Social experiments in the world of gambling - page 7.

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Quote from: Janation on December 14, 2019, 06:57:38 AM

I always say that it should set as a lesson to him.

I don't encourage people to gamble since my parents raised me to be that kind of person. If someone asks for a suggestion about what should they do after suffering from a big loss I would just tell them that don't ever gamble again. They can't accept their loss despite knowing that they have a higher probability of not winning and they can't afford to lose in it so better keep their distance on gambling. They should take responsibility for it since it is their decision.

I have compassion for those gamblers that are in that situation and they didn't control their severe addiction and goes up to the point that they've lost everything. But that little help which they think is too little for us will be granted but they've never thought of it before continuing.

They should've asked themselves first if the people are willing to help if ever they'll be on a huge loss or if there will be a stranger that's going to lend them a hand after the decision they've made that turned out to be a failure.

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Quote from: Janation on December 14, 2019, 06:57:38 AM

I always say that it should set as a lesson to him.

I don't encourage people to gamble since my parents raised me to be that kind of person. If someone asks for a suggestion about what should they do after suffering from a big loss I would just tell them that don't ever gamble again. They can't accept their loss despite knowing that they have a higher probability of not winning and they can't afford to lose in it so better keep their distance on gambling. They should take responsibility for it since it is their decision.

These people are usually the ones who are afraid of working hard and want to make money in short time. I personally feel that media influences young people a lot in this regard. There are a lot of movies that show protagonist as poor who then becomes a successful gambler with a lot of wealth. But that does not happen to be case in real gambling. We shall stop our friends and family from getting involved into this sin even if they are doing it for fun.

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I always say that it should set as a lesson to him.

I don't encourage people to gamble since my parents raised me to be that kind of person. If someone asks for a suggestion about what should they do after suffering from a big loss I would just tell them that don't ever gamble again. They can't accept their loss despite knowing that they have a higher probability of not winning and they can't afford to lose in it so better keep their distance on gambling. They should take responsibility for it since it is their decision.

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Quote from: Shamerkhan on November 18, 2019, 05:01:14 PM

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I have experienced this to one of my friends and I turned him down because you don't lose everything in gambling because you have mouths to feed and gambling should only be for fun only and not to empty your wallet, it's a big disgrace losing and asking for a loan.

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I will not give anything when he is still in a high emotional level, even in such conditions any advice will not be too influential. If the attitude and thoughts have returned to normal, then if he wants to borrow capital again must go through a mutually agreed mechanism, all agreements must continue to use common sense because gambling has a high risk.

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Quote from: Shamerkhan on November 18, 2019, 05:01:14 PM

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I'll definitely not give help, he should have thought first before betting all his money that he will need money for his needs, this kind of gamblers are reckless drivers who never give a second thought if what will happen to him if he loses, no wonder they always end up taking a loan from a loan shark

These loan sharks are dreadful and horrible. They go to any extends in order to get back their money within limited time span. The biggest mistake gamblers commit which leads to bankruptcy is taking loan for betting. People show no mercy to gamblers because as per them, gambler is and was responsible for all his actions and shall have thought about consequences beforehand. Nobody likes helping them.

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Quote from: Shamerkhan on November 18, 2019, 05:01:14 PM

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What kind of help does he want from here? Financial or some advice? Well, he cannot get money from here, it he is lost then he must manage what he has done from playing gambling, we don't need to take responsibility for his loss. Maybe a piece of advice could help him better than giving him some money but after all, lose it again with gambling.

Losing everything because of gambling is hard and to someone who is suffering from this I think he dont need money but instead a friend who can advice him to change or realize his mistakes for spending too much in gambling. If you lend him money he might gamble again and repeat the same mistakes because of his past losses that he wants to chase back.

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Quote from: Debonaire217 on December 14, 2019, 02:23:18 AM

Quote from: pakhitheboss on December 12, 2019, 08:51:55 AM

Betting is addictive and addiction is your problem, not mine. Take professional help rather than asking more money to fuel your addiction. It is shameful to even post a topic like this one here. Sounds more like begging.

Then encouraging the person who lost not to ask for money is the best way to consider. Because for me, if we just gave him money, he will just try to take back the losses that he have and might end up still in the same situation. Why not to teach him and to tell him to have job first wherein, whenever he lost again, he still have a source of bet for him to play.

i have a friend who i know recently and he have a manner exactly like this . he begs to me most of the time and me sometimes i cant deny because i still have some funds left on my account so i just gave him but not too much and he also said that he will re pay which is also true and he also give more if he win big . it comes to the point that i want to tell him that he is already addicted and want him to stop doing that and i also recomend him to look for other ways to earn so that he can sustain himself and wont beg for someone else if ever he still want to continue playing .

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Quote from: pakhitheboss on December 12, 2019, 08:51:55 AM

Betting is addictive and addiction is your problem, not mine. Take professional help rather than asking more money to fuel your addiction. It is shameful to even post a topic like this one here. Sounds more like begging.

Then encouraging the person who lost not to ask for money is the best way to consider. Because for me, if we just gave him money, he will just try to take back the losses that he have and might end up still in the same situation. Why not to teach him and to tell him to have job first wherein, whenever he lost again, he still have a source of bet for him to play.

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Quote from: vintages on December 11, 2019, 01:53:50 PM

Confusing question.
If I understand it the way you stated it, you mean if someone used all his funds in gambling and then happens to ask me for some help.
At first, I will question him on why he went gambling when he knew that was his last funds.
It's not about been able to show sympathy or so, anyone who is gambling should be able to answer or be responsible for their actions.

I will have somewhat same kind of attitude towards him. The issue is not in helping him; real issue is that he is going to again use money in gambling. This person does not need monetary help; he or she needs some psychological help in regard of overcoming gambling addiction. We need to guide him or her towards some other game which is actually nice and helps him or her in developing some healthy habits.

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Betting is addictive and addiction is your problem, not mine. Take professional help rather than asking more money to fuel your addiction. It is shameful to even post a topic like this one here. Sounds more like begging.

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Quote from: Shamerkhan on November 18, 2019, 05:01:14 PM

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What kind of help does he want from here? Financial or some advice? Well, he cannot get money from here, it he is lost then he must manage what he has done from playing gambling, we don't need to take responsibility for his loss. Maybe a piece of advice could help him better than giving him some money but after all, lose it again with gambling.

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Quote from: vintages on December 11, 2019, 01:53:50 PM

Confusing question.
If I understand it the way you stated it, you mean if someone used all his funds in gambling and then happens to ask me for some help.
At first, I will question him on why he went gambling when he knew that was his last funds.
It's not about been able to show sympathy or so, anyone who is gambling should be able to answer or be responsible for their actions.

That's a good explanation, we should let them learn from their mistakes, they loss because of their negligence now they find ways to solve that money problem. Actually there only two kinds of gambler, the responsible and irresponsible one, and if the responsible loses they know they will not loss everything they got as they strictly follow the principle in gambling.

We as gamblers know the risk and therefore we should also know how to gamble based on our limit only.

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Quote from: Shamerkhan on November 18, 2019, 05:01:14 PM

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I'll definitely not give help, he should have thought first before betting all his money that he will need money for his needs, this kind of gamblers are reckless drivers who never give a second thought if what will happen to him if he loses, no wonder they always end up taking a loan from a loan shark

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Confusing question.
If I understand it the way you stated it, you mean if someone used all his funds in gambling and then happens to ask me for some help.
At first, I will question him on why he went gambling when he knew that was his last funds.
It's not about been able to show sympathy or so, anyone who is gambling should be able to answer or be responsible for their actions.

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Quote from: Debonaire217 on December 08, 2019, 03:27:11 AM

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For the first time in gambling, we are still exploring how does the gambling works, in starting you must to have a starting money for just almost ten dollars is enough to know how does gambling works. Many beginners already failed on their first try as a person who is knowledgeable in gambling; it is better to help those people who want to learn and enjoy the game of gambling. Don't hesitate to help; many people learn in by their experience knowledge is not enough for being a good gambler.

You don't need 10 dollars to start playing in gambling. Based from my experience, you could play on gambling sites that provides free cryptocurrency or faucets to consider, for you to still play games without depositing. With that, if you doubled your money, you could win much more based on your luck. My advise is for you to practice betting with that faucets so if you are to deposite more money, then you already know how to play and to discover efficient ways of playing.

But the problem with that strategy is that now you are investing even more time to gamble and that is no good, because now you're thinking more about gambling with whatever money that you can get out of those faucets, so now you have increased the possibility of becoming addicted to gambling and that is never a good thing, it is way better to set a budget about the amount of money that you want to spend when you gamble and just stick with.

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In the forum rules asking for financial help is considered as begging and it is not allowed.In real life,in physical casinos when someone loses a big amount of money and goes broke many other gamblers there become friendly to him in the sense that they offer him like 10-20 Dollars to maybe turn him back to win a part of money he lost.
You cannot do this in online gambling,if you lose no one can help you.

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I also think the same way. This social experiment about finding out people’s response related to a big loss has turned out to be a huge failure in the end. It could have benefited OP if the kind of solidarity he was seeking was actually possible to be acquired. But it is not the case in the world of gambling. Emotions or peace keeping could never overshadow the importance of money.

Response people for a big loss will be varied, and they will act with many things to express how their feeling and emotion at that time. But the important thing that the gambler needs to find out how to solve his problem because other people cannot give full help to him. But if he cannot do that, I don't think that he can solve his problem and even he will desperate and will try to end his life.

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Quote from: shoreno on December 09, 2019, 12:52:12 AM

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Quote from: pixie85 on December 08, 2019, 04:42:01 PM

I'd tell that person to help himself and his family by getting out and at first trying to lowering stakes. Playing with a few dollars is the best way to satisfy your addiction and not lose a lot of money.

I don't feel bad for gamblers who lost a lot of money. It was their choice and if they won they'd be bragging about it everywhere and buying stupid useless shit. We shouldn't help these people financially they have to learn from it and suffer the consequences.

If they are to consider lowering their bets in the game, then it will surely not satisfy their hunger to play more. Basically why people play and gets addicted is when they bet a huge amount and they win. If they are to bet small amount then its sadly but true, its boring. So, to help someone who lost, then an advice would do for him to limit playing, or else, work hard to have too much to spend in gambling without worrying of losing everything.

being satisfy to play more ? but betting lower amounts in every game can make you last longer than betting times two or times three of what you have but still it cant give a full satisfaction depending on the player as it only gives small profit but what majority do is to earn big every game so they risk to bet bigger than usual . advicing too work hard is helpful because he will have a busy time and will slowly forget gambling on his schedule and he will also spend money wisely because he will think about his hard work .

Debonair217 has a point. Actually even if you can last longer in playing, your hunger for earning a huge amount in just one bet will always be there. Betting small amounts will just make a gambler more hasty in the long run and will end up in the same direction.
Giving advice is not enough, what gamblers need is to have another habit and slowly forgot the addiction to gambling.

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Quote from: Debonaire217 on December 09, 2019, 12:26:29 AM

Quote from: pixie85 on December 08, 2019, 04:42:01 PM

I'd tell that person to help himself and his family by getting out and at first trying to lowering stakes. Playing with a few dollars is the best way to satisfy your addiction and not lose a lot of money.

I don't feel bad for gamblers who lost a lot of money. It was their choice and if they won they'd be bragging about it everywhere and buying stupid useless shit. We shouldn't help these people financially they have to learn from it and suffer the consequences.

If they are to consider lowering their bets in the game, then it will surely not satisfy their hunger to play more. Basically why people play and gets addicted is when they bet a huge amount and they win. If they are to bet small amount then its sadly but true, its boring. So, to help someone who lost, then an advice would do for him to limit playing, or else, work hard to have too much to spend in gambling without worrying of losing everything.

being satisfy to play more ? but betting lower amounts in every game can make you last longer than betting times two or times three of what you have but still it cant give a full satisfaction depending on the player as it only gives small profit but what majority do is to earn big every game so they risk to bet bigger than usual . advicing too work hard is helpful because he will have a busy time and will slowly forget gambling on his schedule and he will also spend money wisely because he will think about his hard work .

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