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August 07, 2024, 06:31:28 AM
Zero percent of emotion should be used in gambling or making any important decisions. Emotions never make good decisions. Intelligent people always control their emotions and do not take any decisions out of anger. If you are overly emotional and this emotion manifests in your gambling then I would suggest that you first learn to have full control over your emotions before taking such risky actions. The point is that you have lost money gambling and then you impulsively gamble more money which is a foolish decision. Smart people will stop there and wait for a good time without betting more money at that time. The more control you have over your emotions, the more accurate your decisions will be and the more successful you will be.  Sometimes emotions seem to be the greatest enemy of a man.
The thing is that everyone has data from birth due to genes, and if our parents were emotional, then we will most likely be like that too. Another thing is that despite this data, we can train our emotional perception in the game. You can try to control your emotions with your mind as much as possible, of course, this is very difficult to do and is only available to those who show persistence and willpower. I even see for myself how emotional I used to be and how easy it was to get me mad in the game, but at the moment I have learned to control it so much that I do not experience any problems with it now, even if I lose several times in a row.
Bringing yourself under control over time is definitely conducive to a positive and winning gambling outcome. Basically, those who can control their emotions can succeed, which can again tempt themselves to win. But for this you need to have hard work and genetics is definitely important. I have seen passionate people who have been strict with their finances and they have suffered greatly. Their losses were due to gambling losses and they could not control their emotions and eventually became addicted which cost them financially and socially.
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August 07, 2024, 06:31:18 AM
Zero percent of emotion should be used in gambling or making any important decisions. Emotions never make good decisions. Intelligent people always control their emotions and do not take any decisions out of anger. If you are overly emotional and this emotion manifests in your gambling then I would suggest that you first learn to have full control over your emotions before taking such risky actions. The point is that you have lost money gambling and then you impulsively gamble more money which is a foolish decision. Smart people will stop there and wait for a good time without betting more money at that time. The more control you have over your emotions, the more accurate your decisions will be and the more successful you will be.  Sometimes emotions seem to be the greatest enemy of a man.
The thing is that everyone has data from birth due to genes, and if our parents were emotional, then we will most likely be like that too. Another thing is that despite this data, we can train our emotional perception in the game. You can try to control your emotions with your mind as much as possible, of course, this is very difficult to do and is only available to those who show persistence and willpower. I even see for myself how emotional I used to be and how easy it was to get me mad in the game, but at the moment I have learned to control it so much that I do not experience any problems with it now, even if I lose several times in a row.
Of course, it is possible to train yourself and your mind, as well as your behavior during critical losses, but the player himself is a person, such a complex biological computer that sometimes he himself does not know what to expect from himself. There are even moments when the strongest professional can break down at a moment when no one expected from him, for example, a loss to a newbie. After such an offensive blow to a professional, he can be knocked off track and he will not be like himself at all. This will grow like a snowball of problems and losses, after which several sessions with a psychologist will be required to recover.
legendary
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August 07, 2024, 06:30:15 AM
Yes, I have this problem too, but I haven't solved it yet. I can lose a maximum of 300 bucks, but sometimes, when the slot gives me nothing, I get unrealistic anger, which leads to higher bets and aggressive play. Sad

It seems to me that it makes no difference how aggressively a person who uses a deposit limit gambles. You limit your maximum possible losses, and the probability of winning mostly depends on the algorithm of distribution of winnings. If you are unlucky, then no matter how aggressive were not your actions during the gambling session, it is unlikely to affect its outcome.
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August 07, 2024, 06:01:45 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.
Yes, I have this problem too, but I haven't solved it yet. I can lose a maximum of 300 bucks, but sometimes, when the slot gives me nothing, I get unrealistic anger, which leads to higher bets and aggressive play. Sad

Did you try to close your eyes after the situation like that and think to yourself, that, it's not really worth it to charge into the fight again? I feel you and I understand that it may be hard, but the lessons like that should be observed and learned afterward, not from the first try maybe, but looking into the future. The future should contain a better version of yourself rather than the old you, in my opinion.
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August 07, 2024, 04:39:13 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.
Yes, I have this problem too, but I haven't solved it yet. I can lose a maximum of 300 bucks, but sometimes, when the slot gives me nothing, I get unrealistic anger, which leads to higher bets and aggressive play. Sad
legendary
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August 07, 2024, 04:18:18 AM
Zero percent of emotion should be used in gambling or making any important decisions. Emotions never make good decisions. Intelligent people always control their emotions and do not take any decisions out of anger. If you are overly emotional and this emotion manifests in your gambling then I would suggest that you first learn to have full control over your emotions before taking such risky actions. The point is that you have lost money gambling and then you impulsively gamble more money which is a foolish decision. Smart people will stop there and wait for a good time without betting more money at that time. The more control you have over your emotions, the more accurate your decisions will be and the more successful you will be.  Sometimes emotions seem to be the greatest enemy of a man.
The thing is that everyone has data from birth due to genes, and if our parents were emotional, then we will most likely be like that too. Another thing is that despite this data, we can train our emotional perception in the game. You can try to control your emotions with your mind as much as possible, of course, this is very difficult to do and is only available to those who show persistence and willpower. I even see for myself how emotional I used to be and how easy it was to get me mad in the game, but at the moment I have learned to control it so much that I do not experience any problems with it now, even if I lose several times in a row.
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August 07, 2024, 03:15:22 AM
Zero percent of emotion should be used in gambling or making any important decisions. Emotions never make good decisions. Intelligent people always control their emotions and do not take any decisions out of anger. If you are overly emotional and this emotion manifests in your gambling then I would suggest that you first learn to have full control over your emotions before taking such risky actions. The point is that you have lost money gambling and then you impulsively gamble more money which is a foolish decision. Smart people will stop there and wait for a good time without betting more money at that time. The more control you have over your emotions, the more accurate your decisions will be and the more successful you will be.  Sometimes emotions seem to be the greatest enemy of a man.
legendary
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August 07, 2024, 02:28:34 AM
We have already discussed a lot that emotions are one of gamblers main enemies, but havent talked much how can a gambler learn or train to be less emotional and have a better self-control. It is clear that it all should come with experience, but as we are all different, someone can be a fast learned, and someone needs years and thousands and thousands to be lost before he learns something. How do you train discipline? Any suggestions you would give to fresh or inexperienced players?

After every loss or win that you consider a good catch or a pretty bad situation, don't rush into action to regain what you lost or to double what you've got, truth is, those are the moves that are awaited from you. Take a deep breath, consider your odds, your mood, your money to spend, and only then the decision should be made (that's my opinion). There is no point in the rush for glory or to regain it.

Diversify your risks, don't spend everything on one game, and choose 2-3 that you like the most, but not too much, it shouldn't embarrass you to play it or to spend your time in it.  

What would you recommend?

I cant recommend much, as I dont gamble to earn. I do get disappointed a bit when I lose, that is normal, but I dont show much emotions (negative) when loosing, that would trigger spontaneous bets. I cant give much recommendations to emotional gamblers. I can suggest only to play slowly, maybe even make a pause after a series of losses, or focus for a while on something less stressful. Even a simple action like washing face with cold water help to calm down and be less emotional.
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August 07, 2024, 01:00:34 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.
I think all gamblers must have experienced emotional gambling by doubling their bets both when they lose and when they win. Maybe this is a common thing because with this we can learn from our mistakes, especially emotional mistakes that make us suffer big losses in gambling.

When I first started gambling, I often gambled emotionally, but after learning a lot from my own experience and others on this forum, I was able to gamble well, and even when emotions arise, I was able to control them. The key is to often read gambling advice from other gamblers because it will change our mindset when gambling, or at least we can control ourselves when our gambling is not going well.

For me, the best way to win the battle as you said is to often read advice from other people's experiences because we will automatically remember them when gambling, so we can enjoy gambling. My personal experience is like that, there are many ways to win such a battle, it all depends on each person, which way is effective for you.

It's great to hear you improving upon your own actions. While I agree with the fact that listening to other, more experienced gamblers can help, your own mistakes or good actions will make even bigger wonders in the long run. There won't be an omelet if you don't break some eggs.
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August 06, 2024, 07:27:41 PM
I think all gamblers must have experienced emotional gambling by doubling their bets both when they lose and when they win. Maybe this is a common thing because with this we can learn from our mistakes, especially emotional mistakes that make us suffer big losses in gambling.

When I first started gambling, I often gambled emotionally, but after learning a lot from my own experience and others on this forum, I was able to gamble well, and even when emotions arise, I was able to control them. The key is to often read gambling advice from other gamblers because it will change our mindset when gambling, or at least we can control ourselves when our gambling is not going well.

For me, the best way to win the battle as you said is to often read advice from other people's experiences because we will automatically remember them when gambling, so we can enjoy gambling. My personal experience is like that, there are many ways to win such a battle, it all depends on each person, which way is effective for you.
yes, it must be everyone experiences it too, in my opinion, it is a natural thing because it is not strange if they gamble and experience emotions over results that are not in accordance with their expectations, because the majority of people who gamble aim to win but the results are often disappointing so it is natural that there is a sense of emotion in him I myself admit that, but what must be considered is that the emotions that exist must be controlled properly because if they cannot be controlled properly then it will make us take or behave worse.
when we are emotional, there must be other people who might remind us or try to make us aware with the advice given and it must be accepted well. but for those who are stubborn, advice from anyone will not be listened to because they only want to get what they want. besides reading other people's advice, I also think we ourselves must have awareness because if there is no advice then there will be no intention to read other people's advice.
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August 06, 2024, 06:24:46 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.
I think all gamblers must have experienced emotional gambling by doubling their bets both when they lose and when they win. Maybe this is a common thing because with this we can learn from our mistakes, especially emotional mistakes that make us suffer big losses in gambling.

When I first started gambling, I often gambled emotionally, but after learning a lot from my own experience and others on this forum, I was able to gamble well, and even when emotions arise, I was able to control them. The key is to often read gambling advice from other gamblers because it will change our mindset when gambling, or at least we can control ourselves when our gambling is not going well.

For me, the best way to win the battle as you said is to often read advice from other people's experiences because we will automatically remember them when gambling, so we can enjoy gambling. My personal experience is like that, there are many ways to win such a battle, it all depends on each person, which way is effective for you.
legendary
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August 06, 2024, 05:29:21 AM

Yes, if you have that kind of plans you'll avoid this kind of emotions, just make sure that you plan ahead and have that good diversion of your time, its needed to make that hard stop when you feel that you are no longer in control of your emotion, most of the time when you are in the losing side, instead of accepting the outcome, you'll force yourself to push for more and instead of losing smaller amount of money you soon lose a large one, amount that you are not willing to let go, for sure lots of regrets that will be added up after losing your bets.

I think discipline  will do just fine. If a gamble experiences things like this, it means  they have not yet disciplined themselves to be in control of their actions even when the urge of playing more or making the wrong decision come across  their minds. Its important we learn to controll  our actions and think critically  before making decisions. Before I was able to gamble responsibly and disciplined, I had made several  mistakes  like wanting ro gamble more ro recover my loss, but unfortunately I couldn't recover my loss and that brought my loss which is very unpleasant. The greatest part is were I learnt from my mistakes  and try as much as possible  not to repeat them again.  Its normal to make mistakes but what matters most is the effort you put in to ensure you don't repeat those mistakes.  And that is how to get disciplined.

Good point, as we all know that excess from what we setup will affects both time and money we spend for gambling, and with that your desire to continue and extend your game time will also affect your emotions, it's always better to learn and adjust from what mistake you made and avoid doing that same thing again, there's learning indeed if you keep the focus and allow that willngness to adopt will give you insights and overview on how you make your next decision making, emotional control is very important, else, if you can't resist to be emotional then better not to deal with it and forget about entering casinos and lose more money.
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August 06, 2024, 03:59:32 AM
We have already discussed a lot that emotions are one of gamblers main enemies, but havent talked much how can a gambler learn or train to be less emotional and have a better self-control. It is clear that it all should come with experience, but as we are all different, someone can be a fast learned, and someone needs years and thousands and thousands to be lost before he learns something. How do you train discipline? Any suggestions you would give to fresh or inexperienced players?

After every loss or win that you consider a good catch or a pretty bad situation, don't rush into action to regain what you lost or to double what you've got, truth is, those are the moves that are awaited from you. Take a deep breath, consider your odds, your mood, your money to spend, and only then the decision should be made (that's my opinion). There is no point in the rush for glory or to regain it.

Diversify your risks, don't spend everything on one game, and choose 2-3 that you like the most, but not too much, it shouldn't embarrass you to play it or to spend your time in it.  

What would you recommend?
legendary
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August 06, 2024, 03:47:31 AM
We have already discussed a lot that emotions are one of gamblers main enemies, but havent talked much how can a gambler learn or train to be less emotional and have a better self-control. It is clear that it all should come with experience, but as we are all different, someone can be a fast learned, and someone needs years and thousands and thousands to be lost before he learns something. How do you train discipline? Any suggestions you would give to fresh or inexperienced players?
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August 06, 2024, 03:45:44 AM
However, it must be acknowledged that those who lose control over gambling always suffer. If you can't control yourself, then surely your number of victims will increase constantly. That's why you need to control your emotions before gambling so that you can control your emotions when you lose. In gambling, basically control yourself with patience when you lose and stop your gambling for military time so that you don't get too broke. Experienced gamblers always gamble responsibly and with experience they stop when they lose and win. 
So every gambler should control their emotions and not break down in order to gain experience and face future losses.
Yeah, that is right because when they lose their money, they also feels regret and desperate and can't think why they do that thing. It is right if they can't control themselves when playing gambling, they can still lose more and more money and once that is happens, they will bankrupt without having a big chance to gets their money back. Their emotional will increase and will not thinks clear of what they must do while their minds keeps telling them to continue playing gambling without stops for a while.

When you gamble, you must thinks about allocating your money and know how long you can playing gambling. You must control your emotion not to increase so you can treat gambling carefully and not gives you a big lose. That's why you must have strong self control when playing gambling so you will not lose yourself in gambling and still have patience to know when you must stop your gambling activity.
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August 06, 2024, 01:18:17 AM
However, it must be acknowledged that those who lose control over gambling always suffer. If you can't control yourself, then surely your number of victims will increase constantly. That's why you need to control your emotions before gambling so that you can control your emotions when you lose. In gambling, basically control yourself with patience when you lose and stop your gambling for military time so that you don't get too broke. Experienced gamblers always gamble responsibly and with experience they stop when they lose and win. 
So every gambler should control their emotions and not break down in order to gain experience and face future losses.

Discipline should lead the way if you want not only to have a good time but to thrive and become better at what you like. Your words speak volumes.
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August 05, 2024, 10:42:40 PM
However, it must be acknowledged that those who lose control over gambling always suffer. If you can't control yourself, then surely your number of victims will increase constantly. That's why you need to control your emotions before gambling so that you can control your emotions when you lose. In gambling, basically control yourself with patience when you lose and stop your gambling for military time so that you don't get too broke. Experienced gamblers always gamble responsibly and with experience they stop when they lose and win.  
So every gambler should control their emotions and not break down in order to gain experience and face future losses.
Yes that's right. Just as you have to control your emotions while gambling, you have to plan your gambling. To me gambling is like an addiction because if you win any time you gamble, you become more interested in gambling regularly. An interest in gambling can later turn into an addiction. Whenever you overindulge yourself in gambling you will not have the mental strength to make sensible judgments. As a result you will then gamble even if you lose your gamble and gamble even if you win,That is extra addictive.

Most of the gamblers are unable to control their emotions or greed and are the worst victims of gambling. So gamble in such a way that even if you win and lose there, you can stop temporarily.
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August 05, 2024, 09:50:23 PM
However, it must be acknowledged that those who lose control over gambling always suffer. If you can't control yourself, then surely your number of victims will increase constantly. That's why you need to control your emotions before gambling so that you can control your emotions when you lose. In gambling, basically control yourself with patience when you lose and stop your gambling for military time so that you don't get too broke. Experienced gamblers always gamble responsibly and with experience they stop when they lose and win. 
So every gambler should control their emotions and not break down in order to gain experience and face future losses.
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August 05, 2024, 08:51:08 PM
Achieving what you said relies on the player's strength to save his funds. How will a player win more than he's lost in gambling? Saving money for another gambling session is in the player's jurisdiction. Winning or losing is under the control of the casino. And I wouldn't dare to manipulate it.
it is very unlikely that any player can get more wins than losses, I even think it feels almost impossible. what you said is true that those who can save their money for the next gamble are the winners because they have managed to control themselves, indeed when the gambling that is done has managed to get a win but that is not a real win, those who can control themselves are the real winners because they can control their emotions.
we know that everyone has a different attitude, so not everyone can control their emotions when gambling, especially if what happens is beyond their expectations. but people like this who should be told that they are wrong in gambling, they should be able to control their emotions and thoughts because that is quite important in gambling can make them okay with gambling because of good self-control but on the other hand if they can't control themselves then what will happen is most likely excessive gambling.
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August 05, 2024, 04:52:28 PM

Yes, if you have that kind of plans you'll avoid this kind of emotions, just make sure that you plan ahead and have that good diversion of your time, its needed to make that hard stop when you feel that you are no longer in control of your emotion, most of the time when you are in the losing side, instead of accepting the outcome, you'll force yourself to push for more and instead of losing smaller amount of money you soon lose a large one, amount that you are not willing to let go, for sure lots of regrets that will be added up after losing your bets.

I think discipline  will do just fine. If a gamble experiences things like this, it means  they have not yet disciplined themselves to be in control of their actions even when the urge of playing more or making the wrong decision come across  their minds. Its important we learn to controll  our actions and think critically  before making decisions. Before I was able to gamble responsibly and disciplined, I had made several  mistakes  like wanting ro gamble more ro recover my loss, but unfortunately I couldn't recover my loss and that brought my loss which is very unpleasant. The greatest part is were I learnt from my mistakes  and try as much as possible  not to repeat them again.  Its normal to make mistakes but what matters most is the effort you put in to ensure you don't repeat those mistakes.  And that is how to get disciplined.
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