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November 26, 2023, 06:24:18 AM
Learning as a gambler don't be greedy. If your greedy ness work when you start gambling then you will have to face big problem. That's not in gambling that work in life also. If you are greedy in life then you will suffer a lot in future. Gambling is a sector thats properly connected with life line. We all can see that gambling work is fully connected with life you live.

For gamblers, greed is a problem that is difficult to avoid and has become a common major disease. When greed gets the best of them, they lose self-control and everything falls apart. Those who initially play with full self-control but they become shaky when they get a win with confusion should continue or stop. But most of those who continue their game because they follow the greed that is in them, and it is also their fault that they do not think about the risk of large losses and in the end they themselves experience large losses, therefore they must train themselves to strengthen their intentions and determination so that they do not easily waver by being tempted by bigger wins that have big risks too. At least if they get a win they should be able to control themselves by cashing it in, then they will not experience such a big loss.
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November 26, 2023, 05:31:36 AM
The OP is right, but the mind works in a different manner and consider a naive person entering the casino, they would not have learnt these words of wisdom. This is why gambling is often present in the context of drinking, sex and loud music - something like the vices of human in one place. The people who earn here are the casino owners and never the players. Younger naive people will play trying to win and undoubtedly lose money.

But keep that limited to once a lifetime is good enough - you might have had a good night out there. Learn from that and never play again.
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November 26, 2023, 05:11:53 AM
What if you enter the casino with $200 you bet the same amount. You lose $100 out of the $200 you had placed the bet. You are now left with $100. Next you again bet the $100 and then you win $100. In this scenario would you leave the casino? No, you won't, you would go on bet $100 and then there is zero certainty that you would win next or lose everything you initially had.

This is how gambling works, what you said OP is an idealistic situation. It happens once in a while and I do agree if that happens leave with what you havewon.
Yes, they won't stop even though they have won because they still want to win more wins. And even though that means they can risk losing more, they won't understand and will just continue gambling. Losing $100 is meaningless when they can win a larger amount of money and that means they can recover their losses while also making a profit from gambling. But the scenario will not work like that because, in gambling, they will face losses that will get bigger and that will happen to gamblers who cannot control themselves.

As gamblers, we must be able to learn from every experience we have so that we don't lose a lot of money. We must be able to prevent more losses by having all the necessary things.
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November 26, 2023, 02:27:44 AM
As a gambler, let me ask you this, do you feel something every time you gamble? Do you feel an excitement with every promotion or offer made by the casino? Gambling is indeed created to offer games and make a profit, but the one getting attracted to the casino is the gamblers who are getting mixed emotions and want to go back to gambling houses.
It's called adrenaline, every gambler don't want to lose their money for nothing and if they gamble in a skill based games, they will try to play as best as possible to win. Correct, feeling excited and adrenaline while gambling could be a reason why someone can't stop to gamble, but it's not a problem when you only gamble what you can afford to lose.
Adrenaline indeed! Come off it bro, what you can't control will control you. We should always do the right thing and also preach in the right way, not otherwise. Making an excuse that it's a result of adrenaline is only making excuses to do it more. Fine, if it's positive for you or it's not so negative for you, it might still be good, but when it's negative entirely, one shouldn't find an excuse for it but to condemn it and find a solution. The solution might be to take a temporary break. The most important thing is to make sure that we do not get entangled in what is not good or waste our money.

As for the remark that one can continue to gamble even if losses are involved and so far it's the amount one can afford to lose is also a very bad one. Let us continue to moderate everything we do. Because we can afford it doesn't mean we should waste it. Supposing I can afford to gamble with $50 million, should I now commit it to gamble just like that? Common!!! There should be a budget, there should be a plan.
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November 26, 2023, 12:44:06 AM
What if you enter the casino with $200 you bet the same amount. You lose $100 out of the $200 you had placed the bet. You are now left with $100. Next you again bet the $100 and then you win $100. In this scenario would you leave the casino? No, you won't, you would go on bet $100 and then there is zero certainty that you would win next or lose everything you initially had.

This is how gambling works, what you said OP is an idealistic situation. It happens once in a while and I do agree if that happens leave with what you havewon.
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November 26, 2023, 12:30:03 AM
Learning as a gambler don't be greedy. If your greedy ness work when you start gambling then you will have to face big problem. That's not in gambling that work in life also. If you are greedy in life then you will suffer a lot in future. Gambling is a sector thats properly connected with life line. We all can see that gambling work is fully connected with life you live.
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November 25, 2023, 11:58:28 PM
If you walk into a casino with $200 and you start playing with that $200 and you win $200, get the hell out, you simply just doubled your money, take your goddamn leave, what do you think you wanna do? Win a million dollars? You will go home empty handed.

The next thing that rings in your ear is you can still win another or more, that's the devil whipsering, the art of gambling is knowing when to stop.

The only game where you have some power is in Poker, not the online one, this is the best game in casinos, as making profits off of bad players is possible.

As for Other games, You are at the mercy of the house.

No one actually visits the casino to have fun, you gotta trick the mind, I like to think of it has a fun night out and I am going to spend a few hundred dollars and have a good time and if I win it's a bonus, like I've said, you gotta trick the mind.

Always remember this, you are there to win a game where its statistically impossible to win at, it's not impossible to not understand this about gambling, a wise man once said, "if you want to make money with gambling, own a casino".
it's funny how before you even start the gamble, you tell yourself the ones you get even $100 addition to what you came with, you will stop at that point immediately, but the question is, do you stop at this point? No matter how disciplined you think you are, as long as you are still winning, something must urge you to still continue playing tst you will still win more if you don't stop at that point. This is what lead most persons to loosing all there or if it they've made and even lose our on the amount they came with. Knowing when to stop and actually stopping at that point is one key thing that goes to show that you're a responsible gambler.
That's kinda true! Some gambler enters the gambling world with a word out of their mouth like "I'll try and once I win, I will stop it" but unfortunately, that winning push them to continuously doing it. That 1 win motivates them to try more because they believe that there's a high chance to win again with a higher amount because they experiencing winnings at their first try, they are not aware on what we call beginners luck. Sometimes, even we say something to ourselves at first, but once we try and see the outcome, our perspective will change.
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November 25, 2023, 11:25:59 PM
If you walk into a casino with $200 and you start playing with that $200 and you win $200, get the hell out, you simply just doubled your money, take your goddamn leave, what do you think you wanna do? Win a million dollars? You will go home empty handed.

The next thing that rings in your ear is you can still win another or more, that's the devil whipsering, the art of gambling is knowing when to stop.

The only game where you have some power is in Poker, not the online one, this is the best game in casinos, as making profits off of bad players is possible.

As for Other games, You are at the mercy of the house.

No one actually visits the casino to have fun, you gotta trick the mind, I like to think of it has a fun night out and I am going to spend a few hundred dollars and have a good time and if I win it's a bonus, like I've said, you gotta trick the mind.

Always remember this, you are there to win a game where its statistically impossible to win at, it's not impossible to not understand this about gambling, a wise man once said, "if you want to make money with gambling, own a casino".
it's funny how before you even start the gamble, you tell yourself the ones you get even $100 addition to what you came with, you will stop at that point immediately, but the question is, do you stop at this point? No matter how disciplined you think you are, as long as you are still winning, something must urge you to still continue playing tst you will still win more if you don't stop at that point. This is what lead most persons to loosing all there or if it they've made and even lose our on the amount they came with. Knowing when to stop and actually stopping at that point is one key thing that goes to show that you're a responsible gambler.
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November 25, 2023, 11:12:17 PM
In principle I think that only self-control and some limits can save us from things that are not wanted, especially large defeats, it is clear that if they cannot apply any limits at all to their gambling then they will definitely feel a losing streak, none other than that because there is absolutely no prevention they do, they will not be able to resist their curiosity and also if they lose, they will definitely continue to play until they get what they want, but even if they win in my opinion the amount of victory will not always be able to cover the amount of defeat they have sacrificed at the beginning.

Of course, you need to have a plan and control over your emotions if you want to save yourself from big losses in gambling. Do not expect that gambling will be kind hearted to you and will let you save your money in case you're not in control over your finances. People lose money in gambling without knowing and they come to know when they have already lost a major portion of their life savings in gambling.

It's a matter of what is better or best for them I think that only they themselves will know, sometimes some advice will not work well if the person we give advice is completely unaware of what is best for himself. Haha yes maybe they think that the casino will return all their losses by giving a much bigger win, but on the other hand it's just their hallucination and there is no guarantee whatsoever and certainty for them to win, obviously the final result is always unpredictable and that means you also don't know whether you will win or lose again right? There is absolutely no rule of mercy from the casino for the gamblers, what is more certain is that the casino will be happy when more gamblers are excessive because there they will take a lot of profit from the losing gamblers, and as proof of the fact is that they have more losses than wins, is this statement not reasonable?

Therefore I think there is no reason for them to defend their wrong mindset, it's better for you to realize from now on than the number of your losses is increasing, and it's better to be more assertive or even increase your strength in terms of limits, because that's the only thing that can save you, anyway on the other hand if you are lucky you will also win.
A general rule is that the house will always be in profit. The more a gambler gambles at a casino, the more money that casino earns. But not everyone only loses there. Many people also get big rewards form the casino. In gambling control is in your own hands. In this platform, the gambler who will be more attractive, the more likely he is to lose. You must try to limit yourself. Consecutive winning is never possible in gambling. A gambler may win 5 or 10 games in a row but he will definitely lose the next game. So I think every gambler should develop such realization that he does not consider gambling as a source of more income. Moreover, those who are patient here will be able to survive in this platform for a long time.

And that's the fact that the host will always win, they can't beat the host easily nor is it easy to conquer the gambling system that has been set up with its rules to always win, because the rules are difficult to change or even cannot be changed so it is difficult to get a win for players who play gambling. Even if they get a win, most likely they will return to play by continuing the game where the winnings that have been obtained are bet again to get a bigger win than what has been obtained, they forget that the casino or slot machine system is randomized, so it is impossible to always get a win especially with a winning streak, If they get a winning streak in my opinion it's not because the casino is good, but indeed their luck is strong, in my opinion, if you have won, it's better to cash it in, don't continue the game by risking the winnings you have got, because everyone who gambles knows that the winnings you have got can be lost again if you continue the game. Although in the casino there are other people who will encourage to continue the game, I think it's best not to, because the one who will feel the defeat and victory is yourself, other people are only provocateurs if they tell you to continue the game. So it's better to have self-control to limit the game.
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November 25, 2023, 08:28:58 PM
You must really be a strong gem to kow when to leave when gambling. Speaking from a personal experience, gambling and making 100 percent with little money doesn't seem like a win, little reason why you find people trying to win a million dollars off the casinos.

But when you go into gambling with the same mindset of a business man, you look at your wins froms a risk assessment lens. If you make a 10 percent profit and above that, its still a win and you can walk out without losses. This mindset will save everyone in the gambling space who considers it a good move towards their gambling habits.

You must learn how to outgrow the greedy part of you if you want to enjoy wins in the gambling space, ever wondered why people loose constantly even after a winning streak, its directly  tied to their greed levels, resist it at all times.
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November 25, 2023, 08:15:10 PM
Each person is a Player who has his or her Own experiences and can say a lot, but how can we educate ourselves in some way to many more? especially those who are noted ? I do Agree with that motion because many of those who fall into addiction are because they did not know how to manage their money in a moment, or I did not know how to do it when they had a lot of money and lost it all, or perhaps they gained a lot and lost it. in the game, because they simply did not know anything about how to do or how to behave at a given time thanks to a casino Action , so these are the things that every player should take into consideration , for example a Few days ago I saw a Great article that I talked about slots, and I know that many newbies love Slots , where they give valuable advice that comes from a great casino on the forum Called bitcasino.io, which I Read and felt like it was Pure gold, considering From this things always focus on the best to be Able to have at the time of Playing, worse than? because Always in one case if you are going to Risk it is money.

Of course, my experience has made me play in many ways and of course it makes oneself more disciplined and willing to do certain things, such as having one's own rules to protect oneself, because no one likes to lose money, and one of My rules are very basic , but I consider it Important to only have the money that you are willing to lose, and when you have a somewhat large profit, you must hold back, not chase losses or be greedy, because that is how you lose money. , now I have created new ones, but to be profitable, but that means having a lot of time to be able to execute more, because if I want to be profitable in a casino, I have to have my own rules, for example if I win in a gaming session 1 or 2 USD, well I don't play Anymore , I play another game session the next day, without having to risk what I Won.
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November 25, 2023, 03:22:13 PM
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I don't think that gambling was created that way. Getting attracted to gambling is an emotion that every individual gambler gets because they like the feeling of winning. It is our own personal emotion that makes us go back to a gambling site. Even with losing more money, people will continue to gamble to experience the enjoyment of winning in a gambling site.

I disagree, gambling casino is created to make profit.  And in order to make profit, these casino should be interesting and be able to capture peoples interest and attention.  The fact that gambling casinos offer a chance for individual to win huge amount, it is not due to the person's emotion that triggers their interest, but the offer made by the casino.  The gamblers emotion just follow to what the casino offers.

As a gambler, let me ask you this, do you feel something every time you gamble? Do you feel an excitement with every promotion or offer made by the casino? Gambling is indeed created to offer games and make a profit, but the one getting attracted to the casino is the gamblers who are getting mixed emotions and want to go back to gambling houses.

It's really exciting if the casino has offers like this and I think there won't be any problem if you get excited about those offers if you only gamble what you can afford to lose.
Yes, these feelings of excitement or something in gambling are hard to stop, but if you have control over your emotions, just go. Play as much as you want.
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November 25, 2023, 01:43:38 PM
I agree with your opinion, when we gamble, luck is really needed to be able to win our gambling and we should not be greedy when gambling.
When you win, always continuing the game is wrong and it is a greedy behavior that we should not do when gambling. I believe that every user has actually won a game when playing, it's just that they don't feel satisfied with that win and keep looking for a bigger win. so they can get rich quickly, but in the end they just waste money and time gambling.

We all agree that everyone has a lucky day so I believe that people will get their luck when gambling, it's just that they have to be satisfied with the results they get because that way they are not burdened with the pressure of thinking about winning even bigger, after all the profits whether it is small or big is not a required goal, winning no matter how much is more than enough and don't be greedy
Continuing on playing gambling on the time that you do win is never been considered to be wrong. Why? Going forward doesnt mean that you are greedy, yes most of the time people would really be asking for more profits or winning on the time that they are on such state but there are those individuals who do keep on playing just because they cant be able to get that sufficient leisure that they are seeking despite of the winnings that they are getting. Yes, there are people who are really that dont minding about making profits but only a few or just that small in numbers because if we do really
tend to look around on where most gamblers share up on the same aim which is to make money. Who doesnt really like or want money? Of course all of us will but we know that people arent really
just making out some steps or decisions for the sake of it, there are ones who dont care and continuing on the things that they do have in mind instead.
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November 25, 2023, 01:35:56 PM
I agree with your opinion, when we gamble, luck is really needed to be able to win our gambling and we should not be greedy when gambling.
When you win, always continuing the game is wrong and it is a greedy behavior that we should not do when gambling. I believe that every user has actually won a game when playing, it's just that they don't feel satisfied with that win and keep looking for a bigger win. so they can get rich quickly, but in the end they just waste money and time gambling.

We all agree that everyone has a lucky day so I believe that people will get their luck when gambling, it's just that they have to be satisfied with the results they get because that way they are not burdened with the pressure of thinking about winning even bigger, after all the profits whether it is small or big is not a required goal, winning no matter how much is more than enough and don't be greedy
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November 25, 2023, 01:27:51 PM
If you walk into a casino with $200 and you start playing with that $200 and you win $200, get the hell out, you simply just doubled your money, take your goddamn leave, what do you think you wanna do? Win a million dollars? You will go home empty handed.

The next thing that rings in your ear is you can still win another or more, that's the devil whipsering, the art of gambling is knowing when to stop.

The only game where you have some power is in Poker, not the online one, this is the best game in casinos, as making profits off of bad players is possible.

As for Other games, You are at the mercy of the house.

No one actually visits the casino to have fun, you gotta trick the mind, I like to think of it has a fun night out and I am going to spend a few hundred dollars and have a good time and if I win it's a bonus, like I've said, you gotta trick the mind.

Always remember this, you are there to win a game where its statistically impossible to win at, it's not impossible to not understand this about gambling, a wise man once said, "if you want to make money with gambling, own a casino".

The fact that casinos operate for so long suggests that they are making a massive profit and by that conclusion most people do not take your first piece of advise. More often than not the mentality of a gambler, or someone just entering a casino for a bit of fun is, my budget is $x and I'm going to spend that much, my intention is to win but if I win I do not have an exit strategy. This behavior just leads to putting any "winnings" immediately back into the games, somehow thinking that they will win even more. There is a very clear line between a casual gamer, someone that can identify when to walk away either after losing a certain amount or gaining anything, and a problem gambler who will put every penny in because they lost any reasoning a long time ago.
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November 25, 2023, 01:08:16 PM
The main thing is to be able to restrain yourself and try not to give in to excitement, because of which people give everything in the hope of winning back. And you should realize that the casino is much better at calculating the probability of winning and uses many ways - legal and not always legal - to reduce your chances of winning
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November 25, 2023, 12:46:19 PM
In principle I think that only self-control and some limits can save us from things that are not wanted, especially large defeats, it is clear that if they cannot apply any limits at all to their gambling then they will definitely feel a losing streak, none other than that because there is absolutely no prevention they do, they will not be able to resist their curiosity and also if they lose, they will definitely continue to play until they get what they want, but even if they win in my opinion the amount of victory will not always be able to cover the amount of defeat they have sacrificed at the beginning.

Of course, you need to have a plan and control over your emotions if you want to save yourself from big losses in gambling. Do not expect that gambling will be kind hearted to you and will let you save your money in case you're not in control over your finances. People lose money in gambling without knowing and they come to know when they have already lost a major portion of their life savings in gambling.

It's a matter of what is better or best for them I think that only they themselves will know, sometimes some advice will not work well if the person we give advice is completely unaware of what is best for himself. Haha yes maybe they think that the casino will return all their losses by giving a much bigger win, but on the other hand it's just their hallucination and there is no guarantee whatsoever and certainty for them to win, obviously the final result is always unpredictable and that means you also don't know whether you will win or lose again right? There is absolutely no rule of mercy from the casino for the gamblers, what is more certain is that the casino will be happy when more gamblers are excessive because there they will take a lot of profit from the losing gamblers, and as proof of the fact is that they have more losses than wins, is this statement not reasonable?

Therefore I think there is no reason for them to defend their wrong mindset, it's better for you to realize from now on than the number of your losses is increasing, and it's better to be more assertive or even increase your strength in terms of limits, because that's the only thing that can save you, anyway on the other hand if you are lucky you will also win.
A general rule is that the house will always be in profit. The more a gambler gambles at a casino, the more money that casino earns. But not everyone only loses there. Many people also get big rewards form the casino. In gambling control is in your own hands. In this platform, the gambler who will be more attractive, the more likely he is to lose. You must try to limit yourself. Consecutive winning is never possible in gambling. A gambler may win 5 or 10 games in a row but he will definitely lose the next game. So I think every gambler should develop such realization that he does not consider gambling as a source of more income. Moreover, those who are patient here will be able to survive in this platform for a long time.
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November 25, 2023, 11:52:55 AM
In principle I think that only self-control and some limits can save us from things that are not wanted, especially large defeats, it is clear that if they cannot apply any limits at all to their gambling then they will definitely feel a losing streak, none other than that because there is absolutely no prevention they do, they will not be able to resist their curiosity and also if they lose, they will definitely continue to play until they get what they want, but even if they win in my opinion the amount of victory will not always be able to cover the amount of defeat they have sacrificed at the beginning.

Of course, you need to have a plan and control over your emotions if you want to save yourself from big losses in gambling. Do not expect that gambling will be kind hearted to you and will let you save your money in case you're not in control over your finances. People lose money in gambling without knowing and they come to know when they have already lost a major portion of their life savings in gambling.

It's a matter of what is better or best for them I think that only they themselves will know, sometimes some advice will not work well if the person we give advice is completely unaware of what is best for himself. Haha yes maybe they think that the casino will return all their losses by giving a much bigger win, but on the other hand it's just their hallucination and there is no guarantee whatsoever and certainty for them to win, obviously the final result is always unpredictable and that means you also don't know whether you will win or lose again right? There is absolutely no rule of mercy from the casino for the gamblers, what is more certain is that the casino will be happy when more gamblers are excessive because there they will take a lot of profit from the losing gamblers, and as proof of the fact is that they have more losses than wins, is this statement not reasonable?

Therefore I think there is no reason for them to defend their wrong mindset, it's better for you to realize from now on than the number of your losses is increasing, and it's better to be more assertive or even increase your strength in terms of limits, because that's the only thing that can save you, anyway on the other hand if you are lucky you will also win.
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November 25, 2023, 11:22:46 AM
In principle I think that only self-control and some limits can save us from things that are not wanted, especially large defeats, it is clear that if they cannot apply any limits at all to their gambling then they will definitely feel a losing streak, none other than that because there is absolutely no prevention they do, they will not be able to resist their curiosity and also if they lose, they will definitely continue to play until they get what they want, but even if they win in my opinion the amount of victory will not always be able to cover the amount of defeat they have sacrificed at the beginning.

Of course, you need to have a plan and control over your emotions if you want to save yourself from big losses in gambling. Do not expect that gambling will be kind hearted to you and will let you save your money in case you're not in control over your finances. People lose money in gambling without knowing and they come to know when they have already lost a major portion of their life savings in gambling.


Yes it is true that only luck can lead them to victory while on the other hand whoever it is will never know when they will be lucky, so what is your reason so that you behave excessively on your gambling? I think there is no other reason than you are putting too high hopes on opportunities that basically do not have any certainty, and also on the other hand there is nothing better because even if you have won I think that is not the end of gambling by going home with victory, and what usually often happens is that when you win then greed will play a role in that condition, surely you think of getting something bigger. I think that kind of cycle will never end, and always end up losing.

When you know that gambling is luck based and there is no control over luck, then I feel really shocked to see that people spend and risk all their money in gambling, meaning they are willing to risk all money only to see if the luck is favoring them or not  Huh
I would not call it a risk taking behavior but rather i would call it poor planning where one may put a lot of money in single games and bets and in case of loss, the money is just all gone.
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November 25, 2023, 09:43:15 AM
But on the other hand they don't know that there are downturns or unexpected things that are waiting for them ahead, but yes on the other hand I'm sure it doesn't mean they don't fully know about the bad effects that will befall them, surely they have also heard of some people who have experienced problems as a result of gambling, but the problem is that they are too ambitious and have high hopes for victory so that they seem to think that the bad effects that will befall them like nothing or they don't think too much about it. Yes, maybe at that moment the other person was really lucky, and as I said before, I'm sure that person must have sacrificed many defeats just to get that one victory. Not applying self-control does not mean we can't win, it doesn't matter if you don't want to apply self-control but as long as you are ready for all the risks you will receive including the number of unexpected defeats. That is the importance of self-control because with it, you will not suffer too much defeat. Yes, it should be like that if they have gotten pleasure or even victory then they should stop, because it is also for their safety, but yes it is not easy my friend, the temptation there is very large.
Being too ambitious and having high hopes of winning will make them forget that the purpose of gambling is not to win but just to gamble and have fun. But if they can win, that is a bonus for them. If they can control themselves well, they will know that it is just a test for them whether they can stop themselves from gambling after winning or whether they will just continue gambling because they want to obtain or pursue other wins. This is where they really have to realize that they have to stop immediately before their greed gets too big and tell them to continue gambling in pursuit of other wins. They are lucky if they can still control themselves because they can stop after winning and rest to reduce their tension and also celebrate their win. But those who cannot control themselves or lose self-control will try to get other wins so that their winnings will also be used for gambling until finally they actually spend all their money, including their winnings.

Yes that's right, basically there are still quite a lot of other activities that are also fun but not risky, they can go to tourist attractions with family or friends or do other activities that are quite fun but positive or like gardening behind the house. Honestly for myself if I am in a boring condition then I prefer to watch movies or play games, not that I don't want to gamble but in that condition I maximize to resist the temptation and curiosity that is in my mind, I am already quite bored when I see the final results that are always disappointing, therefore the first step when I am bored I immediately open one of the games on my cellphone or watch fil, with that then I will forget about gambling. I think one of the reasons why they don't seem to care too much about losing is because their expectations are too high to get a win when in fact in every session the results are always disappointing, but yes basically it is difficult to be able to give advice like that to them, and maybe we can just let it go, I'm sure over time they will definitely be able to realize their mistakes, especially when they have experienced the bitterest thing in their gambling, so maybe it's just a matter of time that will answer it.
Doing other things or activities that are not related to gambling can be done to divert attention from gambling. And doing other activities doesn't really require money. At least they can choose what activities they can do so they can really reduce their gambling activities. If I were in a condition like that, maybe I would go fishing with my friends or alone to calm my mind while enjoying the natural scenery, which could help me refresh my mind. And all this time, it has really helped me to be able to refresh my mind well and divert my attention from gambling. They should be able to realize how much they have lost and will not try to use other money to try to recover their losses. That will only increase the number of losses even more, even though they can't get the big win. Maybe they need to lose very big and spend all their money until they finally realize that what they did was wrong and can have the desire to improve what they have done.
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