I have a few grams of gold on my body, I could be forced to give them to someone against my will, but it’s a bearable risk.
I have a few more grams in my house, hidden on a safebox hidden somewhere.
I also own a few gold pounds. Those are in a safe box at the bank. Protected with a meter-thick 5 layers safebox all surrounded by water.
I can’t understand how this approach isn’t followed for common people and ppl tend to store huge money on a mobile phone, or in a random wallet on their computers.
There are professional for the custody (want a name? checksig.io).
This doesn’t make a lesser bitcoiner if you give your coins to someone that knows how to store them (definitely, not an exchange).