Topic: VIRGINITY before getting married - page 20. (Read 2131 times)
I don't expect my wife to be a virgin, but girls should think twice before having sex during their teens. Because I have seen many cases in which immature girls end up getting used up physically by perverts and psychos. These people target those girls with low confidence levels. Sex education can help in the prevention of such incidents.
Personally, I still believe it is important. Even if it is important to the family, it still depends to the person.
Virginity before getting married is pretty stupid because sex is one of main parts to make good family. At my opinion relationships without sex is not stong enough.
Virginity before getting married is an old concept that worked in old times. But now times have changed and so have our opinions.
Virginity before getting married is pretty stupid because sex is one of main parts to make good family. At my opinion relationships without sex is not stong enough.
I personally know a lot of happy married people that were not virgins when they got married and nothing bad happened.
In my opinion yes. For me virginity is a kind of gift to your future partner in life for better and poorer. Virginity is one of the most precious gift. This is like an Apple of my eye. I will respect the most those people who still have it. They are amazing and great.
You may want to know if your spouse is sexually compatible before marriage, there are sometimes certain combinations that just aren't comfortable/don't work. Something to consider, and weigh it for what you will.
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
I think it still depends on our belief and culture. Some countries don't value a woman's virginity anymore for they believe that if we truely love a person , we will acceps her mistakes and past. While in some countries, they value a woman's virginity more like a treasure that should only be given to a person after their wedding because it is the will of God.
I think it is much important now more than ever, with people just hooking up here and there, there are no more genuine relationships that are made because people just want to mate and move on.
Yes it's important, but from this generation, I dont think that virginity still matters because teens these days are so independent that at young age they are not virgin anymore.
In my opinion it is depend on the culture of the country.In Asian countries according to their culture,they believe that virginity is a must thing before the marriage.
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
As of me is still important,because its the only thing we could give as a gift to our spouse before getting married,it means your a woman with a pure dignity,honor and respect,.
The only thing that is good in virginity is the absence of any female nastiness and then not a fact there can be an inherent erosion, for example.
When is it time to engage in sex, if not in youth? It's disgusting to look at old people and even men can not really do it later.
When is it time to engage in sex, if not in youth? It's disgusting to look at old people and even men can not really do it later.
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
Yes I do believe it is still important because it is a very precious thing from a woman that she can offer to her man. But because of this modern world many were Victims by the liberated thinking ,and also in our time now people are too emotional and the definition of love is with sex outside marriage which is wrong. But to a man who really in love to a woman which already lost her virginity it doesn't matter. Because love always forgive and offer acceptance.
I don't agree with some points what are talking here. You cannot measure purity only looking at virginity. Some women sleep with hundreds of men without losing virginity.
As per my opinion, it's all about love and understanding each other. Virginity doesn't count on them.
As per my opinion, it's all about love and understanding each other. Virginity doesn't count on them.
For me it doesnt matter if the guy truelly love a woman.. Because not everyone have the same cases..
Truelove doesnt lo0k for the virginity or anything..
Truelove doesnt lo0k for the virginity or anything..
Nowadays if your fiance is virgin up to now your so lucky and bless if you have one. But still if you love someone nobody can stop you if it is virgin or not
It's all about the traditions. If you strongly care the traditions and you're living in some village on the shore close to Muqdisho, it's important. But if you're living at London/New York/Paris/Shanghai the virginity can mean:
1) The person has a repulsive treats of character or repulsive appearance so nobody wanted to have a sex with him/her
2) The person has a mental "features" so nobody wanted to have a sex with him/her
3) The person is so strongly forced to stay virgin with the family (or just been bullyed) ... well you got it, it's quite close to mental "features"
Also if your wife/husband are virgin that means that he/she is totally unskilled at the bed and, moreover, has a hidden pervert ideas (because of years of abstinence) and I'm strongly not recommending you to deal with that person due to the obvious danger.
1) The person has a repulsive treats of character or repulsive appearance so nobody wanted to have a sex with him/her
2) The person has a mental "features" so nobody wanted to have a sex with him/her
3) The person is so strongly forced to stay virgin with the family (or just been bullyed) ... well you got it, it's quite close to mental "features"
Also if your wife/husband are virgin that means that he/she is totally unskilled at the bed and, moreover, has a hidden pervert ideas (because of years of abstinence) and I'm strongly not recommending you to deal with that person due to the obvious danger.
for some people maybe yes, but in my view it is not important
The important thing is that both couples love each other
The important thing is that both couples love each other
I agree with you. Those guys who want to marry a virgin girl must advertise for the same. I don't think that they will get many proposals. Nowadays, the youth is hyperactive, as a result of the proliferation of the social media. Their sex lives start when they are in their mid-teens. If you ask them to abstain from sex, then they are not going to listen to you.
Before, virginity was very sanctified that one can be immoral if she/he is known to have lost her/his virginity before marriage, but now, I think it is as if very normal for couples to have sex even if they are not yet married. Even teenagers are engaged on it even if how the parents educate their children not to do that thing yet if you are not blessed. Social media is one of the factors that contribute to the early knowledge of teenagers about sex.
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