Are you one of those people who always depend on your parents?
In my opinion, being too or always dependent on parents is also not good, even though for example I have parents who have a lot of wealth, that doesn't mean I have to relax and enjoy my youth without thinking about the future, of course the future is determined by us ourselves, the problem is What happens a lot is that some young people depend on their rich parents, but in my opinion, if it continues like that, other people's views won't always be good, right?
In my opinion, people who usually depend on their rich parents tend to be spoiled, not afraid of running out of money, always wasteful in managing money. It's okay to be spoiled as long as you know your limits, don't let your parents spoil you too much, like wanting your parents to grant all our wishes, that's not a problem, but if it's too much then the views of other people in my opinion will not be good at all. because wise people are those who want to be successful through their own efforts and hard work, working hard with support from parents is good, and with hard work we will have a good income and also have to manage finances well, be able to divide which needs and which needs. saved and which we can snack on every day.
That's right, relying on your parents, even if you're capable of supporting yourself, is not a healthy habit. Just because their parents are wealthy doesn't mean they should depend on them forever. Eventually, they will realize that it's not worth it. It's not just about what other people think of them, but also about their own ability to survive without their parents' financial support.
In my opinion, yes, we should not depend on our parents forever, because as we live, of course we will have our own family and that will be our own responsibility, and if we are married, in my opinion, that is not the time to still depend on our parents, because we have to can do everything responsibly. in my neighborhood there is a family that has just married but the man is still dependent on his parents, and in this way many people talk about him that he is a man who is not responsible properly, also the man's partner too felt embarrassed by the fact that her husband was still dependent on his parents.
In my opinion, if you continue to depend on your parents, even until you get married, it will bring conflict between your own family and even with other people. That's why I myself think not to depend on my parents when I grow up, as much as possible I should be able to earn my own money so that I can help my parents more or less and not be my burden on them.