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fine, superior to the other person who holds the opposing point of view.
it's ego on both sides of the equation.
I'm right, they're wrong. I'm the smart guy.
Except that isn't at all what the objectively reasoned challenges to theist assertions actually is. Sure, if we were to employ the same theist versus theist tactics of subjectively spinning our own interpretations as being correct over your subjectively spun interpretations then, yes, you might have a point. But when a theist position is dismantled by way of critical analysis and objective reasoning, namely, the employment of valid argument which exposes the theist position to be the arbitrary baseless fallacy it is then, no, we are right because our argument is right while yours fails, not because we are simply declaring that we right and you are wrong.
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neither side has proof of their position. One side claims God exists, but has no proof. the other claims God does not, but has no proof.
you can parse an individual argument and say 'look the theists say this, which is clearly absurd' so they're wrong, but their core assertion, that there is a God, is not disprovable based on any such example.
at the end of the day neither side can prove anything and yet both puff their chests out and claim the other is wrong.
This is the same in political discussions. "I'm right, they're wrong".
Two things you don't talk about in bars - politics and religion, for the simple fact that people often take these things so personally as to make them flash points for a debate that devolves into an argument. They are beliefs, aka opinions, not provable facts in both cases, so there is no 'winner', ever.
The hardcore bible thumpers could never deal with devoting their lives to something which is wrong, so they refuse to believe there is no God, or even allow for the possibility in many cases. They have no proof and have claimed that 'faith' is the key. Problem there is that this faith is to be taken without proof and they have conveniently asserted that this is the core of faith itself.
The Athiests are simply the polar opposite. They've staked out another position and refuse to believe they could be wrong either, or even allow for the possibility in many cases, as allowing for the unknown would nudge them toward being an agnostic. They don't have any proof either and many times will conveniently claim that lack of proof is the proof, which is almost as good as the reasoning behind the faith argument.
I go back to my basic premise that this is about ego. The need to believe in one's own core beliefs. Anything that may run counter to it is to be killed at all costs, not for the sake of being correct, but for the sake of sense of self, for sake of one's own ego.