Topic: Risks to take in marriage - page 4. (Read 790 times)
This particular topic has been treated here before the many people has been giving different kind of raisins why marriage is not difficult or risk measure so it depends on everyone's understanding concerning marriage and the person quickly eat on basic understanding of marriage redefine marriage with a thunder standing but from my own way of life marriage is not risk measure in any way
There are so many things we need to bear in marriage so it is not always about the kids buy about our family and how it is going to affects the children so they will learn from us on how to live a good life even with pressures on there side. Divorcing a woman or a man is not the a good alternative to end the marriage but enduring for as long as the marriage still hold.
Marriage is a mystery,let's imagine two imperfect people came together to live as one. If there is no tolerance and sacrifice in marriage, even if you get married to the right person,the marriage might still crash when nobody wants to sacrifice for love. In my country there is a say that 'marriage is a school that you can't graduate from'.
Most marriages lack love and understanding, initially when the both parents come together,they think of sex and after that, pregnancy comes in. After giving birth to a child,the couples might begin to show their ugly character that might be unbearable by each other and before you know it,divorce is the case. It baffles me that these couples has forgotten that there is a child involved, which they don't care about that and put their own selfish desires from first. After divorce,the child ends up suffering the actions of their parent which might have a negative impact on the child.
Most marriages lack love and understanding, initially when the both parents come together,they think of sex and after that, pregnancy comes in. After giving birth to a child,the couples might begin to show their ugly character that might be unbearable by each other and before you know it,divorce is the case. It baffles me that these couples has forgotten that there is a child involved, which they don't care about that and put their own selfish desires from first. After divorce,the child ends up suffering the actions of their parent which might have a negative impact on the child.
Parents should indeed consider their children before they start nursing the idea of divorcing because it would have some negative effects on their children. But some marriages are so toxic and abusive that it would be better that both parties go their separate ways. I don't think a woman should remain in a home where she is beaten and molested.
Another problem in society now is the high rate of infidelity. Most men and women are not committed emotionally to their partners. They find satisfaction in having erotic relationships outside the marriage. Most people might not be able to cope with this abnormal behavior. Some might be scared because their partner can infect them with STDs due to their promiscuity.
Yes, it is not too good to divorce at least for the sake of the children, but you won't die because you want to keep a marriage that is killing you.
Another problem in society now is the high rate of infidelity. Most men and women are not committed emotionally to their partners. They find satisfaction in having erotic relationships outside the marriage. Most people might not be able to cope with this abnormal behavior. Some might be scared because their partner can infect them with STDs due to their promiscuity.
Yes, it is not too good to divorce at least for the sake of the children, but you won't die because you want to keep a marriage that is killing you.
Marriage is something you need to know before you get to it and you need to understand that your life will never be the same when you will marry the girl you love because when that happens, you gonna do everything to make her happy and comfortable.
The risk in marriage is getting married to the wrong person, most people nowadays get married for the wrong purpose not love, is either because of money, beauty and so on. Which it will come to a time when those things might not be what you need anymore. Marriage is a beautiful thing, one just have to choose his or her partner wisely, because marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities, one just have to be prepared all round. 
Marriage is something you need to know before you get to it and you need to understand that your life will never be the same when you will marry the girl you love because when that happens, you gonna do everything to make her happy and comfortable. You just need to consider looking for the right spouse before thinking about marriage and you need to learn what are the criteria to become the right wife for your children. Because if you marry randomly without taking any considerations to do the tips above, then you are risking your marriage and your children's future because you might marry the wrong Man or Woman who will not care about you or your children or maybe they are abusive and you only found that out when you already married.
My mother's father divorced when I was a toddler, in mother's arms.
And I was raised by step grandparents.
My memory is still sharp enough to remember that sad time.
Mother's father already has another partner as well as another child..
My life is tossing and turning without direction
Jealous of my friends and the happiness of a small child, invites the sadness back..
Father and mother, I just need your love, like my friend.
So far, I've never gotten it.
Now my father is gone forever, look at your son, father, now I am an adult and can find food for myself without your love.
Without you I can be independent, now my father has gone forever back to God's side.
But hatred for you makes me furious and I want to destroy everything around me.
And now, from the experience above, I always try to avoid divorce because it will affect the child's mentality.
And I was raised by step grandparents.
My memory is still sharp enough to remember that sad time.
Mother's father already has another partner as well as another child..
My life is tossing and turning without direction
Jealous of my friends and the happiness of a small child, invites the sadness back..
Father and mother, I just need your love, like my friend.
So far, I've never gotten it.
Now my father is gone forever, look at your son, father, now I am an adult and can find food for myself without your love.
Without you I can be independent, now my father has gone forever back to God's side.
But hatred for you makes me furious and I want to destroy everything around me.
And now, from the experience above, I always try to avoid divorce because it will affect the child's mentality.
We all want a good relationship with our spouses or soulmates too .
So what are the risks we should take
1 _when a marriage is about falling ,think about the kids and how divorce will make things wrong and difficult for them
I have grown up as a young girl and has never leaved with both parents till last year when I started living with my dad ,don't you think I might have gone through alot ?? Without both parents by my side ,
If you wanna give your kids the best in life you have to endure certain attitude Ms from both ur wife/husband ,when a home is seperated only one parent can't be able to take care of all the kids even if there is supplus money and second wife or husband ,when a single mother is set to take care of all the kids because she cought her husband cheating or what have you , she leaves ,she can't be fanacially stable to take care of all ,what if na 25 kids what's gonna happen?? The kids will start sleeping outside to care for them own selves ,how can a mother of 25 take such abilities all to her self
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So what are the risks we should take
1 _when a marriage is about falling ,think about the kids and how divorce will make things wrong and difficult for them
I have grown up as a young girl and has never leaved with both parents till last year when I started living with my dad ,don't you think I might have gone through alot ?? Without both parents by my side ,
If you wanna give your kids the best in life you have to endure certain attitude Ms from both ur wife/husband ,when a home is seperated only one parent can't be able to take care of all the kids even if there is supplus money and second wife or husband ,when a single mother is set to take care of all the kids because she cought her husband cheating or what have you , she leaves ,she can't be fanacially stable to take care of all ,what if na 25 kids what's gonna happen?? The kids will start sleeping outside to care for them own selves ,how can a mother of 25 take such abilities all to her self
More to talk about ,let's talk
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