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February 06, 2018, 03:22:09 AM
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

I don't think so. Being a virgin is not a gauge of compatibility. It doesn't mean that a person is virgin that they're any less pleasant. I mean if the person you're with makes you happy and you want to share what life you have with that person even if they're no longer a virgin then by all means go ahead. Don't be a stuck up. I mean alot of single parents fond themselves getting married to another person. That there is admirable, it's someone willing enough to step up to the challenge that the previous partner stepped away from
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February 06, 2018, 03:19:34 AM
I think nowadays people treat to virginity very irresponsibly, i am conservative in this field. Well i don't think that people should wait before getting married but more serious attitude can prevent many people's problems
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February 06, 2018, 03:10:12 AM
It differs from which country you are because there's a lot of belief regarding in losing someone's virginity and different culture. But still its the important present to your husband if you are a conservative Christian here in the Philippines.

I don't think that nowadays the husbands are much concerned about the virginity of their future spouses. Because they themselves might have lost their virginity much before marriage. No one is going to wait until the mid 30s for their first sexual experience (at least those in their normal mental state). So there is no harm in losing your virginity before marriage.
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February 06, 2018, 02:38:55 AM
Virginity is important to me because it shows that she is intelligent and thoughtful enough to understand that sex is important, and that she would save herself for one person, the person that means the most to her. She understands that sex is more than just getting it off.It shows that she didn't fall into societies imbecile norm of promiscuous, multiple relationships and self-destroying attitude
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February 06, 2018, 02:18:19 AM
It differs from which country you are because there's a lot of belief regarding in losing someone's virginity and different culture. But still its the important present to your husband if you are a conservative Christian here in the Philippines.
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February 06, 2018, 01:45:45 AM
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
Yes it is still important before getting married. If you have respect to your future husband and you are God fearing maybe it is important to you.
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February 05, 2018, 07:05:35 PM
what they miss is that sexuality for most people here is still governed by strong moral codes. its just that those are not code which regard sex before marriage as an immoral act. on the contrary, the slowly emerging de facto consensus seems to say that an intelligent person:

*should wait until at least their 20s,
preferably mid 20,s or after, to marry.
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February 05, 2018, 05:23:09 PM
Virginity before getting is still very important especially if you have fear in God, fear and respect to your parents. And so much love to soon to be your husband. It's the most priceless precious gift that you can give to him.
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February 05, 2018, 04:38:53 PM
Man mauture guys don't like virgins because they are boring and don't interesting in bad. Better to try sex before merriage because it's very important part of life.
Sex before marriage is not really important, you have a wrong mind thinking. If you really love the girl and will repect her then that's the right thing to do than to think of your sex life with her.
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February 05, 2018, 03:20:55 PM
Man mauture guys don't like virgins because they are boring and don't interesting in bad. Better to try sex before merriage because it's very important part of life.
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February 05, 2018, 12:26:34 PM
I do not think so. If a person needs a virgin, and this is the determining factor, he is not friends with his head. Fortunately, there are not so many of them.
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February 05, 2018, 12:11:08 PM
To be honest it depends upon your culture, though in my religion its a big issue, we believe that its a sacred thing that we must protect and a gift that the husband and wife will share and enjoy after getting married. Sadly nowadays this thing is being taken for granted.
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February 05, 2018, 11:19:38 AM
I suppose it never occurred to me to wait until marriage. There's no more waiting until marriage. But, I would tell you that it's OK to have hope...)
But experience has shown that this is an unrealistic expectation Smiley
But don't worry! Hymenoplasty is a surgical procedure which restores the virginal state, allowing her to adhere to certain cultural expectations regarding virginity and marriage.Grin
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February 05, 2018, 10:46:46 AM
Virginity may not be necessarily a requirement for marriage as several
ladies who may have lost their virginity were not traced to immorality.
A lot lost theirs from accident, incidents, unsafe acts physical exercises
and hard training conditions like horse riding, et all.Hence, the criteria
of virginity before marriage may prove partial to these class of ladies.
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February 05, 2018, 10:25:42 AM
This problem does not matter to me, just that person loves me really
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February 05, 2018, 09:41:20 AM
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
I grew up in a conservative country where in virginity of a woman is still important to men. I think virginity should be preserved before marriage.
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February 05, 2018, 09:37:42 AM
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
It is depend on our religions also, there are also religions that don't accept that you need to make love first before getting married but ofcourse you don't need to tell everything to them, it is also depend of a person, as of our generations today most of us don't value their virginity before getting married. I am not yet married but I already have a son and my partner is with me even if we are not yet married. We are happy and contented so I think depend on our situation.
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February 05, 2018, 08:25:00 AM
i think it's depends on people how they want they're life to be. some people treasure that thing because for them it's sign of love how will man will wait for you and patience cause it's really big thing for a man or a relationship.
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February 05, 2018, 07:54:36 AM
I think these days being a virgin before getting married is not important. Maybe in some countries or religions it's important, in mine definitely not. It's definitely better to marry a virgin if you ask me lol, but not going to happen. Grin
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February 05, 2018, 07:23:39 AM
It really depends on where you are and your family mindset as asia country are more sensitive to this virginity issue compare to people in western country.
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