Indeed, if you can manage to control yourself and allow certain budget for your gambling activities, it will lessen the chance of losing a lot and the chance of getting addicted, though it's really hard since there are many factors that can affect you during your session, it's wise to have this kind of limitations.
Well and I think everyone (gamblers) might have realized this, I mean self-control is very important because nothing else can help them except self-control. Yes I quite agree with you, besides putting limits, reducing the budget when you want to gamble is also very good because if in the end you lose it won't be too big. I think addiction or not depends on your intention when you go into the world of gambling, if you go just for fun with a small budget then maybe it won't have the impact of becoming addicted, but yes you also have to bring a healthy mind when gambling and don't overdo it because usually after that you will get emotional and always want to try it again. It's hard, but maybe you know what's best for yourself.
Once you practice and master this kind of setup, chances of having an enjoyable gambling will take place, a good and balance mindsets that will prevent you from increasing your appetite knowing that gambling will really try to push you to ask for more.
Well that's right, the wrong mindset of bringing lust and emotions in gambling is indirectly like they have mastered themselves, they don't realize it because maybe they are too chasing victory there and because of their lust it is difficult to apply the control they have previously prepared. So it's true as you said if you really want to enjoy gambling for what it is, you have to keep a healthy mindset, it will be more fun and don't put more expectations there because it will only make things worse.
Gamblers need self-control. If a gambler can keep to these instructions, it will help them, but so many gamblers don't get it. Why? Maybe, because they are too desperate to win a bet, if a gambler doesn't have self control, the gambler will end up losing everything he has, he wouldn't mind selling his property just for the sake of staking a game, and it is very bad. If nobody can't control themselves, it will make them turn an addict, and if anyone turns an addicted gambler, that person will no longer have a rest of mind because the person will always be thinking about what game to bet on and how to get money to bet on the game.
Self-control is the only thing that can help new gamblers in society, since they are new in the gambling world, they can easily control themselves and it will help them not to become an addicted gambler in future.
Talking about the addicted once, they control their gambling habits, that is why they are addicted to it.