Yes, it's better to quit gambling than to quit yourself. But to quit gambling is not the end of your own self,. You can quit gambling in a good way, or a proper way..depends on how you can do quit wisely.
I think it's better to stop a habit that makes you hurt or emotional about it. If you cannot control yourself with simple things tempers anger would be your downfall. I don't know what's the proper way you are talking about because from what I see it's always dependent on the person who is trying to quit. 
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Yes, it's better to quit gambling than to quit yourself. But to quit gambling is not the end of your own self,. You can quit gambling in a good way, or a proper way..depends on how you can do quit wisely.
Yes, it is always good to quit the gambling because if you are continously loosing through gambling it is good quit the gambling. Once you quit the gambling better dont reconsider it because you might loose more money.
I agree because gambling will worsen ourselves especially when continues to experience the defeat better stop gambled to improve life to be better 
Yes, it is always good to quit the gambling because if you are continously loosing through gambling it is good quit the gambling. Once you quit the gambling better dont reconsider it because you might loose more money.
I agree with you mate but I think, the way we see gambling as to whether or not it is dangerous is a subjecting thing. Some find gambling as pretty exciting and entertaining while others are chilling to the bones and are afraid to gamble.
Others are thinking that gambling is dangerous as if they are really a gambler. They are good in saying those words but if you'll ask them others might admit they are a failed gambler but quitting is a serious commitment which is a challenge to every gambler. Yes, I agree, there is somewhat the gambling is dangerous to us if we don't limit ourselves in playing into it. Sometimes limiting ourselves can also help us still maintain our life while playing gambling. Maybe it also depends on how responsible the person itself.
gambling is not dangerous because it is only game that meant to be played. Gambling cannot possibly harm you in any way , that is why i can say that gambling isnt dangerous but rather it is risky because there is always a risk of loosing. ( e.g loosing your cash , loosing your loved ones , loosing valueable things, etc ) but that risk can be minimized if only we can control or limit our selves but that is the only problem because having a self control is actually pretty hard to achieve.
Yes, I agree, there is somewhat the gambling is dangerous to us if we don't limit ourselves in playing into it. Sometimes limiting ourselves can also help us still maintain our life while playing gambling. Maybe it also depends on how responsible the person itself.
gambling is not dangerous because it is only game that meant to be played. Gambling cannot possibly harm you in any way , that is why i can say that gambling isnt dangerous but rather it is risky because there is always a risk of loosing. ( e.g loosing your cash , loosing your loved ones , loosing valueable things, etc ) but that risk can be minimized if only we can control or limit our selves but that is the only problem because having a self control is actually pretty hard to achieve.
I agree with you mate but I think, the way we see gambling as to whether or not it is dangerous is a subjecting thing. Some find gambling as pretty exciting and entertaining while others are chilling to the bones and are afraid to gamble.
Yes, I agree, there is somewhat the gambling is dangerous to us if we don't limit ourselves in playing into it. Sometimes limiting ourselves can also help us still maintain our life while playing gambling. Maybe it also depends on how responsible the person itself.
gambling is not dangerous because it is only game that meant to be played. Gambling cannot possibly harm you in any way , that is why i can say that gambling isnt dangerous but rather it is risky because there is always a risk of loosing. ( e.g loosing your cash , loosing your loved ones , loosing valueable things, etc ) but that risk can be minimized if only we can control or limit our selves but that is the only problem because having a self control is actually pretty hard to achieve.
I don't see people committing suicide because of gambling. It is really hard to quit in gambling but I don't see people committing suicide because of gambling. Quitting is hard but it can still stop with the support of other people especially with the support of family if you see a person that is suffering from addiction in gambling better to give him a vacation and a travel so it will not be going to be worst.
Gambling at times can be very addictive to people if they do not have self-control and as a result, they might keep playing continuously and end up losing a lot of money. This could be dangerous for them as they lose money and may play more to recover that lost money and for that may borrow from someone and even could lose out that money. So better to quit gambling so that you can be yourself and enjoy the life.
It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.
Only week people need the support of other people. If you really have a strong personality including a strong willpower and determination with the will to no giving up easily, then you surely will get out of addiction. It is not wrong to get help from others, but why do you need to get one if you can solve it on your own? You have a brain, you have a free will. You can use it and change yourself like you change others with words.No it's not a sign of a weak person, I'm sure with the lord and support of a close person, we can stop gambling quickly. Humans are social beings, we live together and need help from others. If anyone can ask for help, why not?
Yes, one thing we have to remember before we are doing anything because we should not addict to anything in this world, this may kill you. I have experienced through many of friends who addicted to gambling, alcohol, cheating etc. All these things will kill the human being for addicting to those.
Indeed that is true, all of the addictions here in this world including gambling is not good for us(emotionally and physically). We might get hurt by this because we didn't pay the person we have debts, and we might get crazy thinking about the money that we have lost in gambling and how we are going to pay our debts if the money that we have borrowed was already gone.
It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.
Yeah, but quitting is the only way to have a better future and to save money. There is no reason for anyone to continue to play gambling if he is losing most of the time, he must be smart and considering all the things before he decides what to do next in gambling. I've witnessed myself losing a lot of money in gambling, and continuing is so confusing to do that is why I've decided to quit gambling instead and try another way to earn money.
I agree. I was also losing a lot of money before and even though I thought of quitting, the impulse to play was still there - that is why I really understand how others find it really difficult to quit. It was only when I finally realized that I already have a son and that I need to take care of his future when the realization and the greater urge to finally quit kicks in and the rest is history
It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.
Only week people need the support of other people. If you really have a strong personality including a strong willpower and determination with the will to no giving up easily, then you surely will get out of addiction. It is not wrong to get help from others, but why do you need to get one if you can solve it on your own? You have a brain, you have a free will. You can use it and change yourself like you change others with words.No it's not a sign of a weak person, I'm sure with the lord and support of a close person, we can stop gambling quickly. Humans are social beings, we live together and need help from others. If anyone can ask for help, why not?
Yes, one thing we have to remember before we are doing anything because we should not addict to anything in this world, this may kill you. I have experienced through many of friends who addicted to gambling, alcohol, cheating etc. All these things will kill the human being for addicting to those.
Quit gambling is the best choice, because gambling is not good for our self. We can lose more money in gambling if we addict in gambling, can't control our emotional in gambling and can't control the budget for play. Quit gambling is not easy for addict people, but must do it for better future.
Reverse what you said and others will say that gambling must be fine if you can;1. Control your emotion.
2. Control your budget.
3. You are winning.
4. You're not addicted.
If anyone cannot admit the fact that they cannot get the goodies they are looking for in gambling, it would be easy for them to control themselves or not even gamble at all.
Back again how hard gambling addiction is, if it's so hard it's hard to stop it by yourself in need of the nearest person to support every positive action, it's hard addiction is not easy it takes a long time to 100% stop, being at a serious stage every time a gambling is motivated to succeed in the gambling world, all their abilities will be greatly sought for or exhausted all their possessions, can do even more extreme when left unchecked.
It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.
Only week people need the support of other people. If you really have a strong personality including a strong willpower and determination with the will to no giving up easily, then you surely will get out of addiction. It is not wrong to get help from others, but why do you need to get one if you can solve it on your own? You have a brain, you have a free will. You can use it and change yourself like you change others with words.No it's not a sign of a weak person, I'm sure with the lord and support of a close person, we can stop gambling quickly. Humans are social beings, we live together and need help from others. If anyone can ask for help, why not?
It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.
Yeah, but quitting is the only way to have a better future and to save money. There is no reason for anyone to continue to play gambling if he is losing most of the time, he must be smart and considering all the things before he decides what to do next in gambling. I've witnessed myself losing a lot of money in gambling, and continuing is so confusing to do that is why I've decided to quit gambling instead and try another way to earn money.
I agree. I was also losing a lot of money before and even though I thought of quitting, the impulse to play was still there - that is why I really understand how others find it really difficult to quit. It was only when I finally realized that I already have a son and that I need to take care of his future when the realization and the greater urge to finally quit kicks in and the rest is history
I don't think so because if a gambler really wanted to quit then he can. I know it's not easy as it seem but when a person really want a change then it will start from his self. He'll seek motivation and uses this to move forward, it's crucial at first but eventually he will be used to the new changes in his life. There's no impossible for someone if he really determined to make a change nor no more excuses
Someone will not be easy to stop gambling if it's often accompanied by a winning on certain bets on a game though not often, I'm sure it is.
But for the people who are really got a high depressed because of losing a lot of money, it has more chance/a bit easy of leaving from gambling.
Of course it's a benefit of oneself. I think once you have experienced winning then you would really know how it feels and how gambling can help you in certain ways. You should be careful to control yourself and put limit to your settings when gambling. But for the people who are really got a high depressed because of losing a lot of money, it has more chance/a bit easy of leaving from gambling.
Someone will not be easy to stop gambling if it's often accompanied by a winning on certain bets on a game though not often, I'm sure it is.
But for the people who are really got a high depressed because of losing a lot of money, it has more chance/a bit easy of leaving from gambling.
But for the people who are really got a high depressed because of losing a lot of money, it has more chance/a bit easy of leaving from gambling.
We may need big support system like our parents and brothers and sisters, our friends, sometimes your teachers play an immense role to stop a child from being an addict of gambling. So all these support systems when put a combine effort along with the personal resistance of individual, it will become easy to drop gambling.
We cannot dispute the fact that sometimes help may be needed or one who is addicted may need to join some support group or visit a shrink for help but I still believe that anyone who wants to get out of the whole mess they have single handedly placed themselves in will have to first put themselves in that right state of mind first before they can even start thinking of helping yourself. If you are not ready to help yourself, I do not believe such a person can ever get help.When I was new in gambling and I keep losing, I always thought of quitting for good but I was not able to do it and until
now I am still surviving but the good thing now is that I am more matured and I know how to gamble based on my limit.
I also understand that I have less chance to win so I just enjoy it and forget my losses.
I guess maturity sometimes comes based on experience and based on the fact that you allowed yourself to be matured. Once anyone is able to understand the plain truth when it comes to gambling like you did, then it is going to be easy for them to see gambling for what it really is which is what so many people always find hard to do. Just like the OP said, which I would rephrase, to quit addiction of gambling, is to quit the state of mind yourself. now I am still surviving but the good thing now is that I am more matured and I know how to gamble based on my limit.
I also understand that I have less chance to win so I just enjoy it and forget my losses.
It's not going to be easy even the addicted gambler wants to. He should have a support system like parents or family that will make him stronger mentally and emotionally so that he can fight the urge of gambling and finally end that worst chapter of his life.
Yeah, but quitting is the only way to have a better future and to save money. There is no reason for anyone to continue to play gambling if he is losing most of the time, he must be smart and considering all the things before he decides what to do next in gambling. I've witnessed myself losing a lot of money in gambling, and continuing is so confusing to do that is why I've decided to quit gambling instead and try another way to earn money.
I agree. I was also losing a lot of money before and even though I thought of quitting, the impulse to play was still there - that is why I really understand how others find it really difficult to quit. It was only when I finally realized that I already have a son and that I need to take care of his future when the realization and the greater urge to finally quit kicks in and the rest is history
I don't think so because if a gambler really wanted to quit then he can. I know it's not easy as it seem but when a person really want a change then it will start from his self. He'll seek motivation and uses this to move forward, it's crucial at first but eventually he will be used to the new changes in his life. There's no impossible for someone if he really determined to make a change nor no more excuses
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