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No one can help you to leave gambling, it is depend on you, We are here just give you recommended to leave it.
decision is your hands. Better to find new activity and consistency with your decision.
actually everybody can help you to stop gambling. Everyone can be as long as you really want to stop, with the help of others you can stop gambling more quickly, it helps is not it? but I also agree with you, you yourself still choose, how great any help from others, if you do not mean it then you can not stop gambling.
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OP making the decison to stop gambling is actually the first step in the whole thing. H emust now talk to his friends and family so that they can help in anyways that they can, OP can also attend rehab and support as well.
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You really need someone to help you to remind you that you shouldn't gamble that way. There are many ways to avoid gambling seriously but the first thing you need to do is acceptance. Accepting that you are a gambling addict and if you are aware that you are one of it then you can start moving on to the next stage of avoiding things that are related to gambling. To make it short, you can hire a psychologist to help you fix your mentally about gambling issues.
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No one can help you to leave gambling, it is depend on you, We are here just give you recommended to leave it.
decision is your hands. Better to find new activity and consistency with your decision.

I think if the OP reads few threads here how people have lost and what they have to suffer will make him understand that quitting is so important if you do not have a self control. Else it could effect your personal life and you can lose out a lot of money.
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Firstly, if we have lost much money in gambling activities until now and then how many more losses we one week, one month, or one year ahead ??
Secondly, if we still have the debt caused by our gambling activities then the only way is to work hard to pay it off by real WORK .. not with Gambling again .. it will feel heavy to start because we throw money very easily and must redeem it with hard work and little by little .. but that's the consequence ... is not every action we take must have accountability? There is action there must be a reaction .. convince yourself that we can pass it ..
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No matter what suggestions and advice that will give to you but if you have no determination to stop this gambling vice then every effort will be useless but anyway just try to make busy of your self like joining sports, religious and other activities that will make you always busy until you forget about gambling.

I don't know if the OP is really serious about this plan or just want something to talk about. It is hopeless when all you do is to ask for remedies and yet you are not doing it.

To sum it up, almost all the suggestions about quitting is "diversifying". In short, do something else to avoid gambling.
It would really be pointless if you are just trying to read up advises without even tending to follow or apply it on to your current situation.You can really quit if youd want to without the help of any other people but seeking out an advice isnt really bad at all.If you are serious on quitting then you should mean it and do other stuffs that would really distract you on playing gambling again.

Absolutely like even thousands people will advice you but you still don't want to change nor not desperately then this will be all useless. If you need motivation to do so then think of your family's future and close your eyes and see what it will be looks like when you don't leave gambling for good. You need some realistic realization to waken your subconscious mind.

and if he cannot find motivation for himself, then I think he needs to visit psychiatrist to help him to enter the subconscious mind zone to rebuild him and his mind to leave gambling. I am sure that with the help of a psychiatrist, he can be a new person and he will leave gambling forever and not think about gambling again.
Although motivation is required doesn’t matter in what form it would be. But what I want to say here, brother if you have decided to quit gambling then there will be no other motivation required. You are the highest motivation for yourself. Don’t wait for any other second and leave this all. You will not be making any mistake by listening to what is your heart saying. Go for it as soon as possible.
If a man makes his heart the center of his actions, there is no way he would suffer through rather remain in trouble forever. Gambling is a very addictive game and it is difficult to get rid of old habits but if a person gets really determined about something, I believe he can even do the impossible. What can help other than a person’s strong will is finding interest in other activities and getting busy in beneficial tasks so that he does not have enough time to gamble.
legendary
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
I think this will stop if you reach a certain situation wherein you are bankrupted already. You lost all the means to have money for gambling so you will not have any other choice but to stop because you dont have money anymore. I know people who got broke because of gambling and it was only then they regret when they realized they’ve lost everything they have. 
Being bankrupt does not stop some people to still continue gambling. I am sure some people can end up gambling themselves into slavery if care is not taken. The best is to just find help and as long as the OP already has the mindset to quit, he should be able to take it up from there.

He should talk to people that can help him, he should visit psychologists, some even say hypnosis can work but I do not know, but at the end, the steps should be finding help and trying as much as possible to stay away from gambling no matter how much the impulses come.
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No matter what suggestions and advice that will give to you but if you have no determination to stop this gambling vice then every effort will be useless but anyway just try to make busy of your self like joining sports, religious and other activities that will make you always busy until you forget about gambling.

I don't know if the OP is really serious about this plan or just want something to talk about. It is hopeless when all you do is to ask for remedies and yet you are not doing it.

To sum it up, almost all the suggestions about quitting is "diversifying". In short, do something else to avoid gambling.
It would really be pointless if you are just trying to read up advises without even tending to follow or apply it on to your current situation.You can really quit if youd want to without the help of any other people but seeking out an advice isnt really bad at all.If you are serious on quitting then you should mean it and do other stuffs that would really distract you on playing gambling again.

Absolutely like even thousands people will advice you but you still don't want to change nor not desperately then this will be all useless. If you need motivation to do so then think of your family's future and close your eyes and see what it will be looks like when you don't leave gambling for good. You need some realistic realization to waken your subconscious mind.

and if he cannot find motivation for himself, then I think he needs to visit psychiatrist to help him to enter the subconscious mind zone to rebuild him and his mind to leave gambling. I am sure that with the help of a psychiatrist, he can be a new person and he will leave gambling forever and not think about gambling again.
Although motivation is required doesn’t matter in what form it would be. But what I want to say here, brother if you have decided to quit gambling then there will be no other motivation required. You are the highest motivation for yourself. Don’t wait for any other second and leave this all. You will not be making any mistake by listening to what is your heart saying. Go for it as soon as possible.
It is really up to the gambler and his determination. Nothing else can really help. We can give thousands of advices but at the end of the day, it is only about will power. In order to fight any evil or a strong desire, a person must be strong inside and willing to give up anything for his survival. A person should love himself and train to avoid all those things that can hurt him in any way. Gambling is a difficult to give up but not impossible.
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No matter what suggestions and advice that will give to you but if you have no determination to stop this gambling vice then every effort will be useless but anyway just try to make busy of your self like joining sports, religious and other activities that will make you always busy until you forget about gambling.

I don't know if the OP is really serious about this plan or just want something to talk about. It is hopeless when all you do is to ask for remedies and yet you are not doing it.

To sum it up, almost all the suggestions about quitting is "diversifying". In short, do something else to avoid gambling.
It would really be pointless if you are just trying to read up advises without even tending to follow or apply it on to your current situation.You can really quit if youd want to without the help of any other people but seeking out an advice isnt really bad at all.If you are serious on quitting then you should mean it and do other stuffs that would really distract you on playing gambling again.

Absolutely like even thousands people will advice you but you still don't want to change nor not desperately then this will be all useless. If you need motivation to do so then think of your family's future and close your eyes and see what it will be looks like when you don't leave gambling for good. You need some realistic realization to waken your subconscious mind.

and if he cannot find motivation for himself, then I think he needs to visit psychiatrist to help him to enter the subconscious mind zone to rebuild him and his mind to leave gambling. I am sure that with the help of a psychiatrist, he can be a new person and he will leave gambling forever and not think about gambling again.
Although motivation is required doesn’t matter in what form it would be. But what I want to say here, brother if you have decided to quit gambling then there will be no other motivation required. You are the highest motivation for yourself. Don’t wait for any other second and leave this all. You will not be making any mistake by listening to what is your heart saying. Go for it as soon as possible.
legendary
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But there are people that just don't learn. They even end up losing more and more money and even if they lost their money already they find ways to fund their addiction. Which leads to further drowning in debts. I hope before this happens to anyone, they could seek out help as the casinos and gambling sites will never do anything about it even if they post something like "practice responsible gambling".
Well they post "practice responsible gambling" because they are required by law. All their actions just shout the opposite: they remove clocks from casino rooms, they accomodate you almost for nothing in their hotels. You know, they really want you not to practice responsible gambling. Also, it is a state close to a sickness, a person cannot help himself.

So the OP should look for help of professionals.
If everyone is practicing responsible gambling, then trust me, the casinos will not be making shit load of money and wherever you are making a lot of money, you will want to do everything to keep the people in that spot for a longer time.

Why do you think tobacco industry is making a lot of money even though the cigarette companies keep announcing smokers are liable to die young ?

That is because human nature is just what it is with these things that can easily lead to addict but warning you will not stop them from selling it to you as that is where they make their money. If you are in their shoes, you will do the same and like you said, if the OP really wants to leave, the ball is totally in his court.
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No one can help you to leave gambling, it is depend on you, We are here just give you recommended to leave it.
decision is your hands. Better to find new activity and consistency with your decision.
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The game of gambling does have a tremendous addiction, even everyone will do anything to be able to do gambling game. I find it strange why people are interested in playing gambling, whereas playing gambling has many disadvantages and is also a waste of time. I am one of those people who do not like playing gambling, although it is an entertainment only, but I am still afraid of nightmares that can be created when playing gambling. I came to the conclusion that the person playing gambling is a framed person, they are risking all their lives only for useless things. and the problem is that everyone will have trouble stopping playing gambling, the only way is to wait until the person is poor and finally understand that gambling game is a waste.

Gambling is not what you understand it is.  GAmbling is made to entertain people and get profit from those entertainment.  But sadly, people have problem on their self control.  Honestly, casino always remind people to gamble moderately or gamble what they can afford to lose.  But players never listen.  They only listen to their own accord.  Unlimited fun that may lead to addiction and that is where the problem start.  It is not on gambling but rather on people who cannot control themselves.
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Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed

For asking many people how to quit gambling is natural. But are you already asking by yourself when you are really ready to quit? In that case your losing money and enjoying how many times. But your not probably thinking how to quit. Asking by many people how to quit is not work for you to quit. But asking first in your own when you are ready to quit and  never do it again. Just do to quit and not asking how to quit.
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It is not possible for you, because even though people guide you to quit gambling. Mostly you will remember it for 2 or 3 days but after 2 days again, you will start gambling, so you need to decide whether to gamble or not because without the dedication and commitment it is not possible for you to quit the gambling.
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Before we advise you,you need to commit or help yourself to leave gambling by controlling and focus your mindset to be responsible not to play it again.Motivate yourself no matter how hard it is always think that you have no future on gambling when you get addicted on it.
legendary
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and if he cannot find motivation for himself, then I think he needs to visit psychiatrist to help him to enter the subconscious mind zone to rebuild him and his mind to leave gambling. I am sure that with the help of a psychiatrist, he can be a new person and he will leave gambling forever and not think about gambling again.

Visiting psychiatrist will be useless as well if he cant motivate himself. No matter how great is the psychiatrist, but the result will always depend on the addicted person. Psychiatrist will only help you how to motivate yourself, it does not give a guarantee that he will be able to stay away from anything called by addiction. It is a fact as we can see in real life, addiction of cigarette. It is a simple addiction compared to gambling imho, but the fact says that it is hard to leave the habit of smoking once we are addicted to it. 
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No matter what suggestions and advice that will give to you but if you have no determination to stop this gambling vice then every effort will be useless but anyway just try to make busy of your self like joining sports, religious and other activities that will make you always busy until you forget about gambling.

I don't know if the OP is really serious about this plan or just want something to talk about. It is hopeless when all you do is to ask for remedies and yet you are not doing it.

To sum it up, almost all the suggestions about quitting is "diversifying". In short, do something else to avoid gambling.
It would really be pointless if you are just trying to read up advises without even tending to follow or apply it on to your current situation.You can really quit if youd want to without the help of any other people but seeking out an advice isnt really bad at all.If you are serious on quitting then you should mean it and do other stuffs that would really distract you on playing gambling again.

Absolutely like even thousands people will advice you but you still don't want to change nor not desperately then this will be all useless. If you need motivation to do so then think of your family's future and close your eyes and see what it will be looks like when you don't leave gambling for good. You need some realistic realization to waken your subconscious mind.

and if he cannot find motivation for himself, then I think he needs to visit psychiatrist to help him to enter the subconscious mind zone to rebuild him and his mind to leave gambling. I am sure that with the help of a psychiatrist, he can be a new person and he will leave gambling forever and not think about gambling again.
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No matter what suggestions and advice that will give to you but if you have no determination to stop this gambling vice then every effort will be useless but anyway just try to make busy of your self like joining sports, religious and other activities that will make you always busy until you forget about gambling.

I don't know if the OP is really serious about this plan or just want something to talk about. It is hopeless when all you do is to ask for remedies and yet you are not doing it.

To sum it up, almost all the suggestions about quitting is "diversifying". In short, do something else to avoid gambling.
It would really be pointless if you are just trying to read up advises without even tending to follow or apply it on to your current situation.You can really quit if youd want to without the help of any other people but seeking out an advice isnt really bad at all.If you are serious on quitting then you should mean it and do other stuffs that would really distract you on playing gambling again.

Absolutely like even thousands people will advice you but you still don't want to change nor not desperately then this will be all useless. If you need motivation to do so then think of your family's future and close your eyes and see what it will be looks like when you don't leave gambling for good. You need some realistic realization to waken your subconscious mind.
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You've lost your money, and you will not be able to get it back. This is one of the bad effects for gamblers who are addicted to play.
You can only get out of gambling if you alone have the power within you and are determined to stop. Nothing can help you but yourself, make this an experience so you do not repeat it again.

Today i realised i am in huge huge trouble due to gambling...i just kept loosing amount in gambling quickly...decided many times to leave gambling but never happened....today i counted that i have lost almost 10 bitcoins in gambling in last 1-2 years and the amount i loose is going to keep on increasing...
  i just tried to do every thing but nothing is quiet working...what ever i earn i dont know what to do with them and in some time i loose them again...
i am realising i am in big trouble,already in huge loss what to do... Embarrassed
I have also learnt this from my life that nobody is going to do your work for you. You have to do it by yourself. No one can really help. People will give different advices and those all will be worth million dollars, no doubt but at the end of the day it is you who will be actually doing anything. Gambling indeed is an addictive, destructive and dangerous game but by believing in oneself, it is possible to do anything. In the beginning, it won’t be easy.
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No matter what suggestions and advice that will give to you but if you have no determination to stop this gambling vice then every effort will be useless but anyway just try to make busy of your self like joining sports, religious and other activities that will make you always busy until you forget about gambling.

I don't know if the OP is really serious about this plan or just want something to talk about. It is hopeless when all you do is to ask for remedies and yet you are not doing it.

To sum it up, almost all the suggestions about quitting is "diversifying". In short, do something else to avoid gambling.
It would really be pointless if you are just trying to read up advises without even tending to follow or apply it on to your current situation.You can really quit if youd want to without the help of any other people but seeking out an advice isnt really bad at all.If you are serious on quitting then you should mean it and do other stuffs that would really distract you on playing gambling again.
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