Topic: When did you realize you need to be a responsible gambler so you can continue ? - page 3. (Read 671 times)

Funny! I bet some of them didn't vote the real answer, joke! It's really good to see that majority of votes are stating that they are responsible, truly enough that some advices and threads here in forum is reliable and helpful. it seems that everyone goes through being irresponsible in the beginning but when we think about the possible effects of what we continue to do, only then will we realize and change.

Looking at the current result of the poll, many people claim that they are responsible but my question to them is "did you guys vote it with honesty"  Kidding guys, it is good to see that you are responsible person. I was not responsible person when I was still newbie in gambling world and I started to realize it when I lost some money but I keep on repeating it until I got married. Since that time I have someone who is keep advising me anytime I do something which can lead me and family into something bad.

When you are losing a lot, you have to understand that you need to play with smartness and questions and you have to be a responsible company understand the strategies and not just to gamble but gamble for a reason and gamble to win and gamble to lose  sometimes because you must lose the only solution is let your lost. She don’t be higher than your winning your winning should be higher so it’s a normal thing and gambling.

To start with I am a responsible gambling and I work with instructolion of gambling firms that said gamble responsibly, I don't gamble with huge funds, though many gamblers has made one or two mistakes in terms of gambling, when I was new into gambling, I thought that gambling is something that is profitable but unknowingly to me that gambling is not something we should hope on, although I didn't make this mistake for a very long time but during this time, i have sat many times to ask myself whats really weong with me, natuarally am this kind of person thats always careful with the things i do and it has been helping me out, though i realized this early, I advised myself and that was it.

When it comes to gambling, every gambler should be responsible and then gamble because unless a gambler gambles responsibly, he will not be able to make the right decision or make a mistake in his decision. When I gamble as well as when I am a responsible person, before making a decision, we must think several times whether the decision we are making in gambling is correct or how it can affect our life if this decision goes against us. Responsible gamblers are those who decide to gamble by considering everything from past, present and future. Some gamblers become addicted to gambling and some gamblers go the wrong way, but later they come back and try to gamble responsibly.

You are lucky that you must be a responsible gamblers when playing gambling. Many people can't follows what you did but they playing gambling without learning about how to prevents them from the addiction. That makes them slowly becomes addicted to gambling and will not realizes what happens to them if other people doesn't tells them.

Discipline is something that we must have in our lives, not just for playing gambling because that can holds ourselves from doing something excessively. When playing gambling with moderation, we will enjoy our times to gambling while we knows that we must stops playing gambling immediately before we lose much money. We can use gambling as part of entertainment and will not use it for makes money because we knows that will be difficult.

           -   From the very beginning of my gambling, I knew that I should be a responsible gambler and not have an addiction to gambling. And this is something that I can do properly and correctly. Which is that every time I play, I only have an amount limit for playing in a casino that I enter.

Second, I also have discipline and proper control of my emotions, and when I see that I'm playing a little too salty and that I've used up my gambling game, I stop immediately and just come back like some said the other day.

I vote I am a responsible person just to know how many people pick this option but there are actually a lot more than 20 people. So I believe there are a lot of people here who are responsible in gamble I might notice it that a lot of thread discussed about their friend addiction. Being responsible gambling is good and we need to do that or more better than that. When did you realize you need to be a responsible gambler so you can continue ? The key is one when you have gambling budget to be honest a BUDGET really help in almost anything that involves money not just gamble IMO

I guess that most of us have lost a lot first before we realize that we have to gamble responsibly. Those that are not yet on that stage and keeps on gambling, soon they're going to realize the importance of gambling moderately. You have to be responsible at all times so that you can continue with whatever situation you are dealing with. If you happen not to be a responsible gambler, the tendency of you going downhill is high and you're not going to stay any longer when you gamble.

So, if there have been times that you're able to win and you didn't take some profits, you know that it is going back to the casinos and you've just wasted your money and time for it. Being responsible is not just all about when to stop but also when you secure your profits, that's included and in all aspects as you gamble, you have to be very careful for every decisions that you make like with when to YOLO and when not. There can be moments that you are there to gamble just for you to enjoy and don't be too selfish with that as well.

One of the most important things is to gamble wisely and have a good experience and knowledge for the gambling , that is why gambling wisely is one of the must important things,it is always good to be a responsible gambler and doing the right things in the gambling world, sometimes I get fused in my gambling decisions base of what is to happen that you may not know, being responsible in gambling is what is very necessary

Most times, the pull result is not as accurate as it's supposed to be. Most people vote for a particular option not based on how they gamble or what they feel, but based on what they believe is best for the public to read or hear. 
 
A lot of people are not bold enough to come out in the open and share how irresponsible and reckless decision-makers they can be, so they just share what's best for the reading of others. After all, no one wants others to emulate their bad habits; rather, they will want their good stories to serve as motivation.

Same thing implies here. I have to lose lots of money not minding my level of finance. When i decided to stop was when i couldn't pay my tuition fees for a year which was given to me by my parent. I have used that money in gambling and lost all of it. It took me to work while schooling to be able to realize that money back. Ever since that day i have pay attention to instruction and gambling advice both from professionals and intermediate who have had lots of experiences.

But not all would really be having that kind of thinking. Some might be that responsible and mindful but there are those people who dont really care about on the future events that could happen into them or to the situation that they might be able to experience once they do go out with those limits or having no moderation. Gamble for fun and not for money then you would be finding yourself having no problem if you will really be just that be sensible on the things that you are dealing or involved with. You cant just that make yourself thinking that gambling could make your rich overnight;Whereas, you would really be that trying to play like a madman
because you are trying out to achieve that kind of goal that you had set into your mind. Be responsible on early phase and not make yourself that being that careless or too wishful about getting rich because of it
because having those intents are usually the case on why people do mess up their lives.

Having the mindset that you will lose in gambling is a pretty good mindset, it's like you mentally prepare yourself to accept about the fact of defeat that will certainly occur when you are involved in gambling, and besides that having the point of view and belief that gambling is a place that is only for entertainment is also a good mindset, but I don't agree with your opinion about having intentions and goals for entertainment will not make us experience any losses.

Actually in gambling whatever your goal and no matter how good your goal is still the possibility of defeat will always be able to occur, even if for example you gamble with the intention of seeking entertainment, we must understand that the intention for entertainment and the intention to earn it has a different impact, which is where when you intend to earn then most likely you will gamble excessively because you are always chasing the win, But when you gamble with the intention of entertainment then surely you will easily stop when you already feel entertained, meaning that having the intention and purpose for entertainment does not mean that you will be free from the possibility of losing, but the amount of your defeat will not be too significant, and another thing yes I agree with you that is gambling without expecting anything in return.

Concerning gambling every gambler should have it at the back of his or her mind that you are bound to loosing inorder to get something in return but if you're aim is to just enjoy the fun you get while gambling then you have nothing to loose.
So with this you need to know that something must kill a man and when you know that,you have to limits every thing that will promotes that which is learning to be responsible without expecting anything in return.

Different type of persons
Different views on various things
Different decisions to be made
Different risks management

But there would really be that only two possible things that could happen on a certain person which for those who do able to experience up first unfortunate conditions before they would be making
those realizations or to those people who had already that come prepared or being wary about those potential problems that might happen just because they had already been able to
see it on other people on which they tend to apply it on their own possible situation that might happen into them.

It wouldn't really be just that too hard for you to make up some application towards yourself and if you are someone whose really that responsible and wary then
of course you would really be tending to avoid as much as you could.

I learned a lot from my friends, that made me a responsible gambler over some years now because they used to budgeted amount of money on their gambling either winning or loosing at the moment.

It has been inside of me, over some years now not to gamble above my daily budget because I use to gamble base on fun , and if I don't gamble a day, I will not be comfortable with anything am going to eat through out the day which is the reason I use to gamble daily to satisfy my feelings.

When you are well responsible, it will be difficult for you to use all your money to gamble a day which is not available to gamblers to involve themselves in gambling.

You're are right, an individual who is responsible in gambling always know the right decisions to make at the right time, they don't need much advice from anyone cause they already know what to do avoid things that would get them addicted to gambling or spend reckly on gambling, the individual is already aware the gambling is a game of luck and won't want to overspend on it.

 Alot of individuals have been victim to reckless gambling before they realise their mistakes and retraced their steps, some are lucky to realise at the early stages when they've not lost much to gambling and there are others that took long before they realise  and maybe it's due to complains from family and loved ones, that helped them change. Back then in college when i started gambling I used to chase lose and lost more most times but then I changed when i discovered  i lose more when I chase loses.

Exactly.
When you are a responsible person/gambler you don't need anyone to tell you what to do and you don't need them to give you advice because you already know you are a responsible person. Ones you are a responsible person you should be able to know what to do and what not to do. Gamble is game of luck and a gambler must be responsible so he can be very careful with the kind of choice he makes when ever he wants to wager on bets.

I won't deny losing money in gambling same as you have experienced in life being a gambler, but once you see your family started suffering from financial struggles because of it I believed that as a responsible person who value money more than personal desires; gambling shouldn't be prioritized. Expenses was too hard to manage, always make sure everything is set according to your budgeting preferences. Not most of the time our earning job will accommodate those beyond our expenses, like gambling and other stuff like non sense shopping.
Always put things first before negative consequences might happen, that's how my mindset goes on this as a responsible gambler. Doing such thing isn't bad, we just need discipline and knowing our limitations.