Topic: Behaviours of gamblers you dislike. - page 13. (Read 2213 times)

I don't like those who are addicted to forgetting their responsibilities. for example, if they have a wife or children, they abandon them, only they spend all the money they get from work just on gambling. that's very annoying, they are not worthy of being called a father and are not worthy of marriage if they really cannot be trusted to look after or feed their children and wife.

This can happen because when a boy starts gambling, he will experience unstable emotional changes, especially if he often loses. That will clearly affect his emotions in making relationships with his friends. Maybe he will be more emotional and easily angry if his desires are not fulfilled or he cannot accept suggestions from other people and only wants his friends to accept his suggestions.

In his teens, a boy will appear temperamental or emotional depending on how he relates to his friends or his parents' upbringing. But the environment and friendships can influence a person's psychology, especially for boys who are still growing.

usually you will find people like this in land casinos or small casinos in your city and I am sure from the experience of most gamblers there have experienced problems like this and it is very annoying. even if the gambler is very slow when it is his turn to throw cards or bet he is a big person or a big gambler I will not bother to reprimand him because this will only waste more and more time every turn he throws cards time is wasted very long waiting for himself to throw his cards.

but not everyone has arrogant thoughts like me when meeting people like that and thats just my past when I meet annoying habitual gamblers.

Lol, @Fivestar4everMVP bro, all that stuff also happens among online gamblers; it's not just offline gamblers that win big; even some online gamblers can be very lucky to win big, and they will start lavishing their money on things that don't really matter much, leaving things that even matter the most. Some online gamblers also engage in alcoholic beverages, smoking, and other activities that please them as long as they have won big. I think almost all the characters that offline gamblers portray are also the same as those that online gamblers portray. Online gamblers can choose to gamble responsibly and also manage their funds responsibly. Like offline gamblers, both parties can also decide to do the opposite.

There is no problem if my opponent wins because I know that I'm playing gambling, but what I can't take their actions if it causes delay to us players or it gives an obvious distractions (not the ones who bluff in poker) because I think that one is more valid and it's only up to us if we will bait on it or not but we shouldn't because that can affect our play pretty badly.

We need to confront those type of gamblers that I said earlier or it's better to just avoid them the next time you play. I can laugh at my losses if it's only small but not when it's huge. That's crazy. It's okay to be yourself but just don't cry because that's funny. There is no strategy that works all the time no matter how good it was, so those who said that are only lying and must be ignored.

Well that's right guys, honestly I might be the one they've provoked, okay yes maybe I'm a little slow but it's not on purpose. they come when I'm gambling and they always provoke me by suggesting some actions that I don't like at all. Like for example they told me to increase the amount of the bet, I told you I came not based on lust but I wanted to enjoy every round, but yes even so maybe you also know they will continue to tease me until the round ends. Honestly, it's very disturbing to other gamblers who are enjoying the game, obviously in my opinion there must be someone who gets angry if they continue to disturb the gambler, they are like blocking the feelings of other gamblers who are betting their luck. I'm sure their goal is for us to eventually lose and be in the same boat as them.

I think maybe the gambler experienced something unexpected at that time, they accidentally did it because maybe they demanded that if they didn't do it then something unwanted would happen, it could be friends. for example, suddenly there was an important phone call to him which could disturb other gamblers who were queuing and could wait for him longer. But I don't think the gambler wanted to do that either, they realized that there were already many people waiting in line behind him, but what can make sometimes things can happen anytime and anywhere, even at the wrong time. So I don't think it has to be a long fuss, because you just need to chat with him and ask him why that's enough in my opinion.

Lol I was thinking they said when a boy starts going after a lady that he starts misbehaving and vice versa. That a man starts to get rude, keep friends, keep late when he is in puberty and newly dating that he begins all sorts of behaviour  . Alright, now I understand that gambling can also cause that to happen maybe because of the influence of money from probable winning.

You will never know, not until things go really bad and the gambler can't withstand the loss, there are some that will pretend like nothing happened after they lose a lot of money to gambling, curiosity will only begin when it's time for them to pay up and they don't.

Such gamblers don't just let it end with friends, they will lie to everybody around them just to secure some money and use it on gambling, I have seen this too many times, and now in my country, once a decent boy starts lying all of a sudden, the first question that will be ask of him is ' are you into gambling?'

Lol, because once a boy starts going into gambling that's when they will start misbehaving, many might not agree with me but it has happened few times within people that I know very well.

What I've noticed is that one of the gamblers will kind of provoke that busy gambler, which makes him continue to play. Unless that gambler is bigtime and kind of respectable, other gamblers will probably have second thoughts about provoking him.
 
I haven't experienced those kinds of gamblers that take time on their turn, but it should be better for you as a gambler to kind of talk to that person about why he takes so long when it is his turn so that he is also aware.

I don't hate gamblers, I mean responsible gamblers. What I don't like is when a gambler has other obligations but still continues to allocate a big part of his income to gambling. I know some people who continue to gamble and then later on will go to their friends and relatives to borrow or ask for money for their family's regular consumption.

I am also not a fan of people who believe they can earn big through gambling. Most of these people I observed are struggling financially so it's like they are putting their hope to change their fate in gambling which is very wrong.

Actually, I don't really care about the behavior of the gamblers around me, whether they are friends or neighbors. Because I myself very rarely visit all of them. But the most annoying thing is, sometimes one of them often borrows money from me, saying he lost at gambling. At times like that the person who borrowed the money is very good, but when he doesn't have any problems and his life is fine, maybe because his gambling is profitable. He always looks arrogant and even always indifferent to me. So with that, I became a little annoyed and angry at that person. It actually doesn't matter if he acts like that, but the problem is, he has two faces. Because when that person is in need, he meets me, and when he is happy, he is always arrogant towards me.

I don't know what the problem is, but what is clear is that people like that don't have a sense of gratitude or at least maintain their good manners.
So that's the attitude or behavior of the gamblers around me that I don't like. Do any of your friends experience something similar like me?

All of these are bad and there are many dislike attitudes of gamblers that are even worse but I don't see how the last one could be worse than the first. Friends may do sh*ts among themselves and they let go, especially during times of desperation, and it's worth noting they are not your sole responsibility. They also know how to get it on themselves later, some will even laugh it off as there are friend settings that are even used to that, so it's not a big deal to some climes.

But it's highly unreasonable and so dishonourable to ignore your sole responsibility as a family person for gambling irresponsibility. I don't see any gamblers' ills worse than this.

That's correct. It's because they are more focused on their bad habit than spending time with their friends, relatives, and especially their family. Gambling addicts are too busy thinking about how they are going to win their bets or what strategy they will make to enhance their winning chances although we all know that won't happen against the house if they are playing a casino game.
I also hated the unpredictable behavior of them. Sometimes they are too kind but that's rare because it only happens when they win.
There will be times they get easily irritated and it's difficult to read what they want. My father was a gambler so I know, he is always too stressed about small things like the simple flow of water when I wash the dishes. Then, he spends more time with his roosters than his own children. Sad but true.

Most gamblers who gamble in physical casinos will not be able to accept provocations by other players so they will easily return to gambling and say this is the last time. But it turns out it's not as easy as they imagined because their last is not really the last. After all, they will continue to gamble. And playing with psychology that can make the gambler not stop but instead continue gambling.

For this reason, we must remain aware of various situations so as not to fall into provocation and continue to gamble. And with self-control, this is what gamblers can do to avoid the desire to gamble again because they feel they have had enough gambling.

if you often find gamblers who are slow when its their turn to place bets but are busy with their own activities while other gamblers are already waiting for their turn it would be better for you to warn them to play faster because other user are waiting and if he is angry I think you will not be alone because other gamblers I really hate to see gamblers stalling when its their turn and I myself am very angry when I see someone stalling when its their turn to place a bet.

I dislike hearing them whine about how close they were to winning, I dislike seeing the excitement they get from almost winning, when they did not actually win. With almost winning, they feel like their winning is close. It does not happen like that in every case.

gamblers that try to "sweet talk" you into using their "strategy" when you are gambling. I've had a lot of experience with those kinds of gamblers, this usually happens in gambling shops(not in online gambling), they are very annoying and would say "I told you so" when you lose a bet, and when you win a sizable bet(sometimes not even a sizable win), they will celebrate with you and then ask for a tip.

Complaining of their last bet didn't go as planned that is to say ( I lost a game today) does it mean they always lose last game why not they exclude the last game in order for them to always win next bet. I so much dislike seeing someone complaint about that, which I know is unavoidable because gambling is a game of probability which wining aren't sure so we could expect a winning and see the opposite side while we expect a lost and see the opposite side of the winning.
We should learn to narrow down the total amount which we often accumulated to avoid much complaint, thus winning probability could be higher than that of lost.

On the time that you had reached out on a particular state on which you are already taking up some loan or borrowing then consider yourself on being addicted to it on which this is something that must be avoided

in the first place because having this kind of condition would really be ending your life to be miserable because you would really be facing up that financial problem or devastation which would really be something that putting you on a tough condition which you would really be having those thoughts or giving up or having suicide just because you cant really take it anymore. Dont make yourself come into that kind of point
and its true that if you do have loved ones or known people around you then they would really be that skeptical on letting you borrow specially if they do see that you are really that engaging or been that doing gambling. They do already pictured and known about on not getting be repaid on the time due because you cant really be able to do so.

One of the most common behavior is that you are really that gamblers are greedy and its not a must thing that you should tolerate on the time that you do make out some gambling activity because
this is the main reason on why it do keeps you on pushing to play despite of the wrong financial decisions that you are making along the way.

A lot of you are describing behaviours of a gambler who has an addiction.

As someone who has battled with addiction my whole life, these are the behaviours to be on the lookout for:

1. Borrowing money from friends/family to fund their gambling: Clearly they've lost more than they can afford to lose, tell them to STOP!

2. Selling possessions: Again, tied to the above, they're simply funding their habit, chasing losses. They won't be happy until they have nothing.

3. Mood swings

4. Lying

If you know someone, encourage them to stop, seek help and self-exclude!

Gambling addiction takes lives.