Topic: Risks to take in marriage (Read 759 times)

If you want to experience a good marriage through out your journey, you need to have many sources of income that can finance your wife and children because women don't like to associate with poverty, which is the reason you see some women misbehaving in marriage because they will not tell you is lack of resources.

Know who you want to spend the rest of your life with, this a big risk which many people use to ignore in the process of searching for who to marry, and it will help you to discover so many things from your boyfriend or girlfriend that will make you not to go ahead in the relationship.

Some of the things she or he  know you for before she or he married you, don't change from them if you want the marriage to last long for your children to experience love and trust  from your home, keep loving your wife genuinely and peace and love will reign long in that family.

Yes, because it is not only love that always stays and continues to enjoy togetherness, but sometimes disagreements and differences in response to communication become crumbs in everyday life. Although it leads to cooling down and returning to the usual attitude, I think there is no problem too difficult if there is a take and give in advice including complementing each other when one person sulks from the impact of an information .
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Indeed, the relationship between parents and children has no trace of course until the end of life, unlike married couples who are not compatible and cause more new problems, of course the solution attitude is hugged, although divorce is not the best way out but it is an option.

But my friend 25 children is too many, that the fact is maybe 2-8 children is average in my country even less than that number.

Indeed, the true nature is seen after marriage and everyone may be the same because it focuses on finances, educating and living together in a family, different opinions are natural and I think when bored or other reasons for accepting problems, it is better to remember when you love each other for the first time, maybe it can be fixed or with self moments by taking time.

A mother of 25 is quite unrealistic. However, it is indeed the children that suffers the divorce but you may not fully understand divorce until you walk down that lane. Do you know how scary it is when the one person who you trust with your life has been playing you the whole time? I don’t think I can coexist in the same room with such person. There are other causes of divorce but don’t think it’s an easy decision because it isn’t. Co-parenting is a thing though.

I won't recommend tolerate living with someone when you feel it isn't working so divorce is the right option for the goodness of future. And definitely kids are going to be the one affected most but the couple should think about getting married only if the feel they can live together for their life, don't rush into making decisions that can't be restored.

In our lives we all have our own risks, for every risk there is also a way out of it all, there are difficulties and joys, it depends on what we want to do, in married life there are bound to be ups and downs, we take these risks and we find a way. come out by thinking clearly and being open to each other so that unwanted problems don't occur in our household, every household will have arguments, both financially and in other ways, we are very clever in finding solutions to solve the problems that occur.

Talking about single parents is very sad, who wants our parents to separate, but we also cannot force the will of those who choose the path to live alone, maybe that is the best path for them, the victims are their children, because of their lack of attention and love from both their parents, many of them are victims of incomplete households which have an effect on their own mental health, it is very sad when they find out that their parents are no longer together and on the same page, to the point that some are frustrated thinking about their parents, I hope We don't feel like that, I hope our family is all fine.

Many individuals have experienced a life without their both parents living together and a life without both parents is not easy at all, except the single parent you stay with is wealthy enough to take care of all the responsibilities, he/she buys whatever you need. Even though we live with single parents and provide whatever we need, the love of single parents will not grow the same as that person who lives with both parents. I want you to understand something leaving with one parent doesn't mean that they marry the wrong person, a lot of people leave with one parent because one of their parents has departed from this world, no matter who it is the responsibilities will be taken by the remaining parents.

I'm sorry for the pain you go through your life, leaving a life without both parents. No one is perfect in this world, let's pray we don't marry you the wrong person and end up separating our children from their parents.

Speaking from the point of view of someone that's from a broken home, I totally understand why it's important to put in all the effort to first of all get married to the right partner and along the marriage put in additional effort in ensuring that the marriage last till death separates both parties. Only those that are of a broken home from early age of there existence knows the kind of trauma that comes with it and most others that are From a polygamous setting understand the kind of battles that there parents have to leave behind for them to fight in terms of handling of properties and it gets worse when you're dealing with a bunch of delusional diabolical step siblings.

Marriage is not an easy institution and it's totally understandable that issues will spring out when two adults who are both coming from different backgrounds with different mentality and belief system decides to come together under the same rough to work together as a union. Problems are bound to occur along the way but it's better fought together than allowing it tear you guys apart. As much as I don't support leaving togeth in an abusive relationship, I don't also support divorce most especially when the parties have children who will have to face the repalcution of there attitudes.

Personality development is a continuous process from being tied to a relationship like marriage the course of which may not be smooth. Marriage is a sacred bond love can be practiced in any way. Understanding yourself about yourself your life goals and your partner is very important before deciding to get married. Deciding to get married after making decisions about emotional preparation financial security and what you want can increase your chances of a happy married life.

I have seen a lot of relationships that they're just trying to save it because of their kids. Some worked properly but many of them didn't. If you can't take it anymore and you're with a partner that you've chosen wrongly because the relationship and companionship that you've built tears and becomes weary, you should just save yourselves from the emotional being from that kind of relationship. Yes, you may still try but if it's not working out, don't push your luck for it but just be good parents to your kid/s. That's the responsibility that both of you have taken and you shouldn't miss any important gatherings and events of that fruit that will serve as your remembrance of how both of you have been before.

The risk is high but when you are able to get together again then that's nice. But as I've said, the majority of what I've seen with these kind of marriages that are already tearing apart, some solutions worked but most of them decided to just set apart and signed contracts that they'll never forget their responsibilities to their children. I know that some cultures are family oriented but in some, this is no longer a big deal as many children grew up with their step dads/moms or did had one parent but you know what folks? The love of the grandparents are the best that they can lean on and that's why many of these kids from broken marriages have found their comfort through their grandpas and grandmas.

Marriage disputes with the inability of the parents to keep their misunderstandings away from the notification of the kids is ought to have negative effects on the kids that's why environment of where kids are being brought up from matters when considering possible behaviours of the kids when they grows up.
So as much husband and wife breaking out when they've kids on the tender ages to take care of is also effective to how the kids could grow up be it could distabilize the dreams of those kids and their potentials to redeem what they're destined for could be doomed because there could be no more of those resources and and parental vibes that motivates those kids to be able to posses their possessions.

Of it all, of time factors to make things right to how those kids could grow up, the kid's could be misleaded by the experienced from their parents.

When the ijab qabul or marriage occurs, that is where the responsibility of a father (wife's father) falls to the husband, so a husband must look after his wife as best as possible like a father, at the time of marriage there are also many temptations that must be faced together, many households cannot afford it. keeping this in the end divorce occurred. Currently, the divorce rate is very high, triggered by the arrival of third parties who disrupt the household, as well as factors involving family interference. Before getting married, you should understand both of them so you don't regret it later. I hope it lasts for those who are married.

The biggest mistake that anybody can make is marrying the wrong person, the kind of spouse you have will go a long way to determine your happiness or sorrow, so it's very important to know the kinds of qualities that you want in a marriage, although it's not possible to get a perfect partner but let the person poses some important qualities that you need. I don't think that reasonable person will go into marriage with the intention of divorcing their partner, but unfortunately the rate of divorce in our societies is on the increase now, couples no longer tolerate each other's shortcomings, and very little matter that can easily be resolved will lead to divorce.

Couples with children needs to consider the innocent children that they brought into this world before considering divorce, because these will not experience the joy of being raised by loving parents. Inasmuch as I don't endorse divorce, a partner is better of alone than remaining in a toxic relationship.

Yes that is truth marriage before venturing into need deep exposure, by going for knowledge, study what it takes to handle marriage, allot happened base on the facts that many don't see it as anything but just a contract but it's beyond a contract except one will keep divorcing and marrying all the time, the knowledge about marriage can help you passed the challenges that is involved that leads to such divorce.

One of the key marrying who you love it solve allot of marriage issue because love covereth all things, the love can superceed any thing which may likely course harm in the marriage, and the knowledge guide you to handle any arising issue that would have exceeded beyond your capability.

Every decision we take has its risks, in marriage there are of course risks that we have to take, such as our selfishness in the way we think, we have to put our ego behind us, because if we put our ego first, the problems will become complicated, small things will become big , throw away your ego and give in to each other, don't both maintain your own ego.

The divorce rate is getting higher, this is because in the household no one gives in to each other, everyone puts their own egos first, and there is no longer any trust from both parties, this will make problems even more complicated, don't let it be because of their selfishness, children. The victims are children who become victims of incomplete families.

The increasingly high divorce rate is influenced by uncontrolled social media and also the influence of social media which is quite large, resulting in household commotion due to frequent communication with the opposite sex. , thus ending in divorce. When a divorce occurs the biggest victim is the child, they will bear an extraordinary burden even if it is so big that it becomes unmanageable, this is all the parents' ego. There is no family where there is never a commotion, so avoid personal contact with people who are not your wife or husband and also eliminate your sense of ego.

Marriage is not hard, when you are mature and ready to play your role as a man because women don't want to suffer in marriage, which are some of the things that is bringing issues to some marriages today, and it has led many to divorce without considering the children they have in that marriage.

Even though you have the power and your pocket is weak, don't try it, but if your pocket is well strong and you find true love, you are good to enter marriage and you will succeed at the end.

 If you can endure in marriage, you will not experience divorce from your marriage because some couples don't know that nothing last forever in marriage, once you understand that the situation will not be dear forever, you will be among the best marriage in your society.

Sometimes understanding our partners has married couple can be very difficult especially when the person is not ready to be remorseful about their problem that needed to be handled. This is why we keep seeing many divorced couples everywhere in the internet because of lack of understanding to tolerate one self. We just need to understand our partners if we want a successful relationship with any plan for divorce. Their are so many shits we'll have to face and the new couples should be aware of that.

Marriage is allowing certain circumstances to play in your life which ordinarily won't have taken place in the absence of marriage, you loss something to gain and retain peaceful home or marriage but where any of the party involved fail to loose the marriage won't work.

Lossing must be if different kind it could be financial, character most time involved psychological loss, all of this one must have get to loose one depending the one you face in order to retain peaceful home. Psychological may strickly be of pleasure loss, financial spend beyond your budget why character refer drop of behavior without this and many more marriage will always remain shaking.

Marriage is a sacred bond.  Once married, efforts should be made to preserve it forever.  Because marriage is only a relationship between two people, if they have children, they should also think about the future.  When you are married, you have to try to adapt to many things.  If you have a child, you must think about that survival before you separate.  Because life without parents is very difficult.  Many marriages are toxic.  Where it is not possible to live by adapting.  From there one must withdraw and keep the good child legally with him as guardian.