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It is better for the girlfriend that she found out what kind of person he is before the relationship became more serious, after all for a marriage to be successful trust is indispensable and the boyfriend showed he is not worthy of it.
Not only he stole from his girlfriend in order to gamble, but after he won he was petty enough to only give back the money he stole, those are not the qualities that anyone is looking for on their long term partner and if anything the girlfriend deserves at minimum half of the money if not even more than that.
It is a gambling related story, and what I like about it is that it shows that gambling can help to reveal what kind of a person you are dealing with. Let's not concentrate on what a piece of sh*t this guy is, let's see what has helped us to discover about it. It's gambling. Only
half-jokingly, I want to say the following: Wanna marry a guy? Go to a casino with him first, and there you'll see what he really is.
In my perspective, both of them are at fault and surely, that big win wasn't a lucky moment for the both of them because it revealed their true colors and characters. The boyfriend should ought to know that he wouldn't have that kind of winnings if he didn't have the money from his girlfriends, regardless if it's stolen or not, he should know that her girlfriend is at least entitled more than that. And for the girlfriend, she too revealed her true color because she demanded a 40 Million while threatening her boyfriend to leave him if he won't give her that 40M.
With that kind of girlfriend behavior then it would definitely be leaving her.If she truly loves you then she wont really be demanding that too huge and would just wait up whether you would be giving her some
money or not and not acting like that shes entitled nor have that full rights on asking but well there are some point though since its her money afterall.This thing could really be arranged up
well in negotiation between you two. There's no need on making things getting more bigger but if things gets more messy then it would really be just right on leaving instead.
I cant really let go that huge amount of money on someone who do asking out too much.
As I said above, both of them are at fault because on the first place, the man should have avoided an argument if he have just gave his girlfriend the money she deserved. But based on the story shared by the OP, the man has no intention at all in giving his girlfriend a fraction of the money he won and just planned on his own business. Now that his girlfriend knew the story, I'm sure she will be barking until she receive her part. So, I guess they don't really love each other at all because they let this issue to ruin what they had.
This is one example of the tragic things that will happen to someone if they can't control themselves and get lost in gambling addiction.
Doing everything including stealing to get gambling satisfaction.
It was so lucky that he was able to win that much, we don't even know how much money the guy spent to end up winning 100 million.
We can only assume with their problems, because we can't really feel what they are feeling.
Of course there may be many other factors that make her boyfriend dare to demand money for his winnings.
From the beginning all these problems were created by that man, that man who ruined everything they had in their relationship with that girlfriend.
I assumed with that kind of money, of course the guy would leave his girlfriend and find another girlfriend.