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July 03, 2018, 03:35:50 AM
When you're playing with someone's money you need to feel shy about it. Gambling is a way to show yourself a risk taker, here you afford what you can loss. It can be of fun or for profiting, unless you make money without disturbance to the one next to you nothing to shy.
Yes it is our money so we no need to care about anyone for what we like to do but in many ways the gambling is considered as not fair thing to do like based on religion and relatives ir family members.But for me if I like to do something I will do that with no shyness like being a gambler too.
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July 02, 2018, 07:16:39 PM
If you ever cross some professional known Player then yes you will probabily end up being shy and all that.
But overall i dont think you should be, since you're all in the same "room" for the same purpose.
You will not be the only noob playing there Wink
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July 02, 2018, 06:52:59 PM
When you're playing with someone's money you need to feel shy about it. Gambling is a way to show yourself a risk taker, here you afford what you can loss. It can be of fun or for profiting, unless you make money without disturbance to the one next to you nothing to shy.

You are not shy to borrow someone's else money just to play, so I don't know how you are going to feel shy about it Lol. And I don't think that gambling is a way to show others that you are a risk taker away, I haven't seen gamblers playing just to show off may except for poker because its you against other players.

But going to a casino for the first time is different, you will feel a bit shy but if you get used to it, I'm sure that in just a matter of hours that shyness will be gone and you will enjoy yourself having touch a casino and you will be addicted to it, that's for sure.
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July 02, 2018, 04:52:12 PM
When you're playing with someone's money you need to feel shy about it. Gambling is a way to show yourself a risk taker, here you afford what you can loss. It can be of fun or for profiting, unless you make money without disturbance to the one next to you nothing to shy.

I think the shyness in gambling emanated from the stigma that is attached to gambling and so unimformed majority of people have already condemned gambling in their hearts so should they find a gambler they perceive him as wayward person without plans for a better life and so socially it will be a problem for many of us and that's why many often feel shy to be seen gambling especially in public places.
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July 02, 2018, 04:35:21 PM
When you're playing with someone's money you need to feel shy about it. Gambling is a way to show yourself a risk taker, here you afford what you can loss. It can be of fun or for profiting, unless you make money without disturbance to the one next to you nothing to shy.
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July 02, 2018, 03:36:56 PM
If you get shy when gambling. Find you a great online casino in which you do not have to interact with anybody. And you can play anytime anywhere with Bitcoin
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June 06, 2018, 05:50:42 AM
When i came in casino for the first time? Yes. Im sure a lot of here experienced it that too. It makes me feel more deeper to think that i have this certain amount of money in me and all the people there have millions and shy enough to join them. Now im just sitting there playing, minding my own business.
Not everyone can be a millionaire in this world so we don't have to being shy for how much money we have,but the crypto gambling overcome these kind of problems we ca play anonymously even with few bucks and try our luck to be a millionaire. Cheesy But playing among the real millionaires is an real excitement and if we win against them it will give some extreme pleasure. Cool
We mustn’t shy in the world where everyone is earning money from some respectable source and no one is ruining their lives for this purpose. But we must shy in bad aspect when someone is going to casino either it is online or traditional and think of earning money from there. This man should know the reality before he invest everything he had with him. We have to awake up.
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June 05, 2018, 01:33:00 PM
When i came in casino for the first time? Yes. Im sure a lot of here experienced it that too. It makes me feel more deeper to think that i have this certain amount of money in me and all the people there have millions and shy enough to join them. Now im just sitting there playing, minding my own business.
Not everyone can be a millionaire in this world so we don't have to being shy for how much money we have,but the crypto gambling overcome these kind of problems we ca play anonymously even with few bucks and try our luck to be a millionaire. Cheesy But playing among the real millionaires is an real excitement and if we win against them it will give some extreme pleasure. Cool
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June 04, 2018, 06:55:15 AM
When i came in casino for the first time? Yes. Im sure a lot of here experienced it that too. It makes me feel more deeper to think that i have this certain amount of money in me and all the people there have millions and shy enough to join them. Now im just sitting there playing, minding my own business.
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June 04, 2018, 02:46:40 AM
certainly there, because this human nature that we often encounter especially in the world of gambling. because that often causes the shame when we lose the gamble continuously
When it is first time, I think the people become more confused and stressed rather than becoming shy because shying for the thing that you are new to something shows immaturity of one. It shows his immaturity because he is unable to deal with the circumstances that’s why he is shying. When people play any other game, they don’t feel shy but in case of gambling, they start shying.

I don't think directly i can say shy but somewhat afraid about whether he is going to lose the money, of course, a person has different views about the gambling but most of the people feel shy to gamble. Gambling is different kind of things where everyone considers negative about it.

Yes, it is like being afraid to be find out by our family or even love onws that we are playing gambling. Others play it online because they don't want to expose themselves to the public, they just want to keep it a secret. I found it a very shameful thing, why, because if you wanted to do something be brave enough to let others know about it.
They are probably ashamed of their selves because growing up they are taught that gambling is a bad thing and is up to no good. But for me there is nothing wrong being a gambler as long as there is a limitation and you do not do something stupid to get money to sustain your habit.
New gamblers feel shyness in regular casinos when they visit for the first time and set on a gambling table. He thinks what other people will think about him that he is also a gambler and all this because gambling is not good and most people do not like gamblers as well. Gambling for the first time is very difficult and shyness is I think very natural.
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June 03, 2018, 11:31:06 PM
Instead of feeling bad for yourself, you should be happy that you cannot waste a lot of hard earned money in gambling. As a gambler, it is not possible that you don’t have any idea regarding true nature of this game. All it brings is pain. Losing small amount means small suffering. How about giving up on this game and spending time on something that can make you rich like these casino guys.

Agree with you. Most of the people just complain about the money they lost in gambling. But in my opinion, the time lost in those activities is even more important. One realizes this with time when he really gets engaged in some real business or job and compares the returns for same amount of time spent.
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June 03, 2018, 10:41:31 PM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

I've been to casino but I do not play , yeah I felt a little bit shy because I am not used to go and gamble.  Me and my friends were looking for what kind of game we gonna gamble but since I am not familiar with all the games and I am not comfortable at that time I  just watched them playing and after an hour we all go out.
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May 30, 2018, 05:57:25 AM
Yes, I do. Casino are always flocked by rich people like businessmen and I don't have that much money to be considered as one of them so it's normal to feel shy to play because you feel you don't belong on these kinds of people.
Instead of feeling bad for yourself, you should be happy that you cannot waste a lot of hard earned money in gambling. As a gambler, it is not possible that you don’t have any idea regarding true nature of this game. All it brings is pain. Losing small amount means small suffering. How about giving up on this game and spending time on something that can make you rich like these casino guys.
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May 29, 2018, 02:26:51 AM
the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.

I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.

Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.
I think if it is our first time to bet in a real casino then its normal to feel ashamed setting on the table, like me when I first to play real tong-its, I feel shy from my opponents and watchers thinking that they have bad comments about my play strategy.
In my opinion to avoid shame and shyness in real casinos you should quit gambling. It is bad experience to lose money and there are many people sitting on a table looking at you and you lose. Definitely you will feel shyness. Shyness is good because you may feel that gambling is bad thing and I should quit it as soon as possible to avoid shame and shyness.

There is nothing which can help you in getting over that shyness. It is you who need to work over and that you need to groom yourself in a way that you can do anything which you want to do in your life and that too without any kind of hesitation or anything like that. You need to be strong enough that you can make some bold decisions so that you can then hope for a better living.
It is good that one shy while gambling because by this way he may not become addict of gambling and thus he can spend happy and respectful life. I will think hundred times before entering in casino because of the fear of other people thoughts about myself and this is very difficult to close your eyes and think that there is nobody looking at me while sitting on a gambler table.
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May 29, 2018, 02:12:08 AM
Yes, I do. Casino are always flocked by rich people like businessmen and I don't have that much money to be considered as one of them so it's normal to feel shy to play because you feel you don't belong on these kinds of people.

We are on the same boat because i myself is also shy whenever i play gambling outside or in the casinos , not just because i am  not  wealthy as them but because i am born as a shy person. When i was still a kid i am always get shy whenever or whatever i do, i dont know why did that happen but my shyness is still on me even though i am not a kid anymore.

That is why i have quited gambling outside or on public , yet i am still playing gambling online inside on our own home because that makes me feel more confident and stress free. I am always thankful that online gambling are built and i guess their main purpose is to serve shy people like me.
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May 29, 2018, 01:14:20 AM
the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.

I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.

Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.
So you better know the badness of gambling. Losing money and self-esteem means to destroy yourself and when you destroy yourself definitely your family will automatically destroy. Before the end comes quit gambling today and start any online or offline business. It will be better for survival and you will be respectful in your community and in your family as well.
Besides gambling and betting, there are so many other good sources of earning and good sources of entertainment as well. Why everyone is just getting in there to attain these things. We need to work out for this that must be done as soon as possible because we are heading towards destruction. We demerit our lives and our living standards that mustn’t be done.
Gambling is not at all an easy thing to do and that you need to polish yourself in so many ways to become a good gambler. You need to throw away all your fears which you have behind your mind and that you need to be all in while gambling as this is the only possible way you can make something good or can even expect to have something better while being there in the world of the gambling.
I believe there is nothing like a good gambler or a bad gambler, every gambler is a bad gambler and no doubt should be there in it anymore. Reason is, a person who knows very well that he is losing his money and he would be losing whenever he will play even after so many year of experience, and still he is not convinced to quit that game. Can we assume anything better from him?
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May 28, 2018, 02:53:20 AM
Probably this feeling of shyness is only possible if you don't have confidence in yourself and possibly if its your first time having to gamble in such an environment which is only normal, once you become a regular this feeling fades away and everyone will mind there business.

As a newbie, the shyness is very common to occur and it is happened at almost every activity not just in gambling places. Soon or later when we become familiar with the environment, the shyness will be gone by itself.
And it is biter to get affected by this shyness in gambling game so that a person wont hang around here for a long time because the longer a player stays here, the larger his loss is going to be. If someone really feel uneasy with the environment or nature of this game, he should make himself comfortable by not playing it at all. This is for his own safety and betterment. I believe, gambling is what we are obliged to avoid for whole life.
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May 27, 2018, 01:24:08 AM
Yes, I do. Casino are always flocked by rich people like businessmen and I don't have that much money to be considered as one of them so it's normal to feel shy to play because you feel you don't belong on these kinds of people.
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May 27, 2018, 12:49:55 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

I have never tried to play in casinoes, but I think I would also feel shy because I have no idea how to play in casino. I only do casual gambling, and would like to play in a casino someday. But, I am afraid that I might get addicted to it.

I used to go to the casino but never tried to play because I was initially embarrassed and secondly I did not know what I was going to play. And when you're in a new place most of which will become our feelings, be embarrassed or embarrassed especially when you're not used to playing at the casino and you feel intimidated with the people around you
I think That’s the limiting thing to a person doesn’t play any casino games. Probably there is a day that have experienced in their life that they would feel embarrassed and would be scared to do something knowing that they could mess up.
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May 26, 2018, 11:25:57 PM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

I have never tried to play in casinoes, but I think I would also feel shy because I have no idea how to play in casino. I only do casual gambling, and would like to play in a casino someday. But, I am afraid that I might get addicted to it.

I used to go to the casino but never tried to play because I was initially embarrassed and secondly I did not know what I was going to play. And when you're in a new place most of which will become our feelings, be embarrassed or embarrassed especially when you're not used to playing at the casino and you feel intimidated with the people around you
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