There are times when a gambler is in a difficult position, it is when the desire to gamble is so strong but there is no money can be used to fulfill the desire. At times like this, the tendency to do bad things happen. For example, use the money that should be used for other more important things. If a gambler has done something like this, shame will surely come up.
I think only the people having a big heart and patience should play gambling and the people who don’t have both of these characteristics in them, they probably should stay out of this gambling business because gambling leads you to very sad ends at the end of the day when you come back home after gambling. Also, when the people become addict to it and have no money for it, they simply want to suicide. 
Topic: Shyness in gambling - page 10. (Read 3519 times)
I actually did feel shy when I first gamble when I was legal to gamble, I have no experience or anything I just went there at first and feel shy to play that's because I'm afraid that someone will look at how I play and judge me that when I started and gain some confidence, I just don't care what other people think and just have fun playing and winning. This is really common if you are a newbie who doesn't know what to do. There is nothing to be shy and admitting it, what it matters is that you overcome it and just play and have fun. 
I don’t understand what you mean by when I was legal. How the person becomes legal for gambling. Are there some special requirements by the state that you would have to fill and after filling them, you would be legal to gamble? I don’t think there is anything to feel shy about when you go to casino for the first time to play gambling. If you feel shy then it’s better for you to leave gambling. 
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.
Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
I think i never felt being shy in gambling i only feel pressured while playing and sitting in tables. Even you are just a newbie in playing gambling you won't need to be shy to play and join tables because you won't be able to play and there are players who are kind to their opponents, so just get a long with them and play. Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.
Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
No. I have never been shy in gambling because how would you supposed to play if you are shy to sit in tables. You better pushed yourself to.play because you really can't play if you are shy, all you will do is watch them play. It is not normal to be shy when you are playing gambling feeling pressured is normal while playing. Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
No. I've never felt being shy in gambling but i feel pressure while i am playing gambling and it is normal. Unlike being shy it is not normal in gambling because if you are shy you will never enjoy the game, remember just enjoy the game and no one would be mad to you if you sit in tables as long you will bet or a player.
This is what the gamblers are forgetting now, they forget to enjoy the game as everyone is chasing the profits and losses. The shyness only comes if someone witnessed my losses and that's humiliating when someone actually sees your bad moments in gambling.Maybe because of being newbie in physical casinos that's why you have a shyness in gambling. I am also shy especially if there are a lot of people watching you when you play especially when they look at you because you are new to that place. I think it is normal with casinos but eventually your shyness will gone after all.
I think it is more to nervous instead shy when people around you watching the game .But if you really do then it might because shyness to meet new people , things can go wrong if you talk to someone etc.
try to do a small talk and you will think that socialize won't make you feel that way anymore.
A common scenario for all the newbies in casinos. I personally experienced this thing, I feel like an ignorant guy who just go to casino to make some mess but yeah they actually don't care as long as you have the money to play then they will seat with you. Also some gamblers saw this as an opportunity to fool you and have some money, I encounter this thing before. Well if you are a shy type person, online gambling is way better for you.
I agree with you and i guess it really happens to all newbies. I think it is supposed to be clled as shyness in gambling but instead being ignorant as you what you have said. Because gambling in casinos is a like more different than playing gambling inside your house or your friend’s house. In casino have different rules and different people you will encounter in the table until later on we will get used to it.
I think one of the basic ethics of a good gambler is his confidence and so if you are shy then you have no business venturing into gambling in the first place. I am tempted to believe that many of the people who feel shy at gambling are the ones that are not ready and resolved but for the sake of what they stand to get they enter into gambling.
No. I've never felt being shy in gambling but i feel pressure while i am playing gambling and it is normal. Unlike being shy it is not normal in gambling because if you are shy you will never enjoy the game, remember just enjoy the game and no one would be mad to you if you sit in tables as long you will bet or a player.
This is what the gamblers are forgetting now, they forget to enjoy the game as everyone is chasing the profits and losses. The shyness only comes if someone witnessed my losses and that's humiliating when someone actually sees your bad moments in gambling.No. I've never felt being shy in gambling but i feel pressure while i am playing gambling and it is normal. Unlike being shy it is not normal in gambling because if you are shy you will never enjoy the game, remember just enjoy the game and no one would be mad to you if you sit in tables as long you will bet or a player.
This is what the gamblers are forgetting now, they forget to enjoy the game as everyone is chasing the profits and losses. The shyness only comes if someone witnessed my losses and that's humiliating when someone actually sees your bad moments in gambling.We may make use of shyness to come out of gambling. Because we just need some reason to come out of gambling which is similar to most gamblers are needing some reason to continue it. If the reason is good enough (it will be more effective when it is linked with personal things like shyness) then we can easily quit it.
A common scenario for all the newbies in casinos. I personally experienced this thing, I feel like an ignorant guy who just go to casino to make some mess but yeah they actually don't care as long as you have the money to play then they will seat with you. Also some gamblers saw this as an opportunity to fool you and have some money, I encounter this thing before. Well if you are a shy type person, online gambling is way better for you.
I agree with you and i guess it really happens to all newbies. I think it is supposed to be clled as shyness in gambling but instead being ignorant as you what you have said. Because gambling in casinos is a like more different than playing gambling inside your house or your friend’s house. In casino have different rules and different people you will encounter in the table until later on we will get used to it.
I think one of the basic ethics of a good gambler is his confidence and so if you are shy then you have no business venturing into gambling in the first place. I am tempted to believe that many of the people who feel shy at gambling are the ones that are not ready and resolved but for the sake of what they stand to get they enter into gambling.
A common scenario for all the newbies in casinos. I personally experienced this thing, I feel like an ignorant guy who just go to casino to make some mess but yeah they actually don't care as long as you have the money to play then they will seat with you. Also some gamblers saw this as an opportunity to fool you and have some money, I encounter this thing before. Well if you are a shy type person, online gambling is way better for you.
I agree with you and i guess it really happens to all newbies. I think it is supposed to be clled as shyness in gambling but instead being ignorant as you what you have said. Because gambling in casinos is a like more different than playing gambling inside your house or your friend’s house. In casino have different rules and different people you will encounter in the table until later on we will get used to it.
Yes, I had personally experienced this. In fact, all the gamblers out there must have experienced this when it was their first time. I can relate myself to the scene you described here and that is a common scenario for all the newbies. But yes, no one really cares. They all are busy in their own planning and playing games. They will also welcome you if you have pocket full of money.
Yeah the first entry is full of shyness because gambling is a bad thing and when you want to start any bad thing you will want to hide yourself from other people and this is shyness. New gambler tries to have a seat far in a corner and tries his luck. But shyness and gambling are two opposite things and shyer person never play with confidence and clear mind. Yes and I think it is perfectly normal. I felt the same once in a sushi restaurant when the cook would prepare the sushi for me in front of me. I just had to order the fish, the kind of a roll or sushi or whatever kind I wanted. I didn't know all the japanese names involved and I felt really shy and I just ordered what the other guy did. Really. We humans work that way...
That is what always happening during the first time we are trying something, we are shy, afraid of making things messed up, but we have to know that it is just normal, we are not going to learn if we are not going to commit mistakes in our life, the failure that we are having are the ones that will makes us more stronger. The first time that I have tried gambling was not that bad at all, I've tried it online so that nobody will know about it.
However I quit playing gambling after I tried it a few times because I've realized that it is not good for me, earning money is so hard but losing it on gambling is so fucking easy.
Yes and I think it is perfectly normal. I felt the same once in a sushi restaurant when the cook would prepare the sushi for me in front of me. I just had to order the fish, the kind of a roll or sushi or whatever kind I wanted. I didn't know all the japanese names involved and I felt really shy and I just ordered what the other guy did. Really. We humans work that way...
if casino crowd is there real problem or being watched out, internet is the answer. Gambling sites have been created for such reasons.
Online gambling sites are here for many purposes at the same time we must need to understand the dangers of using online gambling sites. If you are feeling shy while gambling in front of more people then you will avoid gambling over time. This will reduce the chances of bad consequences of gambling. When you are gambling within your home and at any time you prefer, you will get addicted to gambling more quickly.I mean to say feeling shy in casino must be a good thing and we should not find a solution for it. We must enjoy being a hero by watching out but thousands of people and it will help to get rid of our gambling thrust.
Yes, I had personally experienced this. In fact, all the gamblers out there must have experienced this when it was their first time. I can relate myself to the scene you described here and that is a common scenario for all the newbies. But yes, no one really cares. They all are busy in their own planning and playing games. They will also welcome you if you have pocket full of money.
I understand there may just be that feeling you will always have when you are entering a place for the first time since you really do not have friends around, you have not mixed around to know how things are done, so there could still be some element of being a bit shy but not because you are being perceived as a gambler like some people have portrayed while reading through the thread.Being shy however, depends on each individual's personality, as some people who are extroverts always find it easy to mix in new places compared to introverts.
Besides, if casino crowd is there real problem or being watched out, internet is the answer. Gambling sites have been created for such reasons.
the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.
It’s all in their mindset, some people believe that gambling is bad so they don’t want to be seen gambling by other people that’s why they are shy whenever they are entering a gambling establishment.
There are times when a gambler is in a difficult position, it is when the desire to gamble is so strong but there is no money can be used to fulfill the desire. At times like this, the tendency to do bad things happen. For example, use the money that should be used for other more important things. If a gambler has done something like this, shame will surely come up.
the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.
I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.
Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.
That is a given since it is your first time and I also think that it is a good thing not because you are shy but because you are being aware of what you are doing. Being afraid or shy has it own positive effect to people and I think it is a good thing that can help people in the long run. It might be a good thing for us since we are being shy to our opponents, we might consider to stop gambling.
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.
Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
In my opinion we should go with every type of the work in this field because every field have his own experience to work has to be done .Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
First time before I was ever made gambling was really big for me , I started my first gambling at nitrogensports site where I am definitely 3 win back to back in cricket game bet and I realised that I can make any amount of earnings in this field and Never feels that I will face any type of the loss and also I become more stronger with my earnings in this field instead to get shy that I am playing game of gambling .
Well it is a type of addiction and a part of fun if we can give limit to us .
Otherwise it will steal all of your Money step by step all .
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