Hello NoobKidOnTheBlock,
Welcome to the community, it's good to have you on board!
You can find the .conf here http://aurumproject.io/xaurum-config.zip
Please make sure you unzip it before adding it, just in cause you were not aware this was a step that was needed.
Regards
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No problem!
Yes, the best way to do that is to press the windows key and R if you are on a PC and then type in appdata and hit enter, move to the folders as per this example.