Topic: Your gambling life could affect your relatives lifes. - page 8. (Read 2538 times)

What is even more sad about this is that it seems that others are not interested in the consequences of their actions. Some people are ashamed of their relatives because they see the sufferings and shame they have caused them, while others are unconcerned and they even have the guts to be angry, like for real? You are the one who has brought the problem into the family but feels like you are still the one who is aggravated by the neglect you have made.

It is. And that is sad reality, in most times that the gamblers irresponsibility affects the life of the people around them. It is their family getting bothered by loan shark not them. It is their family being threaten by their debts, not them. That's why most family collapse or marriage people getting divorced. Hopefully this type of threads reached the people who needs this to reach their awareness and change something of their life. You are there to gamble and make money. Not to lose your mind and your family. So bet responsibly.

This never happened to me, but I know somebody that really affected his personal life and his relationship to his parents and other relatives as well just because of gambling.

He came to a point where he needs to sell all of his belongings just to have money to gamble. Currently, he's having a mental health problem, he's drinking liquor as well that makes his situation even worse, and with no work currently, he's surviving every single day through begging, and the money that he's getting are going to liquors and cigarettes. The root cause of why he's experiencing like this is because of gambling. It got to a point where he even shouts to his parents and to his children because he lost in gambling. His relationship with everybody around him was affected because of gambling.

I also tried to gamble, but it never came to a point where my relationship with my family got affected because of it. For me, it all comes to how disciplined you are as a gambler. If you know you're already losing tons of money already, learn to stop. If you're winning already, learn to stop. As for others out there who's life got affected because of gambling, there's still time. Change yourself, or your life would become worse.

When gambling becomes addictive, the problem begins. It is the responsibility of the person to understand the limits and keep himself within them. There are couples who earn well and spend together on gambling. They know well about their limits, and they spend together because they can stop each other if things go beyond their limits. Compared to the old days, people were more calculative and began to spend after meeting all their needs for the month.

When we're into gambling, we should enjoy the moment if it ends up with a win. If we weren't able to win, we just need to stop it there, and beyond that, our thinking shouldn't be over gambling. We should have the mentality to move on from our routine. When this is possible, we will be able to spend good time on gambling as well as have a better relationship with the family. Because the problem with the present generation is that their physical presence and mental thinking are on something else.

In fact, if children are given cellphones or tablets, it can damage their minds, making it difficult to socialize around their friends, they tend to be alone because they are busy playing with cellphones or tablets and over time it makes them lazy to study. Maybe I suggest that minors should not be given cellphones. There are more positive things than negative things because there are effects that will arise in the future, but at the moment it is very difficult because of advances in modern times, maybe parents understand this better.

You are absolutely right, we as people should do everything possible to do things Better , personally I have always said that a cell phone device for children I do not agree with, first because they can do many things that sometimes they do not even know. how they make them, calls, look up numbers and call, just because they are experimenting, so this is what makes us people more focused on doing things that go beyond what we are looking for, for example that is a faclida for mothers They live it in busy houses, doing household chores and making food, etc., because household chores are not at all simple, they are difficult, children do entertain them with games, because they don't care, with that They finish doing their activities and that is what Really Matters to them, for me that is something that has a lot to do with irresponsibility, then the children end up with glasses, with other types of problems, they cannot fall asleep, ua The amount of preblam that can bring them is impressive.

That's why I have always said that when you Try to do things thinking About what you can Achieve, that's fine, but I always emphasize that things should always be Considered not for the Relaxation or rest of ourselves as adults, but for the best. Training for our children I believe that a child should have a table or cell phone at 16 years old, but it is almost impossible for it to be done at that age, in fact children who do not even know how to read can Know where everything is on the Telephone, where to write a whats ap, where you can write a telegram and an sms , because they become experts , and they search Google through voice, so they don't give up for anything, they are very intelligent, that intelligence should be used for other things , and thus Exploit them Better with the Things they come with and their talents.

No. I beg to differ. A gamer and a gambler are really distinct from one another. A gamer plays games for either fun or to make money. For those who do it to make money, they need not stake anything. But a gambler doesn’t gamble for fun, they gamble (stake money) to make money. What I said about your relatives pestering you was in general but I just see gambling to not be a good enough reason. It makes sense to buy WiFi for your relative if you know this is something that constantly pay without even risking anything.

Someone hooked on gambling might seem like they're making crazy choices, borrowing from loan sharks or even stealing. But imagine a powerful urge, like a riptide pulling you towards a dangerous wave. That's what addiction can feel like – overwhelming and hard to resist. It's not just about wanting money; it's about chasing that dopamine rush, the feel-good chemical in your brain that screams "more, more, more!" even when everything crumbles around you.

Gambling addiction isn't just about money. Sure, folks lose their shirts, but it's also about the brain's reward system going haywire. Gambling releases feel-good chemicals, and the brain craves more and more, like a sugar rush that never ends. This cycle makes it super tough to resist, even when things get messy. And let's not forget the impact on families. They're not just bystanders watching the chips fall. They're dealing with the stress, the broken trust, and the financial strain. They're victims too, not enablers.

I truly wonder how you wouldn't give him a dime but yet you are willing to establish him with the expenses of finances. I understands how provoking such situations of watching him having the money given to him to gambling again without realizing his mistakes but you must remember @oktana that your diverse of establishing him can also be squandered as the same causes of him trying to get some money to still gamble.
Yes, so as long you showed such an empathy measures, it means his responsibilities are also your concerned and you dearly cares about his gambling misconducts. There is no pretence there and you can't just hide it. Lol.

Well. Let's not pertake to responsibilities just because we just needed to signed-in and claims that we have played our roles over it While deep down we are not concerned about the issues on ground.

It's true what you say because when they are really in their teens, their curiosity becomes even greater. They need more attention from their parents so their parents must be able to give attention and spend time even though their parents are very busy. This is all for the sake of their children, who are teenagers and need their parents' supervision and direction so they don't choose the wrong path. Their parents should be able to see the reality around them, and many teenagers take the wrong path. Every parent doesn't want their children to take the wrong path, so they really have to be able to supervise their children well and give them time to be close to their children.

And don't forget that this world will be more advanced than it is now, so every parent must be able to adapt to circumstances that will really change completely. They must also prepare knowledge that can adapt to their children's conditions and situations so they can continue to guide their children well without any significant difficulties. If every parent could do this, perhaps it could reduce the number of bad influences experienced by teenagers because many parents will always guide their children through their teenage years well until they are truly adults.

When teenage children are adults, they will no longer be confused about determining their direction and goals because they have received provisions from their parents that they can use based on the situations they will face. Teenage children can also return to their parents if they have problems that cannot be resolved, creating ongoing closeness between the children and their parents. If we look at today's young people's social interactions, parents will be surprised because they would never have imagined that their children would also be drawn into the wrong groups. For this reason, every parent needs always to guide their children well.

You are right and in this case there are indeed two factors that will influence it, namely financial and emotional, those who experience gambling addiction problems will clearly have quite poor financial and also irregular or uncontrolled emotional levels.
Maybe in small problems it will become big and enmity between family members and relatives and this is bad thing that should not happen, but gambling addicts cannot think in such way because they will only care about what they think is right.
A gambling addict attitude will never be stable and what they do or talk about is more likely to be careless which can lead to mistakes that can spark hostility or disputes.
There are also financial problems that may become problem, namely when gambling addict has lost all the money he has and he borrows some money from a relative or family member to continue his betting sessions, on the other hand when his relative or family member who provided the loan collects of course he won't be able to return it because don't have any money.
This is the most difficult part and will really trigger problems of harmony between families because money is part of the problem that will be difficult to resolve, especially if it is related to borrowing so it is certain that many disputes will occur.

It's true that using gadgets too often is not good, because it has become commonplace in society, I think it's not a problem for parents, when their children prefer gadgets to playing with their friends, it has become a normal thing, but people should be supervised. Old people also have to be able to stay awake, they shouldn't be careless because nowadays the popularity of online gambling makes it easy for anyone to get to know it, even old people.

That's good, limiting the time they use the internet and gadgets is one way that can be done so that children are not greatly affected by gadgets, because if they play with gadgets often or for a long time, of course it will be bad for their eye health. We also have to be able to provide positive things that use gadgets, as you said, such as school assignments, because I often find that nowadays they can do school assignments using gadgets and internet access, including exams too, in my area there are schools that Indeed, the test is carried out using a gadget or computer. However, this is done by middle and above schools, so we should be able to limit the use of gadgets for young children, because if they do it too often it's not good either.

that's true, everyone will grow up in the future, society can bring them and can determine them too, if they are in the wrong company then it is likely that they will participate in a bad company, when they grow up of course they will have lots of friends and start mingle and indirectly this will make them drift into the surrounding environment. But in my opinion, even though they are adults, that doesn't mean parental supervision has to be lost.

In general, when they are adults, they will have their own thoughts and determine what is good for them and what is bad, but the other side of society will also determine them, as you said, it is possible that children can be carried away by misleading associations, including gambling. This can destroy their future if they respond to gambling excessively. Looking at the current social interactions of young people, they are definitely familiar with online gambling, I'm sure all children in the world will easily know about online gambling. It's true that what you said is that parents still have to be wary of their children, lest they get into the wrong company which leads them into things that are not profitable.

I don't believe that his family's reaction towards the issue would impact much remedy to the problem, because, how many locations can they cover? The victim can choose to go to another far location that his relatives couldn't have possibly covered and he would still carry on with his usual betting activities. What the person needs is real help.

And you might wanna get your topic well, specifically, it's an addictive gambling lifestyle that can affect your relationship with people around, and that's why gamblers are advised to gamble responsibly to avoid getting addicted to the point of finding yourself in a situation as this one, because once you get to that point, it's almost impossible to get out of it.

In my opinion, giving children a cell phone, tablet or computer too early is only a problem when it comes to their eyesight. This is because it could damage the child's eyesight, but if the child has good parents, well-educated parents who are attentive and vigilant, then there will be no problem. This is because the child will have time to use their cell phone, but during the time that the child is using their cell phone, they are learning a lot of good things, especially if, from a very early age, parents encourage children to watch things they teach. children to not be violent, to have good education at home, such as knowing how to greet their parents, knowing how to respect their parents, knowing how to apologize when they make a mistake

Nowadays you can see the disastrous consequences of children who remain on the streets all day because their parents and other members of the household are away from home or are in bars drinking alcohol and hanging out with prostitutes. The children become poorly educated, they become children without feelings and with a tendency to be violent, they consume alcohol on the street and consume drugs on the street. eventually they become addicted to drugs and alcohol. I've seen this a lot here in my country, and it's the parents' fault. In many families here in my country, women have children in their parents' homes and are abandoned by the guys who get them pregnant and as a result these women don't go to court to get their parents to pay child support.

because they are women with little education and do not know the laws, and they take out all their anger and hatred on their children, and their bad financial condition does not allow them to give cell phones, tablets, computers to their children and they cannot afford to pay for school with good material conditions. , the children go to public school. and when they get home, mothers send their children to play outside. It is sad that this is also causing many children to be stolen and days later they are found dead and no one is blamed or brought to justice here in my country. I prefer children to stay indoors with phones, computers, rather than be in danger outside the house

The gambling addiction of the individual will affect the gambling addicted gambler family and relatives.Because the gamblers who had loss their money in the gambling site will get more emotional towards the anger.So he will react in the violent way to their close circle because of the loss.It was essential for the gamblers to understand the reality and increase their gambling skills.The skills alone will help the gamblers to make money in the gambling site.The risk was key factor in the gambling,if they were able to get understand of the risk.They never get emotionally weak after the loss and the gamblers may not react on their family.

Gambling itself isn't inherently bad, like that uncle who tells embarrassing jokes. It's all about keeping things chill and responsible. But let's be honest, even the coolest uncle can wear out his welcome if he keeps spilling punch on your grandma.

Sure, winning a million bucks with a tenner might make your family do a happy dance. But let's face it, losing your shirt on risky bets is more likely to have them singing the blues. The constant ups and downs, even with small stakes, can put a strain on relationships, like that time your cousin borrowed your car and "accidentally" dented it.

Gambling can be fun, like a roller coaster ride with your family. But just like that ride, set some limits, know when to get off, and don't let it take over your whole day. Talk things through with your family, be open about your habits, and remember, spending quality time together is a surefire way to win their hearts, no dice required!

When an individual becomes entangled in the grip of a gambling addiction, the repercussions can reverberate through their monetary resources and interpersonal connections with kin. An assemblage of detrimental effects may ensue, including the accumulation of insurmountable debts, thrusting relatives entangled with afflicted gamblers into the onerous task of shouldering the weighty burden of financial losses. This onus could entail settling exorbitant debts, grappling with the disruption of familial finances, or even forfeiting communal possessions. Moreover, the pernicious clutches of gambling addiction have the potential to foment intense conflict within the family unit, ratcheting up levels of stress, anxiety, and insecurity. As a result, family relationships are susceptible to fraying due to the strain imposed by fiscal predicaments and corroded trust.

It will amount to committing a blunder if I accept that gambling doesn`t affect relatives. I will show ways gambling affects the lives of other family members. When a son borrows to gamble and is apprehended because of inability to pay, who pays the debt? his parents/guardian or even friends capable of paying. When a gambler uses his school fees to gamble, who pays the school fees again? his parents.

I have a friend who gambled with his school fees and so was prevented from writing an exam. When the school called his parents to inquire why has hadn`t paid, they told the school administrator that he had been given the school fees to pay. When the parents inquired about why he didn`t pay he opened up that he used it to gamble after much pressure from his parents. His parents had to pay again so he could sit for his exams. I have a friend who once sold a TV because he wanted to pay off debt caused by gambling, he stayed without a TV with his family for a while, does that not affect his family? It did.

Even the stories of people who committed suicide because of gambling created a vacuum in the lives of those who love them and even relatives. This article is also an insight https://800gambler.org/problem-gambling-how-it-affects-the-entire-family/

When our kids reaches out into that moment on adolescent stage then this is where curiosity is really that on peak or extreme extent on which you should really be that too attentive or active
as a parent on trying out to avoid and letting you see on what are the things that they've been dealing with. If you do see that they've been able to get involved into something which is something not that good then it would really be your option to tell them about and make them realized that they should really be stopping on dealing with it because it isnt really that good.
If you are really that trying out to stick into the idea that you should really that responsible as a parent and do your thing as much as possible.

There is actually a thin line difference between both because some how it takes only a little interest and a gamer turns to a gambler, because a gamer most times Play these games probably sports games in virtual form and get a very insight into what the actual game looks like in reality so they will not find difficulty gambling.

The most difference is that gambling you are staking your money while gaming you are just having fun without much at stake but at some point you may have to spend a few cash to get to certain level gambling. So it's very possible the relative could still pester to be able to afford wifi subscription and other things they will need to game. Who so ever games alot or probably is addicted to game should be kept under some kind of watch before they further grow into gambling because for them it's an opportunity to make money from what they do for fun.