Topic: Responsible gambling - page 23. (Read 3918 times)

Why it is a common thought that gamblers are there to have fun and to make profit. But when someone goes to this point of thinking that he can be rich with gambling.

I mean that there's a chance but it's the slightest that one can think of and it's like the lottery's only the way for reaching this goal.

And if there are gamblers that have this goal or have this belief that it's the one that shall get them out of poverty, it's best to rethink.

yes, that's true, because many people use gambling as a shortcut to becoming rich, and of course this should not happen, because even if they win, there is a high possibility that greed will emerge which can control them and make gambling chaotic, where when they get a win they don't think about cashing it out, because maybe they think their gambling is good and makes them believe they can get a bigger win and continues like that until everything is lost and in the end it makes them regret and maybe they will feel annoyed. .

It's also possible that they will do things that can trigger them to become addicted, with those who think they can get a big win, that is the way they become addicted, not the way to get a win in gambling, also with the urge of greed which, if it already exists, makes them want to forget themselves so that they don't know and don't realize that they have entered much deeper into gambling which will clearly harm them later, therefore, as best as possible, if you really want to gamble, you have to be responsible, know when to stop wisely and be aware of the risks involved. there is something in gambling that might happen if they have gambled excessively.

Yes it's true but why people always emphasise on gambling is because gambling is the fastest way of loosing fund. Comperad to other aspect of life. You might be loosing fund in reality or other business, but in gambling you might loose a hopping some of money in an instant. Just like casino virtual.

Being responsible not only on gambling but also in other sort of things in life might sound easy but on the time that you are dealing into something which does involves money then it would really be that so damn hard for yourself to have that kind of control on which it turns out that this is the main reason on why people do mess up their lives because of gambling. We do know that once money is really that getting involved then people are really that ending up on being impulsive and this is one of the cons that you would experience if you werent that careful about its risks.

Yes that's for sure. most people always find themselves in this category of always staking higher than what the have  without budject. And I see it as improper planing because for you are to achieve a better lifestyle one need to have a well programmed schedule or proper financial management in other not to make mistakes while gambling

At some point I'm gambling you find it hard to quit especially when you beging to loos more often. There is that self motivation or instinct that tells you to continue until you are left with noore cash again. And definitely it will cause you pain and anxiety. So there is need to take a break in gambling when there is more loose than win.

Everyone wants to make big money in gambling and that's why that greediness is just part of us naturally. But when you're able to determine that it is not going to give you good results.

You'll control that and whenever you're feeling it, you are going to start act and do something about it for you not to trigger it as you gamble. Because having that while you gamble is a dangerous thing.

Because you have no idea on yourself on how high you can go and how frustrated you will be if you do so.

It's just like a circle or process and  if you don't get to know or realize yourself then getting out of it is really going to be like a quick sand which when you try harder you actually getting sunken more and more and same is when you try getting or chasing your gambling loses, the more you try to get back your winning the more you lose all your bankroll. Many people that gamble don't actually realize this until its too late and many they can win more if they have won on their few tries but when the loses start coming it's a whole new different case.

That has happened to me some time ago,  I think that was in the Saudi pro leagues,  where I thought that due to a team recent failure their will win a match and even though the team was up against another smaller team who's the defeated easily in the last season,  but in this round,  I was surprise that the club lost and worst still the conceded multiple goals in the match.

This thought me a great lesson and never to trust or speculate too much on a club,  because their can disappoint at any point in time,  so any gambler that make the mistake to think in that line of thought will also lose and at multiple time until he decides to have the right mentality towards the whole gambling thing and how best to handle it.

Yes this is right because a gambler always have the believe that that factor that made him lose will revert back and if he is not there to wait and take back his own share, then he would have missed it by the time it gives back. So the gambler is always in such mistake by prempting his games especially in soccer where a team has serially lost a match back to back and some people will bet them to win where they are even seeing that the team has not been put to other but they are betting and guessing instead of looking at the performance of previous matches, head to head etc.

Self realization and moderation is something that you would really be mainly needed once you do deal up into this space on which it would really be that something that just right that you would be having this kind of behavior if you dont really like on messing up yourself towards gambling because this is where people do usually mess up their lives on the time that they would be losing off control on the times that they would really be tolerating out that kind of behavior on which it might really be soon would really become that end up on being addicted person.Being responsible might really that sounds easy to be done but once you are on the actual field of gambling then you would really be able to forget out into those initial plans and limits that you had set earlier.

This is why it is also that relevant in speaking about mind control and discipline on which we know that not all people would really be having this kind of control and this is why we do see
people does have that different level when it comes to tolerance and control when it comes this matter.

That's the bad side effect of that. If you keep doing the same thing, and you are not adjusting, you will just lose a lot of money, and you are also submitting yourself to heavy addiction, mistakes is already an habitual way and even, how long you are in this industry, you will still experience the same fate that you have before, unless you will use that as learning patterns and convert those mistake as basis for not repeating the same mistake, you can be more responsible on your next attempts, it helps a lot to maintain your being responsible gambler.

Even if the same strategy is used, no matter the casino/betting/Forex/crypto, by two or more different people the result will always be different. When you lose, when you find out why you lost, the FoMO effect always arises, this is what makes the player return to the game again and again.

There are no people that are so skilled and they are ready to chase after loses which they incurred as a result of mistakes.
There people that will go to any extend to claim back there loses profits and it works for them. This may not be the case for others because it takes skills and numbers of years betting with good experience for someone to be able to chase loses. If it works for them, then we should never believe with full confidence that it's going to work for us.

It is commonly said that even life itself is not a bed of roses,  you can't be alive and don't go through some challenges, because life itself is a challenge, and this is why any time someone dies, we the living say "rest in peace", why, because it's only when someone dies, that is when they have finally found rest, for as long as a person is alive, there is never anything like a true rest, even if the person does not go out or do anything that is stressful.

So, what am I saying, it's simple, gambling is enjoyable, but it comes with sacrifice, nothing good comes easy is a common say, my people have this proverbs which states that, there is something one must remove from meat, before he or she can eat the meat.

It is exactly the same with gambling, it is selfishness to not want to lose money on gambling, but will be happy to constantly win, it's like asking every other gambler out there to funds your winnings, but you yourself is never ready to fund the winning of another gambler, dogs will always fall for each other, that is how they enjoy the play, to be happy with winnings from gambling, a gambler should first understand what a loss feels like.

There's no way we can be able to chase after losses and still meet up because we are not going to see this happens as every other gamblers could have the same reason of doing so, it's just as if we are gambling and expected that every one of us should win gambling and not loose, that is far from the truth, we should not because of what we encounter have the whole stress on ourselves to keep going after loss.

   This is right a lot of people have failed to accept that they are gamble addict, they wouldn’t want to be called that but still acting  like them. They fail to understand that to tackle a problem you have to know what kinda of problem it is. An addict will have to accept first that he his an addict before going out to seek for help.  Because one’s he start doubting in his unconscious mind he might think everything his doing is just normal to him whereas it’s something to be careful of. It’s not a shame to accept what you are and try to  look for help. You ain’t seeking for help for nobody but for yourself. Irrespective of what the people might call you or say to you. Just know that you can do better and be a better person.
   With just seeking  for the appropriate help and doing what’s right to make you a better. Focus more on yourself and try to take your mind off anything gambling the moment you realize that gambling is not the only way out the better and healthier you’d be. Responsible gambling is not a small thing to brief, it can be taken different approaches, responsible gambling is a set of guidelines and principles that promote safe and healthy gambling practices.

This is why it would really be that important that you should really be that make yourself get prepared into those conditions because gambling would really be just having two outcomes which is losing and winning. If you are really that someone who doesnt really like on losing money then gambling isnt for you. You would really be finding yourself to be that impulsive towards gambling because if you do hate up on losing money then gambling could really make you that being impulsive and on the time that you do lose your cool and control then this is where impulsive actions be made. This is why you should really be that careful on the things that you are dealing. Gamble for fun and not for money so that you wont really be finding yourself that being reactive too much whenever you do lose
up money.

It's normal to make mistakes, but if we don't learn from those mistakes, we will only experience the same mistakes. Those who can learn from these mistakes can mature their way of thinking in gambling so as not to take too big risks and only gamble according to what they can afford. If we cannot be responsible when gambling, we will lose a lot of money and may also experience a gambling addiction that is difficult to cure. As people who are familiar with gambling, we should be better than those out there so that we don't have to experience the problems that those people experience.

Well this is a type of experience that cannot be repeated, because things can be affected in our money, in our way of having our income and it is not good to Spend money on van, especially when it costs us so much to have it, in this order of Teachings we are the People who must be responsible, especially with ourselves to be able to set an example for others and even more so if we have someone in charge of us, because this is an Example of the things we have to do to Demonstrate that we are people consistent with our actions and our way of doing things, for that reason when we are in a casino, what we should not do is chase losses, the good thing About each one's experience is that when we do this, we do not get good results, They do it during the hours of the night where the priority is to rest and sleep because things tend to be more difficult, because in spite of all this it can Happen that even though you need to have more Relationships in your Mind , they don't repeat themselves, quite the opposite. This is the only thing to Avoid, because then we will only lose.

This is one of the cases where we always have to determine Our way of playing, where it has to be made clear that things like this have to be Attacked in another way, for that reason we are not doing a coulauier type of game Session , At the Moment when we lose Money and we don't want to lose any more, we have to Stop, we don't have to continue, it is best to assume that we have lost and not insist on the goal because it doesn't make sense, in another Opportunity we will play and we will be able to do better things, that It is basically that things can Manifest themselves , for the Reason that when we are in a casino the First thing we must have and Consider is that we must Always have the money ready to lose, then from there we do not have to Invent , and pay attention to our own rules so that there are no more Problems.

It is very annoying to see that one lost in straight four games, but the fact still remains that no gambler can know when he will be winning of losing, if not it wouldn't be called gambling. Another thing that lead a gambler to great loss, is when the gambler wants to be greedy when he is winning, and he will continue to keep playing feeling that he has understood the trick of winning and before you know it, the game will change to the other direction and losing comes in. What I do at that time when I ha e started losing, I do quite the game for next time.

Having a gambling time limit can also help you to cut down your loss or else you will keep on playing and before you know it, you will allow yourself to be controlled by your emotions and you will start chasing your loss, forgetting that you cannot win the house hedge.