Topic: Your gambling life could affect your relatives lifes. - page 9. (Read 2533 times)

At least parents must supervise their children's use of devices, especially when their children are teenagers. When they are teenagers, there is a great sense of curiosity, especially since they start hanging out with lots of friends, and each of them shares a lot of things they know. This will definitely arouse curiosity in children so that they will try to find out for themselves. If these children are not properly accompanied, they can receive misleading information that will not provide correct information. And if they follow that information, they will take the wrong path, and if it is a gambling game, they can start gambling using the money given by their parents. This must be strictly supervised, and parents need to guide their children well.

The parents are to be blamed, as the kids are acting out of ignorance. The society also has to take a fair share of the blame for allowing other kids to be influenced by the use of gadgets. Which they know that is not good for the eyesight of the kids and brain. Our goal as parents is to have a close check on the kids and also know how to regulate the online network in the house. Maybe allowing internet access for a period of at least 3-4 hours for the kids. Then the child can only access the internet for smaller duration. Since the games they play these days are mostly online based games, the child may now have other time to focus on his books. Cautioning a child is not only by talking to him, but adding some restrictive measures which would remind the child about why he's being restricted from using the internet for some hours. These thoughts will now open some ideas in the brain of the child to use his time for other things, like his school assignment, reading and solving of mathematical problem. Which is quite beneficiary to the brain and thoughts of the child.

Yo the same devices are the gateways to different sorts of indulgences, including gambling. Having them in the hands of the elderly people makes them easy targets for phishing scams, popup scams, telecaller frauds and eventually gambling addiction. Care should be taken when giving them access to such a device and child like parental controls put in that in order to avoid such mishaps.

While a lot of these devices can save lives, they are easy targets and hence the bad things weigh out the gains in my opinion.

that's right, this reminds me of the Covid-19 incident, where school children had to study online where they had to study using cellphones or tablets, this is completely not good, because with their habits when it comes to cellphones this has an impact The bad thing is, because playing with cellphones too often is not good, especially if they are not old enough. in my opinion this is true, they tend not to educate their children with healthy activities, in my opinion this is only done by parents who really prioritize health and it is very rare for parents to be like this, most of them give cell phones and tablets to the child plays.

Educating children is indeed an obligation for parents, and this needs to be paid attention to because now with the large number of online gambling games it is easy for anyone to see it and recognize it, so even though the children are still small they can know this because this is a game that has strong attraction, don't let those who are not old enough to be addicted to gambling because that's not good, of course it will harm them and it can even harm their family too. as you said, before they reach the age of 18, parental supervision still applies, even if they are over 18 years old, I think the right to parental supervision still applies.

That is very true, we as parents always have to do whatever it takes to keep children as far away as possible from games, devices like cell phones, and tablets. If a child has a lot of energy, it is better to warm them up through a sport, or doing outdoor activities, but many parents do not have time left to dedicate it to their children as it is, so it is easier to put it in front of a cell phone, compared to a tablet where things are basically different , where they entertain themselves, parenting is sometimes very hard, because there are children who are very hyperactive and they simply need immediate attention from their parents to be able to have a better vision, so in this order of ideas things can be very decisive, sometimes the parents' patience runs out and that is something that no one sees.

We are people who have to approve certain things for children, so if we have children we know that we have that commitment to always look for ways to do things better for them, attention, children need all of that.

The idea of cell phones and tablets for children is always to make the lives of parents easier so they can have a break, but children grow, they develop and they have to do things at home so that they are happy, we as peers must see these, They will never go back, that is why the phases of children must be enjoyed, from the moment they are born, until they are 18 years old and older, I say that my children I will never stop helping them, even if they are very old, with children And I will always give them support, without losing anything in return. That is one of the things that we should see and do and that is why we have children, so that we can enjoy them. I think that is one of the purposes of life for us and for them, to be the best parents, the ones they need.

That's true, not only will it damage their mental health, their eyesight will also be affected if they look at gadget screens too often, therefore I think parents should be able to educate their children to limit their use of gadgets. because this can also make them addicted to playing gadgets, especially when it comes to gambling, someone who is addicted to gambling will certainly have bad effects, including mentally, and in my opinion this can also have an impact on their family members.

In fact, children have a high level of curiosity so it is likely that they will imitate what they find interesting, including gambling where gambling is a game and of course children will be interested in games, the fear is that addiction will occur, because of that This is a bad thing of course. If they are addicted, dangerous things will happen and harm themselves and their family or relatives. therefore preventing something is better than cure, right?
In my opinion, this mistake occurs based on a lack of attention and self-awareness.
what do you think? who is to blame?

That's really a tough experience for children in your country. I've not heard of this, and it sounds quite scary. The brain of kids are quite very vulnerable to mental disorder from computers. They grow up watching screens, and it's hard to get over such thoughts. Had a kid in a neighborhood who jumped off a building believing he could swing like the spider man with webs in his hands. Such that are not done normally with the senses of the person. These are caused by the numerous screens surrounding a child in his lifetime. Hence, these occurrences are getting quite too hard to bear. As they'll be not acceptable possible means of reducing or stopping entirely the use of gadgets for children. Parents purchase gadgets a lot and don't moderate the rate at which a child spend online. Being on screen for long hours not only bothers the mental stability of the child but puts his sight at risk.

Who is to be blamed? the society. Because they hope on the teachings and upbring we offer to them. A child doesn't just wake up to gamble. He's been around a clique of gamblers during his lifetime. Aside gambling the video games also put a child's brain at risk. Most of them begin to try what they saw on TV. Meaning the actions on TV glues to their brain, and almost control them. A child may not be able to differentiate between his actual behaviors and when he's been influenced by addiction. So, they'll invest more time on the process, until they'll hardly accept to change or avoid gambling or videomaking. As they think it's the only place where people like him wouldn't put some stigma on him.

In my opinion that doesn't apply to those who claim to be gamers, because in my opinion gamers are players who are professional and earn income, but if they only play by spending free money and are not famous or in other words are just ordinary players then I I don't think I'm a gamer but just crazy about games. It's true what you said, if you really want something, you hope you can do it yourself, and especially if you're an adult, I think it's inappropriate to ask your parents, even if your parents are capable, but at least we have to know how embarrassed we are.

Of course, if they are addicted to gambling,  they will spend a lot of money just to gamble, and we know that there have been many cases where people who are addicted to gambling, if they run out of capital to gamble, there is a possibility that they can do anything that can make money including by asking for money. to their parents, and if they dare to lend to their parents, relatives, friends or the bank, I think they have gone too far, because they shouldn't have done that because by doing that of course they will only experience the destruction of their lives.

not the same, but in my opinion these two things have their similarities too, the similarity I think is addiction, because in my country there has been viral news of young children who are still in middle school, 1 or 2 children who are addicted to gambling so that they have problems with their mentality that goes crazy with the position of their hands always like holding a cellphone and their behavior that applies them like they are in the game, of course this is bad, and in my opinion this is the same as gambling. the bad effects are still there.

I myself will not give money to my family members if they are fond of gambling or addicted to gambling, because in my opinion if they already get a loan at the beginning, then the chances are that they will become even more courageous to take actions that are beyond reason.  with them taking a loan and then using it to gamble again. Of course they will get into trouble, one of which is with debt, and I think people who are addicted to gambling they tend not to accept advice or feedback from other people, so it could also be that with them already addicted to gambling they can release their responsibilities so that the debts that must be paid by them are borne by their own families, so I think it's true that gambling can make us a more stubborn person.

I understand that it is already affecting him as someone who is related, however, gaming and gambling aren’t the same. That’s what I’ve been trying to say. Gaming is done for fun than gambling which people’s primary aim is to make money, or I should say double money. Gamers can make good and stable money that isn’t based on probability or predicting.

Generally, for anything that has to do with money, your relative will likely pester you to help them which then becomes disturbing. But you mustn’t give them, especially when the need is for something that isn’t smart(like gambling). Then you don’t really have to feel burdened.

Video game players who purchase those products such as armor and weapons with real cash are avid gamers. And spend lots of time on screen playing those games. It takes up their focus, like gambling does to players. Some people are addicted to video games and would also do anything to keep up with the gaming requirements. Hence, whatever one wants to do, they'll need to work on it till they get there. Life as a gamer is never simple, they both, gamers and gamblers, need some control to keep up with good gaming habit. It's not wrong to beg for something, but one shouldn't feel entitled to some other person's money. Those games affect the players mentally as well, and doesn't sit right with young people, growing up. From his complaints above, you'd notice how it has affected him. Despite not being gambling. Not that his brother is addicted to video gaming.

Much more the stress gambling addicts would afflict to their loved ones and the society. It's all expensive and requires steady income to keep up with gambling habit. If the gambler is not acquainted with enough money, his target would be his family and friends, which ends up being a torn in the flesh of not just the player, but his acquittances. So, while everyone should be focused on taking responsibility of their habit, it's important or crucial to remind these people of the need to stay careful and not get addicted. Because when they get in problem gambling, we won't have an option than to help them out of the struggle. In a nutshell, not giving them the money won't solve the problem.

Your assumption is wrong, because the truth is that he is a person who is older than me, so I am upset why he can survive with his situation like that, he should have a clear job and give money to his younger siblings instead of asking for money from children who are below him like me. I think this is off topic, so I will finish your question, I have asked him and even told him often, it's not just me who asked him this, because all my family members have also done the same thing, but unfortunately it doesn't work, and he still survives in a zone that makes him comfortable, I myself call it the burden of parents.

The same thing with gamblers, if they are addicted to gambling of course they will continue to gamble without caring about the money they lose because of gambling, and if they have lost or run out of capital to gamble then there is a possibility that they can ask their family members for money and if their family members know that the money they ask for is for gambling then chances are they will not give it,  also with that it could be that the gambler commits violent acts that will harm his family, and obviously it affects his family.

I assumed he was a kid but you sound like he’s someone who should be able to have a job. If that is the case then stop giving him certain things, especially the things he wants (not needs). Hopefully that pulls him out of his comfort zone so he starts to think how to purchase what he wants since he isn’t getting it anymore. Also, have you tried speaking to him calmly about him being lazy? I mean a really subtle approach.

that makes sense, I didn't think about it deeply, because occasionally I only think about it, but what makes me annoyed, he has no movement at all to be able to make his own money, in other words he is lazy, and I think it should be when a person has the desire to buy what he wants, of course he has to work or do anything that can make money as long as it leads to positive things, but what is clear is that the point of this problem is his inherent laziness.

For someone who is addicted, in my opinion, when they want to gamble, they will do things that can make money, even with a big risk,  especially if it can be called an addiction, it's certainly not a good thing, and this could trigger them to do negative things like stealing or robbing clearly to make money for the purpose of gambling. However, I myself gamble well  where I gamble does not have an impact on my family and relatives because I myself prefer to keep the gambling I do a secret, because I think that is the best.

What happened is that in every gambling game that involves dealing with money, well things are different, you have to do things that have nothing to do with it, that is, when someone "spreads money" it's what you say, it's In exchange you risk not getting anything, when you make any type of purchases then at least you get something, but in gambling games when you risk money and you don't get it you lose, of course things scam if you bet a lot, well They have to do or you can withdraw your money.

In this order of ideas things can be very different, sometimes you have more things around because things can look more complicated, so if there is an addicted family, we should not give them money, because it is certain that they will spend it. In the casino, if we have a family member like that, I think the first thing we should do is try to give them specialized attention, with a good expert, that is much better to do than to give them money.

This type of thing when we are anywhere it is good to see that people who are addicted need to have a good scheme to stop being addicts, I have seen that some treatments for people who are addicted are that they apply sleep cures, and that is sometimes very effective, because they take away their anxiety, and by removing the anxiety, things are different, in this order of ideas things can be seen like this, but when there is not enough money, the ideal would then be to take them to a psychologist Depending on that, exceptions are made. If you go to a psychologist and you can get treatment, that would be ideal. For a family member at risk of addiction, you don't have to give them money, because that's like lighting the spark even more, so so that? You don't have to do much for that, just a person has to have a good will so that things don't get complicated.

The story with your brother is a lot different from this one because at least he is purchasing in-app products and that is him buying something. But with gambling, you’re not buying anything but giving your money and risking it for more. With gambling you can lose it all in seconds, but your brother’s game isn’t risky, as we already know the result of purchasing things in games - you get the in-app content for sure. However, if you do not give him the money, he’ll learn to be content and play it as it is. Same way, if you don’t give a gambler, they won’t have that money to risk.

The best lesson is experiencing the mistake of other gamblers. A gambler who goes ahead to fall victim of addiction, despite being there during the days of a friend's struggle, may have never understood why his friend was in that situation. However, it'll be difficult for a person who helps others get out of their struggle, get into the same trouble or struggle. That's why in the quest of helping a friend, we must be careful to avoid the trouble affect us psychologically or mentally. The truth is you are not the cause of the person's problem, your duty was rendering some help, which is the best you can offer. Allowing it to live with you for long, is now personal decision. And the gambler needs to battle with all the traces of thoughts left in his memory. Hanging out with him can be a refresher to the forgotten past memories in us, and they're people we can't escape seeing once in a while.

That's why it's still fine to say that the gambling problem can affect the relative of the addict. These people owe him visits at some point, questioning him on his health, and how good he's coping in life. Unless he's a friend, that would be bearable as we both may not see each other again, if one person had to travel to another location. Different people have unique ways of thinking, which entails that, even if others forget it, the addict, and his immediate parent will have to battle with such though for a longer while. Until something extremely significant happens again in the life of the person. The brain forgets the previous if another important news results. Especially if the person gets responsible and begin to succeed in his daily endeavors. And tend to make life sweeter for his parents, they will begin to forgo those thoughts, gradually.

Such events gives you an overview if what are the possibilities that may take place if you will push yourself into something that you did not put any limitations,  something that might trigger addiction and misconception with how you should handle this kind of situation,  there are people who did not intend to become addicted but because of uncontrolled event in life  they become one, resulting to more problems that being unleash especially with relationships with their love ones.

Always think ahead  of time, chances of getting addicted is always possible if you forget about setting your limitations,  being allure by that misconception about this venue, things can go wrong completely.

Addiction is a term used for someone who makes gambling their life and it is not a healthy condition. But if you talk about responsible gamblers, it refers to people who gamble based on their limitations and enjoyment. Not in the case of addiction where you are in the state of having no fulfillment and enjoyment. What is in their mind is the urge to play unlike how these responsible gamblers behaving their gambling habits.

Gambling addiction doesn't just compromise our finances but our whole life...

that’s right, you need to be passionate about games. I had a friend who became very interested in gambling, which resulted in negative consequences such as problems with money and damaged relationships with all his loved ones. Therefore, he became an example for me of what can happen if you gamble and not being aware of the consequences.