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Quote from: ethereumhunter on February 11, 2019, 01:13:51 AM

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Quote from: CTO@MyBitMine on November 28, 2018, 05:58:37 AM

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

If you spent all of your money in casino and lost of it, then you will not only feel shame in front of your wife and family but also it will be troublesome for you too as your money is lost and now how will you meet your daily expenses. In extreme cases, you have to take loan and it will further make your life tough.

I guess that he will have some conversation with his family and even the bad words will come out because he loses all of his money. That is what we will get if we are lost and we were telling to other people because not all people around us can accept for our lose and they can blame for what we've done. So maybe he can make a choice not to tells other people about his losses, but he doesn't need to play gambling again in the other days.

Again, I don't know if those people who are really addicted and have experienced the walk of shame has the willingness to tell their family what really happened. And I'm sure that you will hear every excuses in the book and will not admit that they have lost everything in a casino.

It's really hard to be addicted in gambling and unless you can control your emotions and will just play to have some fun, then you won't be experience this so called 'walk of shame'. It's hard and brutal and it is really painful to experience it.

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Yeah i did once,when i am invited by a friend to play online casino things that first time for me because i use to play in actual casino or in my local gambling places,but online casino is different that i enjoyed alot and not noticing all my money had been spent and in the end i go home empty handed lucky that my firnd had an extra amount so I asked for crediting my taxi fare lol.i will never allow my self having this again since i am now a occasional gambler for my family is the first in my mind before anything else

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Quote from: shoreno on February 11, 2019, 12:30:00 AM

walk of shame is the opposite of walk of fame but in the case of the op that cant be considered a shameful . loosing is not shameful but rather it is stressful , depressful and regretful . so what if you loose ? loosing is normal and there is nothing wrong with it . it is only shameful if you are stealling someones money and then you loose it all in gambling .

@op just tell them the truth and move on . basic !

But it is really shame when they use money o betting which is important for their family to survive on that day and lose it so that is the reason people don't have to gamble with the money which is important for something like for our family.

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Quote from: virasog on February 10, 2019, 10:53:03 PM

Quote from: iMark on February 09, 2019, 08:19:53 PM

Quote from: CTO@MyBitMine on November 28, 2018, 05:58:37 AM

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

If you spent all of your money in casino and lost of it, then you will not only feel shame in front of your wife and family but also it will be troublesome for you too as your money is lost and now how will you meet your daily expenses. In extreme cases, you have to take loan and it will further make your life tough.

I guess that he will have some conversation with his family and even the bad words will come out because he loses all of his money. That is what we will get if we are lost and we were telling to other people because not all people around us can accept for our lose and they can blame for what we've done. So maybe he can make a choice not to tells other people about his losses, but he doesn't need to play gambling again in the other days.

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walk of shame is the opposite of walk of fame but in the case of the op that cant be considered a shameful . loosing is not shameful but rather it is stressful , depressful and regretful . so what if you loose ? loosing is normal and there is nothing wrong with it . it is only shameful if you are stealling someones money and then you loose it all in gambling .

@op just tell them the truth and move on . basic !

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Quote from: iMark on February 09, 2019, 08:19:53 PM

Quote from: CTO@MyBitMine on November 28, 2018, 05:58:37 AM

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

If you spent all of your money in casino and lost of it, then you will not only feel shame in front of your wife and family but also it will be troublesome for you too as your money is lost and now how will you meet your daily expenses. In extreme cases, you have to take loan and it will further make your life tough.

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Quote from: iMark on February 09, 2019, 08:19:53 PM

Quote from: CTO@MyBitMine on November 28, 2018, 05:58:37 AM

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

Aggressive and not so well balance attitude will lead you to this shameful act, people who suffer with this type gambling problem endanger their
self and their love ones, without any control with your money you will suffer big loses, you can keep playing and risking every centavos that you
have thinking that luck will be there for you.

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Quote from: tisoysoy on February 09, 2019, 05:47:18 PM

I think you just felt ashamed all by yourself because your families doesn't know where have you been and what have you done, particularly in your kids. You feel ashame if your kids asking something to buy and you have nothing to give because you loss in such an addiction gambling.

As OP said we have other interpretations of 'walk of shame'. This kind of shame is totally going to through your heart if you can't give something for your kids because you have lost because of gambling. But base on the situation, his kids witnessed him to get into their house without anything to say because he came from a long walk of lost. Having this kind of shame from your wife and kids would get into their minds and everybody must learn from OP's lesson.

This is really a shameful one.You should always be responsible for whatever the consequences of your wrong doing.For me,i have been addicted to gambling too but still i managed to leave a fare for myself in going home.I think it's just a matter of discipline.We gamblers should always know our limits in gambling so that we will never go home pennyless.

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Quote from: tisoysoy on February 09, 2019, 05:47:18 PM

I think you just felt ashamed all by yourself because your families doesn't know where have you been and what have you done, particularly in your kids. You feel ashame if your kids asking something to buy and you have nothing to give because you loss in such an addiction gambling.

As OP said we have other interpretations of 'walk of shame'. This kind of shame is totally going to through your heart if you can't give something for your kids because you have lost because of gambling. But base on the situation, his kids witnessed him to get into their house without anything to say because he came from a long walk of lost. Having this kind of shame from your wife and kids would get into their minds and everybody must learn from OP's lesson.

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Quote from: iMark on February 09, 2019, 08:19:53 PM

Quote from: CTO@MyBitMine on November 28, 2018, 05:58:37 AM

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

Hard to say or hard to control yourself once you're inside of a casino. There are people who said in the beginning that they will control their emotions, but once they're inside, they don't know what happened to them because most of them literally forgot their so-called control. So just enjoy though and have fun and I'm sure the winnings will come, no need to force it otherwise you can't control your greed, the feeling of losing is hard to swallow that makes you want to bet more and more until such time that you don't have any money left and not even for a cab fare.

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Quote from: iMark on February 09, 2019, 08:19:53 PM

Quote from: CTO@MyBitMine on November 28, 2018, 05:58:37 AM

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

Even though we don't know the truth he said, I feel the luck factor that he approaches every bet. Ability to control himself only affects the money management side and does not control the winning side he gets. He must tell us about the way he gets every gamble, maybe it would be better so as we don't walk of shame when we have played gambling.

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Quote from: CTO@MyBitMine on November 28, 2018, 05:58:37 AM

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

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Quote from: markdario112616 on March 06, 2018, 12:03:56 PM

Did anyone here have experience a walk of shame (Walking home since you have a loss all your gambling money in just one snap)? Well, It did happen to me once and I'll never do that again. It was the bad year for me (Peek of my addiction), I normally left my atm/credit card at home if I were to visit a casino and have enough money wih some changes for my stay, food, drink and my fare. The first time it happens to me is when I was so frustrated because I can't win up to point I already spent my allocated money for my fare. I was devastated that I need to go home at 3 a.m. with no money literally and I haven't got a phone in me (which make it worst). Started walking from the casino going home it was the longest walk I ever made I pity myself and upon arriving at home my wife and my kids are already awake, I just can't bare to look at them. I don't even know what to say at that point. I just walk in shame, in front of my kids.

How about you, have experienced it? We all have different interpretation on "Walk of shame".

if this is really happened to your person then hi we had definitely bad time and bad experience but I do not experience that kind of thing in gambling and I am not giving a big environment for gambling and it had a limitation to me while I was getting a profit also.

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Quote from: tisoysoy on February 09, 2019, 05:47:18 PM

I think you just felt ashamed all by yourself because your families doesn't know where have you been and what have you done, particularly in your kids. You feel ashame if your kids asking something to buy and you have nothing to give because you loss in such an addiction gambling.

Yeah, this is an essence that I think is more than a 'walk of the shame' when someone experiences defeat in gambling. An addiction that will make someone else's life languish because of a gambler like us, I know what I'm worried about is when they ask me for money (as a father) but I can't give anything because the money that should be given to them was spent for gamble. The thing that I always reminded of not being an addict, hopefully I can pass it.

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Quote from: Bagaji on February 09, 2019, 04:51:11 PM

"Walk of shame" this is the case whenever a gambler is addicted to gambling and turned out to be irresponsible while gamble. In my own case, i have never walked away in shame since i joined my friends in gambling, this was actualized because i have never taken gambling as my primary objective rather secondary.

I don't get it, you go with your friends to gamble and that means you will be gambling right? And that makes it your primary objective. I guess what you are saying is that earning money or earning profit is not your priority in the game but just having fun with your friends. Well, that is the usual as a lot of other people do that eith their friends.

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I know how it feels especially if you lost everything of your money in gambling and you have to return to your home with nothing except of shame because you let yourself push through harder for the sake of profit. And that is your fault since you think that gambling could be a source of income but reality slaps you real hard that you have to wake up that you just lost your money within a couple of hours while worked hard to it for a month.

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I think you just felt ashamed all by yourself because your families doesn't know where have you been and what have you done, particularly in your kids. You feel ashame if your kids asking something to buy and you have nothing to give because you loss in such an addiction gambling.

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Quote from: JohnBitCo on February 09, 2019, 11:02:50 AM

Quote from: livingfree on November 28, 2018, 04:04:47 PM

Quote from: CTO@MyBitMine on November 28, 2018, 05:58:37 AM

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

Don't want to experience this again. It's hard if you will do it while having kids and let your wife worry at all. Going home broke, lost and don't know what to do is a difficult part for us, gamblers.

It is our choice if we will decide to go home and start walking with a shame by losing all of we have.

Losing money in gambling is not a ordinary thing. It will not only bring loss to your money but in extreme case you wife and kids can leave you too if you play too much gambling and lose too often.
Losing is always been a shameful thing and you will not want your family know that you have lost in gambling.

Understanding what losing means, you will understand that this is fine and essential when you gamble. Expect that you will lose in some other days but going to that point that you're going to be extreme with your kids and wife that's not walking of shame anymore. That's abuse! You are abusing them being supreme in your household. And the effect of gambling to you is becoming different which you shouldn't do in such occassions.

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"Walk of shame" this is the case whenever a gambler is addicted to gambling and turned out to be irresponsible while gamble. In my own case, i have never walked away in shame since i joined my friends in gambling, this was actualized because i have never taken gambling as my primary objective rather secondary.

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Quote from: livingfree on November 28, 2018, 04:04:47 PM

Don't want to experience this again. It's hard if you will do it while having kids and let your wife worry at all. Going home broke, lost and don't know what to do is a difficult part for us, gamblers.

It is our choice if we will decide to go home and start walking with a shame by losing all of we have.

Then make it your choice to not irresponsible and spending all the money needed for the basic stuffs when you have a family that depends on you.

It's a lot better to have a fixed amount of money and not bet all of it in a single run so you can play more with it and can even play more with the profits if you want.

Never happened to me and i hope i don't follow that path, i already have enough problems. However, i did get scammed twice if that counts. Not for too much money though, like $20 in total.

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