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Topic: VIRGINITY before getting married - page 17. (Read 2137 times)

newbie
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February 05, 2018, 05:11:16 AM
It depends on the culture but I think we are now in a millenial age where people wants a modern life.Character cannot be judged on the basis of virginity. It's only contribute susceptibility among partner who are about to getting married.
member
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February 05, 2018, 04:03:39 AM
It depends on the culture but I think we are now in a millenial age where people wants a modern life. Young one's always want adventures and were not that modest anymore, I think that is not a issue anymore.
newbie
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February 05, 2018, 03:56:50 AM
Virginity is not about sharing a physical relationship with other but it is more about sharing trust and belongingness with other. Character cannot be judged on the basis of virginity.
member
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February 05, 2018, 03:05:13 AM
I recommend trying it out before married to make sure you're compatible.

Trying out what? Having sex? You guys are funny. In order to check whether two individuals are compatible, you don't need to indulge in sex. Stay together for 1-2 years, and enjoy your life (not necessarily by having sex). If you feel that both of you are capable of leading a family life after that period, then you can proceed to marriage.

I agree with you on the point that there's more to compatibility than just sex. Goals in life, personality traits, even sense of humor etc. have to be reconcilable for it to work long-term.

On the other hand in my opinion a sound and satisfying sex life is the foundation for all of this to work. For many people sex plays a pivotal role in strengthening and reaffirming their bond with their partner. And there's just no guarantee that two people click in bed solely based on mutual chemistry, which is an argument that can be made against staying a virgin until marriage, because this way you can't explore your sexuality and that may lead to a whole lot of unpleasant surprises and annoyances when you finally start exploring with your brand new spouse. Liking or loving someone doesn't automatically translate to compatibility in bed which is why I think people shouldn't bother guarding their virginity. But that's definitely up to personal preference and if someone feels that is the way they want to live their lifes more power to them.
jr. member
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February 04, 2018, 11:01:37 PM
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?


We're on the 21st Century where virginity doesn't matter anymore. Let us stop being racist that being not virgin before getting married gives you a lesser human. Stop this kind of stupidity it doesn't help improve the lives of humanity. It's only contribute susceptibility among partner who are about to getting married.
newbie
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February 04, 2018, 02:34:10 PM
yes it is important to me. I do not want him to get in touch with someone else before. The one I love is only mine  Wink
newbie
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February 02, 2018, 12:33:45 AM
Wait until you are married to someone of the opposite sex
newbie
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February 01, 2018, 11:48:18 PM
It is really a good thing or nice experience to hold virginity before marriage...
Virginity is also a sign of loyalty between the couples. By holding your virginity you can save your culture also .
But now we are in a modern age world, there no one understand that thing..
legendary
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February 01, 2018, 11:47:26 PM
I recommend trying it out before married to make sure you're compatible.

Trying out what? Having sex? You guys are funny. In order to check whether two individuals are compatible, you don't need to indulge in sex. Stay together for 1-2 years, and enjoy your life (not necessarily by having sex). If you feel that both of you are capable of leading a family life after that period, then you can proceed to marriage.
newbie
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February 01, 2018, 11:33:35 PM
I don't think so...
Because now a days people getting married in
30's and to maintain the virginity at that time is very hard to maintain..
Doing sex with someone before marriage is not a bad habit or crime, it is a new experience till when it is in limit with complete precautions...
newbie
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February 01, 2018, 10:57:53 PM
I recommend trying it out before married to make sure you're compatible.
legendary
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February 01, 2018, 10:55:21 PM
Mostly couple now get married because the girl already pregnant.maybe there still keep their virginity but only few girls.this cause sometimes of a broken family because if you get married at early age because u get pregnant theres a regret from both of girl and boy they might think theres a lot of things that they cant do anymore.and that will cause of fights and separate.

Teenage pregnancies must be avoided, as they will ruin the girl's career. And in some countries, abortion is not allowed and therefore the girl will be forced to give birth to the child and then drop out of the studies. Such incidents should be avoided, through awareness campaigns and counselling.
newbie
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February 01, 2018, 10:52:13 PM
I think yes, it is a great feeling if you keep your virginity before marriage because with this you knew to yourself on how to control your feelings over lust. But with this generation, to almost all men sex is basis of your love to them. Sometimes after getting what they want they dump women and if there's a baby involve some of them don't want to take the responsibility, that's why there's a lot of single mother.
full member
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February 01, 2018, 04:25:18 PM
Mostly couple now get married because the girl already pregnant.maybe there still keep their virginity but only few girls.this cause sometimes of a broken family because if you get married at early age because u get pregnant theres a regret from both of girl and boy they might think theres a lot of things that they cant do anymore.and that will cause of fights and separate.
full member
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February 01, 2018, 03:56:01 PM
It is important but its not everything. People make mistakes. People get into a relationship and believe and hope they will be together forever. Or their girl friend and boyfriend will be their future wife and husband but unfortunately it happens very rarely. After that relationship they find another better relationship that would bring them into marriage. For sure virginity is not already there but, what does it matter if the relationship is more better this time than the first one?
full member
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February 01, 2018, 03:00:57 PM
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Nope, I think living life to the fullest is the most important thing and restricting yourself based on somebody else belief is going to hurt you long term. Better do what you want most, that is what life wants you to do.
hero member
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February 01, 2018, 02:53:51 PM
Virginity is useless before getting married because sex is important part of life and when you have no idea what your lovely part can do. Your relationships can be destroyed in blink of eye.
member
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February 01, 2018, 09:11:58 AM
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
For me yes, I believe that the virginity is the greatest gift that we can give to our husband after marriage, but in this generation virginity is hard to keep because some men want to have it. Sex is fun and exciting couple enjoy it before and after marriage.
yes, indeed virginity is important guarded and given to the husband after marriage. but it all goes back to each individual. because love is not only limited to virginity alone, if someone loves him of course he will be able to accept all the advantages and disadvantages, and all the deeds and mistakes he did in the past.
full member
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February 01, 2018, 08:27:53 AM
Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?
For me yes, I believe that the virginity is the greatest gift that we can give to our husband after marriage, but in this generation virginity is hard to keep because some men want to have it. Sex is fun and exciting couple enjoy it before and after marriage.
hero member
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February 01, 2018, 07:41:09 AM
It's the norm of our society. Having to keep your virginity before marriage is socially acceptable. Societal cultures made us believe that it is the greatest gift that we can give to our husband after the day we get married. I also believe its true. We must only give it to the person after marriage

It is a norm and likewise important.  As of this age it is hard to keep your virginity because some men really wanted to have it.  For them it is the proof that you really love them.  As for some your relationship as girlfriend and boyfriend will last if you do it.  Amd likewise it is like being advertise on television that it is okay to do it while still on that stage.
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