Topic: VIRGINITY before getting married - page 12. (Read 2131 times)

my brother that is why virginity between partners is very important simply because virginity is the best gift that you will be giving your spouse when you get married. Marriage and sex is very sacred and should be shared by married people. Besides, intimacy should be reserved after you get married.

Call me old fashion and outdated but i still believe the greatest sex is done in the boundaries of marriage. Sex is mutual fulfillment and mutual sacrifice. With the rise of sex before marriage comes the rise of dysfunctional relationships, teenage pregnancy, and aids.

Todays generation virginity is not important. Maybe in some men they want the girl to be their wife is still virgin, but there are only some, other men want that they are the first who have sex with their wife, but do you think men is stil virgin?i dont think so

In India, it is still important for the vast majority of the people. In some rural areas, they even conduct virginity checking before the marriage. But in the urban areas, it has become more relaxed. In metro cities such as Delhi and Mumbai, it is difficult to find any virgins among the girls who are above 15 years of age (the age of consent in India remains at 18 years).

Things have changed with time and so have the people. No one really cares about it these days.

For my own opinion . Virginity is important that's why you need to reserved it until the day you got married ..
But ,,nowadays virginity will count as an experience as long as you and your partner have strong relationship and love each other very much.
The worst is you have already married but you've been cheated to another guy.
If I am demented or fooled by my partner, better to divorce than to live together.

Virginity is important because this defines the character of a girl. For someone who stood by his principle is someone who can be trusted. If she believes in virginity before marriage well she might somebody we can trust. But also be reminded that they are rare as of today. Most have given up their flags and surrendered it to the man they thought might be the lucky one. Sadly majority went wrong. Even the married man get tempted and broke his family. How much more those who are just boyfriends and girlfriends. As of now it is something uncommon. Its the new generation.

all of it back to each other's personal. whether virginity is important before marriage. if someone does not question the virginity before marriage then no papa.
we marry a woman not because of her past but to build our future.

virgin ... depending on the person whether it is accident or accidental factor is the most important nature and character that is noticed if it does get that is no longer a virgin but the character and its good and can be justified yes why not as long as there is a sense of mutual comfort and not show the behaving deviantly

according to me Keeping virginity before marriage becomes important for a woman. However, not infrequently women just because of interaction, lifestyle and environment. Maintaining virginity is a necessary condition for women before building a family.

In biological terms men really don't have a physical way to show or define their virginity, but in women the presence of a hymen is the clear indicator of virginity. However, there are some women who are born without a hymen, and there are others who are born with a thin hymen that can rupture through a variety of activities totally unrelated to sex, such as inserting a tampon. If these women don't have hymens can they still be considered virgins?
             Webster's dictionary defines virginity as, "a person who has never had sexual intercourse." (Webster's Dictionary, Nichols Publishing Group, 1999. pg. 747) Older generations, such as my grandparents, define virginity as someone that has never been kissed or touched in any way, shape, or form sexually. However, in my opinion, virginity is innocence. Meaning someone that has not willingly participated in any sexual act(s). Only someone who has never been exposed to sexual contacts or acts should be considered a virgin. Anal and oral sex, in my opinion, are methods of losing your virginity.
             For example, I know a girl who swears that she is still a virgin, but every guy that knows her knows that she freely gives oral sex. In Webster's context she could still be considered a virgin, because she has not engaged in sexual intercourse. However, in my context she is not considered a virgin, because she has engaged in sexual acts.
             Yet, there is another factor of virginity that must be dealt with. If a woman or a man has been raped or molested, she or he did not willingly engage in intercourse. I strongly feel that these people should be considered virgins until they feel they can give their virginity (innocence) to someone.

I do believe that virginity is best gift to your wife or husband you can give after marriage. But to this generation especially millenials are easily give their virginity to their boyfriend or girlfriend eventhough they are not yet in legal age. Virginity is precious so you must be take care of it.

I think for me virginity is not the reason why people is getting married right ?that's the heart of the two , the love .That's the reason why we choose to be married by someone .Even though this girl is not a virgin anymore it is not the reason for you to quit to be married by her .If you truly loves this girl you will accept her , everything .that's the essence of love accepting .

In the ever-changing world, the one thing that people still can’t accept openly is losing the virginity before marriage. It is a sensitive topic especially in the regions where people are more attached with their culture and values

I think it doesn't really matter nowadays ,
But if you really love your partner you wouldn't care if she/he is a virgin or not you would accept her/him no matter what.

it depends on culture and norms  but its important to be virgin before marriage.

Virginity before marriage is still a precious gift a woman can give her husband, but it is no one else's business, especially the parents. Sexual experiences before marriage may also mess up your head, as you easily form a bond with someone you were intimate with. 

Who are you to decide that? What if the husband doesn't care if the wife was a virgin before the marriage or not? For some individuals, it may be important. But I don't think that for the vast majority of the others, virginity holds any importance. If I were a male, then I would never inquire about these things to my potential spouse.

Yes your right it is the best gft that you could give to your husband, even though premarital sex is rampant, dont follow the flow take care of your virginity, and reserve it for the right person. I think it is more exciting when on the first night of the husband of wife is the only right time for sex. Girls nust have really extra careful in choosing a man to be love, there are man who only wants to take your virginity and leave their partner, it is very sad thing.

But, but, but...

Is getting married before virginity even possible?