Topic: Behaviours of gamblers you dislike. - page 10. (Read 2601 times)

I dislike this behavior too. It shows too much irresponsibility on the side of gambler. Taking loans after losses means someone is financially illiterate and shouldn't be entrusted with big decision making because of poor judgment. In the first place, you shouldn't even gamble beyond your capacity to begin with. You should know your limitations and your boundaries so you won't be bankrupt and have tons of debts to pay. You are your responsibility. And if anything goes wrong, the person that will help you first is you and not anyone.

Gambling awareness is essential to know the pros and cons of gambling. Most often, people misunderstood gambling as a get rich quick scheme but it's not it. You can lose more than what you can make and that's the reality.

Unfortunately, it's not up to us. telling them what to do with their money can somewhat be seen as encroaching on their private life.

But few of the gamblers in this forum actually are taking some loans, I couldn't be sure if they gamble the borrowed amount to win and then pay the debt. It's quite a huge risk for me but if they indeed gamble the amount, I would be looking in awe yet will pay respect once he wins. Not everyone has that kind of ballsiness.

I don't like the behavior of gamblers when they loss everything then they initiate taking loan from others. Gambling should be avoided but if it hard for someone then he should avoid taking loan and whenever his pocket become empty he should focus on earning from another source rather than taking Loans.

In such case they loss their jobs and their homes because if they continuously taking loans and don't return it then after sometime people stop allowing them loan therefore they try to sell the things in order to continue theirs wishes.

Yes, that's how gamblers play gambling randomly and don't have a definite schedule for when they have to gamble.
But don't be mistaken because many of them can still avoid gambling addiction because they can fill their free time by doing other things that are more beneficial than just gambling.
But if gamblers only spend their time gambling and not doing other things, it will harm them because they will probably incur more losses than if they did not gamble as often as possible.
And maybe gamblers who can't manage their time and money are something we shouldn't imitate because it will cause us losses.

The average gambling addict is a liar, I have a neighbor who always lies to his partner, he keeps saying his money has run out because of an emergency even though he has used the money he has earned to gamble with his friends.

Gambling addicts will definitely continue to try hard to make money for their gambling capital and they will try whatever they can, including lying to the people closest to them.

If you have a friend or relative who is a gambling addict then don't easily believe him when he wants to borrow money, he will definitely lie about how he will pay back the money he borrowed.

Annoying is a minimum what characterizes those people. They completely ruin the game. I've got several cases of such "suggests" during poker rounds and it lead to loosing money. And you can do nothing about such guys. You can not stop the game and throw them out, because for others "they dont interfere much, so let them stay or watch". When the game is running, no one would agree to make a pause, because that is unprofitable for them.

I dislike any kind of gambler who does not know when to gamble and when to do other things as being addicted to it. Most gamblers spend all day gambling and sometimes they even get more loss than they win, I think some days are not favorable due to emotions or when a person is stressed but some gamblers omit such and still gamble.
Secondly those who sell there properties for the sake of gambling, this is the worst addiction a gambler can get into and the best way to go out of it is to seek help and advise from a therapist or anybody in a better position.

But what is wrong in sharing tips? I do share out tips when I feel like or when people request for it and likewise I also request for it especially when I feel lazy to rack my brain. In fact we once had a discussion Forum for tips sharing among ourselves with the title "win together, lose together". I see definitely nothing wrong when you share your tips with them. Like you should feel honored when you are asked to share tips because you are seen as an expert and that's why they want to play with your tips. Unless when they're not a regular/serious gambler, they will not rely on your tips on a daily basis to place a bet. By the way, it's your opinion thou and you have every right to keep or share your tips.

A gambler behavior that I don't like is the one who is loquacious and the other on that is extremely withdrawn. These two behaviors are either a manifestation of depression and anxiety. I don't like.

A loquacious gambler at the poker table would cal bluffs so much and annoy everyone on the table. Nobody wants to play with this type of gambler because they'll distract and interrupt your train of thoughts while the game is on. The one who is extremely withdrawn is most likely to rationalize chasing after losses. They internalized their losses, and conclude that the best way for them to be happy would be to bet again. These behavior would make them fall into problem gambling.

Basically every gambler does not want other people to know about their gambling activities so that gamblers play when they are at home or in a certain room in a quiet state or there are no other people besides the gambler himself so there is no possibility of anything that can damage his focus or any distractions that occur.
The only thing that can disturb a gambler concentration or calm is his own mind being confused or thinking about other things in a complicated way.

In online gambling like the one we participate in now it seems like this will never happen unless we gamble together with friends or relatives who also like to gamble but things like that happen more often in traditional casinos and disturbing behavior can occur more often because there is a feeling of envy or displeasure when seeing someone who has won big.

Yes, you are right, sometimes a friend can lend money just to help the neighbor in need and that is why at least the friend should pay him on time, to see that things can be done well and that payments need to be made on time. Many friendships break up for the simple reason that the friend does not want to pay or stops paying and that causes annoyance in the other person. The least that should be done is that, first because it betrays trust and second because it is an immoral act. try to take advantage of the fact that the friend lent him money that he cannot repay, perhaps taking advantage of the other's friendship, then the reasons must be clear at all times, a friend is more valuable than money, on one occasion it may be that that friend help him with money, but there are many occasions where a friend can not only help him with money but with other things that money cannot buy, then the human part is more valuable and appreciate that that friend lent you money so that he could get out Go ahead, it's what you can mostly present and think, I know that human greed can sometimes be ruthless, and can turn into something very ugly, but in particular a person can control anything, any feeling and always do what they want. Reason tells him that it is the right thing to do, when a person lends money to play in a casino, he is responsible for his actions, that friend does not care what the money is, only that he helps him and that he gets paid later, but nothing , that's what this is all about.

Now every player knows and is aware that the money he deposits in a casino, that money is compromised, that is, that money that is there can easily be lost, what everyone is looking for is to multiply it, apart from having fun, is what many They search, they say and they do, but when things don't work well, then you lose, so we as good players must take these things into consideration, lending money to play in a casino, I don't see it well, at least I see it as more feasible to lose. money to trade than to play in a casino.

Rather than anger I have mostly witnessed sadness when I have had the opportunity to see someone losing money, so I guess I have been lucky I have never had to deal with others being angry around for losing money.

If you asked me, someone getting angry at losing money (which they perfectly knew they could lose from the beginning) it just shows the degree of personal irresponsibility some people can have. Just because they may read or seen some successful gamblers on TV, they immediately feel entitled to get as much money as they got by pure chance and good luck. We are taking about toxic people in general, if they do not get mad at their bad luck or the casino, they will eventually find other reasons to feel angry and other people to blame on whatever happened to them.  

It reminds me someone who spent several weeks around here accusing a casino of being a scam without providing a single valid evidence for people for take him seriously.

I don't really dislike any behavior of the gamblers because as humans everyone has their own mindset and everyone thinks differently. Sometimes a few people find a person's behavior harmful while others feel protection in presence of the same person. The gamblers have varying behavior patterns a few gamblers often complain when they lose while other spends more money if they lose.

Some of those gamblers blame casinos for their losses while others blame their luck for the losses. Some gamblers drink when they win a lot while other drink when they lose a lot. That's why I don't think that liking or disliking a gamblers behavior is not fair at all as a human and we should not dislike anyone behavior.

Those who lose then get angry as a form of dissatisfaction with the results of the game they played. What's more annoying is when they damage several objects around them, that's what's worse. That kind of behavior wasn't good, but it seemed like nothing would happen when he came back to play the next day.

Another worst effect of lower middle-class gamblers, when they lose and run out of money, is committing the crime of theft. I just hope that gamblers carry out their hobbies appropriately, not excessively which results in losses for other people.

Gamblers who are crazy, and abnormal as you mentioned behavior when multiplying defeat did harsh things to the people around him to satisfy his anger because of defeat. It is indeed bad but people like that are very rare, and are helped by the character of the people themselves, but the average gambler who is real they have a thin sentimental anger, so that their emotions easily explode.

I just found out that gamblers have different classes, most of those who do not understand the essence of gambling, they are looking for wealth or income with a concise time, because gambling can easily get an infinite amount if lucky, but unfortunately they are blind to the truth , the house will never lose, unless they play cheating.

Wins and defeats can cause tremendous emotional ups and downs. I've seen them rejoice when they win and lament when they lose. Academically, it's the same principle as reward-based behavior, right? And of course, middle-class gamblers get louder when they lose. That could be because greater savings are at stake. Regardless of your wealth, gambling is inherently risky. It's a gamble to make money. You need a "strong heart" and clear gambling limitations to try it. Good decisions should never be hampered by emotions

What you said is true, hiding your wins from everyone is probably the best way to avoid facing situations where people ask for money from your winnings, and they don't ask for it and say that they will return it, they will simply say that you should give them some as well since you've managed to win that much, they don't even realize or think that maybe the person who has won something big have already lose more than that and it's just a part of their recovery.

My spouse usually plays slots on a mobile application, and sometimes when she gets big wins, she shares that on her status on WhatsApp, and a lot of people, especially her siblings, start asking her to give them some as well so that they can play too. I've told her a lot of times to simply keep these things to herself.

Never really thought of this but you are quite correct, and my guess is that, majority of gamblers are guilty of this attitude, most especially, those with family.

But then again, speaking for myself now, I can not deny the fact that there are times I've lost money in gambling and then faced my family with the anger, but one thing you must understand is that, many of us would not want to do such, but then we can just help it, most especially when you ask to be left alone, but children and wifey won't stop disturbing you  , you understand the angle I am coming from .

What i dislike about gamblers is their behavior which is only noticeable when they lose. But these middle class gamblers are more prevalent because they have less amount of money so when they lose gambling they get angry or angry which is not really acceptable. Gamblers have an enticing offer inside that they will be rich if they win so they gamble with all their money and then lose the opposite, which leads to bad behavior from all over the place. However gambling requires you to have a strong heart because it is always uncertain that you will always win in gambling.

I don't like people after losing gambling. They take their anger out on friends, family, and work. They are so selfish. I hate people like that. In life, they seem to have no responsibility for what they cause. They think doing so will put their mind at ease. But that's wrong. They are gradually ruining their lives with those small sadnesses. Lost money can be earned back. I just hope they can master themselves in this gambling game.