Topic: Are you a generous gamblers - page 6. (Read 1469 times)

Is it a must to be generous as a gambler?

Because even if rich people are living in a city of many poor people, it's possible for the poor to call those rich people greedy people who don't help the poor, but the truth is every rich people do help when they can, they just don't spread the news about what they have done.

Meaning that those who said that its good karma to help, those people that you think they are not helping will still get good karma, it's not a beam like light that shines on our head when we move about.

To me its not a must, helping doesn't end with spending on the poor or money, there are many meanings to helping others and karma finds it's way to get to everyone.

Viewing gambling as entertainment, not a financial lifeline, flips the script. It allows you to embrace the excitement of the game without getting caught up in the allure of quick riches. Remember, the odds are stacked against consistent wins, so treat your bets like the price of amusement, not an investment. Wins become unexpected bonuses, not the reason you play. This shift in mentality helps avoid disappointment and the dangerous chase for recouping losses. Sharing your winnings with friends, like you do, fosters positive experiences and strengthens social bonds, making the whole experience even more rewarding.

While acknowledging the dangers of addiction is crucial, let's not forget the broader spectrum of responsible gambling. It's about setting limits, sticking to them, and knowing when to walk away. It's about understanding your own vulnerabilities and seeking help if needed.

The gambler who had a potential in winning the money in the gambling site can do increase of their portfolio.Because not all the gamblers can make the big winning in the gambling site,the gambler who can back to the gambling site after a loss can only able to make the big winning in the gambling sites.The gamblers who make the big win should not get over confidence in the gambling,because the negative side also their in the gambling.It was essential for the gambler to keep their continuity in the gambling site.The gamblers who spend more time in the gambling site can make the good win from the same gambling site where he loss funds.

I can relate to this. Sometimes bills just make it difficult to tell our friends that we won. Telling a friend means you must give a treat. I do the same with my friends and when I am not ready to share my funds I keep it secret and they do the same too because it is normal for humans. I just hope we win something big that can be able to settle all our bills and then have as much fun as we can because we have the money to invest and have fun lol

I will share an experience here. I remember when I had a winning and because of a problem I had that I couldn`t share with my guys because I would appear stupid to them, I kept the problem to myself. When I won I used the money to solve the problem immediately and one of my guys knowing that I won asked me for a loan which I couldn`t give because I had used the money to solve my problem already, I made him understand that I don`t have money that the winning has been channelled to solving a problem but he didn`t believe which made me appeared greedy to him. So, it is better to be private with your wins to avoid getting unnecessary misunderstandings with friends.

We are the same on which sometimes i do really have that kind of sense on giving out something or treating out someone whenever i do have that considerable winning on which i would be having
liking to those treating like going outside to eat or buying them something specially into my family on which i dont feel out any sense of waste because this is something that i do prefer on which
cherishing out the winning you do have in gambling and really that believing that it is really just that a waste if you do lose it all back into the casino. I do have that feel on trying out to
make myself having some break times and self rewarding neither spending it solo or would really be spending together specially my friends or loved ones.

But it all comes back to each gambler, because I think there are also many gamblers who are quite stingy even though they managed to get a big enough win, they will not want to share any of their winnings with anyone and in any way including their close friends. I think that's their thing anyway, but for me, usually I always treat one of my friends who is a real friend when I managed to get a win, I always go to entertainment places like watching movies or to a coffee place to enjoy the money from my winnings. Well that's right, we also have to choose people who really know the sign of gratitude, in the sense that you don't give some of the money to people who will say differently if the situation is behind you, so that's why I always invite or treat one of my close friends only.

For the problem of rewards for the good we have done to others, yes, I believe that one day I will be able to get something that can make me happy, not only in the world of gambling but it can happen in your real life, so do not hesitate to do good.

Not to judge or think badly about what he does, but in my opinion his answer is just a simple answer to prevent people around him from asking about the gambling he does regularly because it is quite uncomfortable when asked about any activity we do.

It seems that I am not a generous gambler because as far as I remember I have never shared the results of gambling, but when I make profits from trading, I often share, but that was before when I was still trading daily, whereas now I am just a holder.
Gamblers who are generous are certainly a good thing, but if you gamble because you hope to help other people in need from gambling winnings, this is certainly not the right reason because gambling is not something that will continue to make money.

I am sometimes generous to other people, to my relatives or friends, whether it's treating them to food or buying things for them. But I sometimes don't want to share my winnings with them, because I need to keep all the winnings for myself, either investing in Bitcoin or paying off debt or other things I need. Because I don't win often, I need to allocate the money to important things that I can use someday if my financial condition is not good.

I will share them depending on the number of wins I get. First I will prioritize my own needs and those of my family, if everything is safe, I will try to distribute the rest to friends or neighbors. This action is a value of kindness, good relationships built between friends, relatives and also neighbors will benefit oneself in the future.

The words you quoted reflect the person's very generous personality. People like this always exist in various places, but there are very few of them. Inner pleasure can come from any direction, what Keno does is his conscience urges him to help other people. His kindness will always be remembered by the people he helped when he is no longer in this world.

Of course, gamblers who won bet could have treat the entire neighbor from your winners. But to be serious, yes, my maybe close friends and families only, not those free loaders that you are only known when you win. After that they will act as if they didn't recognized you in the streets.

Sharing is caring as well, and maybe not everyone here believes in Karma, but I do. I believed that more wins will come to me if I have shares the blessing that whoever you believed is your God because of your good deeds.

Winning is not supposed to be alone, that's why friends have to share their tips to them self before the starting time.
Many they win they will all be happy for them self and also appreciate the effort of the original person who's shared the bet codes with them. It's good to share things with others as you many not be aware of who's going to help next time.

Sounds pretty much like a made-up story to me but for the sake of argument I will respond. Personally no, I don't go inviting around with the profits I get from playing poker. I consider it as one more source of income that is added to my total monthly income, with the difference that at the beginning of the month when I make the budget I don't know how much I am going to make that month (not even if I am going to have a profit, but in most months I get some). With that total income I make a forecast of expenses that includes donations and money for leisure where I can buy dinner or drinks. This is how I do it.

Yes, there's nothing wrong with it and I think by doing this we will really be able to feel the pleasure of the results of gambling, we have to realize that getting a win is not as easy as turning the palm of your hand and therefore if in one of the sessions we succeed in getting it then it's clear what is more recommended is to cash in and enjoy it, it doesn't matter whether you are going to enjoy it alone or with some of your friends because everyone has their own enjoyment capacity and for me, to be honest, I also sometimes do the same thing as you when I succeed in winning, namely by call some of my friends to party at home or go to a place to eat and treat them with the winnings.

This is better than putting winning money back into gambling where in the end it is very possible for us to again experience losing something we have earned. On the other hand, actually sharing fun and enjoyment with friends by using the money from winnings will also be able to further improve friendships because with this action they will definitely be able to appreciate and respect us more as friends because of the good things we have done, but there is always another possibility. and as you said, it cannot be denied that usually there will always be one of our friends who comes when they are in need, usually they will come when we have something that can benefit them, therefore I myself always choose one of them who really Can I trust or someone who is not two-faced to be invited to enjoy the winnings from the results of my gambling.

When I win big, I usually give tips and invite my friends for a meal and some drinks as well. But it's not all the time and to everybody that I'm generous.

When you win, it's normal that you attract people. Everybody follows you. They seem to be happy that you win. They will congratulate you and share small talks and laughter with you. But most of these are just fake gestures. They just want to take advantage of your wins. The next day if you are losing they pass you by as if you didn't share a meal last night. This is the reality. That's why I limit my generosity also.

For me, depending on the conditions and situations, I can be generous to my friends when I win the jackpot. For example, when I play offline gambling, because I often play offline gambling with friends, when I win a bet I usually treat my friends, all because I feel sorry for the friend who lost. It's not just me, when my friends win they also do the same thing and things like this have become commonplace in my environment.

However, if I gamble online when I get the jackpot of course I won't be as generous anymore, even if I win, I never tell my friends, there's no point in me telling them, they will definitely ask for a treat. You could say I was generous because I had to.  
But if I win a big jackpot, I am usually generous to my friends, but I rarely win a big jackpot.

Yes, of course we will make the best use of the victory we have obtained and we will also use it to please ourselves and our family and those closest to us, even though there are families who know and do not want to accept the victory they have obtained. by his family members, there will definitely be those who reject him. There is a reason why he does not want to receive the money he wins from gambling.

Yes, I agree that if there is a gambler who wants to share his winnings with other people, it will indirectly make other people feel happy and this also has a positive side, if it doesn't harm other people it will make other people feel it too. benefit too.
And yes, we also have to think for ourselves that financial stability and investment are things that are very beneficial for our lives.

Gambling wins gotten from our spare cash can be utilized to help the family of the gambler understand that money can be won through gambling. By being generously good to them, they wouldn't think of the person as an irresponsible gambler. Giving is good, but a gambler also needs to keep some extra funds from his wins to cater for all his gambling expenses. As the money won in gambling goes back to gambling. The excess funds can then be shared amongst friends and used for going to parks and getting real fun. People who are addicted, sometimes, fake their results and claim to his friends that he's actually winning in gambling. So that he'd be perceived as an experienced gambler. That's when giving can be wrong for a gambler, because he's giving to cover up for his addictive behavior. Hence, causing himself more harm all in the name of impressing people around him, which may end up leading him to depression.

In my opinion, this person is generous not because he won the jackpot, but because he had a generous nature from the start. Even without gambling, if he has excess money, it will definitely be easier to help the people around him.
But if this is related to gambling, of course people will think of it as something special.
Of course I would be happy to help and share when I have excess money, but I don't want to be called generous because that title is not appropriate for me personally.

I think he's smart enough to see gambling as a way to multiply his pension pay that wouldn't have been sufficient to go round if he's to be generous directly with it. However, it is pertinent to say this, it may not work out favourably to every person.

Just like you said, he is a pensioner with already grown up children which means those his children have reach the age of taking care of their responsibility and challenges otherwise he won't be using such money to such a generous extension to outsiders even though it was gotten from a gambling win.

Am a generous person by nature but in being generous there a thin line of rationality that should guide your generosity. Don't go being generous with money you need to pay house rent or water bill when it's already due, that will be foolish and unrecommended to me.

Well, that's his money and if he feels like to give everyday then we can stop him as it's his money and his old, a pensioner and nothing to ask for with his life. I think personally, I've met this type of person but I don't know if they're the same as this old guy who's a giver. When we're old and have nothing to worry about, we'd mostly do whatever we want to do and spend our money for everything that we want to enjoy.

I agree, many are abusing people's kindness so I hope that he'd notice that.