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March 20, 2018, 11:21:11 AM
I never heard someone quit their life when they quit in gambling for me that would be a great choice to quit and to have a new beggining in life.
Maybe people commit suicide not just because of gambling maybe that person had so much problem and nobody helped them . The support of the family should be there to give advice and so that person in trouble won't think to kill their selves.
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March 20, 2018, 09:50:06 AM
I don't see people committing suicide because of gambling. It is really hard to quit in gambling but I don't see people committing suicide because of gambling. Quiting is hard but it can still stop with the support of other people especially with the support of family, if you see a person that is suffering from addiction in gambling better to give him a vacation and a travel so it will not going to be worst.

Gambling at times can be very addictive to people if they do not have self control and as a result they might keep playing continuously and end up losing lot of money. This could be dangerous for them as they lose money and may play more to recover that lost money and for that may borrow from some one and even could lose out that money. So better to quit gambling so that you can be yourself and enjoy the life.


I believe so.Gambling can really cause big destruction in your life if you let it rule your mind and heart.I think it's alright to gamble as long as you know what you're doing and have set limits for yourself.Put gambling not as a priority in your life but rather an option wherein you can enjoy it playing during leisure time.Through this way,gambling can somehow be profitable not in terms of money but for your own enjoyment and satisfaction.
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March 20, 2018, 08:51:06 AM
It is very hard for someone to stop gambling completely gambling is the same as any risk except you get a financial return.
Financial return and gambling are way away from each other if you talk about returns. Gambling has something called the house edge which will make any strategy that you try to apply null at one time. Hence there is no bust-proof strategy. Again in investing money although risks are involved if you know where to out money into - you will be able to make money.

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Gambling is addictive but you have to set your own limits i the difficulty is recognising you have a problem before it gets out of hand.
True for every addiction. Let it not take over you and make you get sidetracked or on the wrong track. Suicide just because you are in debt is cowardice if you ask me.
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March 20, 2018, 07:49:48 AM
It is very hard for someone to stop gambling completely gambling is the same as any risk except you get a financial return.
Gambling is addictive but you have to set your own limits i the difficulty is recognising you have a problem before it gets out of hand.
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March 20, 2018, 06:12:37 AM
I don't see people committing suicide because of gambling. It is really hard to quit in gambling but I don't see people committing suicide because of gambling. Quiting is hard but it can still stop with the support of other people especially with the support of family, if you see a person that is suffering from addiction in gambling better to give him a vacation and a travel so it will not going to be worst.

Gambling at times can be very addictive to people if they do not have self control and as a result they might keep playing continuously and end up losing lot of money. This could be dangerous for them as they lose money and may play more to recover that lost money and for that may borrow from some one and even could lose out that money. So better to quit gambling so that you can be yourself and enjoy the life.

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March 20, 2018, 06:03:48 AM
I don't see people committing suicide because of gambling. It is really hard to quit in gambling but I don't see people committing suicide because of gambling. Quiting is hard but it can still stop with the support of other people especially with the support of family, if you see a person that is suffering from addiction in gambling better to give him a vacation and a travel so it will not going to be worst.
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March 20, 2018, 05:04:55 AM
I have myself been addicted to online gambling in the past to some extent. It happened mainly because I had nothing to do and also I was very new to this. I was very much impressed by gambling in the beginning and failed to draw my lines. Now, I keep myself busy with lot of work and thus all the addiction has faded away. Regarding people doing suciicde because of debt, it happens mainly because the person thinks that there is no one who will support him.

coupled with the burning greedy dreams of accumulating more profits through betting is also one of the big reasons for gambling addiction. Unless people will wake up that when they are playing on games that are based on pure luck, it is always the house that will going to win at the end of the day.

suicide really is not a solution to any problem.

Well, its too late for gamblers to realize that this is just a game of luck. Lot's of greed brings them down and the result is much worst that losing money. Love yourself and your family don't waste your life because of gambling, there's a lot of things that you can do to earn money make effort to discover it.
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March 20, 2018, 03:23:59 AM
It looks easy to tell but it is not that much easy to quit from gambling that is why we called it as an addiction.SO it needs special care with our will power to get out from that.So if someone addicted to gambling then it is impossible for them the get out themselves someone need to support them to get out.

Yes maybe it's easy to tell to quit to something that's been your system in every day lives but if this something isn't good for you anymore then it's time to quit. Yeah it's hard at first like you're going to die but if you're really determined to do so then I'm sure that eventually it won't bother you anymore. I believe that it just take 21 days to make a new habit so be it.
Well, for one reason or the other, an addict is not even fighting anymore whether it is good or not, as the only thing they are fighting is how to get out of the shithole they have put themselves. The truth like you said is that is it not easy. It is very easy to quit gambling when you are not yet engrossed in it than to quit when it has fully taken total control of you, but at the end, it all balls down to the individual.

For an addict, it would be very hard to do. Do you know how most addicts usually get it wrong? It is because they have an attribute or characteristics that would always make them to turn to an addict when they do things that are actually impulsive in nature. Gambling comes with a lot of impulse and it is not everyone that can control it, so once a gambler is able to quit an addiction for any reason, it is better to just stay out.
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March 20, 2018, 01:52:16 AM
I think people are slaves of habits or habits of human beings, why can not we bring ourselves back from gambling, who say that gambling can not come back from the game, I think they live completely with the wrong idea if people want people from everywhere It can come back and it's one Gambling I know it is a form of addiction, but if a person wishes, he can safely remove himself from the addiction, it is dependent on the will of man only, and there are some people who say that they benefit people but they do not benefit but rather harm the human Just like some gambling Players have a lot of gambling due to which they are taking loans and they are taking loans because of which they are unable to repay their debts, these people, by converting them into suicide, it is a mistake to warn all of us from this mistake. Have to be and advise othersIt would not be wrong,
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March 19, 2018, 06:47:02 PM
Guys, I know that many of you have already discussed this issue regarding quitting gambling as it is addictive, and I know that this thread is just like any other one. But forgive me because I am really sick of seeing people committing suicide because they are in big debts. I would like to speak my mind.

So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.

Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.

I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!

I have myself been addicted to online gambling in the past to some extent. It happened mainly because I had nothing to do and also I was very new to this. I was very much impressed by gambling in the beginning and failed to draw my lines. Now, I keep myself busy with lot of work and thus all the addiction has faded away. Regarding people doing suciicde because of debt, it happens mainly because the person thinks that there is no one who will support him.

Keeping ourselves busy is a sure way of working to get rid of addiction, you've proven it. It's just that people who stop in the middle of the street often assume that the way it is less telling just because they fail, but it is their own fault, they are too easily give up. When people have a lot of debt because of gambling, the solution is not suicide, but you have to confide to your nearest person, do not burden the problem alone. Seeking help with them, shame to known to have a lot of debt is better than choosing to end your own life.
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March 19, 2018, 01:11:00 PM
I have myself been addicted to online gambling in the past to some extent. It happened mainly because I had nothing to do and also I was very new to this. I was very much impressed by gambling in the beginning and failed to draw my lines. Now, I keep myself busy with lot of work and thus all the addiction has faded away. Regarding people doing suciicde because of debt, it happens mainly because the person thinks that there is no one who will support him.

coupled with the burning greedy dreams of accumulating more profits through betting is also one of the big reasons for gambling addiction. Unless people will wake up that when they are playing on games that are based on pure luck, it is always the house that will going to win at the end of the day.

suicide really is not a solution to any problem.
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March 19, 2018, 12:36:32 PM
Guys, I know that many of you have already discussed this issue regarding quitting gambling as it is addictive, and I know that this thread is just like any other one. But forgive me because I am really sick of seeing people committing suicide because they are in big debts. I would like to speak my mind.

So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.

Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.

I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!

I have myself been addicted to online gambling in the past to some extent. It happened mainly because I had nothing to do and also I was very new to this. I was very much impressed by gambling in the beginning and failed to draw my lines. Now, I keep myself busy with lot of work and thus all the addiction has faded away. Regarding people doing suciicde because of debt, it happens mainly because the person thinks that there is no one who will support him.
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March 19, 2018, 11:37:32 AM
Guys, I know that many of you have already discussed this issue regarding quitting gambling as it is addictive, and I know that this thread is just like any other one. But forgive me because I am really sick of seeing people committing suicide because they are in big debts. I would like to speak my mind.

It’s hard for me to believe this. How many people have you seen committing suicide? 20?

For me, gambling addiction is a symptom of previous problems. Someone with a good life, with high self-esteem and without any psychological issues, doesn’t get addicted to gambling or whatever. To solve your gambling addiction, you have to solve the previous problems first, and then, quit gambling forever.

madness to victory, absence of capital, and continuous defeat that makes it all happen, so gamble get big benefits, but if we lose even big losses
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March 19, 2018, 11:01:48 AM
That's right. Use healthy activities like sports to be a substitute on your gambling time. They say that it takes 21 days for a person to make an activity as a habit that it could remove even your urge to gamble completely.
True, with the exercise we can remove the gambling, because the sport could make us focus for the sport and forget the gambling, but it should be in doing secar routine and gradually that all goes well, because it is certainly a lot of people who want to stop gambled and of their many that makes the sport as a replacement for the habit of gambling
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March 19, 2018, 09:10:44 AM
If you can't control yourself then you should quit gambling, gambling is a very fun activity with chances to make money, that is the reasons a lot of people like to gamble and become addicted, there are ways to quit gambling addiction, but you need to have strong will to quit gambling and sometimes seeking a professional help will make the healing process become faster
Right gambling is very fun and easy to make money especially to those have luck, quit gambling is very hard to those people are addicted in to it. Self control is the best way to quit gambling.

People who have self control will not be addicted to gambling only. Discipline is what is required in life if you have to succeed and if it cannot be achieved than nothing in life is possible. Once needs to be smart in what they select and what not to avoid such addictions.


See if a person has discipline then they would not go into gambling in the first place. They would try to work hard and get a proper job and leave the risky life as it is. Having a weak mind easily tainted by the gambling temptation is a sign that the person is negligent of his/her actions and thus the addiction follows.

That's right. Use healthy activities like sports to be a substitute on your gambling time. They say that it takes 21 days for a person to make an activity as a habit that it could remove even your urge to gamble completely.

It varies from person to person. Sometimes tapering off the habit works for some while simply stopping it once and for all works for some. The second one is rare though.
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March 19, 2018, 08:10:18 AM
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That's right. Use healthy activities like sports to be a substitute on your gambling time. They say that it takes 21 days for a person to make an activity as a habit that it could remove even your urge to gamble completely.
In this case, we should really avoid gambling not to be addicted at the end. Yes, we have to find ways in order for us to help ourselves to make free from addictions. Because others once become addicted and had a big lose they find quitting theirselves.
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March 19, 2018, 07:19:17 AM
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I am quite bothered about this post mainly because I cannot fathom why this subject closely intertwined gambling to the gambler. I have very well researched on this, and hence, I closely associate gambling addiction to a psychological disease. It is very disturbing to read articles saying that you are your mistakes when it is not in the first place. You, as the gambler, is completely a separate and distinct persona from that of gambling. Gambling addiction is the inability of the gambler to control the urge to gamble. It is something without the control of the gambler already because it has reached a certain level of psychological disorder. Hence, it is so wrong to attribute the gambler to gambling per se because it would be too insensitive about the disease that has taken over the gambler.
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March 19, 2018, 03:44:43 AM
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It's true that if you want to stop gambling must have a very strong will to ourselves, but it's a lot hard to stop gambling to get bigger profits if you have a lot of capital, worse still do not have the capital but the will is very big all the way which is done to earn money by selling their ambitious valuables to compete in the world of gambling.
It might seems hard to stop gambling but the reward is quite encouraging and sweet. You don't just feel like you are free from something but you feel like you are totally withdraw from whatever that is holding you back. It is true that we always use to say that stopping gambling addictions may be a good thing but it easy to say but not easy to act on. Determination is just the key to withheld yourself from going into debts.
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March 19, 2018, 02:41:15 AM
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That's right. Use healthy activities like sports to be a substitute on your gambling time. They say that it takes 21 days for a person to make an activity as a habit that it could remove even your urge to gamble completely.
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March 19, 2018, 02:17:04 AM
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thats hard for people who already addicted in gambling and has already have a big depts thats lead them to depression and when they cannot take over the depression they only think suicide is their last resolve.
Unfortunately, it is not everyone that has the ability to take hold of whatever comes in their life and even those who do not gamble but have some issues can also get depressed, let alone gambling that can end up throwing such a person into a huge depressing state than they can ever imagine. The reason is that they expected just too much from gambling and then they ended up hitting the wrong road at the end of it all, which makes them totally lost in it.
It is human to feel down at times because we have heart that feels all types of emotions and a brain that pumps that emotion. That is why people do exercise and meditation to train brain for remaining patient in all kind of situations. To top it off, gambling involves money which amplifies the impact caused on our brain and heart. It is very tempting and addictive game. Therefore, it is a recommendation from grown-ups to not get involved into this game.
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