Well true then it is indeed difficult to be able to control yourself in gambling, as long as you play then there will definitely be temptations that come to disrupt whatever you have prepared before. I don't think there is much they can do because such a cycle will continue to occur, especially for those who are already severely addicted there, self-control is almost impossible to do. Well you are right, apart from them losing a lot of money there, the people around them are also very likely to feel the impact of those (gamblers) who are stressed. It is true that gambling has destroyed everything, the problems from gambling can spread anywhere, financial problems I think will definitely be destroyed and also now it is not uncommon for their households to be destroyed because of the weakening economic factors due to the many losses there.
I can tell you that quitting gambling is very difficult and even almost impossible if they stay there without doing anything, so they won't listen to any advice, they just want to win. Quitting is the only solution, but I understand it's very difficult. So the point is like you said if you can't stop it means there must be strong self-control or limits, I'm sure you know what's best and it's impossible to stop completely but you can reduce the budget so you don't lose too much.
The only thing they can do is start learning to control themselves so that they are not tempted by various things that will arise while gambling. We must pay attention to ourselves and let it go if people still have difficulty controlling themselves and are often tempted by offers or other things in the casino. Especially if we only use gambling as entertainment, we really need good self-control to enjoy gambling. So, with good self-control, they can also avoid gambling addiction because they can gamble and stop gambling whenever they want. They will not depend on gambling to just get that pleasure.
Even though stopping gambling is difficult, they should still try and learn from the start because when they can stop gambling, they can avoid the desire to win or avoid losing a lot. And reducing the budget is indeed the best thing you can do apart from having good self-control.
Yes, you are totally right about it, those gamblers who failed to control them selfs while gambling have no one to put their blams on because from the start no body actually forced them to gamble, beside since they said gambling is for fun, I don't know why some people still gamble when they are not happy, we know that when we are losing from gambling, we will no longer be happy and those who are discipline whill quit but those gamblers who are not discipline will continue betting untill they lose everything, moreover, gambling with aggressiveness will cause more lose in gambling, we should gamble when we are in a convinces situation.
Indeed, no one is to blame because it is the fault of each gambler. But things like that shouldn't have to happen because they have the ability to control themselves while gambling. And if they end up losing self-control, it seems they have to learn better to control themselves. Losing at gambling does make us unhappy, but we can avoid losing a lot by having self-control. It will depend on how we can learn to control ourselves, especially since self-control is worth trying continuously so that we don't experience many losses and don't get addicted to gambling.