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April 22, 2018, 02:19:22 AM
certainly when we are feeling bored and already felt suffered a considerable loss of course it will cause in our mind to stop gambling. so it's better to find a good job and do not harm if my suggestion still after stop playing gambling

If you think of it, that will be the case but for the most of gamblers especially the addicted ones if they lose a lot, they will not stop instead they will be eager to get back what they had lost by gambling again and again.

Stopping Gambling is more harder than you thought. I've encountered a lot of hardships for years before I started to really control myself and keep myself on gambling every single money I have.
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April 22, 2018, 12:59:00 AM
Gambling is wrong and harmful and we all need to avoid it as much as possible.
Wrong is depending on the person who sees and feels, if you're talking it's normal it's your statement. But if you see other people who are pro to gambling you have to understood, because it is their statement and they have felt the happiness in gambling. Someone else have their own ways of coping with life. Gamblers will have a good reason why they should gamble.
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April 21, 2018, 07:43:28 AM
When you are affecting your personal life or others people life then you should know it is time to stop what you are doing and think about it. If you are just gambling for fun and to relax, gambling can be just a game if it is at your comfortable level expenses but over stretch your savings it becomes a big problem and you should start to do something about it.
It doesn't the scale for a gambler to know that it is the time to stop when others are already affected with your hobby or addiction in playing. On before it happened then you should be mindful with the things that it will happen if you did not stop your playing activity,
I get your point, its hard for gambler to say that, stopping is no longer part of their routine, as they will continue as long as they have money to bet,
people can easily say that controlling can be done immediately if its self proclaim, but reality in most gamblers, is not that easy to quit, if so many
casino are already been closed as gamblers can take away money without getting any greedy, but its not the real situations inside the house, greediness
eats the a gamblers mind and instead of quitting they will enjoy playing up to last centavo of their wallets.
When I know that now more gambling will wash my hands and life will be full of financial problems then I will stop, because I gamble not for making money but for fun for a short time. The problem starts when someone gambles till he loses all his money and the rest of his property. When he stops gambling at this stage the financial hurdles starts from that point.
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April 21, 2018, 04:33:50 AM
it is easy to say but it is actually hard to do. youll never know when to stop until you loose all your available balance , that is a fact and most of us are doing everytime whenever they do gambling but in my case i do stop wherever i won on a single bet and i wont continue anymore because if i do , id still gonna loose it all due to the fact that i only play dice game and hi lo games which is indeed pretty risky and wont require a skill rather than pure luck.

Yeah you are definitely right, it is hard to do especially if greed comes to our mind. Like I always says that I would stop if I reach a certain goal for a day but because of eagerness to win more I never stop and what happened instead of having some profit I ended up busted and always have a tendency to deposit again especially if I see some funds on my blockchain wallet.
That is one attribute that some gamblers always have which has put them in a huge mess for the rest of their lives. Even in our normal life, it is normal to see that when people get greedy, they always end up getting screwed or messing their life up, let along, gambling that actually tend to take over those impulses to always want to win since that is how human is fashioned out psychologically even when you know your chances are low. As long as this can be controlled, stopping will never be an issue.
That's right, anyone who has an addiction will also find it difficult to stop even if he has a target when he should stop. But if we continue to have money in the wallet especially wallet that is very easy to use gambling. But I just think, to overcome gambling addiction is being honest with people we love like girlfriends or our parents, so they will keep an eye on and remind us when we want to gamble. Or it could be a blockchain wallet password given to the brand to be watched.
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April 21, 2018, 02:21:38 AM
One of the times to stop is when you find yourself on the verge of borrowing money to gamble. This essentially means that you personally have blown away your gambling pot, your personal/non-gambling pot and now you a desperate to recover lost earnings. Now you are about to get into debt on a game of serious chance and odds, this is not the way to go. The point, if you want to gamble, gamble with your own money and not other peoples, because that is going to be a huge problem, and you are getting yourself into more trouble.
Yeah that is right. But before this as well, you must be knowing that for what thing you are just going. Are you going for a profitable thing or it may be harming you? For the case of second, you mustn’t even step in. take a wise decision before actually finalizing anything. In this gambling case, you must consider the nature of gambling and decide whether this would be profiting your or not and act accordingly.
And indeed, in the case of gambling, it would never profit the gambler because this game is made for destroying peace and happiness in the lives of its players. It is very rare to come across a gambler who would praise this game rather would be satisfied with this game. I honestly suggest stop wasting any time on digging out the facts of this game because it would bring nothing.
hero member
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April 21, 2018, 12:38:48 AM
When you are affecting your personal life or others people life then you should know it is time to stop what you are doing and think about it. If you are just gambling for fun and to relax, gambling can be just a game if it is at your comfortable level expenses but over stretch your savings it becomes a big problem and you should start to do something about it.
It doesn't the scale for a gambler to know that it is the time to stop when others are already affected with your hobby or addiction in playing. On before it happened then you should be mindful with the things that it will happen if you did not stop your playing activity,
Whatever we say but I believe there must be a pinch from inside of a man when he is doing any wrong act. This is natural and we all are made in such scheme that evil always trigger a sense of guilt in us. But definitely the greed and addiction have ruined that trigger so we don’t well shame and guilty next times. Gambling is wrong and harmful and we all need to avoid it as much as possible.
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April 20, 2018, 07:15:53 AM
First i put an amount limit for my gambling habbit after a first and second level of my limit i will stop and try it again nextime that means im not luck to that day.
We have the same concept in controlling our self on gambling , That is the way I control myself / to stop my self on playing gambling if I know that I dont have luck on that day. Maybe If everybody gamble like this , the ruined gamblers life can be lessen.

All the gamblers are supposed to be like that, but unfortunately many gamblers think that is a difficult thing to do. Greed is a problem when many gamblers break through the limit they have made. I also think, if all the gamblers can control themselves well, gambling will not be too destructive to many people's lives.
Of course, it would always be a difficult thing to do for those who already had the wrong mindset with gambling from the onset. If you check on this forum, you will even hear some newbies giving you the talk of profiting from gambling and that really wows me as the path some people are already following is what would end up leading them to destruction entirely and by destruction I am referring to huge level of addiction.
certainly when we are feeling bored and already felt suffered a considerable loss of course it will cause in our mind to stop gambling. so it's better to find a good job and do not harm if my suggestion still after stop playing gambling
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April 20, 2018, 02:48:20 AM
it is easy to say but it is actually hard to do. youll never know when to stop until you loose all your available balance , that is a fact and most of us are doing everytime whenever they do gambling but in my case i do stop wherever i won on a single bet and i wont continue anymore because if i do , id still gonna loose it all due to the fact that i only play dice game and hi lo games which is indeed pretty risky and wont require a skill rather than pure luck.

Yeah you are definitely right, it is hard to do especially if greed comes to our mind. Like I always says that I would stop if I reach a certain goal for a day but because of eagerness to win more I never stop and what happened instead of having some profit I ended up busted and always have a tendency to deposit again especially if I see some funds on my blockchain wallet.
That is one attribute that some gamblers always have which has put them in a huge mess for the rest of their lives. Even in our normal life, it is normal to see that when people get greedy, they always end up getting screwed or messing their life up, let along, gambling that actually tend to take over those impulses to always want to win since that is how human is fashioned out psychologically even when you know your chances are low. As long as this can be controlled, stopping will never be an issue.
legendary
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April 20, 2018, 02:26:06 AM
set up limits for yourself or set a target profit or lose when you play in gambling
and I am sure you knows when time to stop or continues. If do not have a target you don't have the goal.
Easiest way out! If you do not set a limit for yourself and be disciplined enough to stick with it, then there is no way gambling will not get out the worst in you. Gambling itself has a way of playing with someone's head emotionally and psychologically and that is why the casino and online gambling platform owners will never stop getting rich.

There would always be time when that mindset of 'if you do it one more time, you can actually win' comes and it is just left for you to fight it or give in. Those are the impulses we always talk about.
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April 20, 2018, 02:03:52 AM
If you have a high tendency to not stop until busting, then I came across these tips which do help:

  • Don't put all your available bankroll directly in the game (in case you're using deposits). Leave always at least half outside as a security measure if you go bust.
  • One must stop after reaching a certain goal, The goal should be predetermined and shouldn't be changed during the play.
  • If you're doing really good, withdraw part of your earnings (if you can, ofc) to avoid losing it all in one go.

Having a big bankroll can make you feel falsely safe in that "oh I'll just keep increasing my bet until I win" but alas, the 30 reds in a row do exist, and will come. Do not let them take it all.

The goal you make should be realistic and firm, Don't change it or else be prepared to face bad consequences.

You gotta fight back the voice that screams inside your brain "Come on, double again and we recover!".
I think it is very difficult to stop if you have a lot of money gamble. When you lose what all you have i think that you will realize that it would be the time to stop because you already have nothing.
When you have a lot of money is even when you should be more careful when it comes to gambling because you may think it is a lot, but ask the rich men that got screwed and turned to pauper in a very short time because of their addiction to gambling. The best way to gamble if you want to is to see it as a game you are paying for to have fun which if you are lucky can even give you money in return but nothing to expect, and with that you will always be able to set limit for yourself no matter how big your wallet size is.
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April 20, 2018, 01:54:14 AM
First i put an amount limit for my gambling habbit after a first and second level of my limit i will stop and try it again nextime that means im not luck to that day.
We have the same concept in controlling our self on gambling , That is the way I control myself / to stop my self on playing gambling if I know that I dont have luck on that day. Maybe If everybody gamble like this , the ruined gamblers life can be lessen.

All the gamblers are supposed to be like that, but unfortunately many gamblers think that is a difficult thing to do. Greed is a problem when many gamblers break through the limit they have made. I also think, if all the gamblers can control themselves well, gambling will not be too destructive to many people's lives.
Of course, it would always be a difficult thing to do for those who already had the wrong mindset with gambling from the onset. If you check on this forum, you will even hear some newbies giving you the talk of profiting from gambling and that really wows me as the path some people are already following is what would end up leading them to destruction entirely and by destruction I am referring to huge level of addiction.
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April 20, 2018, 01:26:28 AM
First i put an amount limit for my gambling habbit after a first and second level of my limit i will stop and try it again nextime that means im not luck to that day.
We have the same concept in controlling our self on gambling , That is the way I control myself / to stop my self on playing gambling if I know that I dont have luck on that day. Maybe If everybody gamble like this , the ruined gamblers life can be lessen.
That is usually the easy way out for those who do not want to end up losing everything to gambling. It is mostly either you are lucky with the little you are gambling with or you end up unlucky. As long as you have reached your limit for the day, week or month and you still end up unlucky, then, it is better to know once and for all that you are done. Like you said, if some people can try to have this mentality about gambling, some would have actually stopped gambling before they ended up getting addicted.
legendary
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April 19, 2018, 12:14:10 PM
When you are affecting your personal life or others people life then you should know it is time to stop what you are doing and think about it. If you are just gambling for fun and to relax, gambling can be just a game if it is at your comfortable level expenses but over stretch your savings it becomes a big problem and you should start to do something about it.
It doesn't the scale for a gambler to know that it is the time to stop when others are already affected with your hobby or addiction in playing. On before it happened then you should be mindful with the things that it will happen if you did not stop your playing activity,
I get your point, its hard for gambler to say that, stopping is no longer part of their routine, as they will continue as long as they have money to bet,
people can easily say that controlling can be done immediately if its self proclaim, but reality in most gamblers, is not that easy to quit, if so many
casino are already been closed as gamblers can take away money without getting any greedy, but its not the real situations inside the house, greediness
eats the a gamblers mind and instead of quitting they will enjoy playing up to last centavo of their wallets.
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April 19, 2018, 10:06:01 AM
When you are affecting your personal life or others people life then you should know it is time to stop what you are doing and think about it. If you are just gambling for fun and to relax, gambling can be just a game if it is at your comfortable level expenses but over stretch your savings it becomes a big problem and you should start to do something about it.
It doesn't the scale for a gambler to know that it is the time to stop when others are already affected with your hobby or addiction in playing. On before it happened then you should be mindful with the things that it will happen if you did not stop your playing activity,
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April 19, 2018, 09:39:45 AM
When you are affecting your personal life or others people life then you should know it is time to stop what you are doing and think about it. If you are just gambling for fun and to relax, gambling can be just a game if it is at your comfortable level expenses but over stretch your savings it becomes a big problem and you should start to do something about it.
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April 19, 2018, 07:26:25 AM
One of the times to stop is when you find yourself on the verge of borrowing money to gamble. This essentially means that you personally have blown away your gambling pot, your personal/non-gambling pot and now you a desperate to recover lost earnings. Now you are about to get into debt on a game of serious chance and odds, this is not the way to go. The point, if you want to gamble, gamble with your own money and not other peoples, because that is going to be a huge problem, and you are getting yourself into more trouble.
Yeah that is right. But before this as well, you must be knowing that for what thing you are just going. Are you going for a profitable thing or it may be harming you? For the case of second, you mustn’t even step in. take a wise decision before actually finalizing anything. In this gambling case, you must consider the nature of gambling and decide whether this would be profiting your or not and act accordingly.
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April 19, 2018, 05:10:35 AM
Easy, it's time to stop when you win or loss too much but even if you do know about it. It's hard to stop the feeling even if you know it will cause no good. Having a limit in win and loss is good but much better if you can control your emotions because if not you will exceed or break the limit you've set. Feeling confident on win and frustrated on loss, both is hard to control.
I like the part of you adding winning too much. We actually concentrate more on losing too much than winning too much maybe because most people have never experienced a huge win in gambling anyway, which I am not surprised.

As much as you have a limit and once you hit that limit in losses, you call it a day, is the same way we should always be able to put a huge full stop when you hit a big amount already, but greed most of the time always make some people to want to keep trying more until they still end up losing everything.

Greed is the actual culprit for people unable to stop. The greed starts from expecting too much than normal from gambling. Just like you painted it by stating profit, a lot of people consider gambling as a way to invest their money and that is more like the most stupid level of thinking I can ever imagine. It is not hard to apply, as long as you believe gambling is not out to give you anything positive most of the time, you will always know when to stop and not to expect too much from it, otherwise you will be soaked in debt before you even know it.
In my honest opinion, any time when this question of stopping playing further appears in the mind of a gambler, he should instantly execute it. There is no need to wait for the right time because anytime is the right time. The earlier it is, the better it would be for gambler.

Still if someone wants to discover that point after which the loss could be fatal, it is when he would exceed his limits and like you said, greed is the controller here.
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April 18, 2018, 09:15:25 AM
One of the times to stop is when you find yourself on the verge of borrowing money to gamble. This essentially means that you personally have blown away your gambling pot, your personal/non-gambling pot and now you a desperate to recover lost earnings. Now you are about to get into debt on a game of serious chance and odds, this is not the way to go. The point, if you want to gamble, gamble with your own money and not other peoples, because that is going to be a huge problem, and you are getting yourself into more trouble.
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April 18, 2018, 06:35:26 AM
Easy, it's time to stop when you win or loss too much but even if you do know about it. It's hard to stop the feeling even if you know it will cause no good. Having a limit in win and loss is good but much better if you can control your emotions because if not you will exceed or break the limit you've set. Feeling confident on win and frustrated on loss, both is hard to control.
I like the part of you adding winning too much. We actually concentrate more on losing too much than winning too much maybe because most people have never experienced a huge win in gambling anyway, which I am not surprised.

As much as you have a limit and once you hit that limit in losses, you call it a day, is the same way we should always be able to put a huge full stop when you hit a big amount already, but greed most of the time always make some people to want to keep trying more until they still end up losing everything.

Greed is the actual culprit for people unable to stop. The greed starts from expecting too much than normal from gambling. Just like you painted it by stating profit, a lot of people consider gambling as a way to invest their money and that is more like the most stupid level of thinking I can ever imagine. It is not hard to apply, as long as you believe gambling is not out to give you anything positive most of the time, you will always know when to stop and not to expect too much from it, otherwise you will be soaked in debt before you even know it.
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April 17, 2018, 08:05:13 AM
its not easy to stop gambling much more if we have loses and we want to take it back even a portion percentage of what we have lost but I think we can feel the sign if we need stop, one thing is our asset depreciation due to successive loses or our body will feel tired and boredom because of gambling as even how much we have fun of a certain things but still time comes that we feel tired and bored since its a human instinct to be not contented all the time about the fun and entertainment. Its just like eating a very delicious food everyday but still we find other food because we bored of that delicious one.
I always believe that as long as something is not easy, that is what should make it easy.
If you have that mindset that stopping the process of gambling is a hard thing to do, you will be able to put yourself into a good space before you even start at all.

Nevertheless, a lot of people always believe that as long as they are ready to stop, they will stop, but in the real sense, as long as you are not putting those impulses in check now, it would be a hard thing to do which is why it is better not to even start at all when you know it is going to be hard for you to stop or if you won't be able to be in control in the long run.
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