Topic: When you are not to gamble. - page 13. (Read 6764 times)

gambling has a bad side which definitely happens when they do it excessively, with those who gamble excessively of course they will experience financial problems, where the money they have will most likely only be used for gambling and of course it will not be able to fully make money. Their situation is better, because if they only focus on gambling, it can make them ignore other things besides gambling that they want. and of course that can make them experience excessive stress because we know that people who gamble excessively tend not to accept it when the money they bet on is lost even though it is something that is certain to happen.

Of course, those who gamble excessively are people who are addicted to gambling, and we all know that if someone has become addicted to gambling, they can most likely ignore things around them, and someone who is addicted can do anything when they no longer have money to gamble, but The feeling of wanting to gamble is still there, there are many things they can do to make money, such as by borrowing or stealing, of course they won't stop there when they run out of money, because the feeling of wanting to gamble is what drives them to do things that take big risks. This happens to those who gamble excessively where many bad impacts will occur. but when you don't gamble, maybe your finances will be fine.

I definitely don’t think that the trust of friends and acquaintances can be gained after a player has stolen money and lost it in a gambling game. 
Most likely, it is the image of the player that will be attached to this person for a very long time, maybe for his entire life.  And accordingly, no one from his close circle will be able to treat such a player with the proper degree of trust.  The people around him will always believe that if a player is given money for what he asked for, then the player will not buy what he is talking about with it, but will simply lose everything in the casino. 
And of course nothing can be returned.  He will remain in debt for many years.  This is exactly the attitude towards the player that exists in most real cases. 
And this is of course unpleasant for the player.  But he has to put up with this and continue to live in the image of a gambler, spending any money he managed to get only on losing at the casino.

In general, gambling has two harmful effects on the gambler. Yes, this is a good antistress, but only if the gambler rarely plays. And if he plays constantly, then the game stops removing stress from the gambler, but on the contrary adds it.

So, two harmful influences: problematic gambling empties the pockets of a gambler who came to earn money in gambling and not to play for pleasure. And the second harmful factor is that the gambler steals money from friends, and because of this he loses trust among his loved ones. And this is very bad, because trust is hard to earn anew.

That's why you must makes yourself keeps busy by doing many activities so you will not thinks about gambling and return back to gambling. You will also not spends much money when you playing gambling because you will knows that will not works much for you, especially you only wants to uses your spare time to playing gambling.

When we can have many activities in you daily life, you will not have a will to playing gambling because you will thinks that is important if you do your daily activities than to just playing gambling. You will not trying to make money from gambling because you knows that you don't have a big chance to win but you may lose your money and lose control when playing gambling. With doing many things that is not related to gambling will keeps you busy in your daily life and you will make a distance from gambling so you will stay away from the addiction.

That's right, it's possible that when you've experienced a losing streak, your emotions become uncontrollable so that you don't even have the thought of stopping gambling, because emotions that control you make us continue to gamble blindly, without even seeing the obvious downside. happen. emotions that occur because they don't accept that the money they bet on is lost, so they feel annoyed which leads them to take revenge by gambling again. Unfortunately, when they are in a position like that, it will only put them in trouble and big losses.
For those who gamble with the wrong goal, such as making money or aiming for victory, of course they find it difficult to accept defeat or the loss of the money they bet on. Therefore, it is very important to be able to control ourselves, including our emotions. because this can help us in gambling to avoid big losses or actions that actually lead to big losses. We must be able to think that gambling is not a means of making money because it is only a means of game-based entertainment.

The points you convey are true, often people gamble when they are experiencing financial problems and think that gambling can solve these problems, but in fact we actually add to the problems within ourselves. Gambling is not a solution for someone who is experiencing problems because gambling is a game to have fun, we have to use it cold money so that gambling feels fun and we also don't experience excessive pressure and are afraid of experiencing losses because if we use cold money we are ready to lose the money without expecting a big win.

If gambling has made you feel depressed, you should stop immediately. Sometimes someone is too ambitious to get the expected win without thinking about the risks they face and forgetting what the real purpose of gambling is, it's just to have fun.

Capital, and mental strength, also depend on how much he bets in each Spin. Even with $1k, money will never run out if you only use a $0.01 Bet.
But someone who doesn't have the control to play will use bigger bets of course and that's what makes any amount of your capital will run out in the blink of an eye.

Only limited to opportunities that will not be certain, cannot provide a guarantee of financial well-being even if they are rich.
If having a lot of money is better to build their own Online casino than to be a gambling player, it is better, and the profits are definitely already guaranteed because they already set up the system.

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When there are too many defeats and his emotions are unstable, then there is no intention to stop.
They would only play for revenge, which would ultimately be a deeper loss.

Accepting defeat is very difficult for gamblers who have spent a lot of money,
but it is very necessary to manage their emotions so that they do not become a burden and stress,
it is better to do positive things and rest and do not touch gambling first.

The most important thing is to stop in time, but no one knows exactly when to stop and every time they reassure themselves with the hope that this time everything will be different and the player will be lucky. Stopping playing means admitting your lost money, and only those with strong nerves can do this. Nobody likes to talk about the fact that they lost, so the player will not talk about it to friends and family, he will have to keep it to himself. In this case, these negative emotions need to be thrown out somewhere, and it’s good if the player himself figures out how to do this release, either in the gym or fishing or in his favorite activities, but I definitely wouldn’t leave it to myself.

The documentary about Motorhead showed that Lemmy (a musician who receives $100k just for the opportunity to sing a cover version of his song) often played the slot machine for a long time, but this didn't run out of money.

The rich in gambling, who lose a lot, will find ways to earn extra money in order to restore their financial well-being, because they have sufficient capital (as well as the opportunity to earn money) even without winnings in gambling.

It would be easy to say if the person could understand what the risks were, but if they were not thinking about anything other than gambling,
there would be no thought about when to gamble and when to stop.
Until finally, they will be aware of the consecutive defeats that have occurred.

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There are many levels of rich people, ranging from those who have unlimited money and those who are only rich with not enough money.
Gambling may be just a game or a hobby for the wealthy, but gradually it will become a time bomb, if there is no control.

No matter how rich they are they will definitely run out if the gambling management and control mark,
there will be no reason anymore when their money is gone.

Having an Idle mind will make you to return back to gambling but when you have occupied your mind with other things, you wouldn't be thinking about gambling and be concentrating more on your new business. When you're not gambling, you should be doing other things in place of what gambling used to be for you. If you were gambling because you wan fun, you need to replace it.

You have to be doing other things that can give you similar fun that gambling used to give. If you gambled to make money, you have to do other things that will be giving you money. Taking a break from gambling and not doing any other things to replace gambling, it will leave you empty as gambling is everything that you use to do.
If you're not stopping gambling completely but just taking a break then you can do what I use to do. I'll look for a nice resort to rest and get a good taste of my money that I have made from gambling.

OP I totally agree with your opinion. All the points you have mentioned here are correct, if a gambler follows your points and participates in gambling he will never become addicted to gambling and push himself to destruction. Gambling should always be for entertainment and gambling should never be used as a means of earning money and a fixed budget of income should be used for gambling. I think money should not be used outside of the fixed budget that is used for gambling. But finally, I would like to point out that one should never take a loan for gambling. Many people participate in gambling by borrowing money to gamble.
People who participate in debt gambling I think are the ones who suffer the most and ruin their lives, not just their own lives but everyone in their family.

Another difference is that if you are poor and you go gambling, you have everything to lose. Meanwhile, the rich ones can go around and gamble all their money and somehow they still would have money.

the rich ones can always get out of anything for some reason

Spending your money in gambling can makes you lose the money fast without you realizes because gambling can makes you forget your limitation. You will not thinks about how much money you can use to playing gambling, especially if you lose that money by playing gambling for some rounds. You will thinks that you can wins in the next rounds so you deposits more money and keeps playing gambling without thinks to stops for a while.

But when you are not to gamble, you better use your time to do many things to distract your minds not to thinks about gambling. That can makes you practice to avoids the thinking of gambling because you realizes that you have many things you can do to have fun and fills your spare time. If you can do that, you will not worry with playing gambling because your minds will telling you to stops playing gambling.

Many important things in life are not easy. That's also in part why they are important, people need to take some time and do things properly if they want to thrive as adults.

Many people are simply walking around life without any plan or any guidance, going randomly.

The thing is that you need to know when it is time to gamble and when it is not.

It's important, but it's not easy to do good money management.
If someone who is already addicted to gambling does not think about any strategy, including money management.

They would only play with the money they held, even everything he had.
Looking at the current facts in my country where too many people are addicted to Online Gambling, so there are many suicides, crimes and other adverse cases.
This is a clear example of why anyone should not enter gambling if they are not prepared for the risks and do not know what to do so that they do not become addicts.

That's true. When you are lacking of this, even a person don't gamble he/she can still lose the money for managing poorly. It's either spending on things that are not really needed, investing without knowledge or deciding to use the money and not thinking wisely.

What more if you spend your money in gambling? Chances are you'll think that you can grow the money for doing this since you saw some people became fortunate to gain huge. Well, keep in mind that majority of gamblers are trying their luck in gambling but only few managed to win a decent amount.

It is right that a player addicted to the game begins to spend his money in a completely ugly and completely unreasonable manner.  This, of course, is due to his dependence and the fact that when shopping for some essentjial items or groceries, such a player constantly and constantly thinks about how much money he can use in the game.  As a result, the consumption pattern of this person is constantly changing for the worse, which in turn begins to worsen the quality of his life.  This naturally cannot be well received by the family members of such a player and constantly causes scandals and divorces.
 In this case, the casino acts as a kind of “vacuum cleaner”, as it sucks out all the money of this family and leads to ruin.

There are gambling addicts in both individuals that gamble just for entertainment and those that gamble as a source of their income therefore there's no difference. Individually we can have different attitudes but if you allow gambling addiction to affect you, it doesn't matter if you were gambling for entertainment or money, you'll still have to stop gambling when you notice the addiction or it will destroy you. Gambling addict don't use their money wisely.

Every individual should stop gambling when they aren't being successful, you can't be losing and still continue to gamble or you are going to get addicted. Addiction starts from when you start gambling as a way of revenge for the  money that you're losing. Addiction affecting you depends on the individual and not the style that you're using to gamble as there are some individual who are gambling for money but are still  getting addicted.

It is quite a lot where people get such abundant inheritance while he is not good at business that there is an addiction to gambling to spend all of it with an excessive lifestyle.

Gambling is luck, all can feel the same even though the results are different, if the capital is large, of course when lucky you can get a high jackpot but small capital, the victory will be equal.
The importance of money management, people who go bankrupt faster because they cannot manage money properly.