thing.
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