Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"
I think the reason why it is like this is because at the beginning of every relationship people never focus on the main thing, things that determines if the relationship will work or not. Most people just only concentrate what they can benefit, like money and some people focus on the physical looks . And if this is the main thing why people go into marriage their is high tendency that the marriage won't last , because people don't understand what marriage is all about. 
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Both man and woman are the cause of all those things that is happening to people marriages these days because, our forefathers use to make friends with their women or men they are going to marry before bring the women or men to their parents to also study them very well to know if he or she can be a wife or husband material in the future and, you will never hear anything like divorce in our forefathers marriage.
But these new generation, no longer take their time to study the woman or man they are going to end up forever before bring such woman or man to their parents to confirm which are some of the things that is increasing the rate of divorce in the world today and, many people has viewed it as a normal thing in the society.
But these new generation, no longer take their time to study the woman or man they are going to end up forever before bring such woman or man to their parents to confirm which are some of the things that is increasing the rate of divorce in the world today and, many people has viewed it as a normal thing in the society.
Agree with your view on the increasing rate of divorce in our society. It seems like higher expectations are the main reason for divorce.
The rate of divorce in my society is increasing with every passing day. The plausible reason for this spike in divorce is higher expectations in marriage. In my country girls are mostly looking for a settled boy and for them age does not matter. No one is willing to struggle. Hence, if you go for a well-settled person, there might be no bonding between the individuals because the person she is marrying is already busy and might not give her the time she needs. Also, money is not everything in marriage. Once the money charm is over and people face the reality they divorce because of their different nature.
You are right, people don't want to be real that is why marriage don't last this days. People tend to hide who they really are and coming together to stay in marriage it feels so difficult for them to cope with the marriage because they find out that they are not even compatible and this leads to the end of the marriage. If people can open up and be original I think their won't be much divorce like we are having this days. 
That just means that people are now aware that you can leave the marriage if it's toxic and you don't have any love for your husband or wife anymore, divorce is a beautiful thing to be there because it gives the option that someone can get out of a marriage that would destroy you inside out and even though I have some reservations about divorce being used by gold diggers to scam rich men or women into getting half of what they've worked hard for, I still think that this kind of thing is necessary because it helps protect the women and men that are victims of emotional and physical abuse in the household, with divorce, they've got a bullet against these people that are doing them harm. It should also be a good thing for everyone also that with the advent of more people getting divorce, you also should be considering to get your prenuptial going, that way you're not going to be a victim of gold diggers that wouldn't show their true intentions early on in the marriage.
I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
At this point, the husband has all the necessary choices to divorce his wife if he wants to because he was clearly deceived and that is not a complicated reason to get a divorce. Unlike others who just divorce their wives out of boredom because they don't find any sweetness in them anymore they just simply divorce them which is somewhat find compared to the wives who are still sufferings and are chained to their irresponsible husbands. Sometimes divorce is not all bad because it can free the woman from the shackles of unwanted marriage.
When we follow up in building a relationship in the right and appropriate manner, then things are more possible in working out for us in marriage and we would have both been so used to each other right before the marriage, this is why it is also an important thing to go into courtship before marriage in a relation, this allows the two parties to get used to each other and have an interpersonal relationship in with each other in which they can both cope with after they got married
People in civilizations where trust is low and love is bought with money and material possessions are less likely to cooperate and more likely to engage in conflict. This may reduce the amount of love and trust in marriage and lead to divorce, especially if the couples are always busy and do not have time for each other. In today's society, men are more likely to look after beauty than character, and when they marry, they may regret and be unhappy, which will lead to divorce.
In social media recently there is being horrified by various cases of divorce from artists and others. Judging from the culprit, divorce itself is divided into two types. First, divorce divorce which means a husband's request to divorce his wife to the court to carry out the hearing as a witness to divorce. Second, is a divorce. Conditions where the divorce submitted by his wife or legitimate power at the court table. Pledge can be submitted to court by one perpetrator (wife or husband) by giving several reasons.
In divorce quarrels are the main causes. And the highest cause of divorce is then motivated by economic reasons. We don't know if in divorce who should be blamed. Maybe they also actually do not want if the household must be destroyed and ended in divorce. We cannot see from the next side and we have to see what causes those who have to be separated by the end. Those who are separated because divorce are also entitled to be happy for the sustainability of their lives.
In divorce quarrels are the main causes. And the highest cause of divorce is then motivated by economic reasons. We don't know if in divorce who should be blamed. Maybe they also actually do not want if the household must be destroyed and ended in divorce. We cannot see from the next side and we have to see what causes those who have to be separated by the end. Those who are separated because divorce are also entitled to be happy for the sustainability of their lives.
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Both are the problem to themselves,I don't see the need whereby you divorce after years of marriage.
What was the need of getting married at the first instance,I have seen a case where the woman just married the Man because of his money,later the Man goods was seized by Custom Service leading to the fall in the Man business then,the wife filed for Divorce you can imagine that.....that means some persons today get into marriage for material gains in order for them to escape poverty.
You even see celebrities divorcing,I think gone are the days marriage was sacred and fuel with love from both partners.
God should help our generation..
Love and trust should be built,and good marriage system preached in our society,not making divorce as the only remedy for marriage settlement.
And family avoid pressuring or forcing one to get married to someone they don't love either because of social status,power or some selfish Gain.
Both are the problem to themselves,I don't see the need whereby you divorce after years of marriage.
What was the need of getting married at the first instance,I have seen a case where the woman just married the Man because of his money,later the Man goods was seized by Custom Service leading to the fall in the Man business then,the wife filed for Divorce you can imagine that.....that means some persons today get into marriage for material gains in order for them to escape poverty.
You even see celebrities divorcing,I think gone are the days marriage was sacred and fuel with love from both partners.
God should help our generation..
Love and trust should be built,and good marriage system preached in our society,not making divorce as the only remedy for marriage settlement.
And family avoid pressuring or forcing one to get married to someone they don't love either because of social status,power or some selfish Gain.
I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
I will blame this man because before you marry there should all round scrutinization, you don't just marry like that, more especially for him that wants to marry because of beauty, he didn't act as a wise man earlier, he should have check his parcel when she was not wearing any makeup to know what she was made off.
The problem we have this day is individual wants, people desire for different things, they only care about themselves, sometimes I tag it immaturity because before you say that you are ready for marriage, you should no that it is a school that you can never graduate from, and you have to be ready for anything that may come, you prepare yourself yourself for means to solve those issues because if decide to quit you may meet the worst and regret your actions later.
In my country girls are mostly looking for a settled boy and for them age does not matter. No one is willing to struggle. Hence, if you go for a well-settled person, there might be no bonding between the individuals because the person she is marrying is already busy and might not give her the time she needs. Also, money is not everything in marriage. Once the money charm is over and people face the reality they divorce because of their different nature.
Similar problems exist in our country. Girls in our country also find settled boys for marriage, but if the boy is too old, they have no problem.The first goal of girls is whether the boy is established. But another attraction of our country is to find government job boys for girls. It is seen that girls are married at a very young age to older government employees. As a result it is seen that the man cannot give proper time to his wife due to busy work and as a result misunderstanding starts between them which leads to divorce of many families.Due to another problem in our country or our society, the amount of divorce is increasing day by day and that is the dowry system. In many families, girls agree to pay dowry for marriage, but if they are unable to pay the dowry arrears properly after marriage, divorce ensues.
I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
The trend of divorce is increasing day by day in our society and many families are getting wounded due to this divorce. Most of the reasons for divorce in our society are created by husband and wife without their own knowledge. One of the reasons for divorce in our society today is the lack of mutual respect and values of both the husband and wife for each other due to which divorces are constantly happening in our society. In the country where I live, divorce rates are higher in urban areas than in rural areasBut our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
The rate of divorce in my society is increasing with every passing day. The plausible reason for this spike in divorce is higher expectations in marriage. In my country girls are mostly looking for a settled boy and for them age does not matter. No one is willing to struggle. Hence, if you go for a well-settled person, there might be no bonding between the individuals because the person she is marrying is already busy and might not give her the time she needs. Also, money is not everything in marriage. Once the money charm is over and people face the reality they divorce because of their different nature.
I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
The trend of divorce is increasing day by day in our society and many families are getting wounded due to this divorce. Most of the reasons for divorce in our society are created by husband and wife without their own knowledge. One of the reasons for divorce in our society today is the lack of mutual respect and values of both the husband and wife for each other due to which divorces are constantly happening in our society. In the country where I live, divorce rates are higher in urban areas than in rural areas But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?
Our ancestors didn't have many choices, before there was no internet, pornography, TV and other access that made them have varying standards of beauty. So the standard of beauty according to our ancestors was based on the area they lived in. compare it to today, with access at your fingertips. We have very broad fantasies and beauty standards, so nowadays it is very difficult to commit to marriage and respect the partner we choose in marriage, only strong people can. but yes, it depends on the person too. in my country the divorce rate is very low.
Also, our ancestors didn't have the alternative to divorce, with rare exceptions, because it was against the morals and laws during the ancient times. To be a divorced individual in past times was a curse, especially for women, who totally lost their values inside the society, so they prefered to remain married, even if unhappy, as after measuring the pros and cons, they reached to the conclusion it was more benefical to them to stay together, at least formally, in front of the society.Nowadays the society doesn't see divorced individuals in a negative way anymore, so people don't feel socially prejudiced when deciding to abandon their partners. There isn't a punishment by doing so anymore. It's quite the opposite, they see this as a new opportunity to find someone new and better than the previous one. That is what we call "liquid love". They don't last for long, they aren't solid, they are volatile and in other cases highly artificial.
People just use each other and once they get bored, they go to the next one. It's the individuality trait of the "self" exercising full control over the individual, and demanding to be served by the world outside incessantly, without giving anything back in counterpart.
Our ancestors didn't have many choices, before there was no internet, pornography, TV and other access that made them have varying standards of beauty. So the standard of beauty according to our ancestors was based on the area they lived in. compare it to today, with access at your fingertips. We have very broad fantasies and beauty standards, so nowadays it is very difficult to commit to marriage and respect the partner we choose in marriage, only strong people can. but yes, it depends on the person too. in my country the divorce rate is very low.
I think the man is insane. Sorry if that’s extreme but how is it possible that you courted someone for at least months and you never got to see their supposed real face? No video calls? No visitations? For this to happen, it means that he didn’t court her long enough to know even basic things about her(her face), and now the next day, he wants to run away from it. I hope he tells his next wife that he got married for a night only and failed to hold his end of the bargain.
Let's start to begin to take up the challenge in making relationship and marriage work out for those in it, we can do all out best in creating an atmosphere for learning on how to live together as partners forgetting about our individual difference and embrace tolerance, this can be organized through seminars, the aim is to help married people enjoy their marriages despite the challenges involved.
You can only take up the challenge to make your own relationship successful without problem of ever divorcing. Many relationships are facing problem if cheating that's why we are seeing frequent divorcee because of problem of compatibility. Before we get into marriage, it is good we first study our partner and see if we can endure the differences and that would never make us complain in the future when marriage is involved. Misunderstanding is keep set mist marriage on fire. 
Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"
There are too many divorces in this recent time and the problem lies in fake love. Now many people fell in love not because they love you but because they really cares about money. People care about money than love and after they get married, either the male or female might determine that they are not interested in the relationship and ready to break up. Some women are always ready to break up with there husband just to cliam propertiee belonging to the man.The main problem is that from here, the problem is created that there is no peace in the house, people are running after money nowadays so much that all the relationships are broken, the importance of money are more and relationships are going to end now, no one has any interest in them anymore, all the relationships are breaking, the main reason is money. If you put aside what you have and take care of your relationships first, then all the relationships that you have will be established in their place and the system of divorce that exists in the society will also be reduced and you can live a normal life.
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