Hello.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation but let me tell you these:
TheFrog - "i dont care"
I do, even though I've been the subject of immense animosity over the past few months. My efforts to atleast try to have fun in chat have been just as large.
TheFrog - "think about it 1 person trying to dominate a room, to spoil the pleasure of others no way we can allow that"
This may be the most ignorant statement I've ever heard. I do not try, in any way, to dominate the room. I do not, in any way, try to spoil the pleasure of others. The people in the chat who argue / spam do this, constantly, every single day, and rarely get muted. This is another example of me being targeted. I always try to make everyone be happy, be it making jokes, raining, or just having a casual conversation. But lately, this has been near impossible due to the amount of hatred directed at me.
1. I understand that you are trying to have fun in Chat however, if the price for you to have 'fun' is for other chatters unpleasant experience in chat, then your way of having fun is wrong.
2. Moderators have the right to mute chatters if it is unhealthy for others.
3. If a mod mutes you, instead of whining, have you asked yourself?
4. Messaging someone who obviously don't like you is just pathetic even helpless.
5. Moderators are chosen by their experience/capability and their decision-making skills.
I hope you will read this with an open-mind because I have nothing against you. Froggy and I don't usually talk very long, a few 'hi/hello/ribbit/wp' is mostly the composition of our conv. But I consider him a virtual buddy and I never saw him abusing other chatters.
Lastly, a friendly advice, be sensitive and put others' experience/opinion/take whenever you chat/socialize.
-jamyr
P.S.
All of the above are based n my POV. Anything I've written should not reflect the site/the owner of the site/the other users.
This is a good post from another perspective.
1. However the chatters don't have an unpleasant experience when I'm on the chat. It's mostly when it's full of spam and arguments. The price of me to have "fun"? I don't find making others have an unpleasant experience fun. Nor is my way of having fun arguing or spamming.
2. "Unhealthy for others" That is correct, but ignoring the real causes of arguments and spam (arguers and spammers) and muting me just because you don't like me is nowhere near just.
Anyone can attest to the low quality of chat. I'm only here for about 5 hours. Think about the other 19. What goes on then? Today when I logged on I sent a few messages then PM'd Frog, then all of this went down.
3. This is not whining, this is an appeal with supporting points and evidence. I assure you, this appeal is not whining.
4. "Pathetic even helpless" How would I have known he didn't like me before he muted me for 48 hours three days ago? Before that me and Frog got along just fine, as far as I can tell. He was very neutral and never provided positive or negative feedback.
5. Yes, but that does not mean they are perfect at their trade. Even now there is a situation with a moderator accepting bribes. Mods will have their preferences, they always have and always will.
may i ask you why do you want the wagered amounts by bet size? 
