Topic: Why do some people hide to gamble - page 5. (Read 2326 times)

There are some gamblers who are proud to be gambler. Just look at the fact about most popular professional poker players, do you think they are not proud of what they achieve in the poker gambling industry? Of course the number of people who proud to be known as gambler is small compared to those who prefer to hide it, but we cant say that no one is ever proud to be known as gambler. The point is, if gambling or become a gambler can give someone positive effects (mostly about financial or popularity), they will be proud of themselves.

There are actually quite a lot of factors that influence and also make gamblers prefer to keep their gambling activities secret from the public eye, and one of them is like what you said which depends on the regulations of the country or the regulations of the religion which I also know that the Islamic religion prohibits all its people from engaging in gambling and maybe there are some other religions that also have the same rules, And the other thing is that yes there are still some reasons outside of state or religious regulations that make a person keep his gambling activities secret and you have already said one of them which is that people do not want others to know that they are betting on a large budget amount which is too much involvement in gambling according to other gamblers.

On the other hand for me and what I know is that gamblers keep their gambling activities a secret because they don't want the people around them to think that they are someone who has a bad personality in life because after all overall usually gambling has a negative point of view in the eyes of society and when other people find out that you are someone who is involved in gambling then usually the people around you will stay away or avoid you because they are afraid of being adversely affected by your involvement in gambling.

The fact that some people are hiding, then most likely they don’t want to draw attention from other people around. Yes, it could be illegal and unacceptable in their area like for Islamic areas, or it could be that they don’t want other people to know that they are betting a huge amount which is not normal anymore for street gamblers. Because let’s admit it, a lot of people misinterpret it. They will think that once money is involved, especially bigger amount, that’s already a serious kind of gambling that may lead to small addiction until it grows once it becomes a habit.

If you are in a place where you can gamble, it means people around you is also gamblers or interested in gambling. There's no need to be shy when you are gambling in public because to tell you, those old timers who are gambling do not focus on their surroundings but only to their game.

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And for me, I think people do hide their gambling, specifically to their family because of personal reasons, such as some people think negative about gambling, or maybe they lost too much money in gambling. It is something to feel embarassed in front of other people especially in your family.

You make a fair point - gambling addiction can truly devastate lives.  Yet at the same time, not all gambling is so destructive and  there are surely plenty of people who simply enjoy the occasional friendly wager or game.  The key difference lies in self-control and moderation.  Tragic tales of financial ruin often emerge from uncontrolled, compulsive gambling habits that spiral out of hand.  But recreational betting with expendable money, just for entertainment? That don't lead down such a dark path for most folks.

Overall this is a nuanced issue.  Complete demonization fails to acknowledge the many who gamble responsibly.

I don't think anyone is ever proud of being fondly known as a gambler, but these same set of people haven't done anything reasonable aside wagering their life savings, without having any foresight about the consequences... Oh well, " I've seen cases where the husband vows with his life never to gamble away the family support funds, but leaves very early with it, plus any other available cash he lays his hands on, to the casino house "

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Infact, what do y'all think is the main reason why the major renaissance has been on casinos overtime? Isn't it about protecting the user's privacy from the public? People barely go to casino houses - unless it's specially beautified in some ways.

Since their is online gambling, I can’t even remember the last time which I visited a physical gambling shop to gamble, seriously I won’t really be comfortable, because whenever people see you going out of gambling shop, then they will start judging you without knowing if you are a addicted gambler, or a normal gambler that gamble just for fun, but addicted gamblers already made most people in my society think that gambling is a bad activity, just few of them knows that the only thing which is bad in gambling is addiction.

You have a good point here and risk is risk if given the proper process. Banks do their investment and they don't always run in profit in all the investment they do because some customers will default. So likewise gambling but the point is the society has made it that way. The society has made bank business or investment more reputable and acceptable to be a responsible place to deal with and you see all people working around the bank looking good. I think it is the society that defines such platforms to be what they are people are following through that. Some wife won't like their husband to be a gambler but a banker 

Multiple reasons can be unlocked in the process of figuring out why most gamblers don't play openly. In the context op provided, It could be a group of friends that have formed the habit of gambling together in a more isolated environment. Literally, gambling in a noisy environment is not advisable. Due to the highly intense thought needed for a gambler to focus, some people will prefer a deadly quiet place for their gambling activities. I have read of celebrities who do this in their house, gambling with friends for fun. Huge amount of money. The whole process of playing gambling is to set a relationship with a certain group of other players.

Even in the casino gambling alone is not fun compared to when playing with close friends. The regulation will be there, coming from fellow gamblers. Advice is more effective when it's coming from some close friends who we engage together on the game. Most times when done right, those group of players will find solicit in one another, such that they can easily discuss their experiences in gambling. How it affects them psychology. Good or bad. Few conversations on the new develop will help change the player who is experiencing new change of habit.

Personally I do gamble occasionally and don't like to put it out there for everyone to know what I do because I respect my privacy but unfortunately alot of humans  out there are very judgemental on how others live there lives which is something I avoid.

So I guess the reason for people not putting their gambling habits out there could range from privacy, avoiding the shame from losing, avoiding sharing winnings with others who might know of your good luck and want a piece of it, avoid others knowing ones financial standing etcetera.

With the name of the game and the usage of change
I think you from Nigeria same here.
People do hide to gamble sometimes because they are scared of been judged
There's a certain stigma that some individuals attach to gamblers and to prevent been labelled such
They hide their profession.
Back to the whot, Is not like they hiding
That's where they feel and are comfortable playing it
Our country don't really place more emphasis on gambling for whot like they do lottery.
But in recent years, Sport betting has gotten mainstream and only few are shy about it
Majority have embraced it not excluding girls
It's not uncommon seeing people discussing in public about games and odds. They call it betting not gambling 

Gambling is not easily accepted in all societies. So there are many who are never interested in revealing their gambling to others. They prefer to keep their gambling activities in the dark. There are some who think that if a person finds out about their gambling, then their gambling will be interrupted accountable especially to his family. His  gambling habits may go awry if the family finds out. Moreover, gamblers are not interested in telling others about their gambling to avoid legal proceedings. However, gamblers have no fear in all jurisdictions where gambling is legal. I think not some gamblers but most of the gamblers like to hide their gambling matters. I myself like to hide gambling. I have no restrictions though. But I have no desire to let others know about me.

Unfortunately, a few years ago it was common to see news criticizing people who were involved in gambling, but nowadays criticism of people who are involved in gambling is common in countries where religion is the law. In first world countries like the USA and many non-first world countries accept gambling and as a result the people of these countries gamble freely. In my country, for example, no one needs to hide when they play, because in my country, everywhere there are lottery ticket sales offices, sports betting, slot machines and many physical casinos.

So people in my country have gotten used to gambling to the point that no one criticizes people who get involved in gambling. On the contrary, when people in my country earn a lot of money from gambling, they immediately appear on TV to be praised and become popular and many other people look to them as a good example to follow. Of course, gambling companies in my country always post warnings that people in my country should gamble with money they can afford to lose.

It's bad to see how few gamblers don't gamble responsibily, I have also believed that that's the major reasons why many people out there that's not gambling thinks those that's gambling is not responsible. From my observations I gave noticed that it's because of what the people who are not gambling have witnessed around those that's gambling that makes them to condemn gamblers.

The difference is that gambling cannot be predicted, while business in banking or other things can be predicted using the data they have, that is what makes gambling riskier than other things. If we talk about risk then everything in this world also has risk, but there are differences in it.

Embarrassment is usually due to the gambler being in an environment unfamiliar with gambling, not because of the risks. Moreover, in some countries or in some places someone who gambles is considered a person who has bad behavior, so they choose to hide their activities in gambling.

However, I agree with you that gambling, if done correctly, is a game. However, the problem is that there are still people who cannot gamble properly, they take too many risks and risk their stability in gambling games. So that it becomes a problem for them, this is a problem that is a fundamental problem for some gamblers.

The major challenge with gambling is the public condemnation of the act of gambling because many people believe that when someone gamble he or she is not responsible that is the reason why most People prefer to gamble in secret and keep it off the public space since they probably want to look responsible.


But for me, why I gamble in private is because of the fact that gambling can sometimes attract unnecessary attention most especially when you manage to win big, everyone one will want to share in the win when you gamble in public.

Quite funny if people manage to judge gambling badly when equal or greater risk is being taken by banks or those in finance every day and that damage can be serious from larger amounts risked.  

Gambling if done right is just a game and you should not risk your overall financial stability on bets which can always go either way if you are being honest with yourself.  Do that much and play as a game everyday with limits on what is leisure money to spend and you will be superior to the bank manager with no shame at all applicable.

I sometimes do get shy when I am betting or gambling in public because, I don't know, I feel I might be judged by the people who can see it. I think the reason why most people hide when gambling is because of the bad things or bad reputations that are connected with gambling. If a person sees you gambling, people might think that you are addicted to it or anything bad related to it; it is the fear of judgment that makes them hide when gambling. Or maybe they just don't want to be seen by their relatives and scold them or be interrogated by them, especially if the money that they are gambling with is something they cannot afford to lose. If people don't know that you are gambling with that kind of money, then there is less burden for the gambler.

Yes, most of the Luca gambling really huge amount of money that you may not think they can take because of what they are gambling with. It may not just be shop or a casino. It may just be a Local dice or local scrabble whatever it is, is what they come up with in exchange of money via the aim of gambling and it works for them people win money and that means it’s just really the way they have decided it and they are working perfectly together keeping the rules whichever person that One takes the money it is a good gambling stage and very big weeks risk

True, and from some of the points that you said regarding the reasons why someone hides their gambling activities in my opinion more people make the first and second points as reasons, namely because the country does not legalize gambling activities where if they are caught engaging in gambling then they will be subject to sanctions whether it is a fine or prison, and the second is in terms of age, even though for example their country legalizes gambling for its people but if for example they are people who are still underage who are not yet eligible to be allowed to engage in gambling then obviously usually they will prefer to hide their involvement in gambling.

Another thing is that I will also not rule out another reason which is the fact that someone who hides their gambling activities could be because they do not want to be known as someone who has a bad personality in their environment which will make them ignored by others in their environment and make them experience some problems in terms of building socialization relationships with others, especially the people around them.