** Edit **
I also await a review from Last of the v8's when his bar arrives I was informed it was shipped from the escrow to him today..
If you have other items you want to sell, you can auction them off, and if you do, you should take this as a learning experience and refine how you conduct business.
Good luck.
I already have conformation of the first 2 being received one was bought by the escrow agent and the 2nd is being re-shipped by him.
I still don't think what I asked for was uncalled for.
I have no previous dealing with either the buyer or the escrow service.
I was asked to ship direct to the buyer outside the terms of the listing, without any proofs if me requiring a signature on delivery as per the listing was not acceptable then the buyer should not have bid.
The escrow was also the buyer choice.
All I asked for was proof that the escrow was indeed holding the funds and all this could have been avoided.
I took responsibility for the poor outline of the auction terms but nothing underhand was attempted at any point.
End of the day a contract is only valid if Both party's agree on it not just one I have bowed to peer pressure and shipped without proof and on the "word" of the community.
Anyway item is now shipped I doubt I will conduct any sales here again the experience has been horrible from a simple mistake into 2 super threads where I have been accused of underhanded tactics.
Shame I had some nice plans ahead for some more custom stuff but I doubt I will go ahead with them now.
Magic