Topic: Are you a generous gamblers - page 9. (Read 1554 times)

I don't if everyone feels this effect but I think it's like a general thing though and that feeling am talking about would be the feeling of giving your gambling winning with a lot more ease than other funds. For me it's way easier to give from my gambling winning especially the ones that I tend to win so easily. It's like the funds is actually not planned for so many people like myself get a little bit confused when it comes to it proper use.

I guess that guy found his purpose for sharing his winnings for treating his friends or anyone he likes to treat. As you've said, he's already a pensioner and his children are old as well and probably they're all professionals and that's why he has just found that purpose and that's nice to see he's not selfish and sharing the winnings he get.

As long as I have something to share and spare, I'll not think about it but will do. But when the times of need to tighten my pocket and belt then it's understandable that I won't do so. It depends on our status and as well as our moods.

I always like to share my blessings, may it be from gambling or work bonus.  I just remembered when I won the dice jackpot on Fortunejack way back Dec. of 2017, a friend of mine was borrowing some money to add to his capital for a business venture, and since I won a good amount of money, I gave him some money and told him not to pay it back.  Aside from that, I told those who have debt from me that they don't have to pay me and considered the debt as fully settled.

Helping people feels good, so whether I won in gambling or not as long as I have the funds, I never hesitate to help people.


True that, there are people who love exploiting the kindness of other people.  They will always take advantage of other people's generosity and pretend to be close to the person, but when they got disappointed since their request is not granted, this person will start talking bad about you.

Perhaps I am generous by sharing a little of my winnings with people in need around me. I admit that sharing with others is something anyone can do, especially if we have something that can be shared with those who need it. We don't need to say why we do it because if we can feel it, there will be an urge from within to share it with others. Inviting good karma or whatever you call it, but one kindness can invite other goodness to come to us. If you don't want to feel guilty when you share some of your blessings, you can directly give them to those who need them without saying anything and leaving them immediately. That's enough for them because you want to share with them.

Human being are always of this nature and we can't change that factor in them being good doesn't mean everyone must acknowledge to everything you are doing even though what you are giving to them sounds as a token of honor but, after which you would see someone counting your errors or holding hands on your deficiencies since you won't just pleased them at all times. So to give one must not be gambler naturally we often see most of the African president doesn't favor everyone when they are in power and yet people talks about despite they are gradually benefits from the regime but still talks against them. We should just try to be responsible gambler instead of becoming an addicts because it brings shame to us and to our entire family at large.

people are naturally judgmental ones, so even if you are good to them, they will still say something to you no matter what. so even if you are generous to them, don't expect that they will always say something good to you because once you turn your back at them, they may say something not favourable. in OP's story, it seems that the pensioner-gambler just share his winnings to his friends in the community without expecting anything in return. it is like his satisfaction to share whatever winnings he got from his games.

in my case, i can't say that i am generous or on that level of giving everyone something because it is very rare that i can get good winnings. but of course, i can buy a drink or two for my regular friends if in case i got some  luck. but not to the point that i will share that to just random strangers within your vicinity. i am more on sharing it with my regular friends.

I think I am a generous gambler (kind of). And what I mean by that is whenever I win I always treat people into something nice, but the thing is I don't just treat anyone, I have a specific set of people I am in great terms with that gets all the best things I have to offer besides treats and I gauged them from the experiences that we've been through, how they have helped me get out of a tight spot in the past, etc. So I guess I'm a generous person, but not so much that I'd give favors and treats to just anybody.

I reckon a good lot of us in the crypto world especially in the gambling sector are also like this. I could say so because we've been secluded to ourselves for the greater part of our gambling journey and unless we have made internet friends or people who we can confide our problems and stresses with, we don't really have anyone to rely upon. So when we do get people like these we kind of oblige ourselves to really give them what we have (I don't know if this is just me but I assume a lot of us in here are like that as well judging the messages) but whatever. We give when we can to those who deserve it.

In any case, it doesn't really matter whether we're a generous gambler or not, what I think counts is that we make sure at the end of the day we don't subject ourselves to bigger problems either by gambling too much or giving too much.

Yeah, a giver doesn't care about whether he wins or not before handing out arms to other people around him. Giving is great to the society and helps to uplift the emotional intelligence of young people, to learn how to give, growing up. Humans tend to reciprocate love ushered to them, back to the society when they're in the position to help. As a gambler when there is a big, win it only increasing the amount of money eligible for giving to people. That's what it does in me, but my giving habit is not influenced by my gambling results. Glad to have read of Tonnes of gamblers who care about the society and offer help to the needy, by sharing their gambling wins. It also helps the gambler to take his gambling habit seriously and endeavor he doesn't lose carelessly, because many people would be expecting much from him, after he's handed out lots of assistance to them. That's another aspect of giving, it's not a one-time something, I noticed, after helping a person, those who saw it happen, could seek for our help next time. A generous gambler has to be consistent and manage his bank roll not to run out of funds, to an extent of not being capable of handing out some bills to the needy.

Does giving has anything to do with gambling?
A giver is always a giver they must not win before they will give someone money people give out money to the needy at their own discretion without waiting for someone to beg them for anything, what I noticed from your friend is that he does that to sound as a defensive measures from people to stop asking what he does with his money and to as why he is gambling.
When gambles finds out a particular reason to use and defend themselves you would noticed that he has created a free platform or a kind of free ticket for him to gambling without people questioning him for their gambling addictions since he is a generous giver he felt with that attitudes people won't asked him that much, even though he is giving money to people believe me they would still talks about it when they notice he has gone wrong.

You would really be somewhat generous considering into his situation or status that he had some pension or already retired plus he dont have any obligations like having kids that goes to school
on which means that he is really that free from responsibilities on which it is really that normal that they would really be that confident for them to spend something in gambling.
Unlike into those people who are really that having tons of responsibilities then you would really be having those thoughts that you shouldnt really be spending that much
in gambling on which it is really just that a waste if you arent that mindful about on things that you are dealing with.

In this case everything depends on the players, those who are generous and those who are not generous, and that depends a lot on the type of person it is, in this case I am a person who if I have a lot, I would give away, I really appreciate when One gives and it is much better than receiving, but of course my economic situation does not allow me to do something like that, but it is always good that if one can help someone because they are blessings that one will later receive, be it in the best interest of us, for our families, for everything, then it is not bad, the fact that the people who play and earn and want to share that blessing I do not see it as bad is something that if I see that they will always do well, a person who does that will always do well, I do not It will go wrong, for a person who always denies everything and starts doing things in egotistical ways, isn't things going to go well for him, and I come out because you can see it, you can tell, there are people who have too much money and are egotistical and naughty with themselves, that's something that doesn't make sense to me.

I met a WSr who had a lot of money and he was a pichirre with the same, and nothing good was ever shared for him, everything was quite good but when it came to spending a lot because things did not go well for him, then the day he died they arrived The children Shared Everything that Mr. had and it stayed like that, and the business that the children had was going well, so the man never bought anything good for him, he always dressed badly and they did things for him but few, so This only made the others go off to do something that he never Wanted , the inn he had was destroyed and stripped away, and apart from everything they are in the USA , when here they had a life of loojs and everything, there things are different because now They are taking care of children, and have done any job, but that happened to them because they do not know how to Manage themselves when they have money, or rather when they had money.

The assertion that all gamblers who are generous in their bets are naturally generous people is a mistaken belief.
Gambling is an activity that involves taking risks and relying on luck rather than morality. Even generous and kind people can become addicted to gambling and have negative behavioral changes toward it. Addiction to gambling can lead to the deterioration of social and financial relationships, and affect mental and physical health. Therefore, we cannot be certain that gamblers who are generous in their bets are generally generous personalities, but rather they can be severely affected by the effects of gambling addiction without exception. I know some of them well. There are people addicted to gambling in my locality. They are very generous with their bets, but they are very stingy even with themselves sometimes.

Naturally I am generous giver and I must not gamble and win to give people around me but with the little money i gain over here and outside here i do have a charity plan that whenever money comes into me i give out from charity plan, whenever such amount is exhausted then i don't give anymore till that account is being refilled for distribution. Then talks about gambling well, like i said whether i win or not i do give people around me money from my charity account so people most not ask for money around me whenever i noticed that you are lacking and finding it very hard to approach me i will reciprocate by giving to them that needs even without me winning bets.

Some time ago, some of my friends and I had a meeting in a coffee shop, and I felt quite annoyed when some of my friends told me that recently he had gotten quite a big win from the bets he made, but in the end it was me who had to pay for their coffee, because they don't have any money, and regarding the gambling results they win, the money is used again for gambling. So I think that they are just empty talk, because the results of the winnings that he gets cannot be enjoyed at all, apart from playing gambling at higher stakes.

Starting from this incident, it is very important for us to be able to manage our winnings well. because when we are not able to manage it well, no matter how big the victory we have achieved, it will all be in vain. At least when you get the winnings, you can't share it with other people, at least the winnings can be used for your own needs, for something more useful than having to spend it back in gambling with higher stakes in the hope that you can win a larger number of wins. bigger than before. In the end, a bigger win was not achieved, while the results of the previous win were gone.

I don't think I am that kind of generous gambler who gambles without insure any security for the future. I appreciate that what he is doing. Not that can be also done from the others ways even those amount can be small but I am following that. So I am not a generous gambler and I have done donations from my own earnings. I always keep savings and then gamble from the fixed amount for gambling and sometimes give it to those who need money.

I know this gambling guy that share 20 personal computer to students to aid their studies after winning $400k, it was a core i7 generation and ssd storage and I was jealous of such gifting he gave to people. He said, he didn't have the opportunity to further his education upto master because of funds but now he does have but don't have the time and he decided to bless undergraduates students to help them make learning to be easy and efficient for them, he has been bless with more wins after that but that is the one I cherish the most.

I want to do these too one day and help people because I believe when you help people, the kindness comes back in many fold. However, please let's the generosity start from your own family, some people have he habits of been generous to outsiders but wouldn't extend that hands to their own family. I will give and dash money to my family and friends and then do for outsiders but I will be careful of how generous you can be to avoid having nothing left for yourself.

Players' generosity is often psychological games with themselves. They convince themselves that they are playing to help others if they win. As they say, find a noble goal and you can justify everything with it. But what their loved ones can undergo from them..... But loved ones are different,

I am not a generous gambler at all because I do tend to reason the losses I have enquired and I think I class every winning as my supposed money that I have lost so I don't give out my winnings that much and besides I don't actually win on a general basis and I can vividly say that my losses are more than winnings and I think those that give generously are people that don't class their winnings as anything.

Not not wanting to be generous after a big win because there are still some people who think the results of gambling are considered bad, rather than being a long story I'd rather not share the winnings with them and more in the circle of friends who know from gambling.

I know that sharing the winnings with friends is something very good that we are generous in the sense of not being stingy, but each region is certainly different in the conditions of friends around so it would be better to enjoy yourself and even I sometimes never tell my family that I have won in gambling.

So what do I do when I win, just treat them but never reveal this to be gambling but from other sources.

It's okay to be generous to other people when you have extra money, but we don't need to tell anyone about giving without any strings attached.
I might sometimes, when I have extra money, not even from gambling winnings, usually share little money with relatives or friends who I think are in need of help, but usually I give it without their knowledge so I just leave it to someone else to give it.
the reason I'm like this is because I dont want something to happen that makes everything bad like you said.

anyone can be generous when they win from gambling as sign of gratitude that they are still blessed with good luck today, but in my opinion there is no need to overdo it and don't do it too often because it has a bad impact in the end, as I understand in the OP case, someone who is generous but looks arrogant because he felt he often gave some of the money to friends or relatives.
so when you win, it's okay to have a plan to share some of your money, but don't do it too often.