Topic: What conditions might cause you to stop gambling? - page 3. (Read 648 times)

-    Most wives actually do not want to know that their husbands gamble because other wives think that gambling is not a good game. Maybe because they know that many people have ruined their lives and destroyed their families because of gambling addiction.

But there are other wives who are fine with them if they find out that you won gambling; of course, that's fine because you will give the money you won to your wife.

As you mentioned the factors earlier, can make us stop gambling because the situation is no longer conducive in the family or finances then the best step is to stop.

If it is an addiction then it will be more difficult to stop, people will act what they want because this is already in direct medicine unless they slowly go to a psychologist to find a solution, if I will gamble because I feel uncomfortable with finances and my family wants to stop, but from all that my family never knew that I was a gambling player, so they thought I didn't do it.

Fortunately, it can still be controlled, I understand this because other things are more important than gambling, so gambling is not every day, when I do it if there is more money.

I was very addicted to gambling even few months back but now I have lost all my capital by betting on gambling so I can control myself from gambling day by day . Moreover, another big reason is that my wife has always helped me to get out of this terrible addiction called gambling. I have a son and a daughter and to secure their future I must reserve large funds which gambling cannot do. I must abstain from gambling to ensure my children's future so I don't involve myself in gambling very recently.

The only condition that can make me stop gambling is if my wife days that she doesn't want me to gamble anymore and she gives her reasons for that. This is because, I will not allow my gambling activities cause problem in my marriage. I am not a gambling addict as I only gamble with very little % from my income and that has not effect on my monthly pay.

Although, no one can know what will become of us tomorrow and it is only when I am in a situation that will not permit me to gamble that I will give up gambling but apart from that I don't think that I will stop because gambling is one of the means that I use in entertaining myself after the long week stress.

In my case it would be constantly losing a lot, I am a person who believes that when we do something and that thing doesn't work out, we spend a long time making the same mistake, constantly losing, so I stop doing that thing. That's because in my way of thinking, there's no point in continuing to do something that isn't working, so before it hurts me too much, I immediately stop doing that thing. In the case of gambling, it's no different, when I started betting on sports, I lost consecutively for many days, I thought of different ways to bet and not constantly suffer losses. but it was useless, I just lost every day

until after 1 month of being in a losing situation, I decided to stop getting involved with gambling and I spent many years without placing sports bets, without entering a casino. but after many years passed, I went back to online casinos, but this time I already knew what to do, but even with some successes and many mistakes, I realized that there was no point in continuing to bet, so I stopped for a while. In other words, consecutive losses make me stop playing

I can't see there being really anything or any condition that would lead me to stop gambling.  I do really feel for those who can't control their gambling habits.  I know being addicted to gambling must be an extremely difficult thing to work with.  For me I simply bet enough money to really make a sizable impact one way or the other on my bottom line.

I'd stop gambling for anything really. Gambling's not that big for me that I'd only have 2 negotiables before I drop it off lol. I'm a sensible guy and I understand why sometimes things must go, including gambling. I think people should think this way too. The thing about "setting definers for when you'd only stop gambling" puts it at a higher pedestal than what you should normally do, and that gives gambling addiction to me in my opinion. You should be able to drop gambling as easy as dropping that single-player game you've been sinking hours in when you get called for dinner by your mom. Gambling's nothing but a way for you to pass the time and here we are talking as if gambling's the end game entertainment system and we really should set shit for when we'd only allow ourselves to drop it. that's fucking nuts.

I will stop gambling if my records in gambling have not been good consecutively.  For instance, I am always having reoccurring losses which has made me lost everything and maybe landed me in a deep debt and even cost me my relationships, I will call it a quit. We cannot be good in everything  and I'll be deceiving myself if I pretend to believe there are better days ahead.   Every one expects to win whether they are gambling for fun or for the money. My persistent losses in the game is a clear indication that gambling is not for me. If it's not working, it's not working.

All the conditions that you mentioned above can make me stop gambling. If my wife is scolding me, then she will have a reason for that. If they don't notice anything bad, I'm sure she won't be doing things like that. Everyone doesn’t like debt, and we all know it’s very bad to be in debt just because of gambling. That's really a bad one. If you are gambling, you should gamble with the amount you can afford to lose, it shouldn’t even get to the level of being indebted. So debt can also make me stop gambling. If you are taking a loan to gamble, then you are already addicted to gambling.
 
I can’t really explain it all, but everything you mentioned above is really worth stopping gambling because of. Some people won’t care if their parents or wives are complaining about their gambling activities, but if they don’t notice anything bad, you won’t be forced to stop gambling, and since they are your family members, you have to listen to them.

The continuous loss will made you to stop the gambling,because it will leads to big loss in the gambling.If your time is bad,it was sure you will force to loss the big money in the gambling.So play the game with the test and run.If your gambling was not good or your tactics was failed,this leads to the big loss in the gambling.The gambling will cause you big loss on the bad luck.So stop gambling once you get the bad luck in gambling.

From the examples you mentioned in this post, I seriously haven't experienced it. First, my wife found out that I like to bet on sports. However, it's not uncommon for my wife to get involved to determine the bankroll I'm betting on. Very natural, she just makes sure that her husband is consistent with what she is doing. Well, don't let yourself run out of money in gambling. I mean, in the sense that you have lost a lot of money, property and so on. Fortunately, I have no debt for the gambling I did.
Regarding parents' issues, I maintain privacy so that they don't find out about this hobby. the reason is simple, I don't want my parents to worry about worries that can cause negative thinking.

Referring to the question you asked in the title of this thread, honestly I can't answer it correctly. because based on the points you said, I am not related to such things. It's possible, I answered it, but in general. I automatically stop gambling when I am in a work environment, responsibility and integrity are part of my principles. I'm sick, or something else that doesn't mean I can access the casino. at least, I have answered it generally.  So, there are still many things that can make us stop gambling activities. the answer will be different, if the point you are asking about is a complete stop to gambling.

Actually depends since not all would really be that a gambling fan or someone whose really that been doing gambling for that certain extent on which they are really that basing up
about their interest on it. Not all would really be that a gambler for them to choose on playing into it. If they would really be needing to quit up then for sure they could be able to do so easily
comparing into those people who had been doing gambling for a while on which they are really that cant just easily quit up gambling on point.
It do matters on how long you've been doing gambling and how interested you are but if you are really that not that much in concern on stopping then
it wont really be that a problem.

There are other rich people who still gamble despite having a good and stable state in life. Sometimes gambling is not only based on what your condition is in today's natural generation. There are definitely times when there are gamblers who are only after recreation.

And there are others who want to make money and really win at gambling. Now the question is, why do the rich or others who have become rich gamble still? That's because this may have become a routine for them that their body is already looking for. And because of the addiction that has formed in their personalities,

I'm a little dubious about your main reason for actually quitting gambling. And you speculate that "the only condition that will make me quit gambling is when gambling becomes illegal in my country"

Let's swim in the sea of facts. And the fact is that regardless of whether gambling is legal or illegal, the involvement of the public in gambling is tremendous. Some countries in the Asian region, especially Southeast Asian countries, are strongly opposed to gambling activities and consider that this is an illegal activity, but whether this can make their citizens avoid illegal gambling activities. The fact is that this is not the case, public involvement in the world of gambling is very large and even the black market for illegal gambling is thriving in the region. Countries that strictly prohibit gambling, consider illegal gambling activities to be a contagious disease that is very difficult to overcome.

I'm only a little concerned about that, but if the reason behind it is your compliance with the country's rules. I'm very much in favor of that.

And I personally will only stop gambling, when I am in a state where I consider that gambling is no longer an enjoyable activity. Because this reason is in accordance with my main goal when deciding to play gambling, which is to find pleasure.

Alot of peeps can't even imagine themselves quitting gambling...
It has been major part of Thier personal lives and they can't effect a change to negate that fact.. the more they try to, the less they succeed..

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I think for some, it might barely be a "just course of action" to quit gambling from the meanest experiences they've heard of or seen - for others, they may also decide to gamble on Thier hospital beds even at the point of dead.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

Your reasons of stopping to gamble is just very funny and you need to work on what you want so that you don't have to become a addict become you make the kind if money you intend to make. Gambling is a risky adventure and we don't have to stress it or do something that would increase our urge to gamble too much. Those that understand how the gambling industry works and have been a long time gambler, it is important we know how to avoid the urge of gambling too much so that it will not affect us a part time or full scale gamblers.

This is a very good reason too that has either made some gamblers stop it or slyly they kept gambling out of the knowledge of the wife. Sometimes it leads to quarrelling in the home front if the husband doesn't stop because some women so much detest gambling and don't want the husband doing gambling. They also go as far as advising the husband against gambling friends.

I know of families where the wife complain seriously and cause trouble in the home because the husband gambles. It is surely a source of quarrel in the home if the wife doesn't agree with gambling. And the more reason for such quarrel and fighting is when the man doesn't profit from it but only loses. However, some religious women don't like it also whether the husband profit from it or not.

At some point,  the only condition that will make me to stop gambling is when gambling becomes illegal in my country,  because aside from being on the other side of the law,  I won't see any other troubles that can come along with my gambling involvement since I have a limit to how far I go all in on them and what I put up,  plus how I have been able to balance my gambling life with family life also,  so this have made me have a balanced ground for long term gambling and unless the government come up one day with regulations that can affect my freedom to gamble freely.

Gambling is not entirely bad,  but excess of it is what shouldn't be encouraged at some point and being also able to approach gambling with a clear mindset and purpose goes a long way also.

Beside being completely broke, many people shall quit from gambling after they become "Rich".
For example, you get a job with decent position and  salary or your bussiness suddenly booming or you married with a rich guy.
Why need to gamble again when you already have a nice income and stable.

S straight answer to your question will be low funds, when I no longer have funds enough to spare then I may have to just stop because I don't gamble with money I want to use for something important, I only gamble with spare cash or funds in my account so as not to be emotional.

When I gamble with spare cash, it helps me continually keep my mind in check and be able to gamble responsibly enough unlike gambling with money I intend to use for something else, I could get emotional and get irrational with my decisions and definitely end up not having fun in the rather I may become pained about my losses if it turns against me. So basically I stop when I don't have that spare money with which I can gamble.