This is already something that everyone should know because it's going to be hard to do when you are not capable of understanding the "Why" of your actions. Like why are you doing it in the first place? You need to know and understand that to be fully aware and make sure that you won't regret the actions that you did and be responsible for the actions that you have. You need to be accountable for it.
So in gambling, make sure you know why you are doing it and the purpose of it, and are you doing it for the long run?
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Even though it's not difficult, the reality is that not many people can learn to discipline themselves, especially in gambling, because many people have sunk into gambling deeper than other people. And they can't stop immediately, even when the money is running low, and instead, try to deposit more money. In gambling, you really have to have good control and self-discipline so you don't become addicted to gambling so that nothing bad will happen to you. We must be responsible gamblers to ourselves so that we can enjoy gambling as entertainment and not make gambling a way to make money.
Talking is easy, especially just to advise, but to do so will usually experience difficulties, just like gamblers who are sitting at a casino table, usually they are always like that when they run out of money and lose, playing gambling, they are getting out of control, even though we have planned to start controlling it.this is the reason why I am not believing everything that I read here instead I focus in my own development and my own way of learning from my lessons.
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I was once like that advising someone but I myself sometimes find it a little difficult to control myself, the only way is to place a deposit with a little money so I make sure I don't hold any other money so I don't make another deposit when I lose gambling I have to really limit spending. save the rest of the money with my wife so I can limit my spending on gambling every day.
at least you admit that mistakes not like others that pretending to be good at but in reality they are a complete loser lol. 
This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Fixing the budget for gambling is an important thing because if you do not fix the budget before starting gambling then you cannot analyze the profit and loss ratio from gambling. I set aside a certain percentage of the week for gambling and spend the rest to support myself and my family. But one important thing is that before getting involved in gambling, you must keep in mind the disadvantages of gambling. Keep in mind that gambling addiction does not control your brain. Moreover, no user under the age of 18 should involve himself in online gambling and casinos. Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
I love the alcohol advise though, when I used to drink before and that's one of my weakness, getting drunk along the way and then playing on traditional base casinos and of course, when you have alcohol in your bloodstream, you are going to lose in the end because your judgement is clouded and you can even bet higher than you used to.
It's a good advise for everyone, like the budget setting and leaving your wallet at home if you are traveling to a land base casinos. Or if playing in online, just deposit enough crypto and have fun. If you lose then let it go and just play another day.
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
I personally find it very difficult to control this one. sometimes have tried to control the allocation to play. but when I enjoy the game too much, even though the balance in the account has run out, it seems like there is a feeling of curiosity to get the win. and finally forced me to deposit a little more to prolong the game.
whether it's to achieve satisfaction when we play for a very long time or we just want the ambition to win.
You have to control this urge or curiosity. It will only give you negative impact in the long run. It is good that you know your weakness and I am sure you will be able to find a solution to control it. I hope you will find it early before you ended in a financial problem.
Simply put. Establish control on yourself whenever you gamble.
It's so easy to fall down the downwards incline that is gambling. I've seen one too many stories of people within and out of this forum losing millions and ruining their lives and their children's all because they couldn't control their urge to bet on one more game. So yeah, if you want to make it out alive, you have to establish control and impose strict rules upon yourself. Otherwise you'd find yourself drying up your savings and losing touch of yourself in the process. You have to look out for yourself, at least everytime you try out somethign you know is going to bring massive detriments in the future if left unchecked. Nobody's gonna check on you better than yourself.
It's so easy to fall down the downwards incline that is gambling. I've seen one too many stories of people within and out of this forum losing millions and ruining their lives and their children's all because they couldn't control their urge to bet on one more game. So yeah, if you want to make it out alive, you have to establish control and impose strict rules upon yourself. Otherwise you'd find yourself drying up your savings and losing touch of yourself in the process. You have to look out for yourself, at least everytime you try out somethign you know is going to bring massive detriments in the future if left unchecked. Nobody's gonna check on you better than yourself.
Not only you but most of us who are engaged in gambling activities. It is not news to us that something will happen bad if one will lose its control over gambling. The worst is getting addicted to gambling which is very hard to cure. So as much as possible we must implement controls in all our activity. It is better start trying to take the drive set now than later else we might end up in regret.
I personally find it very difficult to control this one. sometimes have tried to control the allocation to play. but when I enjoy the game too much, even though the balance in the account has run out, it seems like there is a feeling of curiosity to get the win. and finally forced me to deposit a little more to prolong the game.
You are not alone. I know many gamblers who can't control themselves and keep depositing till they drain all their wallets. To be honest, they are not doking because they enjoy the game (as they want to convince themselves) but because they are trying to chase their losses.Some good casinos have a feature which allow gamblers to set a maximum amount of money to spend per day. When the gambler reaches the set limit, the casino will not let him place any more bets.
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
I personally find it very difficult to control this one. sometimes have tried to control the allocation to play. but when I enjoy the game too much, even though the balance in the account has run out, it seems like there is a feeling of curiosity to get the win. and finally forced me to deposit a little more to prolong the game.
whether it's to achieve satisfaction when we play for a very long time or we just want the ambition to win.
Simply put. Establish control on yourself whenever you gamble.
It's so easy to fall down the downwards incline that is gambling. I've seen one too many stories of people within and out of this forum losing millions and ruining their lives and their children's all because they couldn't control their urge to bet on one more game. So yeah, if you want to make it out alive, you have to establish control and impose strict rules upon yourself. Otherwise you'd find yourself drying up your savings and losing touch of yourself in the process. You have to look out for yourself, at least everytime you try out somethign you know is going to bring massive detriments in the future if left unchecked. Nobody's gonna check on you better than yourself.
It's so easy to fall down the downwards incline that is gambling. I've seen one too many stories of people within and out of this forum losing millions and ruining their lives and their children's all because they couldn't control their urge to bet on one more game. So yeah, if you want to make it out alive, you have to establish control and impose strict rules upon yourself. Otherwise you'd find yourself drying up your savings and losing touch of yourself in the process. You have to look out for yourself, at least everytime you try out somethign you know is going to bring massive detriments in the future if left unchecked. Nobody's gonna check on you better than yourself.
Even though it's not difficult, the reality is that not many people can learn to discipline themselves, especially in gambling, because many people have sunk into gambling deeper than other people. And they can't stop immediately, even when the money is running low, and instead, try to deposit more money. In gambling, you really have to have good control and self-discipline so you don't become addicted to gambling so that nothing bad will happen to you. We must be responsible gamblers to ourselves so that we can enjoy gambling as entertainment and not make gambling a way to make money.
Talking is easy, especially just to advise, but to do so will usually experience difficulties, just like gamblers who are sitting at a casino table, usually they are always like that when they run out of money and lose, playing gambling, they are getting out of control, even though we have planned to start controlling it.I was once like that advising someone but I myself sometimes find it a little difficult to control myself, the only way is to place a deposit with a little money so I make sure I don't hold any other money so I don't make another deposit when I lose gambling I have to really limit spending. save the rest of the money with my wife so I can limit my spending on gambling every day.
In addy, after gambling to some extent with some reasonable number of wins, do not be greedy. Do not feel you are yet to win more because in the cause of such taught, you might get drawn in the pool of your own taught and likely resulting to you loose out woefully. To some extent after recorded wins take a break from gambling.
It's easy to say this when we are not in the actual moment but when we are there already we can't understand on why it seems hard to stop and click that withdraw button. There is always that strong force that makes us to bet one and two more times till it leads us to start another session again because our money have already declined.We are trying our best to recover to what we have earlier but it seems impossible anymore to do. The losses will just continue till we get busted. I hate it when this happens but it just happens naturally in me lol, I think the best solution is to just don't gamble at all. Now I am diverting my self to video games.
actual situation on which it is really that something that it is really that so hard to stop or really knows on how to call it a day and securing your profits. It is really just that part of human nature
that we are really that greedy.Who doesnt really wants even more money? On the time that your greed and emotions do mixed up then you would really be asking for more winnings
on which you would be totally forgetting on what are the limits that you had set earlier.This is a common case on which this is why it would really be varying on how good you are when it comes to
self control and discipline on things. Getting too far? You are the ones who do make out such mistake and it would really be just common sense on what you should gonna
do and we arent that dumb in between making good or bad thing basing up on the decisions that we are taking.
In addy, after gambling to some extent with some reasonable number of wins, do not be greedy. Do not feel you are yet to win more because in the cause of such taught, you might get drawn in the pool of your own taught and likely resulting to you loose out woefully. To some extent after recorded wins take a break from gambling.
It's easy to say this when we are not in the actual moment but when we are there already we can't understand on why it seems hard to stop and click that withdraw button. There is always that strong force that makes us to bet one and two more times till it leads us to start another session again because our money have already declined.We are trying our best to recover to what we have earlier but it seems impossible anymore to do. The losses will just continue till we get busted. I hate it when this happens but it just happens naturally in me lol, I think the best solution is to just don't gamble at all. Now I am diverting my self to video games.
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This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Self awareness to getting addicted should be the main advice. Every gambler should pay attention on his gambling habits.
If at any point the gambler does something what he had not planned on to do then the chances are higher that he is slowly getting addicted to gambling.
For example: Playing more than the allocated time for gambling or increasing the budget for gambling out of the blue are some incidents to know your gambling addiction has increased.
Gambling addiction does not only make one financial dependent, it also destroys the mental and physical heath of some people, to avoid getting addicted, we have to set some rules, which should helps us keep our gambling in check at all time, and discipline is also required to help us stick to our gambling rule and never depart or deviate from it.
Having the right discipline in gambling that will make you gamble responsibly is very much essential for a gambler. Otherwise, you will end up doing things not within your control, until you used all your money thinking that if you gamble more, you will still recover what you have lost. That’s where gambling addiction could lead you into more uncontrolled losses that you will surely regret in the end wishing you did not gamble in the first place.
If anybody has a weak mind like that, he/she should seek professional help. This person can get addicted to gambling and that's the better scenario because there are worse addictions than gambling. What about drugs?? At least you only lose money when you gamble. Drug addiction is way worse, you lose both your health and your money and the recovery process is way more painful compared to gambling addiction.
This is just the basics, but anyone should be aware of it:
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Budget: set it BEFORE you start gambling and stick to it.
Have a break from time to time, it is important to let your brain stop and consider.
Avoid drugs / drink as much as possible, they will make you loose some control innevitably.
Seek help if you feel you are no longer in control. Make a phone call to a friend or go out and speak with someone.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Self awareness to getting addicted should be the main advice. Every gambler should pay attention on his gambling habits.
If at any point the gambler does something what he had not planned on to do then the chances are higher that he is slowly getting addicted to gambling.
For example: Playing more than the allocated time for gambling or increasing the budget for gambling out of the blue are some incidents to know your gambling addiction has increased.
Even though it's not difficult, the reality is that not many people can learn to discipline themselves, especially in gambling, because many people have sunk into gambling deeper than other people. And they can't stop immediately, even when the money is running low, and instead, try to deposit more money. In gambling, you really have to have good control and self-discipline so you don't become addicted to gambling so that nothing bad will happen to you. We must be responsible gamblers to ourselves so that we can enjoy gambling as entertainment and not make gambling a way to make money.
Talking is easy, especially just to advise, but to do so will usually experience difficulties, just like gamblers who are sitting at a casino table, usually they are always like that when they run out of money and lose, playing gambling, they are getting out of control, even though we have planned to start controlling it.I was once like that advising someone but I myself sometimes find it a little difficult to control myself, the only way is to place a deposit with a little money so I make sure I don't hold any other money so I don't make another deposit when I lose gambling I have to really limit spending. save the rest of the money with my wife so I can limit my spending on gambling every day.
The discipline in sticking with the set budget is the most difficult part of all. There will always be that one last bet and it will keep on going. 
Taking a deep breath is also right, sometimes we are pulled into a black hole that we forget to analyze what is happening anymore. Recently, I lost some amount due to that kind of attack. Never rested. I thought I could take it back by forcing it but it didn't materialize.
My little advice would be to set a time too. Schedules. This could make us avoid being addicted in the long run.
An example would be like just one hour of gaming or betting after lunch then we rest despite the losses. Again, it takes discipline before this can be done.
Because of the easy access to gambling sites, we can do it anytime but we should not be diving deep unless that is our job. If it's just a hobby, there should be a limit on when we should stop. Just like kids' playtime.
Actually, its not hard to discipline yourself because in the end it's your decision if you know to yourself that you are capable to follow your rules there's control on yourself and not just having only a bet. Always make sure your decision-making is on the right way, you are not a responsible gambler if you just keep ignoring and disobeying the rules you set in yourself. At the end of the day you are just fooling yourself with these said rules. Gambling on yourself risk management, stick to the agenda or plan and keep profit. If you have this you never been loss in playing gambling.Taking a deep breath is also right, sometimes we are pulled into a black hole that we forget to analyze what is happening anymore. Recently, I lost some amount due to that kind of attack. Never rested. I thought I could take it back by forcing it but it didn't materialize.
My little advice would be to set a time too. Schedules. This could make us avoid being addicted in the long run.
An example would be like just one hour of gaming or betting after lunch then we rest despite the losses. Again, it takes discipline before this can be done.
Because of the easy access to gambling sites, we can do it anytime but we should not be diving deep unless that is our job. If it's just a hobby, there should be a limit on when we should stop. Just like kids' playtime.
The discipline in sticking with the set budget is the most difficult part of all. There will always be that one last bet and it will keep on going.
Taking a deep breath is also right, sometimes we are pulled into a black hole that we forget to analyze what is happening anymore. Recently, I lost some amount due to that kind of attack. Never rested. I thought I could take it back by forcing it but it didn't materialize.
My little advice would be to set a time too. Schedules. This could make us avoid being addicted in the long run.
An example would be like just one hour of gaming or betting after lunch then we rest despite the losses. Again, it takes discipline before this can be done.
Because of the easy access to gambling sites, we can do it anytime but we should not be diving deep unless that is our job. If it's just a hobby, there should be a limit on when we should stop. Just like kids' playtime.
Actually, its not hard to discipline yourself because in the end it's your decision if you know to yourself that you are capable to follow your rules there's control on yourself and not just having only a bet. Always make sure your decision-making is on the right way, you are not a responsible gambler if you just keep ignoring and disobeying the rules you set in yourself. At the end of the day you are just fooling yourself with these said rules. Gambling on yourself risk management, stick to the agenda or plan and keep profit. If you have this you never been loss in playing gambling.Taking a deep breath is also right, sometimes we are pulled into a black hole that we forget to analyze what is happening anymore. Recently, I lost some amount due to that kind of attack. Never rested. I thought I could take it back by forcing it but it didn't materialize.
My little advice would be to set a time too. Schedules. This could make us avoid being addicted in the long run.
An example would be like just one hour of gaming or betting after lunch then we rest despite the losses. Again, it takes discipline before this can be done.
Because of the easy access to gambling sites, we can do it anytime but we should not be diving deep unless that is our job. If it's just a hobby, there should be a limit on when we should stop. Just like kids' playtime.
Anything else anyone can think of? Like... read this post before gambling?
Mate, you expect gamblers to read before acting or the other way round? They would not be gamblers if they did that.Budget is supposed to be crossed, that is the rule in gambling, if you are not crossing it you are not a gambler. And drinks? Obviously yes for most gamblers. This combination is often fatal but most of them have been drowning in despair already.
Calling a friend? Never! Why share your own bad things to relieve the tension and hopelessness? Just keep drinking and get sick.
Truely gamblers end up in a vicious cycle, they can snap out of it but things have already taken a bad turn for most.
Everyone has a plan until they start losing money and try to recover what they have lost, that's where every plan will go wrong, you won't be able to be in cautious mode and you will even lose focus on how you've planned to never go beyond your boundary you set for yourself before.
If you can stick with your budget even when losses start rising then you are perfect for gambling, it's easier said than done and it is not that easy to beat this temptation, many have said that they failed, and they have no choice but to stay away from gambling.
Thats another battle entirely, I said this because it takes a disciplined heart to decide on giving up on gambling, once you start this journey it will not be easy to quit, even after many losses your mind will still keep playing games on you, thinking that you can still make more money.
If you can stick with your budget even when losses start rising then you are perfect for gambling, it's easier said than done and it is not that easy to beat this temptation, many have said that they failed, and they have no choice but to stay away from gambling.
Thats another battle entirely, I said this because it takes a disciplined heart to decide on giving up on gambling, once you start this journey it will not be easy to quit, even after many losses your mind will still keep playing games on you, thinking that you can still make more money.
The discipline in sticking with the set budget is the most difficult part of all. There will always be that one last bet and it will keep on going.
Taking a deep breath is also right, sometimes we are pulled into a black hole that we forget to analyze what is happening anymore. Recently, I lost some amount due to that kind of attack. Never rested. I thought I could take it back by forcing it but it didn't materialize.
My little advice would be to set a time too. Schedules. This could make us avoid being addicted in the long run.
An example would be like just one hour of gaming or betting after lunch then we rest despite the losses. Again, it takes discipline before this can be done.
Because of the easy access to gambling sites, we can do it anytime but we should not be diving deep unless that is our job. If it's just a hobby, there should be a limit on when we should stop. Just like kids' playtime.
Taking a deep breath is also right, sometimes we are pulled into a black hole that we forget to analyze what is happening anymore. Recently, I lost some amount due to that kind of attack. Never rested. I thought I could take it back by forcing it but it didn't materialize.
My little advice would be to set a time too. Schedules. This could make us avoid being addicted in the long run.
An example would be like just one hour of gaming or betting after lunch then we rest despite the losses. Again, it takes discipline before this can be done.
Because of the easy access to gambling sites, we can do it anytime but we should not be diving deep unless that is our job. If it's just a hobby, there should be a limit on when we should stop. Just like kids' playtime.
Actually, its not hard to discipline yourself because in the end it's your decision if you know to yourself that you are capable to follow your rules there's control on yourself and not just having only a bet. Always make sure your decision-making is on the right way, you are not a responsible gambler if you just keep ignoring and disobeying the rules you set in yourself. At the end of the day you are just fooling yourself with these said rules. Gambling on yourself risk management, stick to the agenda or plan and keep profit. If you have this you never been loss in playing gambling.
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