Gambling has an addicting factor to it this is why there are many people who we can refer as an gambling addict. Disciple in hard when you feel the intense adrenaline rush came to your body. Many gamblers feel this at the first time but there are people want to constantly feel it that's why they become a gambling addicts. The feeling that people receive on the first time they gamble is the one that I believe can make them uncontrollable. There are people who can control it but there are other that can't. This is why it's hard to introduce gambling to a people that has no good self control because they can be addicted. We all know the feeling of winning and the frustration of losing, The discipline of not coming back to win again or to comeback in losing is hard for them.
And from the experience they got for the first time in gambling, is what makes many of them want to get other experiences. They want to feel what it's like to win, so they keep gambling until they get a win. And even after they get a win, that doesn't make them stop immediately because they want to increase the number of wins. This is where good self-control is needed so that we don't get stuck in an atmosphere that can make us unable to stop. By having good self-control, we can know when we have to stop and leave the casino.
Talking is easy, especially just to advise, but to do so will usually experience difficulties, just like gamblers who are sitting at a casino table, usually they are always like that when they run out of money and lose, playing gambling, they are getting out of control, even though we have planned to start controlling it.
I was once like that advising someone but I myself sometimes find it a little difficult to control myself, the only way is to place a deposit with a little money so I make sure I don't hold any other money so I don't make another deposit when I lose gambling I have to really limit spending. save the rest of the money with my wife so I can limit my spending on gambling every day.
That means you have good self-control before advising others because they will see that we cannot control ourselves either. They obviously won't want to obey us to stop gambling and instead blame us for being unable to stop.
But if you can control yourself well, they may still want to listen to you and will try to leave gambling. And if you can also invite them to do other things that have nothing to do with gambling or invite them to a place to enjoy the atmosphere, they will probably obey you. And that's where you can control those who want to continue gambling because they will get a different experience.