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Besides that, in another place, Many young people around to me still play slot gambling even don't have a job and always lose. I wonder where they get the money for deposits? and why they repeat that?. I don't know what the reason reason that doesn't bother them, they should have given up, and changed the game that makes them profitable. if I always lose in the game, I will change the type of game, example If I always lose on a slot, I will change the type of game like sports betting until my capital is back and try the luck again to the slot.
That's what I often encounter in our place, where many people are addicted to slot gambling but they still deposit even though they don't have a job, but they only work odd jobs and are not permanent workers so they get only to play slots for instant benefits even though it is very unlikely unless they are lucky.

If one game always loses and change to another game like you say sports betting? Not all like sports that I know around here, they just want to play instant and also instant winnings so will not think of sports betting because the lag is too long to see the results.
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Op let me start from your first paragraph. A friend of yours told you about his gambling losses and you're saying here the story was stupid? Wow! You can't solve a problem for you friend because he was expecting you to tell him a word of encouragement and also guide him how he will not loss again and that probably tell him to stop gambling so that he will not loss the money which is meant to do another thing. But instead you insulted him, he would not tell you anything another time again. He discussed that with you to find a lasting solution but you turn it down.

And those young guys that plays gamble with job always get money for gambling even though they don't have money for other things. They get money from daily work at building sites, from friends and from begging. And they use it to gamble.
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Because even after losing, the day of enjoyment and happiness might probably come once the moment they waited for long surprised them. The losses they are suffering mean it's still not their time. How they will be able to grab those crazy winnings if they do not touch gambling?

As a casual gambler, I'm also hoping for a big win someday in gambling. Right now, more losses compared to winning but not giving up.

So, basically winning or losing has the same potential to have an addictive effect on gamblers.

For me, experiencing the winning side is more encouraging gamblers not to stop gambling hoping for another shot at that big win.
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Let them share their regrets, this may be his healing process so that he can easily move on from his mistakes. Some people do like sharing their experiences and I think it's a good way to make yourself feel better. I always try to be honest with my partner so that I have someone to share all my regrets and I think your friend is just doing the same. If you think what he is doing is stupid then I doubt you are a real friend to him. If that is what happened to me I will invite that friend of mine for a drink so he can complete his story over beers and some good food.

I agree that sharing will help people to easily let go their painful experiences but it’s different on gambling especially if he is just sharing losses without any plan on stopping it because he probably enjoying the gambling even with losses that makes sharing of story is not a healing process to stop gambling but rather just to simply share the fun he experienced.

Besides, losses is normal in gambling because of its house edge. The experience of gambling is what being paid and count.
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Let them share their regrets, this may be his healing process so that he can easily move on from his mistakes. Some people do like sharing their experiences and I think it's a good way to make yourself feel better. I always try to be honest with my partner so that I have someone to share all my regrets and I think your friend is just doing the same. If you think what he is doing is stupid then I doubt you are a real friend to him. If that is what happened to me I will invite that friend of mine for a drink so he can complete his story over beers and some good food.
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We can in other terms call it chasing loses, The reality is in whatever thing we do nobody wants to be a loser and that's the case here with gambling, if you are losing, you will ever hope that your next attempt will be in the money, and you will definitely want to continue to play with the hope of recovering your losses and that's the hard truth when you're into gambling, it is very important to gamble responsibly and not to go way beyond what you have budgeted, and that why most gamblers get screwed.
This is because those set of gamblers think that gambling can give them profit and they will get carried away with their gambling activities because their goal have not been achieved which is to win big.  They forget to know that luck plays a major role in gambling and they think it is your mindset of winning that will bring the win.

This is why all gamblers are always thinking positive that they will win their next game, and it only takes a discipline gambler to know when he should stop playing in other to limit his loss, because gamblers like it or not, we must always lose more than we win.
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Who won't be lured and tempted to those shared gambling-related banners showing huge multipliers, huge winnings, and related images associated with big winnings? Every gambler always wants to desire winning big or even hope for a good life-changing reward through playing gambling. They won't continue to spend money in gambling if there's no expected big reward waiting.

They lose mostly at the time but there's no other way to win those big wins unless you gamble in actual. They believed that someday, their big luck would come to them. The only question is, when will that luck come that brings a big reward? Too much money is continously losing while they are waiting on that moment
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The reason why these people keep playing gambling, even always losing, is because they actually won big before.
They want to chase that big win regardless of the losing streak, unfortunate luck, bullshit reasons and so whatever.
If these guys didn't win before, I doubt they will continue to play gambling. Winning big before is memorable to any gambler.

I doubt that. Or they may follow some streamers who have won multiple jackpots and the player gets inspired because they saw their streamer won a big amount. I guess a lot of gamblers do this. I won't lie about it. Even though I didn't win any significant amount of money from gambling, I still tried some games because I saw some random streamer won some big amount.

We tend to follow them. For example, let's say I was playing Pragmatic slots but I saw a streamer won a big amount on another slot provider games, I started to playing that games hoping I might win such amount as well. Which does not happen.
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The reason why these people keep playing gambling, even always losing, is because they actually won big before.

They want to chase that big win regardless of the losing streak, unfortunate luck, bullshit reasons and so whatever.

If these guys didn't win before, I doubt they will continue to play gambling. Winning big before is memorable to any gambler.

I don't think so, many players have never won from several day of gambling, but in the end they are addicted. It is possible that the mindset of chasing losses, made him continue playing even though he lost continuously in several day of gambling. Then, the winnings he get, making him getting addicted more than before, because trying to win more as your comments.

So, basically winning or losing has the same potential to have an addictive effect on gamblers. Only those who have good control or who have no interest in gambling will stop after experiencing losses in several gambling attempts.
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I always hear stories of friends who always lose playing online gambling. I don't know what his purpose to tell his story to me. even it's clear, his story makes him look stupid.

Besides that, in another place, Many young people around to me still play slot gambling even don't have a job and always lose. I wonder where they get the money for deposits? and why they repeat that?. I don't know what the reason reason that doesn't bother them, they should have given up, and changed the game that makes them profitable. if I always lose in the game, I will change the type of game, example If I always lose on a slot, I will change the type of game like sports betting until my capital is back and try the luck again to the slot.

I think gamblers should focus and concentrate more on the type of gambling they can have an edge over the bookies and can guarantee winning consistently in my community majority of young people are soccer fans and enthusiast thus had indepth knowledge of soccer as a result most of them are into or engaged in soccer bettings both offline and online and from my close interaction with some of them they are earning some decent profits from wins from their bets, though there are Casinos and slot betting shops they enjoy low patronage because people are not interested in that type of bettings due losses they usually incurred while gambling with it.
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The reason why these people keep playing gambling, even always losing, is because they actually won big before.

They want to chase that big win regardless of the losing streak, unfortunate luck, bullshit reasons and so whatever.

If these guys didn't win before, I doubt they will continue to play gambling. Winning big before is memorable to any gambler.
Even if its on your first time then it would really be just that giving that kind of feeling on which you shouldnt really be stopping mid way.This is really that actually be depending on someones perception towards gambling on which there would really be those people who would really be that normal that there would really be those moments on which you do really like to play
and there are really that moments on which you do really just simply stop because you cant really be able to bare up with the risks. It is really just that depending into someone
perception towards gambling whether they would really be deciding to continue or they would completely stop just because they cant really be able to afford on the
money or  funds that they are losing.
legendary
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The reason why these people keep playing gambling, even always losing, is because they actually won big before.

They want to chase that big win regardless of the losing streak, unfortunate luck, bullshit reasons and so whatever.

If these guys didn't win before, I doubt they will continue to play gambling. Winning big before is memorable to any gambler.
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I always hear stories of friends who always lose playing online gambling. I don't know what his purpose to tell his story to me. even it's clear, his story makes him look stupid.

Besides that, in another place, Many young people around to me still play slot gambling even don't have a job and always lose. I wonder where they get the money for deposits? and why they repeat that?. I don't know what the reason reason that doesn't bother them, they should have given up, and changed the game that makes them profitable. if I always lose in the game, I will change the type of game, example If I always lose on a slot, I will change the type of game like sports betting until my capital is back and try the luck again to the slot.

One thing about gambling is that it can go either ways. And the day you decide not bet is the day your game will play. Every gambling has a pay day and if you are not consistent you might not be able to win. Losing a bet is a sign that the winning is on the way.
The OP sounded so sure about the losing part, but it ain't always like that when it comes to gambling, else, no one would gamble and there wouldn't be testimony of winners.

Just like you said, consistent effort in gambling may involve many losses, but once a gambler understands how to gamble, that is what works or what doesn't work, all that remains is the funds to execute and the luck to win.
Surely, every gambler has a winning day and no one can ascertain when it will be, hence why gamblers keep gambling despite the persistent losses.

Gambling is also a pleasurable activity and many people do it for fun rather than as a serious earning scheme or career that would make one a millionaire.
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I always hear stories of friends who always lose playing online gambling. I don't know what his purpose to tell his story to me. even it's clear, his story makes him look stupid.

Besides that, in another place, Many young people around to me still play slot gambling even don't have a job and always lose. I wonder where they get the money for deposits? and why they repeat that?. I don't know what the reason reason that doesn't bother them, they should have given up, and changed the game that makes them profitable. if I always lose in the game, I will change the type of game, example If I always lose on a slot, I will change the type of game like sports betting until my capital is back and try the luck again to the slot.


It's just that according to mathematical laws, the more you don't get the desired result, the greater the chance that it will fall out. Based on this, if there are no winnings at the beginning of a gambling career, then logically you need to continue playing.
This is the perfect trap that a lot of players fall into. At the same time, when they achieve the result they have wanted for so long, then at this point they already have a pretty strong emotional dependence on the casino.
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I always hear stories of friends who always lose playing online gambling. I don't know what his purpose to tell his story to me. even it's clear, his story makes him look stupid.

Besides that, in another place, Many young people around to me still play slot gambling even don't have a job and always lose. I wonder where they get the money for deposits? and why they repeat that?. I don't know what the reason reason that doesn't bother them, they should have given up, and changed the game that makes them profitable. if I always lose in the game, I will change the type of game, example If I always lose on a slot, I will change the type of game like sports betting until my capital is back and try the luck again to the slot.

One thing about gambling is that it can go either ways. And the day you decide not bet is the day your game will play. Every gambling has a pay day and if you are not consistent you might not be able to win. Losing a bet is a sign that the winning is on the way.
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And that makes them continue to gamble because they still want to win and are curious about when they can win. But even though they can finally win, their win will not be as big as the previous loss, so they will still experience a loss. There is hope that continues to make them feel like they can win so that they never stop gambling. They must be willing to accept that losing is easier than winning, so they must be able to change their mindset, not chase wins or recover from their losses. Thus, they only try to play enough gambling without having a target to get a difficult win.

Does this hope of a gambler to win in gambling ever die ? No matter, how much one loses in gambling, still the hope of winning is there ?
That i really strange, isn't ?

I tried to find out the reason for this gambler's behavior and thought that maybe the gamblers see other people's big wins and are inspired by them. Perhaps the gamblers thought since other gamblers can win in gambling, why can't they. They are of the view that if they keep on trying, one day they will have success in gambling and they may hit a jackpot and change their lives altogether.

However, i must insist that gamblers should not be too much optimistic and also they should keep track of their losses and make sure that they do not invest too much money, that they feel depressed about losing that amount of money. There is no harm in keeping on trying but still one should be responsible and not be too much relaxed.
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I always hear stories of friends who always lose playing online gambling. I don't know what his purpose to tell his story to me. even it's clear, his story makes him look stupid.
That is one thing about gamblers its very difficult for them to quit. Even when they know they are loosing. They always think that continuous attempt is the key to winning. Because it might be when you stop playing, that others will win. So there is a tendency or hope that wining must come. That's why they say gamblers never quit.
And that makes them continue to gamble because they still want to win and are curious about when they can win. But even though they can finally win, their win will not be as big as the previous loss, so they will still experience a loss. There is hope that continues to make them feel like they can win so that they never stop gambling. They must be willing to accept that losing is easier than winning, so they must be able to change their mindset, not chase wins or recover from their losses. Thus, they only try to play enough gambling without having a target to get a difficult win.
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I always hear stories of friends who always lose playing online gambling. I don't know what his purpose to tell his story to me. even it's clear, his story makes him look stupid.
That is one thing about gamblers its very difficult for them to quit. Even when they know they are loosing. They always think that continuous attempt is the key to winning. Because it might be when you stop playing, that others will win. So there is a tendency or hope that wining must come. That's why they say gamblers never quit.

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but about your friend ? maybe he is enjoying feeding those gambling site owner or casino owner , he loves giving his money to their pockets?

No, there is no gambler who is losing that enjoys giving his money to the house or the owner by the way of losing. Rather, they are consistently playing to try their luck on winning back what they have. I could imagine losing on a streak and then enjoying the way that your money is being wasted, no gambler will enjoy that. Gamblers wish to be profitable all the time and that is the reason to go back to playing even after vowing not to continue playing. There are some gamblers that are fade up from playing but later decide to play for few times maybe they see a game thinking they can have a win and unfortunately they won't win but end up continuing playing. Such happens because they want to try getting back the losses they had before they stop.

And it seems that there is a tendency to go all-in, for the chance to recover from the previous loss, in the case of many gamblers, which has his psychological explanation but that doesn't make much sense in terms of probability. But the possibility of erasing the mistake made (by gambling money they weren't willing to lose) is very strong, even if it is at the expense of falling in the same mistake.

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I don't know if many people feel the same way I do, but honestly, gambling has this magical allure that makes you always feel like you'll win the next bet. So, it's understandable why those who engage in gambling keep playing even if they consistently lose. Moreover, after a streak of losses, there's a stronger sense of certainty in your head about the next bet—a belief that forms after those previous losses.
Some people see it as experience gained from those prior losses. Also, the desire to recover losses is always present in each of us. How can you just walk away after losing the first few rounds? It's really tough to quit right then and there, and the more you play, the deeper you get, even though you keep losing, the urge to continue playing persists.
It's not magical, it's psychological. A lot of us are raised to chase wins and we always see that winning should be the thing that someone should strive for and it's a normal thing for us to believe that, it's not like we're going to have any problem with having to aspire to be a winner. The point is that we've been indoctrinated our whole life about winning that when we gamble which sees a lot of losing as a result, we often see ourselves feeling that there's something wrong with losing and so we continue to play until we hit the win not knowing that when that happens, we're hooked on the feeling of winning because we've been frustrated about losing that we want to feel that winning feeling again and so we gamble again which will be followed by a lot of losses and we also have this belief that we are guaranteed a win if we just keep on playing so that's probably my answer to your question.
Yep, that can be the psychology or belief, a belief that we will win next time and recover all those losses. It's that belief that pulls us into playing from one round to the next, even burning through our wallets. However, I also remind that gambling has a strange allure. After a few losses, you might hate it intensely at that moment, but then, after a few weeks, or even days, you find yourself drawn back to it.
You might join in right away if someone invites you to gamble, forgetting how you lost before. I don't know if this applies to everyone, but for me, it used to be like that. It's not necessarily that we are taught to pursue victory, which makes us keep diving into gambling until we win, as you say, but mostly it's the psychology of wanting to recover losses and the attraction that gambling brings.
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