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certainly there, because this human nature that we often encounter especially in the world of gambling. because that often causes the shame when we lose the gamble continuously

When it is first time, I think the people become more confused and stressed rather than becoming shy because shying for the thing that you are new to something shows immaturity of one. It shows his immaturity because he is unable to deal with the circumstances that’s why he is shying. When people play any other game, they don’t feel shy but in case of gambling, they start shying.

Yeah! I also think the same because shying just because you are doing something for the first time doesn’t make the sense. If this is true tell me that If you will go to bigger restaurant to eat, you will start shying just because you have ever been to a place like that to eat before. The answer is ‘No’ because you have to go there and eat simply and there is nothing for which you have to shy for.

Yeah! It’s true that only those people shy in everything who have no confidence in themselves. They load things in their brains and never take any situation easy which completely makes them uncomfortable and they start shying. Regular gamblers have much more experience than the newbies that’s why they never feel shy in gambling and this thing makes them more confident.

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Probably this feeling of shyness is only possible if you don't have confidence in yourself and possibly if its your first time having to gamble in such an environment which is only normal, once you become a regular this feeling fades away and everyone will mind there business.

This happens. We all may know some of gamblers who have successfully wasted their entire life in gambling. And here on this forum too, all those gamblers who were called as expert ones in their entire tenure of gambling, they are themselves advising everyone to go away from this gambling. Because they come to know later that this is weirdest form of wasting your money.

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Quote from: futile-resistance on May 21, 2018, 02:53:46 AM

Probably this feeling of shyness is only possible if you don't have confidence in yourself and possibly if its your first time having to gamble in such an environment which is only normal, once you become a regular this feeling fades away and everyone will mind there business.

I think not just confidence that sometimes make us feel of shyness because if we are in the first time to play gambling, no matter in real casino or in gambling site, we are shy to admited that we are playing gambling to other people. and like you said, if we are playing gambling in every day, then the feeling of shyness will be gone.

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the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.

I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.

Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.

So you better know the badness of gambling. Losing money and self-esteem means to destroy yourself and when you destroy yourself definitely your family will automatically destroy. Before the end comes quit gambling today and start any online or offline business. It will be better for survival and you will be respectful in your community and in your family as well.

Besides gambling and betting, there are so many other good sources of earning and good sources of entertainment as well. Why everyone is just getting in there to attain these things. We need to work out for this that must be done as soon as possible because we are heading towards destruction. We demerit our lives and our living standards that mustn’t be done.

Gambling is not at all an easy thing to do and that you need to polish yourself in so many ways to become a good gambler. You need to throw away all your fears which you have behind your mind and that you need to be all in while gambling as this is the only possible way you can make something good or can even expect to have something better while being there in the world of the gambling.

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Quote from: emberbekas on May 23, 2018, 07:08:12 AM

Probably this feeling of shyness is only possible if you don't have confidence in yourself and possibly if its your first time having to gamble in such an environment which is only normal, once you become a regular this feeling fades away and everyone will mind there business.

As a newbie, the shyness is very common to occur and it is happened at almost every activity not just in gambling places. Soon or later when we become familiar with the environment, the shyness will be gone by itself.

Can you highlight me some of the factors for which the gambler should feel shy about just because he is a newbie? I bet you can’t highlight any of them. I personally think that being a newbie in gambling doesn’t lead you to shyness; the thing which really leads you to shyness is the no self-confidence. Self-confidence is the only thing that can save you from shyness in gambling and nothing else.

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Probably this feeling of shyness is only possible if you don't have confidence in yourself and possibly if its your first time having to gamble in such an environment which is only normal, once you become a regular this feeling fades away and everyone will mind there business.

Or this is also a possibility that they may overcome this guilt feel with time. Definitely, second time is never like the first one as a person has already experienced the problems and come up with a solution to them. In reality, this is what happens most of the times. All the alarming feelings go away and a person gets used to new act. More than greed, it is there lazy nature and unwillingness to go for the long way that make them to gamble.

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Probably this feeling of shyness is only possible if you don't have confidence in yourself and possibly if its your first time having to gamble in such an environment which is only normal, once you become a regular this feeling fades away and everyone will mind there business.

As a newbie, the shyness is very common to occur and it is happened at almost every activity not just in gambling places. Soon or later when we become familiar with the environment, the shyness will be gone by itself.

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Quote from: yvesp110 on May 18, 2018, 03:02:28 PM

certainly there, because this human nature that we often encounter especially in the world of gambling. because that often causes the shame when we lose the gamble continuously

When it is first time, I think the people become more confused and stressed rather than becoming shy because shying for the thing that you are new to something shows immaturity of one. It shows his immaturity because he is unable to deal with the circumstances that’s why he is shying. When people play any other game, they don’t feel shy but in case of gambling, they start shying.

Yeah! I also think the same because shying just because you are doing something for the first time doesn’t make the sense. If this is true tell me that If you will go to bigger restaurant to eat, you will start shying just because you have ever been to a place like that to eat before. The answer is ‘No’ because you have to go there and eat simply and there is nothing for which you have to shy for.

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Probably this feeling of shyness is only possible if you don't have confidence in yourself and possibly if its your first time having to gamble in such an environment which is only normal, once you become a regular this feeling fades away and everyone will mind there business.

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Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

No. I've never felt being shy in gambling but i feel pressure while i am playing gambling and it is normal. Unlike being shy it is not normal in gambling because if you are shy you will never enjoy the game, remember just enjoy the game and no one would be mad to you if you sit in tables as long you will bet or a player.

It seems you may be an experienced gambler who is wasting his money for long and long times. But when newbies are there in the casino, they shy. They shy because they are new at some place with different people. And if the people on their tables are quite old and experienced then the feeling of being new gets compounded with inferiority complex as well and ends up in high level shyness.

This is one thing that I totally dislike about gambling. Even the person becomes an experienced gambler; even then he has to lose games in gambling and sometimes in front of the gamblers who are totally new to gambling. That makes the gambler to waste his time and money even then they are willing to play even when they know there are no sure profitable outcomes of this.

Rather I believe these gamblers must have a sense of guilt in them. They must come to know later or sooner that they are doing wrong. May that feelings comes so soon but still things are not that much good? We have to see the other side of picture as well. These gamblers actually know that they are doing wrong and they shouldn’t be doing this but greed makes them so blind that they can’t see anything.

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the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.

I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.

Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.

I think if it is our first time to bet in a real casino then its normal to feel ashamed setting on the table, like me when I first to play real tong-its, I feel shy from my opponents and watchers thinking that they have bad comments about my play strategy.

In my opinion to avoid shame and shyness in real casinos you should quit gambling. It is bad experience to lose money and there are many people sitting on a table looking at you and you lose. Definitely you will feel shyness. Shyness is good because you may feel that gambling is bad thing and I should quit it as soon as possible to avoid shame and shyness.

There is nothing which can help you in getting over that shyness. It is you who need to work over and that you need to groom yourself in a way that you can do anything which you want to do in your life and that too without any kind of hesitation or anything like that. You need to be strong enough that you can make some bold decisions so that you can then hope for a better living.

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certainly there, because this human nature that we often encounter especially in the world of gambling. because that often causes the shame when we lose the gamble continuously

When it is first time, I think the people become more confused and stressed rather than becoming shy because shying for the thing that you are new to something shows immaturity of one. It shows his immaturity because he is unable to deal with the circumstances that’s why he is shying. When people play any other game, they don’t feel shy but in case of gambling, they start shying.

I don't think directly i can say shy but somewhat afraid about whether he is going to lose the money, of course, a person has different views about the gambling but most of the people feel shy to gamble. Gambling is different kind of things where everyone considers negative about it.

Yes, it is like being afraid to be find out by our family or even love onws that we are playing gambling. Others play it online because they don't want to expose themselves to the public, they just want to keep it a secret. I found it a very shameful thing, why, because if you wanted to do something be brave enough to let others know about it.

They are probably ashamed of their selves because growing up they are taught that gambling is a bad thing and is up to no good. But for me there is nothing wrong being a gambler as long as there is a limitation and you do not do something stupid to get money to sustain your habit.

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certainly there, because this human nature that we often encounter especially in the world of gambling. because that often causes the shame when we lose the gamble continuously

When it is first time, I think the people become more confused and stressed rather than becoming shy because shying for the thing that you are new to something shows immaturity of one. It shows his immaturity because he is unable to deal with the circumstances that’s why he is shying. When people play any other game, they don’t feel shy but in case of gambling, they start shying.

I don't think directly i can say shy but somewhat afraid about whether he is going to lose the money, of course, a person has different views about the gambling but most of the people feel shy to gamble. Gambling is different kind of things where everyone considers negative about it.

Yes, it is like being afraid to be find out by our family or even love onws that we are playing gambling. Others play it online because they don't want to expose themselves to the public, they just want to keep it a secret. I found it a very shameful thing, why, because if you wanted to do something be brave enough to let others know about it.

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Quote from: futile-resistance on May 21, 2018, 02:53:46 AM

certainly there, because this human nature that we often encounter especially in the world of gambling. because that often causes the shame when we lose the gamble continuously

When it is first time, I think the people become more confused and stressed rather than becoming shy because shying for the thing that you are new to something shows immaturity of one. It shows his immaturity because he is unable to deal with the circumstances that’s why he is shying. When people play any other game, they don’t feel shy but in case of gambling, they start shying.

I don't think directly i can say shy but somewhat afraid about whether he is going to lose the money, of course, a person has different views about the gambling but most of the people feel shy to gamble. Gambling is different kind of things where everyone considers negative about it.

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the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.

I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.

Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.

So you better know the badness of gambling. Losing money and self-esteem means to destroy yourself and when you destroy yourself definitely your family will automatically destroy. Before the end comes quit gambling today and start any online or offline business. It will be better for survival and you will be respectful in your community and in your family as well.

Besides gambling and betting, there are so many other good sources of earning and good sources of entertainment as well. Why everyone is just getting in there to attain these things. We need to work out for this that must be done as soon as possible because we are heading towards destruction. We demerit our lives and our living standards that mustn’t be done.

I don't agree with you. Everything, but literally everything when done in proper measure is good for people. Even alcohol (when drunk as they do it in France, a glass of red wine to wash down your dinner), cigarettes (if you smoke one or two cigarettes a month or a week in a good company, or a cigar after your child is born), gambling (if you do it sparingly in a good company to nicely pass some time), everything!

And obviously, everything in excess is bad, that is true too.

"heading towards destructions" is something I can hear a lot lately, and it never happens.

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Quote from: gowobonyok on May 10, 2018, 09:44:28 AM

the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.

I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.

Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.

So you better know the badness of gambling. Losing money and self-esteem means to destroy yourself and when you destroy yourself definitely your family will automatically destroy. Before the end comes quit gambling today and start any online or offline business. It will be better for survival and you will be respectful in your community and in your family as well.

Besides gambling and betting, there are so many other good sources of earning and good sources of entertainment as well. Why everyone is just getting in there to attain these things. We need to work out for this that must be done as soon as possible because we are heading towards destruction. We demerit our lives and our living standards that mustn’t be done.

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certainly there, because this human nature that we often encounter especially in the world of gambling. because that often causes the shame when we lose the gamble continuously

When it is first time, I think the people become more confused and stressed rather than becoming shy because shying for the thing that you are new to something shows immaturity of one. It shows his immaturity because he is unable to deal with the circumstances that’s why he is shying. When people play any other game, they don’t feel shy but in case of gambling, they start shying.

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