Topic: VIRGINITY before getting married - page 14. (Read 2131 times)

The couples who are dating does not really wait for the wedding to get involved sexually and therefore it is not very important also.

Usually it more important when you live in the country side, that's where people (most likely religious people) tend to keep this tradition, but since the new age with tech and everything, even in the country side there is no respect for this anymore.

Maybe for others it is important,it depends upon the situation if you truly love that person virgin or not no pronlem.I think the most important is the love and the respect of each other.

It is still important, at least for me, as I am also still waiting for the right person for me so I can offer myself whole and say that I waited for the right time. But if my love made mistakes in the past and is no longer a virgin then I should accept her if I really love her.

There are many people who are still very conservative about all these things and therefore in their houses it is still very important to be a virgin.

It has its own disadvantages..

1, if u re someone who likes a very high sexually active woman and u haven't had sex before,this might be a problem in marriage which might puah the man to cheat

To be honest, I find it absurd the idea of virginity before marriage. There are several points I want to make.

1. Sex - Since sex is one of the needs of our bodies (scientifically), it is important to know if you are compatible with your lover/partner before being married. If you cannot please your wife/husband in bed it surely will spell problems later on (infidelity etc..).

2. Love - If you love your partner, it does not matter what her history was. Being too conservative means you are missing out on opportunities to grow and learn. Being able to learn and grow is a part of living our lives. Many conservatives treat women who are not virgins as immoral and such, I say look into yourselves first. Too many being self-righteous pricks in this world.

3. Respect - People should just learn to respect other people's decisions for their lives. It can be bad or good but that is what makes us human. Having sex before marriage is not a crime so it should not be labeled as almost like it.

For me virginity is something that protects women. If you value the idea being a virgin until you married life that will be a great gift for your man. But being a happy couple don't required this. Love is the key to happiness. regardless you are a virgin or not, end of the day, its the heart that counts. You have to love your woman regardless of her background. You can't change what happen.  But today and tomorrow, definitely you have it in your hands. So just decide to be happy. Cheers.

Super nice words of you.its only mean that you love the person truly.virginity cant guarantee you with a happy family.happy family is how you bothaccept and love each other. and nowadays before getting married here in our country the girl already pregnant and i think its like normal now

Don’t get me wrong – sex is good but we have distorted God’s plan for sex which by the way God created for married people to enjoy.

With the rise of sex before marriage – comes the rise of dysfunctional relationships, teenage pregnancy, aids, and the objectification of women. It is funny how a lot of groups are fighting for women’s right but never put too much emphasis on how culture is dehumanizing women.

I do agree that virginity is important before marriage is that you are proud of your future spouse but now a day , we cannot deny that the fact of having boyfriend or girlfriend will give up everything to make him/her happy and making love, and in the end they broke up and losing virginity ,we should consider the situation. we all are just very tend to talk and start giving our bad comments, we should not forget that there may  come a situations in every person's life when one unknowingly may commit a mistake, but it doesn't that he can never overcome of this ..we all should be given an environment where regretting about some mistake is possible. Nevertheless, if you love the person no matter virgin or not,  you have to love him/her, accept everything. Marriage is all about Love, acceptance and respect. The loss of virginity isn't plays a major role in a successful marriage. However, women should avoid casual sex. It is because when woman involves sexual with a wrong man, then she feels attached to the man because of a love which is released during orgasm. Men however don't get attached to women due to lack of Oxycontin. So if a woman enjoys casual sex, then she becomes less marriageable as no man will ever satisfy her sexual needs. So a virgin women or a women who prefer long term relationships are always suitable for marriage.but it's our own choice to select a partner of our life, If we select a non-virgin but trustworthy and loyal, original person instead of a virgin ,traitor person , certainly they will live their happiest life without all anxieties.

For me it is absurd,imagine you like the girl you want but can't have sex with her until we get married,and suddenly it's not yours,and don't know how good she is in certain areas,it's like a cat in a bag,to be married first-and then got!To understand better your mate,and how much you will caifano,you need better know each other,not only in communication but also in passion in bed TD

in us. the teenager's virginity has been taken at a very young age. so the virginity before getting married is non sense to them. in some countries like mine. virginity is the one of the factors to have a strong relationship.

Virginity is indeed a big issue for a couple. For me, I don't judge a girl or a woman by her virginity. First things first, you already committed yourself to her. So why have the issue of virginity if she is already with you? I just want to say that it is okay for me even though she is still virgin or not. As long as I love her, and she love me. We are going to marry each other regardless on the issue of virginity. Besides, you are dreaming for a happy family with her, you are going to make out with her until you have your own offspring/s.

Yes of course.. Virginity is still important before getting married because for a woman it symbolizes purity and chastity. And it is the best gift of a wife to his husband after their marriage. However, people nowadays were having the per marital sex where they give up easily their virginity out of marriage.virginity is an absolute thing for me, when I get a living companion candidate I will ask first still a virgin or not because it is in the mark that women can keep themselves.

Virginity dosent guarantee a good marriage or means your woman won't still cheat after getting married...These days,people just live to enjoy their lives

it proves that the girl has never been touched by another person. The restoration of virginity should not be true. Same means he's lying

One must know his/her value and this is the starting point. Sex before marriage is a possible thing as long as a person doesn't seek to gain as much exprerience as he/she can.

Rightly said. Human lifespan is increasing, and it is now normal to have multiple partners over the life duration. But the most important thing is not to have more than one partner at the same time. Everything else is OK, in my opinion.

Does it matter today? Virginity is almost nothing for young generations thanks for western movies and its culture. Girls lose it when they are very young and don't ready for this. I don't know what motivates them