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legendary
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July 29, 2024, 07:45:28 AM
Yes, holding back emotions when we are playing is certainly needed in carrying out gambling activities because a gambler who is easily carried away by their emotions cannot control their common sense about what to do and what not to do and all that happens is frequent defeats and of course there will be a lot of financial losses there.
In terms of being able to control emotions when gambling, it is not just about losing or winning, but more about knowing when to stop for a moment and continue the next day by being allowed to continue on the same day after winning at a certain level that does not make us dizzy with it. Because when someone who does not want to know about defeat and really wants to take back the money that has been lost through gambling, that's where sometimes his emotions are too passionate and forget himself until he continues to lose more.
hero member
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July 29, 2024, 07:37:06 AM
I agree with what you say , in fact a salary of 10 thousand dollars would be great, as to spend in a game session only 100usd, well, if so that is what is most logical, although to be Honest it would hurt me a lot to spend 100usd just like that , but the secret is to put everything under control and the best control that can be given is that the money goes further and that we do not go crazy spending everything, in this aspect I am a Person who will always say that things can happen in the best way, since controlling the money for the gaming Sensation would give free rein to Emotions.


It's ideal to bet with 10% of our monthly salary. But it's also unrealistic to go over the plan and wager what would hurt us or our business. Although players are liable to want more wins, they should go for safety when possible. Gambling isn't leaving anybody behind anytime soon, so we must play accordingly to enjoy the game. Watching news of gamblers who, in a session, spent all their salary gets me worried. It makes me ponder why players end up this way. They battle with their emotions on what is right or wrong.

Nobody is above mistakes, but hearing such a lousy incident sounds meaningless. Players shouldn't go gambling first after getting paid. It's risky; only some have control over their emotions. The best control for everyone is to gamble with what's left of the wages after buying our needs. And whatever the outcome, players must wager a small portion of their salary. Failure to abide by this instruction will get a gambler into depression.
hero member
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July 29, 2024, 07:33:42 AM
In fact, our emotion has nothing to do with luck because luck may come even when we are angry or emotionally bad.
Our emotion is needed to control what we are going to spend, to decide what is the best thing to do in different situation while gambling.
Without a doubt, when we are emotionally bad then we may lose control which make we do something beyond our own limit.
In average yes we will have bigger chance to lose when we are emotionally bad but it does not mean that our luck will also bad because luck is kind of mystery.
luck does not affect our situation. but when we get lucky we can change our state of mind. from what may have been initially not enthusiastic, because victory usually the state of mind can change very quickly.
luck never knows when it will come, what is certain is that when we play according to the limits, we can avoid addiction. and that is what really needs to be maintained, not just being enthusiastic about gambling. because the more often people gamble without knowing their limits, maybe gamblers are one step closer to addiction.
legendary
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July 29, 2024, 07:23:17 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.
Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.
You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.

If you set it up the right way and the intention is to kill some time to have that entertainment after those busy days at work, though it' not easy to keep that same intensity when you already experienced the excitement and fun, most of the time you might exceed but that's the challenge as emotion will mostly leads you to lose when things seems not turning accordingly.

But, if you are in the side where you set things up for completely for fun then it saves your butt  from losing a lot, amount that you can't really afford to lose.
hero member
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July 29, 2024, 07:17:58 AM

Of course, the approach to gambling in moderation must really be owned and maintained by gamblers, only setting aside some money from the total income you get for gambling is a good idea rather than not putting any planning that leads to financial limitations that you have which in the end of course most likely you will only lose all your money just for something that should not be too prioritized. I would say that to be able to stay safe in gambling by implementing various actions that lead to prevention, namely from the start you must focus on the dangers and risks in gambling, what I mean is you really have to have and maintain awareness of the dangers of the risks in gambling when done in the wrong way or which tends to be excessive and aggressive, with that I am sure you will be able to restrain yourself.

In fact, a great way to start controlling yourself is to communicate with other gamblers or with your family. You need to tell them everything as it really is.
It is their advice that can help a gambler stay one step away from falling. Simply in any problem, if you know that you are not alone, then you avoid depression and can learn dozens of important and useful tips.
legendary
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July 29, 2024, 06:53:13 AM
Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.
You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.

Of course, the approach to gambling in moderation must really be owned and maintained by gamblers, only setting aside some money from the total income you get for gambling is a good idea rather than not putting any planning that leads to financial limitations that you have which in the end of course most likely you will only lose all your money just for something that should not be too prioritized. I would say that to be able to stay safe in gambling by implementing various actions that lead to prevention, namely from the start you must focus on the dangers and risks in gambling, what I mean is you really have to have and maintain awareness of the dangers of the risks in gambling when done in the wrong way or which tends to be excessive and aggressive, with that I am sure you will be able to restrain yourself.
legendary
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July 29, 2024, 03:40:49 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.
Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.

In fact, our emotion has nothing to do with luck because luck may come even when we are angry or emotionally bad.
Our emotion is needed to control what we are going to spend, to decide what is the best thing to do in different situation while gambling.
Without a doubt, when we are emotionally bad then we may lose control which make we do something beyond our own limit.
In average yes we will have bigger chance to lose when we are emotionally bad but it does not mean that our luck will also bad because luck is kind of mystery.
sr. member
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July 29, 2024, 02:47:51 AM

At first gambling and trading, ain't something one need to do with emotions we should always learn how to suppress our emotions by disciplining ourselves, Because as  Human we are emotional beings . So you can say you can just remove it but you can actually control it so that it won't always get the best of you whenever you in yah gambling sections. Because that one of the thing that normally lead to losses when luck ain't on your side, because we all aware of the system of gambling either you win or lose . And is all about luck one can't be unlucky always, so as can't be lucky always. So we should always have this in our mind that whenever money is at stake is either we win extra or we lose it all , so that we won't go all out with our emotions and endup multiplying the losses that you are trying to recover
legendary
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July 29, 2024, 02:20:07 AM
but in my opinion the reality is the opposite, in fact many people are more depressed because of the defeat that occurred because they themselves could not accept the defeat, so that what is on their mind is wanting to recover the loss and of course with such thoughts will make them continue to gamble even though they have experienced defeat or lost a large amount of money. this is one of the impacts that can occur when gambling with uncontrolled emotions. as much as possible we must be able to control the emotions in ourselves so that there are no emotions that lead to greater losses. when gambling has been done with the emotions in us, gambling is no longer about money, but about the continuation of life where if they cannot stop then there will be destruction of life caused by actions that are actually not recommended such as continuing to force themselves to gamble. therefore it is very important to be able to stop and rest because the mindset will be chaotic if they continue to force themselves when they have experienced defeat.

      -     There are still other gamblers who accept losing in gambling, although there are still others who find it hard to accept their loss because of the amount of money they lost due to gambling.

And the others are also chasing their amount of money that was lost in the casino, something that the majority should not do but many do.
if discussed further or compared, there are indeed more people who cannot or find it difficult to accept the defeat that occurs. also when like that of course they will feel overflowing emotions maybe just with one defeat it is a natural thing and can be said not because of emotions because defeat will happen to anyone even if they gamble wisely. but when defeat has happened many times it is caused by their emotions because if they are not emotional with one defeat I think they will stop. with this overflowing emotion makes them want to continue chasing the defeat that has occurred, but instead of wanting to turn things around but instead it makes them experience even greater losses. what you said is right, this should not be done because it will most likely make them more miserable. with many people doing this I think it indicates that many people who gamble are accompanied by emotions or wrong thinking and that must be fixed.
Usually it happens according to similar scenarios. The player wants to place a bet because he wants to test his luck or show how well he understands the game. And as soon as he loses, he starts making excuses to place a bet again, to rehabilitate himself in his own eyes and possibly in the eyes of random observers. A psychologically healthy player can simply leave after a loss and even perceive the loss as something that he will forget about in 5 minutes. Even I learned to do this over the years, although at first I perceived each loss very sensitively and could not sleep at night because of it. In any case, each player has his own personal emotional world, which even he is not able to fully understand.
sr. member
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July 29, 2024, 01:46:30 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.
Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.
You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.
Yes, holding back emotions when we are playing is certainly needed in carrying out gambling activities because a gambler who is easily carried away by their emotions cannot control their common sense about what to do and what not to do and all that happens is frequent defeats and of course there will be a lot of financial losses there.
full member
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July 29, 2024, 01:24:40 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.
Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.
You are right One should restrain oneself while gambling so that one's excess money does not go away. So you can keep a portion of disposable income for gambling every month just for gambling which can fulfill your hobby or spending time with close friends. At the end of a busy day, you can spend time at the casino even for yourself, which must be within your means, because over-indulgence can cause harm to you overall. Your emotions are always driven positively and negatively so you should have confidence in yourself and drive yourself to make the right decisions.
sr. member
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July 29, 2024, 01:04:32 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.
Gambling doesn't always guarantee us money but if we can't control our emotions while gambling then we can lose more money from this gambling. We should gamble systematically and according to plan. There are many of us new gamblers who gamble at first and lose thinking that the next time they gamble they might get their lost money back or even double the money. As a result they cannot control their emotions which later leads to more problems.

The solution to this problem is for the gambler himself when he gambles he should understand when to stop gambling and when to continue. It is very important to have self control while gambling.
copper member
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July 29, 2024, 12:35:36 AM
Taking you for instance, let's say ones salary is $10k,  one can lose $100 from his $10k salary and be fine but aren't gonna be that fine losing $1k out of this money, so it's necessary for every gambler to play according to their level of income or pocket and not risk funds that they will attach high emotions to and which will further affect their gambling decisions.

I agree with what you say , in fact a salary of 10 thousand dollars would be great, as to spend in a game session only 100usd, well, if so that is what is most logical, although to be Honest it would hurt me a lot to spend 100usd just like that , but the secret is to put everything under control and the best control that can be given is that the money goes further and that we do not go crazy spending everything, in this aspect I am a Person who will always say that things can happen in the best way, since controlling the money for the gaming Sensation would give free rein to Emotions.


Discipline is the king in any situation, be it a bigger or lesser session. I agree that controlling what you are okay with spending to have a good time is also key because that way you won't have any regrets and only good emotions ahead.
hero member
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July 29, 2024, 12:30:44 AM
but in my opinion the reality is the opposite, in fact many people are more depressed because of the defeat that occurred because they themselves could not accept the defeat, so that what is on their mind is wanting to recover the loss and of course with such thoughts will make them continue to gamble even though they have experienced defeat or lost a large amount of money. this is one of the impacts that can occur when gambling with uncontrolled emotions. as much as possible we must be able to control the emotions in ourselves so that there are no emotions that lead to greater losses. when gambling has been done with the emotions in us, gambling is no longer about money, but about the continuation of life where if they cannot stop then there will be destruction of life caused by actions that are actually not recommended such as continuing to force themselves to gamble. therefore it is very important to be able to stop and rest because the mindset will be chaotic if they continue to force themselves when they have experienced defeat.

      -     There are still other gamblers who accept losing in gambling, although there are still others who find it hard to accept their loss because of the amount of money they lost due to gambling.

And the others are also chasing their amount of money that was lost in the casino, something that the majority should not do but many do.
if discussed further or compared, there are indeed more people who cannot or find it difficult to accept the defeat that occurs. also when like that of course they will feel overflowing emotions maybe just with one defeat it is a natural thing and can be said not because of emotions because defeat will happen to anyone even if they gamble wisely. but when defeat has happened many times it is caused by their emotions because if they are not emotional with one defeat I think they will stop. with this overflowing emotion makes them want to continue chasing the defeat that has occurred, but instead of wanting to turn things around but instead it makes them experience even greater losses. what you said is right, this should not be done because it will most likely make them more miserable. with many people doing this I think it indicates that many people who gamble are accompanied by emotions or wrong thinking and that must be fixed.
legendary
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July 28, 2024, 05:55:58 PM
Taking you for instance, let's say ones salary is $10k,  one can lose $100 from his $10k salary and be fine but aren't gonna be that fine losing $1k out of this money, so it's necessary for every gambler to play according to their level of income or pocket and not risk funds that they will attach high emotions to and which will further affect their gambling decisions.

I agree with what you say , in fact a salary of 10 thousand dollars would be great, as to spend in a game session only 100usd, well, if so that is what is most logical, although to be Honest it would hurt me a lot to spend 100usd just like that , but the secret is to put everything under control and the best control that can be given is that the money goes further and that we do not go crazy spending everything, in this aspect I am a Person who will always say that things can happen in the best way, since controlling the money for the gaming Sensation would give free rein to Emotions.
sr. member
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July 28, 2024, 05:48:09 PM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

Well this literally common alot of us get easily carried away by our emotions in both gambling and trading. The reason why is that most time our greed always get the best of us especially when risky funds you can't afford to lose which may lead to you chasing losses whenever you endup losing inorder to get that you have loss back . Things shouldn't be in that way because you may end up attracting more losses when you are chasing after the previous losses.

So to avoid such always use funds you can afford to lose, so that if you endup losing you can easily let it go and call it a day than to run after it , and endup using more than your budgets.
hero member
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July 28, 2024, 05:40:32 PM
From my experience as someone who once a gambling addict that was gambling recklessly without considering the consequences until it dawns on me that I have no money to gamble again, I can authoritatively say that greedy gamblers who refuse to quit even when they're losing or winning big most times does not do that purpose. Most times, they're controlled by their emotions and that's why you'll always see them gamble without any form of caution. Gambling I believe should be best practiced by those who aren't controlled by their emotions because they're always the ones who knows the best time to quit. My advise for newbies in gambling is that they should consider these things before gambling
You know that people can't handle emotions especially to whatever that includes and involved their finance why because they are all humans and I can tell you with all humanity that about 89 percent of people here can't control their emotional when they seems to be losing big time. In fact whom do you think will be losing heavily and you expect them not to attach emotions is that right? No! Because everyone is humans except for a robot who doesn't have human sympathy that could lost his emotions while gambling. But however for one to control their emotions s/he has to gamble with amount that won't affect them if they lose it than gambling with amount they can bear to control it.
legendary
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July 28, 2024, 05:35:36 PM
A common mistake when losing, trying to quickly recover you'll be force to double your bet, and most of the time that leads you to lose more and with aggression inside that kind emotion will eat you up and push you to keep adding more money, end of the day you lose more than you can let go.

It's a common mistake yet so many people are still falling for this. People need to understand this before they even start gambling.
Only if they determine strong self control since beginning, they can survive in gambling without going bank rupt.

It is something coming enough, that I believe anyone starting in the gambling path has come across it soon or later , to be honest. The newbies start gambling with a minimum expectation of winning money, they start to gamble and then when all their gambling backfire and they lose money, they cannot correctly process the fact they have lost part of their deposit, from there there are only two possible ways of action: either double down on the wager or log out their session, calling it a day. To take the latter option takes more courage and self control, no doubt about it, hance way so many newbies would not be able to act properly and give up while they still can.
hero member
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July 28, 2024, 05:11:56 PM
Most gamblers know too well that they are supposed to quit at some point if they must be able to make the best profit and still keep it, but they have been unable to apply this knowledge they have got because of their greed. Generally almost everyone has got greed in a way or the other but with some other persons, they have got a way to keep it under subjection while for the others it's a different case all together so they rather suffer the consequences after allowing it have a greater part of them. Capital protection should be a primary thing for gamblers, that way they can gradually get to find a way around greed but it's uncommon tho.

Every gambler wishes they could manage their finance. Constant loss of money isn't a form of happiness or entertainment; it represents depression. Gamblers, over time, know this but fail to control it because it's hard to deal with such a tough decision. I have never found a player who efficiently handled financial management. Time is an essential factor, and players must learn both time and financial management. They both work hand in hand. We call it greed, sure it is, but lack of skill should be a better qualifier for this problem.

Being depressed shouldn't be part of the plan. Gambling is so soft to end players in a challenging part of life. The issue is that we need to practice what we know. Responsible gambling information flies in the air for every player to learn. But, only a few gamblers would utilize it for a good purpose. In a simple term, players need coaches, who can provide the support and guidance they need. Like I said earlier, gambling is soft, but people find it difficult because they lack a coach. If players had someone to force them to do the right thing, it would become a part of them to practice it.
hero member
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July 28, 2024, 04:52:43 PM
The gambler who are new should learn this as the basic thing for the gambling,the gambling games will trigger the gamblers with some good profit.But the gamblers should learn to quit the game for the day after making the profit from the game.The margin profit was the preferred one by the experienced gambler,but the gamblers who was had more greedy to make huge money in the gambling may loss their capital to the gambling game.The gambler should play the game with the strategy,So it help the gamblers to get away from the gambling addiction.The gamblers who play the gambling with the discipline will able to make some profit from the gambling game.But the greedy gambler will take huge risks to make big money.
From my experience as someone who once a gambling addict that was gambling recklessly without considering the consequences until it dawns on me that I have no money to gamble again, I can authoritatively say that greedy gamblers who refuse to quit even when they're losing or winning big most times does not do that purpose. Most times, they're controlled by their emotions and that's why you'll always see them gamble without any form of caution. Gambling I believe should be best practiced by those who aren't controlled by their emotions because they're always the ones who knows the best time to quit. My advise for newbies in gambling is that they should consider these things before gambling
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